scondy:


See, you need to understand that people marry for different reasons....no one reason .....emphasis on "NO ONE' is right or wrong. Those decide to marry for money, those that decide to marry for love.....those that decide to marry for child bearing or those that even marry for status aare all within their rights to do so and should not be judged as right or wrong...

It is easy for u to label marrying for money as wrong but think about it ...what makes it wrong? critical thinking.....nothing makes it wrong...

@ the bolded.....show me 10 wealthy couples in abusive relationships and i will show u 50 poor couples also in abusive relationships....u know what makes their cases worse? hardship....

Madam,,,,,,to each his own....u ll only appreciate this school of thought some years from now

switlily25:

Mike and seyi are leaving tonight!
Deal with it!

safarigirl:


Let it be something that does not have life span, something that isn't fleeting.

When some people say "I want to be loved for who I am, not what I have"....they are coming from a deep place. Everybody will love you for something, it is normal, but let it be something that has real value, not something that can go and the person will leave you or barely tolerate you.

The world is filled with people who settled for less, life is too short for that.

XXMML33:


Lol. You want to be like me so bad.

Did you read the comment Mercymustwin replied Tetehjewels with?

I replied Tetehjewels.immediately he posted that comment with a picture of Tacha's butt. So why would I respond him again with an alternate.

I get that you are so obsessed with me. You've been auotimf me since yesterday, non-stop. But try to dial down your obsession. It's making you look stupid.

tollybb:
yes but not every time like your madam... She baths and frees herself before going to bed but ur madam will sleep wit painted face and even wig sef... Lol... I never see that kind low self esteem of someone before... Hmmmmmm

Zoroaster:
With seyi following closely

DOptical:


Apart from her stage melt down which was to draw people's attention and create a controversy (which she already acknowledged), she was provoked most of the time she had a melt down.

I could recall the time when she was shut down in a vile way cos she was contesting the fact that males were more abused than the females. That was the first week.

Also, Frodd provoked her and even said worse to her than what he said to Mercy before her reaction. So don't go there.

Ujay01:


The only person that can help you leave an abusive relationship is YOU. Rich or poor is inconsequential IMO.

@ bolded. Ok. There's no convincing each other. It seems like we both formed our opinions from what we have experienced/seen around us.

switlily25:

Mike and seyi are leaving tonight!
Deal with it!

P0c0p0c0:


Who determines "real value"?

What is real value to you?

Even the real value is relative. What you as a woman would rate highly, the next brother might not give 2fcks about it.

Where I have problem is with people berating another for not meeting their supposed standard. Just find your type and go.

Amya:


Are you kidding me right now? Stage meltdown made her do what? Okay this is completely ridiculous. She was provoked to boast? How are people provoked to brag? Hahaha quit embarrassing yourself in public please.

DrakeBlend:
How did you come up with the bolded?

Blackhawk04:
Forumites - marriage marriage marriage My sister and my cousins- marriage marriage marriage You people should jess kee me!

Chiefheywhy:



The way you confidently spew gibberish at times, amaze me a lot.

Probably you think every Nigerian lady is worthless, so because it's Mercy that said so. She is right.

Una no dey get wetin safarigirl dey talk, it is not bad if you want a guy with money, it must be a guy who is sensible. Not just anyhow guy because he has money.

4eyedlycan:


Well the world shifted from communalism, to slavery to feudalism and now capitalism... And everytime there was a drift from one epoch to another, economic power was reinforced and strength became valueless..
As the tides changed, surpluses began to emerge, the more influential people were no longer the physically imposing but those that had access to those surpluses..
Women having being a suppressed gender also needed to make adjustments on their own, as the men were stronger, they also found themselves at a disadvantage when economic power came into the picture. They were not allowed to own lands and partake in the making of major decisions. Consequently, they became economically disadvantage... So they naturally drifted from desiring the strongest male to desiring the richest male... Of course, with Economic power, came political power... The dynamics of power simply shifted from physical to Economic and Political.. That is what happened..

Geezeem:


You are really pushing it

MissCookie:
You leave me in awe of your school of thought most times. I wish I had someone like you close by, would really learn a great deal from you. Daalu so!

nadesh:
XXXML is back. My favorite person

safarigirl:


Let it be something that does not have life span, something that isn't fleeting.

When some people say "I want to be loved for who I am, not what I have"....they are coming from a deep place. Everybody will love you for something, it is normal, but let it be something that has real value, not something that can go and the person will leave you or barely tolerate you.

The world is filled with people who settled for less, life is too short for that.

DOptical:


Mercy never paint her face?

The hypocrites on the street like their fav.

nazablossom:
You know the true colour of a woman when there's no money and true colour of a man when there's money

Amya:


Mercy goes around without wig and makeup. The other madam even sleeps with wig and makeup on. Tueeeeh! I feel like puking my guts out just thinking about it! No wonder she smells.

nazablossom:
Free advice from a married woman. If you want to earn your respect from a man, make your own damn money. Nothing beats financial independence.It's as simple as that.

Good morning all and happy Sunday to you all!!

MissCookie:
You leave me in awe of your school of thought most times. I wish I had someone like you close by, would really learn a great deal from you. Daalu so!

DOptical:


Tacha didn't change any character. Her character is what you see now. The gentle sweet soul behind a confrontational facade.

What she did on her IG page was to chase clouts as a hustler by constantly creating controversy to get people talking thereby bringing in more crowd to see her products such as clothes, under wears and make ups. She created same controversy on the stage to get people talking.

Yes, she's confrontational when provoked but she's still a gentle sweet honest soul.

4eyedlycan:


The difference however, is that people who marry for money are more likely to tolerate abuse... You can just get up and leave if you know you have the wherewithal to cater for yourself if things go south....
People are also more likely to tolerate a cheating partner if they came for the money... A man who knows you are with him solely for his money would never respect you... He knows you have no options..
Even in those poor household, the husband is usually the breadwinner... Even women who marry men they are richer than abuse them...
In any human relationship, as long as dependency exists, abuse is invariably a variable...