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Do We Overestimate Ourselves In Relationships? by missjo(f): 3:00pm On Aug 31, 2019 |
This is not designed to make anyone feel less than they are, it is just an open question intended to have you gauge your self-worth in actual visible terms as opposed to imaginary ones. So here goes You have a partner whom you love tremendously but something led to another and he/she cheated on you. The question I wish to ask is, what exactly are those things about you that made you believe you should NEVER be cheated on? This is for both the married & unmarried. 1 Like |
Re: Do We Overestimate Ourselves In Relationships? by healthserve(m): 3:07pm On Aug 31, 2019 |
Thrash since when did having healthy expectations equate to overestimating ones self. Expect your partner to have ten spare tyres if it appeals to your ideals 5 Likes |
Re: Do We Overestimate Ourselves In Relationships? by drealcivilceno(m): 3:08pm On Aug 31, 2019 |
The sooner you understand this life is a game... The better for you... 10 Likes |
Re: Do We Overestimate Ourselves In Relationships? by missjo(f): 3:24pm On Aug 31, 2019 |
healthserve:I will overlook the obvious saltiness in your response since i am serious about getting answers. Now when you say healthy expectations, do you mean for yourself, do you mean for your partner, or is it for both of you as a collective? Please try not to be salty in your next response, i am trying to get somewhere if you'll be patient enough. 4 Likes |
Re: Do We Overestimate Ourselves In Relationships? by yomi007k(m): 3:53pm On Aug 31, 2019 |
drealcivilceno:Can you explain further please. |
Re: Do We Overestimate Ourselves In Relationships? by Nobody: 3:56pm On Aug 31, 2019 |
missjo: You should, without fail, kill yourself. |
Re: Do We Overestimate Ourselves In Relationships? by Nobody: 3:56pm On Aug 31, 2019 |
In as much am not cheating, you shouldn't. 2 Likes |
Re: Do We Overestimate Ourselves In Relationships? by drealcivilceno(m): 4:43pm On Aug 31, 2019 |
yomi007k:Have you heard the proverb..." the stick and the carrot?".. That should explain it.. |
Re: Do We Overestimate Ourselves In Relationships? by XhosaNostra(f): 6:37pm On Aug 31, 2019 |
The fact that I don't cheat, alone, is enough reason for me to EXPECT the same in return. It's not even negotiable. You cheat, I'm out. Secondary reasons, I'm not perfect but I try my best to make someone feel important, wanted & desirable. I'm attentive. I don't hold back at all. Sometimes I even feel like I'm overdoing things, but I'm an intense person, so to hell with being lukewarm, we're taking it all the way up to 100 degrees. Basically, if you can't stand the heat, get away from this mineshaft. I can only function in two temperatures, lava hot or arctic cold. So when someone manages to stoke my amorous flames (which is as rare a happenstance as finding a male preschool teacher), I burn hot for them...& only for them ![]() I mean which person in their right senses would cheat on a person that makes them feel like George Fùcking Clooney? I'd like to see the size of the nose on that clown! ![]() 11 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Do We Overestimate Ourselves In Relationships? by XhosaNostra(f): 7:01pm On Aug 31, 2019 |
Let me also add that I have been cheated on, on more than one occasion because I build a guy up to the point where he starts feeling like Mr Universe ![]() ![]() ![]() I've left many a junkies in my wake ![]() 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Do We Overestimate Ourselves In Relationships? by missjo(f): 7:06pm On Aug 31, 2019 |
XhosaNostra:You're a babe Nostra ![]() I love your stuff so much,i wish i was the one writing it on someone else's thread ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: Do We Overestimate Ourselves In Relationships? by XhosaNostra(f): 7:07pm On Aug 31, 2019 |
missjo: Lolz. Thanks, babe ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Do We Overestimate Ourselves In Relationships? by PUSSYHOE(m): 7:09pm On Aug 31, 2019 |
