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Re: Do We Overestimate Ourselves In Relationships? by XhosaNostra(f): 10:11pm On Aug 31, 2019 |
Re: Do We Overestimate Ourselves In Relationships? by XhosaNostra(f): 10:12pm On Aug 31, 2019 |
drealcivilceno: ...
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Re: Do We Overestimate Ourselves In Relationships? by healthserve(m): 10:16pm On Aug 31, 2019 |
XhosaNostra: a field practice. Smh This girl will kill someone here one day ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Do We Overestimate Ourselves In Relationships? by XhosaNostra(f): 10:20pm On Aug 31, 2019 |
healthserve: But isn't dating sometimes referred to as "playing the field"? If we didn't end up getting married, then we were just each other's target practice. No harm, no foul. |
Re: Do We Overestimate Ourselves In Relationships? by fuckboys: 10:36pm On Aug 31, 2019 |
XhosaNostra:I love this mentality, our nigerian girls always feeling entitled even after all they had to offer was pvssy in the relationship. We keep hearing stale lines like "after he's used and dumped me" why can't our bitches learn a thing or two from them southies bitches, lets jest fck each other and get it over with... Fuuuck., 8 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Do We Overestimate Ourselves In Relationships? by XhosaNostra(f): 10:39pm On Aug 31, 2019 |
fuckboys: Different strokes for different folks. Shrugs. |
Re: Do We Overestimate Ourselves In Relationships? by healthserve(m): 10:43pm On Aug 31, 2019 |
XhosaNostra: Damn it. This chick's blunt to the " T " |
Re: Do We Overestimate Ourselves In Relationships? by XhosaNostra(f): 10:56pm On Aug 31, 2019 |
healthserve: It is the truth though. I can't be mad over something I also participated in, it doesn't make sense. I think the thing that hurts most ladies (myself included) are the charades some guys put on, in order to get a woman to open up her heart & her legs for them. 1 Like |
Re: Do We Overestimate Ourselves In Relationships? by drealcivilceno(m): 11:03pm On Aug 31, 2019 |
missjo:You asked for it ooh. You have a dog, not our kind of local dog ooh!, you feed it and clean after it. It protects you and will give up its life for you coz that is their nature. Higher animal(you) lower animal(dog). The truth is that even if it will give its life up for you, you can never put in charge right because he is a dog, yeah and it has its use. The way you see life is not the same way a man see it. You have understand how men and humans think. Xhosa said she made them feel like men(what we want), lol coz like she said it is like our drug, and her game is to get the man hooked and she gets honesty ( what she wants) from them in return which every woman must learn to use to their advantage because most girls do not possess. Total manipulation right, A game right? e.g. there is a very heavy load you cannot carry, instead of "honey help me carry this load", say " babe, you having been looking muscular recently", touching and admiring his biceps, wait for him to digest it, and launch what you want. He will carry it for you and ask if you want to carry something else but remember to use this right cos it may backfire ooh! All i am saying is everyone can never be the same, use what you have to achieve an more fufilling and honourable end. |
Re: Do We Overestimate Ourselves In Relationships? by drealcivilceno(m): 11:15pm On Aug 31, 2019 |
fuckboys:Jesu Christi... They have given up ooh coz they do not know the use of a relationship anymore. Their law has bastardize the main intent of it ooh. |
Re: Do We Overestimate Ourselves In Relationships? by Nobody: 11:22pm On Aug 31, 2019 |
XhosaNostra: sorry my response keeps coming late some of us actually av a real life, u're lonely i understand how much solace online appraisal gives you, as for the embolded, seems everything about you is in the past, accept our condolences. .. buh my dear life is not about alway having something to say, Life is about having something to show. your sense did make up for the ugliness u are hiding ... jus been romantic ![]() |
Re: Do We Overestimate Ourselves In Relationships? by XhosaNostra(f): 11:44pm On Aug 31, 2019 |
ericsmith: Looooool. If you knew me, you wouldn't have dribbled the bolded. I get enough attention from those that matter to me, to ever care about meaningless appraisals from unknowns. I roll solo, both on & offline, but I can't help that people gravitate towards me like flies to a steaming pile of shìt. Me na Princess Charming now ![]() ![]() ![]() Life is about something to show, perhaps to you. Some of us don't need to prove anything to anyone because we live life by completely different rules. I strictly live by my own rules, nobody else dictates how I should live. I don't care about the last part of your post because it has no relevance to anything. Just say you want to see what I look like instead of all these weak jabs you're taking. |
Re: Do We Overestimate Ourselves In Relationships? by rex444(m): 12:08am On Sep 01, 2019 |
XhosaNostra:am seriously lost here but your choice of words caught my attention. ... sometimes I even wonder who calls naija youths lazy when we have such people like U n ubunja |
