lefulefu:
Toks2008 my guy that believe dat its only when a lady is attractive that she cheats is completely false. I have seen very ugly wives who cheat on their husbands with no iota of concience in dem. I have seen a married woman so ugly dat her face looks the backside of a chimpanzee and yet she still still sleeps around with different men. I have seen short ugly married men with big brown teeth who sleep around with prostitutes and they have mistresses they cater for. Cheating is not about looks. If u want to cheat even if u are physically repulsive there will be someone willing to shag u. If some men are willing to sleep with a mad woman then wats in an ugly woman not able to get a partner.

Adaibeku:













Plato plato !!!
No time to read stories , but he is wroight

IamPlato:
ada baby, ladies will always be ladies. See As You Join The Words Together...

Rekhina:
My name isnt rhekina but rekhina !

IamPlato:
sorry sweetheart... Noted!!!

ednut1:
he served in 1998. Do the math https://www.nairaland.com/3478913/nysc-things-must-take-along#51263894.
Egbon go and marry and put all these talks into practice

IamPlato:
Lets Ask The Elders.. Husbandsnatcha, analqueenluci, adaibeku, rhekina, Jacqueline22 what Do You Say?

AnalQueenluci:




Still thinking

fykes:
A poor man who is also poor in character and self control is only faithful(if he will be) because he lacks the means to gratify his lust.
A rich man who is rich in character and self control will not give in to his lusts despite the means to do so.

The suit doesn't make d man.

Skmoda360:

Are you an FBI or NSA agent? Cumulative intelligence report......ahr!!!

Fountainofyouth:
How will you be attracted to who you do not want to be with? As humans, there will always be preferences in everything we do, if I like a tall guy, it is a preference and I will condition my mind to be have an attraction for anyone tall and there is nothing wrong with that, I cannot love what I hate, people that settle for less is cos they are not patient enough to wait for their kind of man, I am a petite lady and I cannot go for a short man and so far so good, it has been working for me cos I'm walking down the Isle soon,

Pls don't make people think their ideal kind of man will not be available for them, some got him or her and their marriage is working well.

Fountainofyouth:
How will you be attracted to who you do not want to be with? As humans, there will always be preferences in everything we do, if I like a tall guy, it is a preference and I will condition my mind to be have an attraction for anyone tall and there is nothing wrong with that, I cannot love what I hate, people that settle for less is cos they are not patient enough to wait for their kind of man, I am a petite lady and I cannot go for a short man and so far so good, it has been working for me cos I'm walking down the Isle soon,

Pls don't make people think their ideal kind of man will not be available for them, some got him or her and their marriage is working well.

Blissbath:
I vehemently disagree on dis topic.

CandidNotes:
Bianca just won Serena!

joyberry:
And who told you that less attractive women don't get hit on?Uncle toks leave that gist joor, sometimes in life decency is a lack of opportunities. Besides in this era of make up and plastic surgery, how many ladies are still unattractive

Fountainofyouth:



Abeg go and nap, same old stale bruhaha, same old money talk, seems you missed a front page thread of enticing a lady with money and he got burned after marriage.

OmoAlata1:

The secret women don't know is, ugly men are very very good in bed. They will break your back for you

OmoAlata1:
As long as there are desperate women everywhere, broke and ugly men can never be faithful. But I do agree that you have less chances if you are with an ugly man. That is why I recommend to date a man who has a good job and ugly. Even if he will cheat, it will not come that easily for him.

The secret women don't know is, ugly men are very very good in bed. They will break your back for you

CandidNotes:
Bianca just won Serena!

koyyess:
The worst is when a female gives a responsible looking broke negro a chance, only for him to become a demon the next minute.

Abeg let the women be.

Even negroes have their taste they go for and it doesn't stop at the ideal female possessing 'wifely' qualities.

Ned was ones a nobody. But look at what happened. A smally is reaping where she did not sew.

Where is his first and only wife of his youth?

Toks2008:
Every woman craves for a faithful husband but one of the funniest twists to the desires of ladies wanting a faithful husband is that they rarely go for men that are ready to be with only them but will prefer to be with a man other ladies want.

I have heard countless times when a lady says "I don't like him cos he is too short, his face looks ugly, he is not financially ok, he is not good in bed, his something is not big enough...."


Most ladies in Naija primarily wants a well to do but avoids broke men and they will prefer tall cute men to short unattractive ones..but the fact is that there are several other ladies dieing to be with a rich guy or very attractive guy and once a guy is big and good in bed then he is a delight to many ladies even if all they do is become his side dish and the few men that have these qualities know they are the dream of most ladies which makes it unrealistic for any lady to have a guy with all or some of these qualities all to herself except the guy just wishes to be with only her.

The bottom line is that as long as your husband has qualities other ladies want which ofcourse is inevitable, then it will be extremely difficult (Not impossible) for such a man to be faithful to you and expecting faithfulness from such man is tantamount to living in delusion.

If he decides to stick with only you, fine...but don't expect it cos a rich or very cute guy is the desire of most ladies.

If you want a husband that will most likely remain faithful to You, get a broke or struggling guy to marry and build a life with him....such a guy will forever respect you...And go for men who are not cute to reduce the chance of competing with several other women for his attention.

Crazy but true.

joyberry:
Uncle toks, i enjoy your writings but i disagree with this article, any body hv the tendency to cheat irrespective of looks,finances, or age.Its just lack of opportunities that make certain people faithful, about the poor guys what if he becomes wealthy tmr or is he gonna be poor forever ?About the non attractive guy,most women favor them like that in sense that they are better lovers in bed.I can't be in a relationship or marriage with someone am not attracted to sef,that might breed cheating on my own part.
Being in a relationship with someone that nobody wants doesn't make sense at all, why do people don't want them in the first place, why just me?In the long run it seems like am doing the person a favor by dating them sef.abeg uncle toks this advice no follow at all

realtalk19:


Not all struggling guys you build a life with appriciates that sacrifice after they eventually make it. That when you don't fit into their kind of class and they eventually dump the babe that was there for them and go for the attractive and classy one in vogue.