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What Is MGTOW? Meet The ‘Men Going Their Own Way’ by prof2007: 6:07pm On Sep 15, 2019
Thousands of men are so fed up with women that they're cutting them out of their lives completely. These disgruntled dudes, united in their hatred of the opposite sex, are known as MGTOW (Men Going Their Own Way) - and there are tens of thousands of them from all over the world lurking in the loneliest corners of the internet.

Members of MGTOW (pronounced mig-tau) communicate almost entirely online. Sex is off the cards, relationships are banned, marriage is the ultimate no-no - and if you reach the top level of the MGTOW hierarchy you're expected to quit your job and move off-grid so you don't even have to look at women.

Ask these men why and they'll tell you it's because women can't be trusted, they're "manipulative" they'll "suck the joy out of your life" and "rinse you for every penny you have" in the process. Browse their men-only forums and you'll also read the argument that society has become stacked in women's favour - with unequal divorce settlements, higher male suicide rates and false rape accusations cited as proof that fellas are being screwed over.

Men going their own way, like MGTOW YouTuber Big John, say women are impossible to be with.

THE 5 LEVELS OF MGTOW
There is reportedly an unofficial hierarchy within MGTOW groups based on how committed men are to ejecting all women from their lives. It has been reported that members can achieve different levels within the MGTOW community based on how committed they are to abandoning women.

Level zero, at the bottom of the ladder, involves swallowing the "red pill" - terminology from sci-fi classic The Matrix which means understanding how things really are. As you work your way up through levels one, two and three, you gradually scale back contact with women until you reach level four: the extreme point when you up sticks and leave the matriarchy behind by moving to a cabin in the woods.

Level 0: Embrace the idea that gender equality is a lie and propoganda.
level 1: Reject all long-term relationships.
Level 2: Reject all short-term relationships and stop having sex.
Level 3: Only interact with wider society where you have to.
Level 4: Disengage completely from society.

MEN 'GOING MONK'
It all sounds like a bit of a joke, but 60,000 very serious men are subscribed to the anonymous MGTOW message board on Reddit, while thousands more belong to similar forums elsewhere on the web, including mgtow.com. Virginity is a common topic on the Reddit, and many say they have proudly chosen to never have sex - describing their devotion to celibacy as "going monk."

A deep fear of false rape accusations is one of the driving forces behind this, while other men are wary of women using sex as a way to get to their wallets. "I want to die a virgin," writes one unnamed poster, saying that the #MeToo movement has made sex too risky to be worthwhile. Many of the men who agree with the MGTOW movement, like YouTuber LFA, say giving up women will make you richer and happier

MEN ON REDDIT TALK ABOUT THEIR DESIRE TO DIE WITHOUT EVER SLEEPING WITH WOMEN
Sex is dangerous and addictive, according to some men on the Reddit. "Nothing wrong with not having sex," one man replies. "It's addicting and potentially dangerous."

"I would much rather be a virgin my whole life than be a slave," another agrees, but bizarrely others see no problem with paying for sex.

"Most prostitutes are honest women and most women are dishonest prostitutes," as one man puts it, and many more say a combination of prostitution and sex dolls has allowed them to end all other relationships with women.

MGTOW say the idea of detaching from all female relationships is age old. The philosophy has been thriving since the early Noughties, with a website, Facebook group and a popular Reddit page dedicated to discussing the MGTOW way.

It's not a movement in a conventional sense, bound by an official members list, but many that subscribe to its school of thought use the MGTOW logo. "There is no MGTOW movement," one unnamed forum user tells Sun Online. "There are individuals realising that the deck is stacked against those that choose to try to engage in traditional relationships, and are opting out."

Another explains: "We're just a bunch of men who've decided to live our lives alone peacefully without outside interference or validation."

YouTube videos about MGTOW include a clip by a man called The Enlightened Kiwi where he talks about marriage being a waste of time and resources.