XhosaNostra:How dod you build him up? |
Re: Do We Overestimate Ourselves In Relationships? by XhosaNostra(f): 7:10pm On Aug 31, 2019 |
PUSSYHOE: By making him feel like a stud, duh. 2 Likes |
Re: Do We Overestimate Ourselves In Relationships? by missjo(f): 7:13pm On Aug 31, 2019 |
Oluwadamilare118:Fair enough. So when you cheat,she's allowed to. Don't get caught then 1 Like |
Re: Do We Overestimate Ourselves In Relationships? by PUSSYHOE(m): 7:13pm On Aug 31, 2019 |
XhosaNostra:No wonder he left. 1 Like |
Re: Do We Overestimate Ourselves In Relationships? by missjo(f): 7:16pm On Aug 31, 2019 |
drealcivilceno:Break it down further chief |
Re: Do We Overestimate Ourselves In Relationships? by PUSSYHOE(m): 7:16pm On Aug 31, 2019 |
I am gonna cheat will try hard not to get caught and will never deprive her of diick or other things, if she cheats thats the end. 2 Likes |
Re: Do We Overestimate Ourselves In Relationships? by XhosaNostra(f): 7:16pm On Aug 31, 2019 |
PUSSYHOE: Who left? I don't have an ex who didn't regret losing me ![]() Some still stalk me on FB ![]() ![]() 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Do We Overestimate Ourselves In Relationships? by missjo(f): 7:18pm On Aug 31, 2019 |
XhosaNostra:Unfortunate junkies ![]() Their loss 1 Like |
Re: Do We Overestimate Ourselves In Relationships? by PUSSYHOE(m): 7:18pm On Aug 31, 2019 |
XhosaNostra:Isnt it suppose to be so why are you feeling fly about it or you prefer you chasing men? |
Re: Do We Overestimate Ourselves In Relationships? by XhosaNostra(f): 7:19pm On Aug 31, 2019 |
Re: Do We Overestimate Ourselves In Relationships? by XhosaNostra(f): 7:24pm On Aug 31, 2019 |
PUSSYHOE: Excuse me, did you read the original post, senor? In case I'm the one who missed the memo, the thread is about why you think you shouldn't be cheated on. Translation, indulge in some self-aggrandizement. I'm not here feeling fly, I'm going with the programme. Now get off my tit. Geez. 4 Likes |
Re: Do We Overestimate Ourselves In Relationships? by missjo(f): 7:27pm On Aug 31, 2019 |
PUSSYHOE:So she should be content with your diick, the things you won't deprive her of, and not cheat, but you will. You consider yourself quite special,don't you? 1 Like |
Re: Do We Overestimate Ourselves In Relationships? by missjo(f): 7:31pm On Aug 31, 2019 |
XhosaNostra:You got the memo babe, pity that some of these blokes didn't. One brotha up there is already wishing me death. ![]() Alpha-males my smooth behind ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Do We Overestimate Ourselves In Relationships? by XhosaNostra(f): 7:32pm On Aug 31, 2019 |
missjo: LMFAO. Let me read through. E pain am ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Do We Overestimate Ourselves In Relationships? by PUSSYHOE(m): 7:37pm On Aug 31, 2019 |
XhosaNostra:You're imagining me on your tits? you wish. you can confirm from your males, reason men go back is because they didn't see better not because you are special or better. 1 Like |
Re: Do We Overestimate Ourselves In Relationships? by PUSSYHOE(m): 7:39pm On Aug 31, 2019 |
missjo:I ain't if she cant cope she should leave. |
Re: Do We Overestimate Ourselves In Relationships? by missjo(f): 7:42pm On Aug 31, 2019 |
PUSSYHOE:Lol,okay daddy. I appreciate your honesty on this, thank you. ![]() |
Re: Do We Overestimate Ourselves In Relationships? by XhosaNostra(f): 7:42pm On Aug 31, 2019 |
PUSSYHOE: Look, I don't give a rat's ass about your fùcking opinion, so stuff it. I don't have time to be going back & forth with your slow ass. The purpose of this thread obviously flew right over your head. Piss off! 1 Like |
Re: Do We Overestimate Ourselves In Relationships? by missjo(f): 7:50pm On Aug 31, 2019 |
XhosaNostra:E really pain am ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Do We Overestimate Ourselves In Relationships? by Nobody: 7:52pm On Aug 31, 2019 |
Hmn |
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