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Re: Do We Overestimate Ourselves In Relationships? by PUSSYHOE(m): 7:53pm On Aug 31, 2019
XhosaNostra:


Look, I don't give a rat's ass about your fùcking opinion, so stuff it. I don't have time to be going back & forth with your slow ass. The purpose of this thread obviously flew right over your head. Piss off!
Did i quote you about the thread or your ex you mentioned?

Are you OK?
Re: Do We Overestimate Ourselves In Relationships? by XhosaNostra(f): 7:56pm On Aug 31, 2019
PUSSYHOE:
Did i quote you about the thread or your ex you mentioned?

Are you OK?

And you don't see the correlation between that & the point of the thread? Do I sound like I have Tourette's syndrome to you, fool? Abeg get lost before I make it all about you. Nonsense.
Re: Do We Overestimate Ourselves In Relationships? by PUSSYHOE(m): 7:58pm On Aug 31, 2019
XhosaNostra:


And you don't see the correlation between that & the point of the thread? Do I sound like I have Tourette's syndrome to you, fool? Abeg get lost before I make it all about you. Nonsense.
Please make it all about me......i am vibrating.
Re: Do We Overestimate Ourselves In Relationships? by XhosaNostra(f): 7:59pm On Aug 31, 2019
PUSSYHOE:
Please make it all about me......i am vibrating.

Just continue being a nuisance.
Re: Do We Overestimate Ourselves In Relationships? by PUSSYHOE(m): 8:02pm On Aug 31, 2019
XhosaNostra:


Just continue being a nuisance.
You are on self-destruct all i have to do is wait it out. You must think everyone is after you lol.
Re: Do We Overestimate Ourselves In Relationships? by Nobody: 8:05pm On Aug 31, 2019
XhosaNostra:


By making him feel like a stud, duh.

Like in bed?
Re: Do We Overestimate Ourselves In Relationships? by XhosaNostra(f): 8:06pm On Aug 31, 2019
PUSSYHOE:
You are on self-destruct all i have to do is wait it out. You must think everyone is after you lol.

Huh? What are you on about? At what point did the discussion turn into me thinking you're after me? Are you high? Let's get one thing straight, getting attention from you is like getting one from a fly. It does absolutely nothing for my ego. I don't fancy you & I don't care if you don't fancy me either.
Re: Do We Overestimate Ourselves In Relationships? by XhosaNostra(f): 8:07pm On Aug 31, 2019
Dudeweedlmao:


Like in bed?

All ways tongue
Re: Do We Overestimate Ourselves In Relationships? by Truthsbitter: 8:07pm On Aug 31, 2019
XhosaNostra:
The fact that I don't cheat, alone, is enough reason for me to EXPECT the same in return. It's not even negotiable. You cheat, I'm out.

Secondary reasons, I'm not perfect but I try my best to make someone feel important, wanted & desirable. I'm attentive. I don't hold back at all. Sometimes I even feel like I'm overdoing things, but I'm an intense person, so to hell with being lukewarm, we're taking it all the way up to 100 degrees. Basically, if you can't stand the heat, get away from this mineshaft. I can only function in two temperatures, lava hot or arctic cold. So when someone manages to stoke my amorous flames (which is as rare a happenstance as finding a male preschool teacher), I burn hot for them...& only for them wink
I mean which person in their right senses would cheat on a person that makes them feel like George Fùcking Clooney? I'd like to see the size of the nose on that clown! grin
what do you refer to as "cheat"?
Re: Do We Overestimate Ourselves In Relationships? by XhosaNostra(f): 8:08pm On Aug 31, 2019
Truthsbitter:
cking Clooney? I
what do you refer to as "cheat"?

I don't understand your post. Can you kindly rephrase your question?
Re: Do We Overestimate Ourselves In Relationships? by Nobody: 8:11pm On Aug 31, 2019
XhosaNostra:


All ways tongue

Does your name mean South African Mafia? 'Cause I know CozaNostra means Sicily (Italian) Mafia.
Re: Do We Overestimate Ourselves In Relationships? by Truthsbitter: 8:12pm On Aug 31, 2019
XhosaNostra:


I don't understand your post. Can you kindly rephrase your question?
I did.
that was a mistake on the first line.

my question; what, in your post do you mean by "cheat" in the phrase "The fact that I don't cheat, alone, is enough reason"?
Re: Do We Overestimate Ourselves In Relationships? by XhosaNostra(f): 8:13pm On Aug 31, 2019
Dudeweedlmao:


Does your name mean South African Mafia? 'Cause I know CozaNostra means Sicily (Italian) Mafia.