'WOMEN ARE PROGRAMMED TO RUIN LIVES'
While the buzz around MGTOW mostly exists online, the movement has been known to occasionally creep into the real world. A smattering of men going their own way - including a man in a hazard-tape dress with MGTOW emblazoned on the front - were filmed at a feminist rally in Edmonton, Canada, a couple of years ago.

One man holding a sign saying "Feminism is a refuge for woman's sexual failure" told a reporter: "Men have decided to no longer participate in relationships with women as a result of the issues with family courts, false rape allegations and slander coming from feminists."

"...blah blah, woman's sexual failure, wah wah..." says Don Juan here, dressed fetchingly in his #mgtow Hefty trash bag and crime scene tape pic.twitter.com/0Zz8smq69V
— Ryan Adams �️�️‍� (@filmystic) September 23, 2017

YOUTUBER 'BIG JOHN' CLAIMS WOMEN ARE A 'NUISANCE' WHICH MEN DON'T NEED
Meanwhile, in a YouTube clip with 150,000 views, a man calling himself Big John explains over a glass of scotch why the MGTOW philosophy is proving so popular. "There is a concept that men need a woman," he says, swilling his whiskey. "But I find women to be a nuisance. I've tried to have them as girlfriends and they've been terrible. When you talk about getting a woman, are you willing to pay the price?"

A YouTuber called LFA says in a video with 35,000 views: "You are running backwards if you chase after a woman. Hopefully you're so focused on your money that you aren't even paying attention to women."

"Marriage is a waste of time, money, energy and resources," agrees a man called The Enlightened Kiwi, in another video with over 160,000 views.

And another MGTOW YouTuber, True Grit Productions, has racked up 50,000 views on a video about how terrible LA women are.

Elsewhere on the anonymous message boards, threads are dedicated to discussing how much they all hate "White Knights" - men who unquestioningly jump to women's defence in hope of hooking up with them. The only kinds of people they hate more (other than women, of course) are "manginas" - male feminists - and "Chads" - attractive jocks.

In other posts, MGTOW members share anecdotes about their messy divorces, post memes they've made or talk about cuting off female family members who disagreed with them. "Most mothers are terrible people," one post rages. "How can a sane person hang out with a woman? What a waste of life."

The MGTOW banner is broad, and has some overlap with online alt-right communities in their rejection of feminism and gender equality. But while you'd think that MGTOW and Men's Rights Activists (MRAs) would have a lot in common, the two groups frequently clash online. They both despise feminism, but where MRAs want to change the law to get rid of the perceived imbalance against men, MGTOW want to remove themselves from society entirely.

MGTOW are also distinctly different from "Incels" (involuntary celibates) - the group which the Toronto van attacker belonged to. Both groups revolve around celibacy, but this is supposedly a conscious choice for MGTOW, while Incels want to have sex.
'Thanks to MGTOW, I can live in peace'

The MGTOW school of thought is fairly new, having sprung up online in the 2000s when two men calling themselves Solaris and Ragnar published a MGTOW manifesto claiming that feminism is anti-men and that men should escape from it. However, the idea of men packing it all in to abandon womankind is as old as the hills, with the MGTOW website claiming that Jesus Christ himself was one of the first men to go his own way.

MEN WHO GO THEIR OWN WAY SAY THEY ARE MAKING A RATIONAL CHOICE TO ESCAPE THE ILLS OF WOMANKIND.
On the MGTOW website, men share testimonies about how much their lives have improved since cutting out women. One reads: "Thank you MGTOW for teaching me young and preventing me from the lies women and marriage bring. I can now live in peace."

"Was engaged for a year and just blew it off," another man writes. "Screw that death sentence!"

You can't help but imagine that the women who used to be in their lives might be that much better off as well.

SOURCE (abridged): https://www.thesun.co.uk/news/6462838/mgtow-community-men-hate-women/

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Re: What Is MGTOW? Meet The ‘Men Going Their Own Way’ by bukatyne(f): 6:12pm On Sep 15, 2019
Interesting.

