This is not designed to make anyone feel less than they are, it is just an open question intended to have you gauge your self-worth in actual visible terms as opposed to imaginary ones.

So here goes

You have a partner whom you love tremendously but something led to another and he/she cheated on you.
The question I wish to ask is, what exactly are those things about you that made you believe you should NEVER be cheated on?

This is for both the married & unmarried.

Thrash since when did having healthy expectations equate to overestimating ones self. Expect your partner to have ten spare tyres if it appeals to your ideals

The sooner you understand this life is a game... The better for you...

healthserve:
Thrash since when did having healthy expectations equate to overestimating ones self. Expect your partner to have ten spare tyres of it soothes your ego.

I will overlook the obvious saltiness in your response since i am serious about getting answers.

Now when you say healthy expectations, do you mean for yourself, do you mean for your partner, or is it for both of you as a collective?

Please try not to be salty in your next response, i am trying to get somewhere if you'll be patient enough.

drealcivilceno:
The moment you understand this life is a game... The better for you...

Can you explain further please.

missjo:
This is not designed to make anyone feel less than they are, it is just an open question intended to have you gauge your self-worth in actual visible terms as opposed to imaginary ones.

So here goes

You have a partner whom you love tremendously but something led to another and he/she cheated on you.
The question I wish to ask is, what exactly are those things about you that made you believe you should NEVER be cheated on?

This is for both the married & unmarried.

You should, without fail, kill yourself.

In as much am not cheating, you shouldn't.

yomi007k:

Can you explain further please.

Have you heard the proverb..." the stick and the carrot?"..
That should explain it..

The fact that I don't cheat, alone, is enough reason for me to EXPECT the same in return. It's not even negotiable. You cheat, I'm out.

Secondary reasons, I'm not perfect but I try my best to make someone feel important, wanted & desirable. I'm attentive. I don't hold back at all. Sometimes I even feel like I'm overdoing things, but I'm an intense person, so to hell with being lukewarm, we're taking it all the way up to 100 degrees. Basically, if you can't stand the heat, get away from this mineshaft. I can only function in two temperatures, lava hot or arctic cold. So when someone manages to stoke my amorous flames (which is as rare a happenstance as finding a male preschool teacher), I burn hot for them...& only for them
I mean which person in their right senses would cheat on a person that makes them feel like George Fùcking Clooney? I'd like to see the size of the nose on that clown!

Let me also add that I have been cheated on, on more than one occasion because I build a guy up to the point where he starts feeling like Mr Universe Now he's prancing around thinking he's God's gift to women. There's only one small problem with that though, very few can do it like I can, so they always come running back when they're not getting the same kind of praise singing, then I become the only drug that gives them the same high
I've left many a junkies in my wake

XhosaNostra:
The fact that I don't cheat, alone, is enough reason for me to EXPECT the same in return. It's not even negotiable. You cheat, I'm out.

Secondary reasons, I'm not perfect but I try my best to make someone feel important, wanted & desirable. I'm attentive. I don't hold back at all. Sometimes I even feel like I'm overdoing things, but I'm an intense person, so to hell with being lukewarm, we're taking it all the way up to 100 degrees. Basically, if you can't stand the heat, get away from this mineshaft. I can only function in two temperatures, lava hot or arctic cold. So when someone manages to stoke my amorous flames (which is as rare a happenstance as finding a male preschool teacher), I burn hot for them...& only for them
I mean which person in their right senses would cheat on a person that makes them feel like George Fùcking Clooney? I'd like to see the size of the nose on that clown!

You're a babe Nostra

I love your stuff so much,i wish i was the one writing it on someone else's thread

missjo:

You're a babe Nostra

I love your stuff so much,i wish i was the one writing it on someone else's thread

Lolz. Thanks, babe

XhosaNostra:
Let me also add that I have been cheated on, on more than one occasion because I build a guy up to the point where he starts feeling like Mr Universe Now he's prancing around thinking he's God's gift to women. There's only one small problem with that though, very few can do it like I can, so they always come running back when they're not getting the same kind of praise singing, then I become the only drug that gives them the same high
I've left many a junkies in my wake

How dod you build him up?