Re: Do We Overestimate Ourselves In Relationships? by Nobody: 12:13am On Sep 01, 2019 |
XhosaNostra: You mean attention like men zipping down n showing u there dvcks in public ... that say alots about you. well "show" in my context is not about what you display ... i meant what people can see without you avin to laud yourself everytime. I didnt even ask you for info ... yet u gave so much like you're applying for a r/ship, even if i see ur face or body ... what can i possibly do with it, you flatter yourself way too much no wonder u're alone. 1 Like |
Re: Do We Overestimate Ourselves In Relationships? by missjo(f): 2:16am On Sep 01, 2019 |
ericsmith:What is your problem? |
Re: Do We Overestimate Ourselves In Relationships? by missjo(f): 2:19am On Sep 01, 2019 |
fuckboys:Environment & social conditioning matters a great deal, Nigerian chics will never be SA chics ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Do We Overestimate Ourselves In Relationships? by missjo(f): 2:33am On Sep 01, 2019 |
I noticed something on this topic tho, xhosanostra had the boldness to list the qualities why she should not be cheated on and you boys are all over her sexy ass trying to do God knows what. Come on fellas, say something about why you think no girl has a right to cheat on you & leave my girl alone ![]() Where are the naija ladies here? You girls are killing me. Tell this boys whachu gots 1 Like |
Re: Do We Overestimate Ourselves In Relationships? by missjo(f): 2:37am On Sep 01, 2019 |
drealcivilceno:Wow,a robust breakdown indeed. What I'm gleaning from your response is that a man should not be cheated on no matter what? Am i on track? 1 Like |
Re: Do We Overestimate Ourselves In Relationships? by missjo(f): 2:41am On Sep 01, 2019 |
rex444:Lol,they are not naijans ![]() What are you lost on? Her post which you quoted, or the original topic & content? |
Re: Do We Overestimate Ourselves In Relationships? by missjo(f): 2:42am On Sep 01, 2019 |
Oluwadamilare118:I wish you good luck ![]() |
Re: Do We Overestimate Ourselves In Relationships? by missjo(f): 2:44am On Sep 01, 2019 |
Truthsbitter:You must be a renowned playboy to type this |
Re: Do We Overestimate Ourselves In Relationships? by Nobody: 4:10am On Sep 01, 2019 |
missjo: Thank you! 1 Like |
Re: Do We Overestimate Ourselves In Relationships? by rex444(m): 4:50am On Sep 01, 2019 |
missjo:the original topic n content oooo.... Really they are not from naija ? Well they are still Africans ....we are truly blessed |
Re: Do We Overestimate Ourselves In Relationships? by XhosaNostra(f): 5:50am On Sep 01, 2019 |
ericsmith: Now you're beginning to sound just like a mouth-breathing idiot. Perhaps you're one of them crazies because how else would one explain why you seem to be taking things that happen in my life so personally? We're not an item, papa, chill. Whether I "enjoy" that or not, it doesn't concern you. Is it your enjoyment? ![]() |
Re: Do We Overestimate Ourselves In Relationships? by XhosaNostra(f): 5:54am On Sep 01, 2019 |
missjo: Exactly! There's probably nothing good to say, so don't mind them lol. |
Re: Do We Overestimate Ourselves In Relationships? by Nobody: 6:00am On Sep 01, 2019 |
missjo: how to produce ,what to produce & for whom to produce ![]() nice body tho could av cross the ocean 4 you buh small tits is a barrier, dear don't even try to overestimate ![]() |
Re: Do We Overestimate Ourselves In Relationships? by Nobody: 9:08am On Sep 01, 2019 |
XhosaNostra: Sorry 4 d delay, had to help one babe with her bra hook & blouse zip.. from d ass to d neck.. i can't fathom y u keep tellin me alot about yourselve ![]() perhaps you stink, that explains why humans breath with there mouth becos they had to block there nose ![]() |
Re: Do We Overestimate Ourselves In Relationships? by XhosaNostra(f): 9:10am On Sep 01, 2019 |
ericsmith: Lol, what a fool. Scram. |
Re: Do We Overestimate Ourselves In Relationships? by drealcivilceno(m): 9:12am On Sep 01, 2019 |
missjo: Yes, although there exceptions. Men have what a woman wants marriage, (his heart or even if they say marriage is not everything) and women have what a man wants sex, (a chaste body for himself). N.B Marriage and sex is not everything, but is the most notable of values when it comes to a relationship People are going to step out of line, whether you like it or not. Just draw the line when it comes the things you want the most(your values and no two persons value are the same) and please be self esteemed abeg(to know who want to be), how high or low is up to you. it is very important. |
Re: Do We Overestimate Ourselves In Relationships? by Nobody: 9:24am On Sep 01, 2019 |
Re: Do We Overestimate Ourselves In Relationships? by missjo(f): 9:32am On Sep 01, 2019 |
rex444:Okay about the topic & content, i basically just wanted any willing participant to talk about those qualities they possess that is enough reason for them not to be cheated on. In other words,validate yourself without overestimating yourself, which is why i said VISIBLE reasons as opposed to imaginary ones. |
Re: Do We Overestimate Ourselves In Relationships? by missjo(f): 9:35am On Sep 01, 2019 |
XhosaNostra:It's amazing,it really is. Love how you handled yourself by the way ![]() 1 Like |
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