I was scanning to find they are staying off sex and I can see that.

So I can take them serious.

That said, 70k men pulling out of society might seem small, constant addition over the years would spell doom for the women in that society interested in heterosexual marriages.

Such women would also have to lower their standards else a lot of them would be single or settle for men already in relationships.

This would also herald the official state of babymamaism. Now, we still have baby mamas of A marrying B. Then it would be baby mamas staying as baby mamas.

It is really going to be a bleak situation and I believe, another movement especially for the women (anti-feminism? Red pill girls? Religious movement?) would act as a balance so that more men would be pulled back into the society.

A society where men decide to pull out would fail and breed unnatural mating laws. Also think of lower birth rates, poor role models for the male child, gender selection favoring the male child at conception, rise of homosexuality, transgender etc.

It is a grim picture.

Hopefully, both genders would go back to the drawing board before it fails at the center.

And this is peculiar to the West for now. Nigerians have a different problem.

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Re: What Is MGTOW? Meet The ‘Men Going Their Own Way’ by prof2007: 6:28pm On Sep 15, 2019
Another MGTOW meme...

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Re: What Is MGTOW? Meet The ‘Men Going Their Own Way’ by prof2007: 6:37pm On Sep 15, 2019
MGTOW Decision Matrix:

1. Get married
2. Don't get married
VS
A. Not all women are evil
B. All women are evil

See the matrix attached...

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Re: What Is MGTOW? Meet The ‘Men Going Their Own Way’ by bukatyne(f): 6:42pm On Sep 15, 2019
prof2007:
Another MGTOW meme...

Well wives can say they are not their cooks, care takers, maids and baby machines.

This is in addition to been expected to foot some bills.
Re: What Is MGTOW? Meet The ‘Men Going Their Own Way’ by bukatyne(f): 6:43pm On Sep 15, 2019
prof2007:
MGTOW Decision Matrix:

1. Get married
2. Don't get married
VS
A. Not all women are evil
B. All women are evil

See the matrix attached...

Hope these MGTOW realize it is almost same for women?

Just take out alimony for women earning less and replace with abuse (physical, verbal, financial and emotional).

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Re: What Is MGTOW? Meet The ‘Men Going Their Own Way’ by desvi: 6:48pm On Sep 15, 2019
more than 7 billion people in the world and they can't get one good woman? check yourselves wink

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Re: What Is MGTOW? Meet The ‘Men Going Their Own Way’ by prof2007: 7:20pm On Sep 15, 2019
Sample from an American message board.

Woman preparing for her wedding seeks advice on how to get her fiance to do her bidding. Nicely illustrates part of the reason some men are "going their own way"....

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Re: What Is MGTOW? Meet The ‘Men Going Their Own Way’ by bukatyne(f): 7:20pm On Sep 15, 2019
Re: What Is MGTOW? Meet The ‘Men Going Their Own Way’ by bukatyne(f): 7:24pm On Sep 15, 2019
prof2007:
Sample from an American message board.

Woman preparing for her wedding seeks advice on how to get her fiance to do her bidding. Nicely illustrates part of the reason some men are "going their own way"....



I wonder why they are getting married


No simple synergy.

She quit her job and expects the guy to pick up the slack because of the wedding plans.

1. Did she discuss with him?
2. Did he express his disagreement and make it clear he would not pick the slack?
3. If they do not have so much, is it not wise to reduce the spend of the wedding?
4. The wife says her dream wedding... Has she found out the guy's dream wedding?
5. What would their lives be like after marriage financially?

Too many questions.