PUSSYHOE:
How dod you build him up?

By making him feel like a stud, duh.

Oluwadamilare118:
In as much am not cheating, you shouldn't.

Fair enough. So when you cheat,she's allowed to.
Don't get caught then

XhosaNostra:

By making him feel like a stud, duh.

No wonder he left.

drealcivilceno:

Have you heard the proverb..." the stick and the carrot?"..
That should explain it..

Break it down further chief

I am gonna cheat will try hard not to get caught and will never deprive her of diick or other things, if she cheats thats the end.

PUSSYHOE:
No wonder he left.

Who left? I don't have an ex who didn't regret losing me
Some still stalk me on FB

XhosaNostra:
Let me also add that I have been cheated on, on more than one occasion because I build a guy up to the point where he starts feeling like Mr Universe Now he's prancing around thinking he's God's gift to women. There's only one small problem with that though, very few can do it like I can, so they always come running back when they're not getting the same kind of praise singing, then I become the only drug that gives them the same high
I've left many a junkies in my wake

Unfortunate junkies
Their loss

XhosaNostra:


Who left? I don't have an ex who didn't regret losing me
Some still stalk me on FB

Isnt it suppose to be so why are you feeling fly about it or you prefer you chasing men?

missjo:

Unfortunate junkies
Their loss

Exactly

PUSSYHOE:
Isnt it suppose to be so why are you feeling fly about it or you prefer you chasing men?

Excuse me, did you read the original post, senor? In case I'm the one who missed the memo, the thread is about why you think you shouldn't be cheated on. Translation, indulge in some self-aggrandizement. I'm not here feeling fly, I'm going with the programme. Now get off my tit. Geez.

PUSSYHOE:
I am gonna cheat will try hard not to get caught and will never deprive her of diick or other things, if she cheats thats the end.

So she should be content with your diick, the things you won't deprive her of, and not cheat, but you will.
You consider yourself quite special,don't you?

XhosaNostra:


Excuse me, did you read the original post, senor? In case I'm the one who missed the memo, the thread is about why you think you shouldn't be cheated on. Translation, indulge in some self-aggrandizement. I'm not here feeling fly, I'm going with the programme. Now get off my tit. Geez.

You got the memo babe, pity that some of these blokes didn't. One brotha up there is already wishing me death.

Alpha-males my smooth behind

missjo:

You got the memo babe, pity that some of these blokes didn't. One brotha up there is already wishing me death.

Alpha-males my smooth behind

LMFAO. Let me read through. E pain am

XhosaNostra:


Excuse me, did you read the original post, senor? In case I'm the one who missed the memo, the thread is about why you think you shouldn't be cheated on. Translation, indulge in some self-aggrandizement. I'm not here feeling fly, I'm going with the programme. Now get off my tit. Geez.

You're imagining me on your tits? you wish. you can confirm from your males, reason men go back is because they didn't see better not because you are special or better.

missjo:

So she should be content with your diick, the things you won't deprive her of, and not cheat, but you will.
You consider yourself quite special,don't you?

I ain't if she cant cope she should leave.

PUSSYHOE:
I ain't if she cant cope she should leave.

Lol,okay daddy.
I appreciate your honesty on this, thank you.

PUSSYHOE:
You're imagining me on your tits? you wish. you can confirm from your males, reason men go back is because they didn't see better not because you are special or better.

Look, I don't give a rat's ass about your fùcking opinion, so stuff it. I don't have time to be going back & forth with your slow ass. The purpose of this thread obviously flew right over your head. Piss off!

XhosaNostra:


LMFAO. Let me read through. E pain am

E really pain am

Hmn