Good day N'landers, this is the first time em posting something in this forum..I'll be direct about it though..
My name is Inumidun currently serving in Anambra state ( Ekwusigo Local Government Area)..Anambra state is a fascinating place to be , with beautiful faces around.. I did my camping at the NYSC Orientation Camp at Umunya , those 21 days proved to be stressful and hectic for me ,me being not accustomed to the regimented kind of lifestyle. During those 21 days , I met this beautiful lady from Imo state , she was like a balm to my wounds at the camp, within few days , we became inseparable as I shoot the shot and told her about my intentions towards her...ohhh, I forgot to tell you I broke up with my girlfriend before I came for camping( she was pestering my life for marriage, and son of man wasn't ready...make she no pour sand for my garri joor)..

back to the matter.. Many girls almost broke my head on camp and became my enemies because of this lady I became attached to on camp ( somehow, I can't deny the fact that I'm a handsome guy and being the lady's choice) , so many of them were attached to me ..but I broke the camels back when I implicated myself by announcing at the OBS about my love for this particular girl in my platoon ..
fastforward to the final day on camp , we received our posting letters, I was posted to EKWUSIGO ,while she was posted to ONITSHA NORTH..( Transport fare from Onitsha to Ekwusigo is just #200..).. I was so happy because distance is not a barrier...
but sometime lastweek , she came to my place .. chai..i don envisage I go drill her throughout the night.. but something pushed me that day, i took her to NCCF family house..she slept there...
but before that , she collected my phone , scanned through everything on it , from message to pictures ...nothing implicating was found.

She said something that really OFF me ..she said TAIWO ( My first name)..Don't worry I permit you to have a girlfriend here so that you can curdle and freestyle while I will be yours from a distance..
this statement has been disturbing me since, cos I know ladies dont like sharing what they love...Could this be a trap or what...I need advice

What could be the rationale behind such brouhaha?

She might either b testing or you gonna b a side boyfriend

Am sure its the former ..a girl at that age should be eyeing marriage already!

Nwamaikpe .. Your boy is loyal

fool

hmm... either a trap or shes desperate. go with the latter though. tell her no.

She's got a man bro, take heart.

Lmao, she's got not just a man, but a fiancé, someone she will marry very soon, Pele dear, pada wa si ilu e, o ma ri obirin to dun ju iyen lo.

bros calm down na...

Fountainofyouth:
Lmao, she's got not just a man, but a fiancé, someone she will marry very soon, Pele dear, pada wa si ilu e, o ma ri obirin to dun ju iyen lo.

I swear down. Op you're deceiving yaself

Fountainofyouth:
Lmao, she's got not just a man, but a fiancé, someone she will marry very soon, Pele dear, pada wa si ilu e, o ma ri obirin to dun ju iyen lo.

OP please take this advice.
This moniker might be loud sometimes but she makes sense too.

inumidun2010:


Could this be a trap or what...I need advice

A trap?... or a test? If she was testing you she would not add you would be friends from a distance. Women speak in code..... and that is code for we can be far away friends....but move on with your life.... I have someone else.

Don't you think she had a man before entering camp?.... then why would she not have another after leaving?.... and another if she moves from her present location? Bottom line.... she is not going to be without a man for any length of time. You marry her... and have to travel to do a course... guess what??