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Re: What Is MGTOW? Meet The ‘Men Going Their Own Way’ by baby124: 7:59pm On Sep 15, 2019
Indeed!!! The ones that like sex too will be shouting MGTOW, until they see a girl twerking and they GTOW! Mtschew! Keep deceiving yourselves with other deceptive entities in your group who cannot go one week without sex. They chop, clean mouth and then come and shout your national anthem! We know una grin. It’s your type that will be crying to just put the tip cheesy wink

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Re: What Is MGTOW? Meet The ‘Men Going Their Own Way’ by Nobody: 8:05pm On Sep 15, 2019
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Re: What Is MGTOW? Meet The ‘Men Going Their Own Way’ by genq(m): 8:06pm On Sep 15, 2019
baby124:
Indeed!!! The ones that like sex too will be shouting MGTOW, until they see a girl twerking and they GTOW! Mtschew! Keep deceiving yourselves with other deceptive entities in your group who cannot go one week without sex. They chop, clean mouth and then come and shout your national anthem! We know una grin. It’s your type that will be crying to just put the tip cheesy wink



Yes! Most of us love sex. Ain't no shame in that grin

So no! Not all MGTOW brothers have sworn off sex.

MGTOW for me means that I have sworn off commitment, marriage and catering for womens needs. I accept feminism in it's fullest and refuse to play the role of a traditional man to a non-traditional women.

So yes, I 'pump & dump', 'hit & quit' - whatever you wanna call it.

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Re: What Is MGTOW? Meet The ‘Men Going Their Own Way’ by bukatyne(f): 8:09pm On Sep 15, 2019
baby124:
Indeed!!! The ones that like sex too will be shouting MGTOW, until they see a girl twerking and they GTOW! Mtschew! Keep deceiving yourselves with other deceptive entities in your group who cannot go one week without sex. They chop, clean mouth and then come and shout your national anthem! We know una grin. It’s your type that will be crying to just put the tip cheesy wink

Linda Ikeji and the celibacy ish comes to mind.

While I do not mind labels aka feminist etc., I Never EVER do associations aka become a card carrying feminist etc.

I have since found out that the heart of humans is freaking deep and the head of MGTOW might be married with fifty kids.

Everyone should just do what genuinely works for them.

There is a red pill author (Rollo Tomassi) who once said all his teachings are theories i.e. doesn't necessarily practice all.

To be honest, how can a real red piller have a wife and kid like Rollo Tomassi?

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Re: What Is MGTOW? Meet The ‘Men Going Their Own Way’ by bukatyne(f): 8:11pm On Sep 15, 2019
genq:




Yes! Most of us love sex. Ain't no shame in that grin

And No! Not all MGTOW brothers have sworn off sex.

MGTOW for me means that I have sworn off commitment, marriage and catering for womens needs. I accept feminism in it's fullest and refuse to play the role of a traditional man to a non-traditional women.

So yes, I 'pump & dump', 'hit & quit' - whatever you wanna call it.

You are not going your way na.

You are just staying off the responsibility of marriage and fatherhood.

I am however curious: On what moral ground do you stand to judge a 'non-traditional' woman when you are non-traditional yourself?

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Re: What Is MGTOW? Meet The ‘Men Going Their Own Way’ by Jman06(m): 8:20pm On Sep 15, 2019
Wise men!

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Re: What Is MGTOW? Meet The ‘Men Going Their Own Way’ by sisisioge: 8:21pm On Sep 15, 2019
grin grin grin grin grin

Life is just full of varieties. Feminism, LGBTS(hope I got that), MGTOW, etc...funny!

Because I'm so open minded and strongly believe in living and letting others live, everyone is allowed their right to freedom of association without being judged. No problem...go on, enjoy your new found cause. We will all be alright last last.

As for me, I'm a full blown traditional woman. Even if I make millions per minute, I still expect my man ( emphasis my*) to take care of me. Now, this is me exercising my freedom of association/will. If me and him jive...very good for us. As for una...enjoy fa wink

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Re: What Is MGTOW? Meet The ‘Men Going Their Own Way’ by genq(m): 8:26pm On Sep 15, 2019
bukatyne:


You are not going your way na.

You are just staying off the responsibility of marriage and fatherhood.

I am however curious: On what moral ground do you stand to judge a 'non-traditional' woman when you are non-traditional yourself?

