when you ask a woman this question, What are you bringing to the table?, some of you add this 'apart from your kitty'.

what does the question mean?
what table are you talking about?
have you asked a female this question in real life?
If you have, could you please share your answer with us,

Many thanks in anticipation of your responses.

No trolling, no war or the sexes or body/money shaming allowed.

let's go

when it comes to love..its called table for two.if I should pay for the first plate of food,atleast she should be able to pay for the extra.

donbachi:
when it comes to love..its called table for two.if I should pay for the first plate of food,atleast she should be able to pay for the extra.

bit this doesn't answer the questions i asked. have you asked someone this question in real life before?

To start with, some do not even have a table.

Nah hand to mouth things sure pass for them.

MariaLavina:
To start with, some do not even have a table.

Nah hand to mouth things sure pass for them.; D

Ahn ahh. Na wa o
But what table are they talking about?

funmisticqueen2:
Ahn ahh. Na wa o
But what table are they talking about?

Abeg ask them oooo. Person wey never feed himself finish go dey ask about table. Only on Nl.


I think the table is a figurative terminology to infer to Relationship. Like what do you bring to the relationship?

MariaLavina:
Abeg ask them oooo. Person wey never feed himself finish go dey ask about table. Only on Nl.


I think the table is a figurative terminology to infer to Relationship. Like what do you bring to the relationship?

ohh

Now i understand, what kind of answer are they expecting sef?

where are the guys na?
destiny6979
longjohnsilver
pensator
jekks
dopemike
ornicus
frankkydee

funmisticqueen2:
ohh

Now i understand, what kind of answer are the expecting sef?

where are the guys na?
destiny6979
longjohnsilver
pensator
jekks
dopemike

Not surprised you didn't know, lol you will never hear them ask this question offline but on Nl? they rant it like hallelujah chorus.Only on Nl do guys want an independent lady.

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funmisticqueen2:
ohh

Now i understand, what kind of answer are they expecting sef?

where are the guys na?
destiny6979
longjohnsilver
pensator
jekks
dopemike
ornicus
frankkydee

I don't ask ladies such question but i wouldn't want to date someone that is idle

It means; WHAT DO YOU HAVE TO OFFER?

I have never been asked such in person. I would never ask such in person.

Asking this question implies that you are not seeing the qualities you desire in the other person. So, they would have to "market" themselves. This could portray me as undiscerning or downright condescending.

I believe from asking sensible questions, not the "what are you wearing?" kinda question. You can tell a lot about a person's values- by extension, what they can offer.

funmisticqueen2:
when you ask a woman this question, What are you bringing to the table?, some of you add this 'apart from your kitty'.

what does the question mean?
what table are you talking about?
have you asked a female this question in real life?
If you have, could you please share your answer with us,

Many thanks in anticipation of your responses.

No trolling, no war or the sexes or body/money shaming allowed.

let's go

......it's all about what contribution are you bringing to the relationship for it sustainability.
What do you intend to do as your own part of commitment to make the relationship more better than our last?

MariaLavina:
To start with, some do not even have a table.

Nah hand to mouth things sure pass for them.

even without table, you should still be able to bring something to the hand to mouth

MariaLavina:
Not surprised you didn't know, lol you will never hear them ask this question offline but on Nl? they rant it like hallelujah chorus.Only on Nl do guys want an independent lady.

how many guys you don date

Darevofpeace:
......it's all about what contribution are you bringing to the relationship for it sustainability.
What do you intend to do as your own part of commitment to make the relationship more better than our last?

since you have decided to answer questions with questions, what answers are you expecting from a woman you ask this question? Have you asked lady this question in real life before.

niaralandtopuser:

even without table, you should still be able to bring something to the hand to mouth

because a relationship is potluck abi?

Any woman who (pretends) doesn't understand the question.... are the exact same women who have nothing to bring to a man' s life but a warm coochie.

She: I want this and that in a relationship (always sounding selfish, endless me, me, me, I, I, I).

Me: So what are you bringing to the table?

She: Mutes

The most selfish person I ever met.

MrBrownJay1:
Any woman who (pretends) doesn't understand the question.... are the exact same women who have nothing to bring to a man' s life but a warm coochie.

who said the coochie was even on this proverbial table?

It's not nice to make such generalisations

G12:
She: I want this and that in a relationship (always sounding selfish, endless me, me, me, I, I, I).

Me: So what are you bringing to the table?

She: Mutes

The most selfish person I ever met.

have you asked someone this question before?

funmisticqueen2:
have you asked someone this question before?

Yes, the above was exactly how it happened.

The person in question was so selfish and egotistic.

She expects everything and gives/does nothing.

funmisticqueen2:
who said the coochie was even on this proverbial table?

It's not nice to make such generalisations

Come on sista.... what else do these women (with nothing to offer) have to bring to the table but a warm coochie?!

G12:


Yes, the above was exactly how it happened.

The person in question was so selfish and egotistic.

She expects everything and gives/does nothing.

did she ask you for the relationship?

MrBrownJay1:


Come on sista.... what else do these women (with nothing to offer) have to bring to the table but a warm coochie?!

do you mean this table?

feminist thread

funmisticqueen2:
did she ask you for the relationship?

We were discussing relationship.

G12:


We were discussing relationship.

And you asked a woman what she us bringing, didn't you know what you were looking for?

What were you going to bring to the table?

funmisticqueen2:
because a relationship is potluck abi?

in relationship you are meant to share everything so I will say it is much more than that

Table indeed. It's not every girl they can ask that question.

niaralandtopuser:
in relationship you are meant to share everything so I will say it is much more than that

i disagree with your statement,do people in relationship share underwear?

ImaIma1:
Table indeed. It's not every girl they can ask that question.

exactly


my own is what exactly are they expecting as an answer?

MariaLavina:
Abeg ask them oooo. Person wey never feed himself finish go dey ask about table. Only on Nl.


I think the table is a figurative terminology to infer to Relationship. Like what do you bring to the relationship?

@Bold. I didn't know you have a sense of humor. Keep it up.