It's a spin of words. Xhosa, that's my ethnicity. So I just put a South African spin on the original term if you will.

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Re: Do We Overestimate Ourselves In Relationships? by XhosaNostra(f): 8:14pm On Aug 31, 2019
Truthsbitter:

I did.
that was a mistake on the first line.

my question; what, in your post do you mean by "cheat" in the phrase "The fact that I don't cheat, alone, is enough reason"?

I don't sleep around.
Re: Do We Overestimate Ourselves In Relationships? by Truthsbitter: 8:17pm On Aug 31, 2019
missjo:

So she should be content with your diick, the things you won't deprive her of, and not cheat, but you will.
You consider yourself quite special,don't you?
But she wouldn't know if she was cheated on if the attention given to her was just perfect.
Re: Do We Overestimate Ourselves In Relationships? by Truthsbitter: 8:18pm On Aug 31, 2019
XhosaNostra:


I don't sleep around.
Are you aware sex does not necessarily mean love?
Re: Do We Overestimate Ourselves In Relationships? by XhosaNostra(f): 8:19pm On Aug 31, 2019
Truthsbitter:

Are you aware sex does not necessarily means love?

What does that have to do with anything?
Re: Do We Overestimate Ourselves In Relationships? by Nobody: 8:24pm On Aug 31, 2019
missjo:

Fair enough. So when you cheat,she's allowed to.
Don't get caught then

Smile.. Then.

Hope to be in a new relationship!
Re: Do We Overestimate Ourselves In Relationships? by Truthsbitter: 8:27pm On Aug 31, 2019
XhosaNostra:


What does that have to do with anything?
How would you know if the guy who never cheated on you(not sleeping around) really loves you?
And, that one day, he won't come back home telling you he has got someone else he wants to marry and you were just the sex part of his youth days?

Don't you think affection, care, one who could tolerate you, who make you feel like a queen, sincere about the feelings/love (not sex) he shares with you should be considered before sex outside the relationship?
Re: Do We Overestimate Ourselves In Relationships? by XhosaNostra(f): 8:34pm On Aug 31, 2019
Truthsbitter:

How would you know if the who never cheated on you(not sleeping around) really loves you?
And, that one day, he won't come back home telling you he has got someone else he wants to marry and you were just the sex part of his youth days?

Don't you think affection, care, one who could tolerate you, who make you feel like a queen should be considered before sex outside the relationship?

Oh well. Luckily for me, my self-worth isn't attached to sex. If I was part of his sex play, then he was part of mine too...a field practice so to speak, so I can satisfy my future spouse with the couple of tricks learned in the process grin

Look, I live my life how I wanna live my life. I know what things are important to me in a relationship.
Re: Do We Overestimate Ourselves In Relationships? by Truthsbitter: 8:36pm On Aug 31, 2019
XhosaNostra:


Oh well. Luckily for me, my self-worth isn't attached to sex. If I was part of his sex play, then he was part of mine too...a field practice so to speak, so I can satisfy my future spouse with the couple of tricks learned in the process grin

Look, I live my life how I wanna live my life. I know what things are important to me in a relationship.
OK good... grin, as long you don't plan to shoot a nigga or poison his drink.



sounds to me like you determine your relationship by sex standards and conditions whilst it should be based on love.
Re: Do We Overestimate Ourselves In Relationships? by XhosaNostra(f): 8:39pm On Aug 31, 2019
Truthsbitter:

OK good... grin, as long you don't plan to shoot a nigga or poison his drink.



sounds to me like you determine your relationship by sex standards and conditions whilst it should be based on love.

I'd never do something like that. I'm not mad. Will never throw away my freedom because of a man.

And how did you come to that conclusion?
Re: Do We Overestimate Ourselves In Relationships? by Truthsbitter: 8:44pm On Aug 31, 2019
XhosaNostra:


I'd never do something like that. I'm not mad. Will never throw away my freedom because of a man.

And how did you come to that conclusion?
If I ever fall in love. I would prefer not to share the emotional weakness my partner has for me compared to sharing her pvssy.

unless maybe women fvcks with their hearts..
Re: Do We Overestimate Ourselves In Relationships? by XhosaNostra(f): 8:45pm On Aug 31, 2019
Truthsbitter:

If I ever fall in love. I would prefer not to share the emotional weakness my partner has for me to share her pvssy.

unless maybe women fvcks with their hearts..

Okay.