Bukatyne, you've seen many of my comments on this forum so I need not to repeat myself.
I choose to be non-traditional for OBVIOUS reasons.

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Re: What Is MGTOW? Meet The ‘Men Going Their Own Way’ by ednut1(m): 8:34pm On Sep 15, 2019
sisisioge:
grin grin grin grin grin

Life is just full of varieties. Feminism, LGBTS(hope I got that), MGTOW, etc...funny!

Because I'm so open minded and strongly believe in living and letting others live, everyone is allowed their right to freedom of association without being judged. No problem...go on, enjoy your new found cause. We will all be alright last last.

As for me, I'm a full blown traditional woman. Even if I make millions per minute, I still expect my man ( emphasis my*) to take care of me. Now, this is me exercising my freedom of association/will. If me and him jive...very good for us. As for una...enjoy fa wink
so you cant use the money to take care of the man too The traditional woman did not work. So as u dey work you are no more a traditional woman

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Re: What Is MGTOW? Meet The ‘Men Going Their Own Way’ by sisisioge: 8:45pm On Sep 15, 2019
ednut1:
so you cant use the money to take care of the man too The traditional woman did not work. So as u dey work you are no more a traditional woman

Nah...don't get me wrong. I am a gift buyer...I'm a contributor...I'm a team player...I am a delightful cook...I even don't mind spending a lot of money on a piece of lingerie just to jazz things up in the bedroom. All of these would amount to spending both directly and indirectly on him. However, I expect him to take care of me the way husbands are required to take care of their wives. It is not complicated...that's why we all take our time to search out a person that significantly shares our sentiments/ideologies about life.

For example, why would I want to keep my papa's name as a married woman even if its to stay in the middle? As I follow him totally, I totally become his responsibility. That's my own association. Other members of different associations are very welcome to enjoy their chosen system...no judgement. By the way, I'm educated o...no come dey call me illiterate grin

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Re: What Is MGTOW? Meet The ‘Men Going Their Own Way’ by kunleweb: 8:47pm On Sep 15, 2019
baby124:
Indeed!!! The ones that like sex too will be shouting MGTOW, until they see a girl twerking and they GTOW! Mtschew! Keep deceiving yourselves with other deceptive entities in your group who cannot go one week without sex. They chop, clean mouth and then come and shout your national anthem! We know una grin. It’s your type that will be crying to just put the tip cheesy wink


You finish work. Duffs the hat

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Re: What Is MGTOW? Meet The ‘Men Going Their Own Way’ by baby124: 8:56pm On Sep 15, 2019
genq:




Yes! Most of us love sex. Ain't no shame in that grin

And No! Not all MGTOW brothers have sworn off sex.

MGTOW for me means that I have sworn off commitment, marriage and catering for womens needs. I accept feminism in it's fullest and refuse to play the role of a traditional man to a non-traditional women.

So yes, I 'pump & dump', 'hit & quit' - whatever you wanna call it.
Yea right. You people that like to form hard guy are the most sensitive and loving. It takes a wicked babe to tame you. And you will wag your tails and carry her handbag. Then still come online and be shouting MGTOW, while cleaning nappies and acting as fake breast feeder to the kids she has for you.

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Re: What Is MGTOW? Meet The ‘Men Going Their Own Way’ by baby124: 9:04pm On Sep 15, 2019
bukatyne:


Linda Ikeji and the celibacy ish comes to mind.

While I do not mind labels aka feminist etc., I Never EVER do associations aka become a card carrying feminist etc.

I have since found out that the heart of humans is freaking deep and the head of MGTOW might be married with fifty kids.

Everyone should just do what genuinely works for them.

There is a red pill author (Rollo Tomassi) who once said all his teachings are theories i.e. doesn't necessarily practice all.

To be honest, how can a real red piller have a wife and kid like Rollo Tomassi?

Anyone that follows a hard liner is in for a nasty surprise. This life is never what it seems. Hardliners probably resent who they are behind closed doors. They are exactly the opposite of what they preach to be. You see those ones that are flexible, they are more dependable.

