ITbomb:

Definitely, why wouldn't they when wetin dey chest can satisfy both the husband and the kids

Warefa u say...thats ur headache to worry abt

again ....dont trust your child 100% give place for small doubt. I know of a fada that always say I make sure my kids are safe, i control what they watch etc. but the day I caught the daughter of 9years kissing a boy of same age. It was the girl that even pulled the boy to herself. Well, I couldnot tell d fada sha because na kill the man go kill d pikin.

Truthbites:


Your wiring is really different..get close to me online and I will advice u often and u will love more...I can see u are a child of hate... receive self love,amen

Child of hate? I'm far from that, they showed all the possible love they could, but I don't just accept it. Love are reserved for weaklings... I don't fall into that category.


No matter how close I get to your words can't break me, you not the 100th person who has tried.
Words and advice mean nothing to me, they only passed through my ears, they've never made it to my heart.

Offpoint:
I HATE KIDS, those little teeny tiny annoying creatures. If I have any I may strangle the life out of them in their sleeps.

I watched them afar from my window in my neighbor's house, they wouldn't stay one place, they don't listen, they ruined things, they screamed and cry at un-necessary things. GOSH!!! I can't stand them for a second.

Until there are home one can dump them till they are 15 at least... I don't plan on having them.


Don't quote me please, I'm differently wired.

Well am not trying to quote you but do you also known that the way a Potter shapes it's design with clay so as the way I would be
We all as parents we have the power to make our children what they are to be
It's a pity that majority makes this mistake and keep complaining

You can request for our PDF on
My child and I

ForeThinker:
Training wey get K legs

K leg in what sense??

Hraniontd:



Well am not trying to quote you but do you also known that the way a Potter shapes it's design with clay so as the way I would be
We all as parents we have the power to make our children what they are to be
It's a pity that majority makes this mistake and keep complaining

You can request for our PDF on
My child and I

Long story, I don't read books they're all lies far from reality.

There's no power you have over a child, biologically at that early their brains are not develop enough to let them compose themselves.

Your PDF wouldn't stop them from peeing their pants and crying at almost everything.

boom99:
again ....dont trust your child 100% give place for small doubt. I know of a fada that always say I make sure my kids are safe, i control what they watch etc. but the day I caught the daughter of 9years kissing a boy of same age. It was the girl that even pulled the boy to herself. Well, I couldnot tell d fada sha because na kill the man go kill d pikin.

Many possible tips are attached to this
1. The father trust his daughter but did d way make his daughter trust him; it's just like a counselor, whosoever would go to him/her would have a trust that her problems would be solved and not someone that would insult them based on their situation.

* We must be loving as a parental counselor
* We are to forc words out of their mouth with love
* Encourage them with personal testimonies

2. Avoiding them from watching a particular movie those not mean they still don't have access to those movies because they have friends and do go to school. Then they will be interested to know the reason you are hiding that movie from them

You can get more from
My child and I

Offpoint:

Long story, I don't read books they're all lies far from reality.

There's no power you have over a child, biologically at that early their brains are not develop enough to let them compose themselves.

Your PDF wouldn't stop them from peeing their pants and crying at almost everything.

Then you need to make finding about the way John Wesley was trained

Hraniontd:


Then you need to make finding about the way John Wesley was trained

The Methodist Dude right? I don't read no one can write about anyone. Books are lies and the truth in them is less than 5%

boom99:
Many parents no longer have time for their kids. A girl told me that whenever the dad goes to china for business and the mum to goes to her shop, her fathers 'boy'(apprentice) have sex with her. Maybe till date her parents don't know about this

Abeg , carry your mumu story commot here make we read better post

Not a parent yet but I watched after my siblings growing up and noticed something on how to train a young heart with a growing brain.

1 - Every kid is different even if you try to raise only 2 kids, they will usually have different opinion about life from different perspective due to differences in play mates in school and around the neighbourhood.

2 - Sex isn't taught, it's innate and instictive desire so never assume kids won't try what they see on TV or what they see you(parents) do like having sex or kissing.

3 - Pay attention to this, it's important to raising a smart kid. A kid brain begins to actively engage at the age of 3 but at the age 5 or 7, That's really when their brain begins to develop to THINK CRITICALLY and if your observe this is the same age a kid start asking you randoms questions every time because they always curious to know. Now this phase is important in a child life because when they keep asking questions and you keep giving them answers and also hyping them about being smart for asking, they would keep asking more and knowing more, expanding their horizon compared to a kid whom the parents never give the kids answers but rather shut them up for asking too much questions or talking too much. When your shut up a curious kid, you shutting off their curiousity and desire to learn and this transcend maternal training into the class room.