Re: Do We Overestimate Ourselves In Relationships? by Truthsbitter: 8:50pm On Aug 31, 2019
XhosaNostra:


Okay.
I edited the grammatical error, but I believe you understood anyways..

the heart/love of a man should not be judged by the dealings of his dick.
Re: Do We Overestimate Ourselves In Relationships? by XhosaNostra(f): 8:51pm On Aug 31, 2019
Truthsbitter:

I edited the grammatical error, but I believe you understood anyways..

the heart/love of a man should not be judged by his dick.

I'm not sure where you got that from my post, but good to know.
Re: Do We Overestimate Ourselves In Relationships? by Nobody: 9:10pm On Aug 31, 2019
XhosaNostra:
Let me also add that I have been cheated on, on more than one occasion because I build a guy up to the point where he starts feeling like Mr Universe grin Now he's prancing around thinking he's God's gift to women. There's only one small problem with that though, very few can do it like I can, so they always come running back when they're not getting the same kind of praise singing, then I become the only drug that gives them the same high wink cheesy
I've left many a junkies in my wake grin


As long as you are not sharing money, what could u av possibly giv that no other gurl can give.
your consolidation is more like stylishly consoling yourself. keep it up!

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Re: Do We Overestimate Ourselves In Relationships? by XhosaNostra(f): 9:20pm On Aug 31, 2019
ericsmith:



As long as you are not sharing money, what could u av possibly giv that no other gurl can give.
your consolidation is more like stylishly consoling yourself. keep it up!

Looooool. Cool.

The thread is very simple. Let me explain it to you in dummy terms, toot your own horn. Simple thing you can't do. If you lack the wit to put down the words to laud yourself, leave the stage for those of us who're never without something to say.

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Re: Do We Overestimate Ourselves In Relationships? by Nobody: 9:44pm On Aug 31, 2019
XhosaNostra:


Looooool. Cool.

The thread is very simple. Let me explain it to you in dummy terms, toot your own horn. Simple thing you can't do. If you lack the wit to put down the words to laud yourself, leave the stage for those of us who're never without something to say.




why laud myself wen there people around to that n if they don't i can call d guys with d talkin drum ; tongue
Do you know lizard grin u guys av a lot in common ... no one gives a fvck about lizard so it alway laud itself ...you alway av something to say buh what do you av to show.. u can't even show ur ugly face... i can stil fvck u tho buh u wear a mask grin
Re: Do We Overestimate Ourselves In Relationships? by Hypnotism: 9:59pm On Aug 31, 2019
Now that is over estimating ones self.

XhosaNostra:


Who left? I don't have an ex who didn't regret losing me grin
Some still stalk me on FB tongue cheesy
Re: Do We Overestimate Ourselves In Relationships? by drealcivilceno(m): 10:02pm On Aug 31, 2019
XhosaNostra:
The fact that I don't cheat, alone, is enough reason for me to EXPECT the same in return. It's not even negotiable. You cheat, I'm out.

Secondary reasons, I'm not perfect but I try my best to make someone feel important, wanted & desirable. I'm attentive. I don't hold back at all. Sometimes I even feel like I'm overdoing things, but I'm an intenandse person, so to hell with being lukewarm, we're taking it all the way up to 100 degrees. Basically, if you can't stand the heat, get away from this mineshaft. I can only function in two temperatures, lava hot or arctic cold. So when someone manages to stoke my amorous flames (which is as rare a happenstance as finding a male preschool teacher), I burn hot for them...& only for them wink
I mean which person in their right senses would cheat on a person that makes them feel like George Fùcking Clooney? I'd like to see the size of the nose on that clown! grin
Many Ex-s said that years ago. I hope you are worth it truly.
Re: Do We Overestimate Ourselves In Relationships? by XhosaNostra(f): 10:08pm On Aug 31, 2019
ericsmith:





why laud myself wen there people around to that n if they don't i can call d guys with d talkin drum ; tongue
Do you know lizard grin u guys av a lot in common ... no one gives a fvck about lizard so it alway laud itself ...you alway av something to say buh what do you av to show.. u can't even show ur ugly face... i can stil fvck u tho buh u wear a mask grin

Just because you can't or won't, it doesn't mean the rest of us shouldn't. In any case, how does my post affect you? It doesn't. So your thoughts on it are therefore irrelevant. Consider them disregarded, in fact, because you're a nonentity to me. If this came from someone I have dated, perhaps I'd retract but you're just a nosey nobody who decided to feel some type of way on a matter that doesn't even concern you. Oh & I don't need to show my face in order to have a say. I do have a presence now & that's all I'm choosing to represent the person behind the name grin
I will never fùck you though, so it can only remain just that, a sickening idea in your perverted mind. How you people manage to turn everything about fùcking really boggles the mind.

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