I am a feminist but you have to understand what feminism means. It simply means equal opportunity for a woman to attain the same heights with a male colleague with the same qualifications. It also means supporting and protecting causes that preserve a woman’s right to live decently, vote and make her voice heard. As a human, these are fundamental things that make us who we are. So, it’s really not that terrible a request. But there are the hardliners who take it too far with unreasonable expectations. If you check them well they are liars, hypocrites and frustrated people.

If anyone is too passionate about a cause to where it begins to affect my regular enjoyment, I just quietly run away. I can’t shout. Too much enjoyment in this short life to be following one hypocrite who I don’t know what they do in the dark grin wink.

As for the Red Pillers, I don’t know much about them. I stopped reading the tenets of cults a long time ago. They are the same and don’t add any value whatsoever. Only supported by lunatics. cheesy

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Re: What Is MGTOW? Meet The ‘Men Going Their Own Way’ by genq(m): 9:50pm On Sep 15, 2019
baby124:

Yea right. You people that like to form hard guy are the most sensitive and loving. It takes a wicked babe to tame you. And you will wag your tails and carry her handbag. Then still come online and be shouting MGTOW, while cleaning nappies and acting as fake breast feeder to the kids she has for you.

There's nothing 'hard' about me dear. Well - except that stubborn lil man down there who gets 'hard' at the sight of a tall, slim dark skin beauty. cheesy

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Re: What Is MGTOW? Meet The ‘Men Going Their Own Way’ by genq(m): 10:01pm On Sep 15, 2019
Let me use this opportunity to suggest to any broda looking for good MGTOW or red-pill content - check out YouTube channels like:
- Darius M
- Sandman
- Jaye de Black
- CoachGregAdams
- Donovan Sharpe
You won't be disappointed.

Edit:
The amount of women losing their minds on this thread is all the evidence you need fellas. So go ahead, take a red-pill. You'll wish you did so a long time ago.

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Re: What Is MGTOW? Meet The ‘Men Going Their Own Way’ by Smile4mee01: 11:58pm On Sep 15, 2019
I have been flowing the MGTOW people for sometime now. Even though I dont agree to all of what they preach, I can relate especially if you are a man in the West.

All the laws are skewed to favor women with the men having little or no rights. It's time put themselves first, sign pre nups, if you must marry.

I dont see why I should risk my financial future because I am married to woman.

The society will suffer.... I see this trend growing...many teen boys are waking up to the fact that a woman can ruin you, so why risk it. The part I admire most is the part that emphasizes the need for men to better themselves , improve and encourage themselves. And be examples to thier sons....

A few corporations in the USA have an unwritten law to employ less females.... because of the metoo# movement. Yet they will ask for equal pay despite not deserving of it.

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Re: What Is MGTOW? Meet The ‘Men Going Their Own Way’ by cooooooks(m): 5:01am On Sep 16, 2019
MGTOW was primarily a response to divorce wars and courts in America.

There've been instances where:
- a lady unilaterally decides to give her baby up for adoption and the father can NOT apply to adopt.
- a woman gives birth to another man's baby but because she wrote your name on the certificate, you HAVE to provide
- A mentally unstable woman is given custody over her much more responsible husband, sometimes leading to the death of the kids
- Alimony
- The fact that there are ZERO men's shelters in the USA (there is now one in Toronto, Canada)
- The fact that if your wife or gf is physically assaulting you, you will be arrested "for her protection".

These were the initial reasons for MGTOW.

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Re: What Is MGTOW? Meet The ‘Men Going Their Own Way’ by baby124: 9:23am On Sep 16, 2019
cooooooks:
MGTOW was primarily a response to divorce wars and courts in America.

