Lolz at the op above me...

The if you get small crase part really cracked me up!

donstan18:
Are you seeking for an advice or looking for a possible means to tarnish the image of this man by violating his privacy?

Why littering his pictures? Did he scam you?

Can you be more stupid?
How dare youndisprge someone in her hour of emotional trouble? We are talking about a man leaving his wife and children behind to start a new one without divorcing the poor woman. Don't be stupid!

I think she should post her wedding pics with the man before I will believe her story

I thank everyone for your contributions. I am taking the evidences of our wedding to one of the CAC Secretariat already. Thanks a lot. I appreciate you all

Where is the pastor from?

Actually, where is everyone mentioned in the OP from?

I'm asking because I had a friend with a similar story.

From Ibadan

BigJoe19:
You are fool for bringing this issue here, that is if your story is not false why didn't you upload evidence of you and the pastor getting married, your wedding pics.

This same person you're referring to as a fool might be older than you in all ramifications. Why not state your point and drop the insult.

It is well, you will see people claiming don't judge, once born again Is forever born again. Some will claim since no bride price or church wedding, it means no marriage. Forgetting Nigeria constitution recognises court marriage as being married. But religion and culture will twist this to favour the man. Madam, I think it's the high time you count your loses, sue him and move on.

christiana77:
From Ibadan

hm, well, there are some things they don't tell people about cultural behaviours (not specifically any one place) before they venture into marriage. The spouse is left to discover along the way and sometimes the "call of the wild" supercedes any other conditioning the party involved may have attempted to instil in his or her self, including the biblical spirit. It doesn't help when people actively participate, many don't even bother to hide their involvement.

It's unfortunate when this happens, there are so many consistent stories about it one can only assume it's fairly regular.

If he's hopping from woman to woman (keep in mind it might be a smokescreen and the person controlling everything is waiting in the shadows) then I'm not sure if you still prefer to salvage the situation if that's possible? It's up to you.

"Agba ko ni tan lorile”. May you live long to bless this generation

tpiar:


hm, well, there are some things they don't tell people about cultural behaviours (not specifically any one place) before they venture into marriage. The spouse is left to discover along the way and sometimes the "call of the wild" supercedes any other conditioning the party involved may have attempted to instil in his or her self, including the biblical spirit. It doesn't help when people actively participate, many don't even bother to hide their involvement.

It's unfortunate when this happens, there are so many consistent stories about it one can only assume it's fairly regular.

If he's hopping from woman to woman (keep in mind it might be a smokescreen and the person controlling everything is waiting in the shadows) then I'm not sure if you still prefer to salvage the situation if that's possible? It's up to you.

christiana77:
"Agba ko ni tan lorile”. May you live long to bless this generation

All life is in the hands of God, who distributes it as He wills, but amen and thank you for your prayer, wishing you the same.

I'll just say focus on and take care of yourself, because when people start doing things with audacity and impunity around you (I mean someone), it's a sign there is more going on than what appears and you might be in danger.

A lady said to me once, "The people doing you are wearing skirt and blouse", meaning it's fellow believers who are behind whatever I'm seeing. That might be true but I'm not as concerned about who is trying to do what to me, as I am about staying as whole as God allows.

: Thank you very much. This has opened my eyes to the fact that I should go into unrelenting prayers for my children and myself. Thank you very mucht-*

tpiar:


All life is in the hands of God, who distributes it as He wills, but amen and thank you for your prayer, wishing you the same.

I'll just say focus on and take care of yourself, because when people start doing things with audacity and impunity around you (I mean someone), it's a sign there is more going on than what appears and you might be in danger.

A lady said to me once, "The people doing you are wearing skirt and blouse", meaning it's fellow believers who are behind whatever I'm seeing. That might be true but I'm not as concerned about who is trying to do what to me, as I am about staying as whole as God allows.

tpiar:
Where is the pastor from?

Actually, where is everyone mentioned in the OP from?

I'm asking because I had a friend with a similar story.

Tpia!tpia I love this new you

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I posted some of our wedding pictures on his Facebook page. You can check it if you want.
His Facebook name is Samson oluwaseyi

christiana77:


Are you really sure both of you were married? Did he actually paid your bride Price?
It's Strange for so called man of God to behave like this.
Can you post the evidence that you were married if possible. This story is difficult to believe, especially as it involves CAC that holds morality in high standard

You can see some of our wedding pictures on his Facebook page
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fertilewomb:
Christiana77

Are you really sure both of you were married? Did he actually paid your bride Price?
It's Strange for so called man of God to behave like this.
Can you post the evidence that you were married if possible. This story is difficult to believe, especially as it involves CAC that holds morality in high standard