4 - Do not flog a child, Cain does nothing but get them used to it and the threat of "I will flog you." Let them serve punishment, while serving the punishment, they will regret doing that wrong, feel the pain psychologically, Emotionally, mentally and physically but when you only only flog, it's only physical pain. It does nothing but put scare on their fine skin.

5 - Be your child best friend and let them see that and be free enough to tell you everything. Tell them friends share secrets and their secrets is safe with you while you tell them your own fake secret to gain thier trust. They will always tell you everything that happened when they with their friends.

6 - Always encourage your kids even in their worst moment, let them know they the best in everything best kid ever, smartest kid, intelligent kid ....just keep telling them that, When you repeat this enough they will begin to believe it and work towards it. This is what the average American parents does to their kids.

7 - Know their friends, Tell them to invite their friends home and tell your kids what you notice about their friends so they know who they dealing with.

8 - Always tell your female Child to report to you whoever calls her "my wife" or ask her if she will marry them and never allow your female kids around that person unwatched.

9 - Lastly, spend time with your kids, All these written above are useless when you don't spend time with your kids.

Offpoint:
I HATE KIDS, those little teeny tiny annoying creatures. If I have any I may strangle the life out of them in their sleeps.

I watched them afar from my window in my neighbor's house, they wouldn't stay one place, they don't listen, they ruined things, they screamed and cry at un-necessary things. GOSH!!! I can't stand them for a second.

Until there are home one can dump them till they are 15 at least... I don't plan on having them.


Don't quote me please, I'm differently wired.

You are suffering from Pedophobia disorder and you need to go to rehab for proper restoration

Offpoint:
I HATE KIDS, those little teeny tiny annoying creatures. If I have any I may strangle the life out of them in their sleeps.

I watched them afar from my window in my neighbor's house, they wouldn't stay one place, they don't listen, they ruined things, they screamed and cry at un-necessary things. GOSH!!! I can't stand them for a second.

Until there are home one can dump them till they are 15 at least... I don't plan on having them.


Don't quote me please, I'm differently wired.

maybe your parents should ve strangled you when you were small, as if you were different. na ur type even get plenty wahala

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The Methodist Dude right? I don't read no one can write about anyone. Books are lies and the truth in them is less than 5%[/quote
Ur believe I guess

bilulu:

maybe your parents should ve strangled you when you were small, as if you were different. na ur type even get plenty wahala

I was never a trouble kid rather I was weird and often thought to be possesed.
I was that kid who don't play with other kids, I was that kid who'll never leave his room.

Offpoint:

Child of hate? I'm far from that, they showed all the possible love they could, but I don't just accept it. Love are reserved for weaklings... I don't fall into that category.


No matter how close I get to your words can't break me, you not the 100th person who has tried.
Words and advice mean nothing to me, they only passed through my ears, they've never made it to my heart.

I'm touched..100 people tried...so sorry to hear this..no matter u are going through or have gone through....sh.t happens, life don't make sense, we are in a wicked world etc... Truth be told, everyone of us has our stories..love is not for weaklings u said.but it's makes d world a better place..n it makes us have a reason to fight..

What keeps me going is love n determination.. keep ur head up

Mutemenot:
Most important thing is for you as a parent to be of good behaviour and also put right peers to your child. Children learn mostly from what the person next to them do...

Advising parents to be of good behavior seems like something irrelevant until you come in contact with children. I'm not in the child bearing stage but I've had contacts with them a lot and the most important factor to how children will turn out is their parents and the home environment.
If parents can teach their children by what they do instead of shouting and showing frustration all the time; if parents can spend quality time LISTENING to their children even on issues that seem irrelevant then they are going to have children shaped exactly they way they want them to be. More than any other human stage, children learn by watching more than hearing.

traihit:


Advising parents to be of good behavior seems like something irrelevant until you come in contact with children. I'm not in the child bearing stage but I've had contacts with them a lot and the most important factor to how children will turn out is their parents and the home environment.
If parents can teach their children by what they do instead of shouting and showing frustration all the time; if parents can spend quality time LISTENING to their children even on issues that seem irrelevant then they are going to have children shaped exactly they way they want them to be. More than any other human stage, children learn by watching more than hearing.

We are saying the Same thing, children learn from those around them.. but some parents will be fighting everyday in the presence of their kids and expected them not to do the same..

Shibaraba:
Never allow them watch wrestling!!!!!!
The day wey my neighbor Pikin give my son RKO na that day I know say anger management na good thing. For my mind I don give the child 20hit combo. But outside I just smile carry my son comot. Na that day their play end.