There've been instances where:
- a lady unilaterally decides to give her baby up for adoption and the father can NOT apply to adopt.
- a woman gives birth to another man's baby but because she wrote your name on the certificate, you HAVE to provide
- A mentally unstable woman is given custody over her much more responsible husband, sometimes leading to the death of the kids
- Alimony
- The fact that there are ZERO men's shelters in the USA (there is now one in Toronto, Canada)
- The fact that if your wife or gf is physically assaulting you, you will be arrested "for her protection".

These were the initial reasons for MGTOW.
Lmao! So MGTOW is now an interest group to battle these issues? Or a psychopath convinced you to be anti-social at the detriment of your health and family life? You are obviously a follower and lack the ability to be a man. Maybe you lack a good father figure. Sounds like what weak men are made of.

“Take away my toy and I will never play with anyone in the world again... yen yen yen.” You just don’t know how ridiculous this sounds till you hit 40-45. If someone hurt you, maturity is moving on. Not carrying hurt and getting stuck in one place, carrying the hurt till you die. That’s just a lot of burden and really a sad life to live.

Feminists are not even this bitter grin. They get up and do something about their issues. Now, that is intelligence not this self mutilating exercise. If your leader was as revolutionary as you thought, you will realize that most laws that involve a child are done in the child’s best interest. Not the woman’s.

No one gets arrested in America and charged on false claims for man or woman. Man or woman, if you assault anyone, you get arrested! Your leader of doom lied to you. In fact if they find out the woman lied on her man about an assault, she will be arrested and charged! Men also get alimony, child custody and child support!!!

All the laws were created by men! Because women fight for rights and are getting rights, misogynists and psychopaths have convinced you to give up on life and raising a healthy family as a solution. People that follow this need to see therapist to check if they need to be committed in a psychiatric facility.

Or maybe it’s a bunch of gay guys looking for partners and convincing other unapproachable guys to join the club until they find love with each other wink. If so, good for you!

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Re: What Is MGTOW? Meet The ‘Men Going Their Own Way’ by baby124: 9:55am On Sep 16, 2019
See what your fellow members look like! That guy will not get a second look from hot babes. I understand his frustration!!! I will even protest for him because he obviously missed out on a lot of genetic abilities, so women will never even date him.
On a normal day, will you even be friends with this guy as a man? But believe it or not, these are the people setting up the doctrines for your new and revolutionary group grin. The internet is truly an amazing thing!

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Re: What Is MGTOW? Meet The ‘Men Going Their Own Way’ by baby124: 10:33am On Sep 16, 2019
genq:
Let me use this opportunity to suggest to any broda looking for good MGTOW or red-pill content - check out YouTube channels like:
- Darius M
- CoachGregAdams
- Donovan Sharpe
You won't be disappointed.
I just looked at these guys pics and they are men that have obviously had their fair struggle with women. I LMFAO that anyone will actually look up to them.

Darius M has obviously been through a lot of rejection, he doesn’t even look like friend zone material.

Donovan Sharpe was once obese and must have suffered a high level of rejection, his new body is not even attractive and he looks like someone who has been in and out of jail.

Greg Adams looks like the type that can’t get or keep a job. grin

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Re: What Is MGTOW? Meet The ‘Men Going Their Own Way’ by cooooooks(m): 11:29am On Sep 16, 2019
While I am not MGTOW, I understand why some men are, especially in North America, not really in Nigeria yet, choose to go that way. Personally, I think a strong minority of men do not have self-respect and put themselves in the situations that led them to eventually consider MGTOW:
- marrying anybody
- feeling undeserving of love, etc.
- sustaining prostitution (some idiots even pay thousands of dollars for some girl to Bleep them with a strapon).
So, for the male race, I think some men SHOULD MGTOW until they respect themselves again.

As far as I know, MGTOW is not tied to Men's or Dad Rights groups. Moreover, these Dad rights groups are populated with women.

The alimony laws were created for women but were written in neutral language. The consequence is that it is equal. Many women's groups are now complaining because, divorced husbands/long term boyfriends, are now claiming alimony successfully.