Mind what they watch on TV. I come house one day meet my son dey twerk. Boy oooooo. The very next day I go buy new TV load am with children songs. Since then na "baby shark do do do do dooo " dey play for their room. Una no go kill me.

Parental control on movies should be emphasised. One day I reach house try open lappy e no gree on. On raising it na water full am. My kid Don use water gun(only god know where he see am) shoot one villain(romeo) for one pjmask cartoon wey he dey watch for my lappy. When the lappy off he think say the villain die. Not knowing say na the lappy he kuku kill finish.


Upon all these donts there is only one do.... Spend enough time with them. They grow up too fast. If you miss it now you Don miss am be that. They are the only reason I smile. And the only reason I hustle.

Baby sharks do do do dooooo, my daughter love the song

I love my kids .3 of them 2 girls a boy. I pray every day for God to give me power to bring them up aright and by His grace am doing that . They can make you angry honestly. But I work with flogging and all that. But my house help came to spoil them , showing them wrong things via TV,just sent her away last week. Am �% with them now. So lovely

Hraniontd:
Some do say
Child training is a training on its own

To some it as been a challenge

To some experience

To some fun

To some sorry and sadness

To some educative

I think that the most important lessons in training a child/children is treating them with equity. Its normal to have a favourite, but do not make that known to your kids as that may bring about rebellion, low self esteem and so on. Parents must ensure that they are mindful of their actions when the kids are around. You might think that misunderstanding you tag little won't affect your kids, but it does.

LewsTherin:
No 2 children are alike. Some can be so different you wonder if they are siblings. Don't use the methods of any one for any other. Treat them as individuals. Never compare one to the other.

You are right about that. That brings us to the principles of equity.

Offpoint:
I HATE KIDS, those little teeny tiny annoying creatures. If I have any I may strangle the life out of them in their sleeps.

I watched them afar from my window in my neighbor's house, they wouldn't stay one place, they don't listen, they ruined things, they screamed and cry at un-necessary things. GOSH!!! I can't stand them for a second.

Until there are home one can dump them till they are 15 at least... I don't plan on having them.


Don't quote me please, I'm differently wired.

Mumu, you were once like that too and nobody strangled you.

Who cares about how you are wired?

You don’t even seem ‘wired’ to me at all, there are no connections between your brains and your utterances, oh right! your brains are dead

.

Sugahylz:


Mumu, you were once like that too and nobody strangled you.

Who cares how you are wired?

You don’t even seem ‘wired’ to me at all, there are no connections between your brains and your utterances, oh right! your brains are dead

It seems most of you on here lack the ability to comprehend, you're beclouded with emotions and seems to have little or no knowledge of the human race.

Offpoint:

It seems most of you on here lack the ability to comprehend, you're beclouded with emotions and seems to have little or no knowledge of the human race.

Think about that next time you nurse the idea of strangling a child

Hraniontd:


A-Z ON CHILD TRAINING

A = Access your children
Assist them and act fast

B = Believe in their potentials

C = Continue praying, training and working hard on them spiritually, academically and all areas
Create enough time for them

D = Don’t over react

E = Every seconds count in child training
Evaluate them always

F = Follow them up socially, academically and in all areas

G = Guide them in all their paths
Govern your children

H = Have a Godly and golden plans for the even before birth after and before marriage

I = Invite them to Christ
Influence him positively, instruct them

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Kindly update the concluding part

Offpoint:
I HATE KIDS, those little teeny tiny annoying creatures. If I have any I may strangle the life out of them in their sleeps.

I watched them afar from my window in my neighbor's house, they wouldn't stay one place, they don't listen, they ruined things, they screamed and cry at un-necessary things. GOSH!!! I can't stand them for a second.

Until there are home one can dump them till they are 15 at least... I don't plan on having them.


Don't quote me please, I'm differently wired.

ode

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A GOOD TEACHER
A good parent must be a good teacher; A good teacher must be;-

T- Truthful, trustworthy, teachable, thorough, tolerant. Avoid lying to your children. Whatever they are told now will for a long time remain in their memory because they have a sound ability to recall and think deep on it later.
E- Effective, efficient, encouraging, entertaining and educative
A- Accessible, approachable, adaptable, and available
C- Courteous, creative communicative, and caring
H- Helpful, hopeful, humorous and heart-filling
E- Excellent, and exemplary
R- Realistic, reliable, respected and reputable.

Losing hope on a child is like a feeble soldier in battle

Truthbites:
Some children stubborn Sha!!!

I pray every day not to give birth to any stubborn child, they go drain you....
I know wetin my papa and mama day face for my brother hand.....
I pray they get my calm nature, that has always been my prayer