The "patriarchy" assumed that women are "naturally" the better parent in the event of a split and so the child custody laws were not written in neutral language. They were written for women to be considered first in custody battles. Feminist groups used to challenge this perception when the laws were written and first took effect. However, a few jurisdictions consider everything and look at all factors, not just the possession of XX chromosomes.

So I don't know where your fake anger is coming from.

baby124:

Lmao! So MGTOW is now an interest group to battle these issues? Or a psychopath convinced you to be anti-social at the detriment of your health and family life? You are obviously a follower and lack the ability to be a man. Maybe you lack a good father figure. Sounds like what weak men are made of.

“Take away my toy and I will never play with anyone in the world again... yen yen yen.” You just don’t know how ridiculous this sounds till you hit 40-45. If someone hurt you, maturity is moving on. Not carrying hurt and getting stuck in one place, carrying the hurt till you die. That’s just a lot of burden and really a sad life to live.

Feminists are not even this bitter grin. They get up and do something about their issues. Now, that is intelligence not this self mutilating exercise. If your leader was as revolutionary as you thought, you will realize that most laws that involve a child are done in the child’s best interest. Not the woman’s.

No one gets arrested in America and charged on false claims for man or woman. Man or woman, if you assault anyone, you get arrested! Your leader of doom lied to you. In fact if they find out the woman lied on her man about an assault, she will be arrested and charged! Men also get alimony, child custody and child support!!!

All the laws were created by men! Because women fight for rights and are getting rights, misogynists and psychopaths have convinced you to give up on life and raising a healthy family as a solution. People that follow this need to see therapist to check if they need to be committed in a psychiatric facility.

Or maybe it’s a bunch of gay guys looking for partners and convincing other unapproachable guys to join the club until they find love with each other wink. If so, good for you!

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Re: What Is MGTOW? Meet The ‘Men Going Their Own Way’ by baby124: 11:40am On Sep 16, 2019
cooooooks:
While I am not MGTOW, I understand why some men are, especially in North America, not really in Nigeria yet, choose to go that way. Personally, I think a strong minority of men do not have self-respect and put themselves in the situations that led them to eventually consider MGTOW:
- marrying anybody
- feeling undeserving of love, etc.
- sustaining prostitution (some idiots even pay thousands of dollars for some girl to Bleep them with a strapon).
So, for the male race, I think some men SHOULD MGTOW until they respect themselves again.

As far as I know, MGTOW is not tied to Men's or Dad Rights groups. Moreover, these Dad rights groups are populated with women.

The alimony laws were created for women but were written in neutral language. The consequence is that it is equal. Many women's groups are now complaining because, divorced husbands/long term boyfriends, are now claiming alimony successfully.

The "patriarchy" assumed that women are "naturally" the better parent in the event of a split and so the child custody laws were not written in neutral language. They were written for women to be considered first in custody battles. Feminist groups used to challenge this perception when the laws were written and first took effect. However, a few jurisdictions consider everything and look at all factors, not just the possession of XX chromosomes.

So I don't know where your fake anger is coming from.

Angry? Honey I am not angry! MGTOW is just hilarious and I can see through the hypocrisy. A sane person will see through it all. It’s a means for men who lost the genetic lottery to vent. It’s not solving any real issues or even helping with their development as a human being. Most men will never even see it as an option because it’s not practical. It’s childish at best!

As for child rights, even in the animal kingdom, children stay with their mother’s until they are able to go out on their own. Exception is when the mother abandons them or is incapable of nurturing them because she is not mentally fit. Nature made it that way, just as a woman can’t impregnate herself. This is why mother’s are given priority.

I am sure you don’t even realize the awesome needs of children and, how most men can’t even cope with being with them 24hrs. Until you have a child, you will truly understand. Most men who want custody of little kids do so out of spite, not that they can actually provide adequate care and attention.

If your response to your emotional failings as a man is to isolate yourself and have frivolous relationships till you die. Good for you. Body go tell you soon wink

As for the strap on comment!!! LMFAO! Looks like your MGTOW group is made up of a lot of those.

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