blackjack21:
I will be as simple as possible.

So me and this girl is dating and she needs a job. She's stylishly asking me to help get her a job where I work, the asking is starting to turn into nagging.
I admire and respect that she wants to work and earn, that's one thing I'll always love in any woman. But the idea of working is the Same company as me is just not comfortable with me, because, I don't date colleagues.
It's one rule I cannot scrap in my life.
No office Romance.

The trick here is I've already said 'Yes' because I thought she was joking, now it turns out she's serious, I. Don't like being pushed into a corner.

What to-do?

pocohantas:
Why would she even nurse the idea of working in the same organisation with you?

Biko send her the link to Nairaland-Job & Vacancies, Ngcareers, jobberman, LinkedIn...etc

Ishilove:

That's why I suggested he be creative. I don't even see how this is an issue.

Ishilove:

The OP is a pussy. No offence intended.

Everything thing dem go rush bring am online.

blackjack21:
I will be as simple as possible.

So me and this girl is dating and she needs a job. She's stylishly asking me to help get her a job where I work, the asking is starting to turn into nagging.
I admire and respect that she wants to work and earn, that's one thing I'll always love in any woman. But the idea of working is the Same company as me is just not comfortable with me, because, I don't date colleagues.
It's one rule I cannot scrap in my life.
No office Romance.

The trick here is I've already said 'Yes' because I thought she was joking, now it turns out she's serious, I. Don't like being pushed into a corner.

What to-do?

pocohantas:


Biko, pussy is strong- german engineering. E no easy to withstand vigorous knacking and bottom plate never fall. OP na prick, can't make up his mind to be soft of hard

Bonatheripper:
You're not man enough if you can't tell her straight up your policies.
What if she starts working in your office and dumps u and start dating your boss?
What if the sole purpose of her dating u was so u could get a job for her?
If you see her everyday you'll easily get tired of her... Likewise her.
You wouldn't like it when the males in your office start making advances or flirting with her.
Your relationship won't even last self if u both start working together

pocohantas:


Biko, pussy is strong- german engineering. E no easy to withstand vigorous knacking and bottom plate never fall. OP na prick, can't make up his mind to be soft of hard

condemn:


Best post. Op, make you take this post when I quote seriously oh. Do not lift a woman up. They are all ingrates.

blackjack21:
I will be as simple as possible.

So me and this girl is dating and she needs a job. She's stylishly asking me to help get her a job where I work, the asking is starting to turn into nagging.
I admire and respect that she wants to work and earn, that's one thing I'll always love in any woman. But the idea of working is the Same company as me is just not comfortable with me, because, I don't date colleagues.
It's one rule I cannot scrap in my life.
No office Romance.

The trick here is I've already said 'Yes' because I thought she was joking, now it turns out she's serious, I. Don't like being pushed into a corner.

What to-do?

pocohantas:


Biko, pussy is strong- german engineering. E no easy to withstand vigorous knacking and bottom plate never fall. OP na prick, can't make up his mind to be soft of hard

Bonatheripper:
You're not man enough if you can't tell her straight up your policies.
What if she starts working in your office and dumps u and start dating your boss?
What if the sole purpose of her dating u was so u could get a job for her?
If you see her everyday you'll easily get tired of her... Likewise her.
You wouldn't like it when the males in your office start making advances or flirting with her.
Your relationship won't even last self if u both start working together

sweetonugbu:
If I call the op asshole will I be banned?.

Funmmyastic:




Wow,very good observation,what's the purpose of the relationship if they can't help eachother?Las las relationships are for fools.

AwkaetitiBabe:
A lady wanna work and earn, it's a problem. I'm sure she feels he can easily connect her to a job there.
So married peeps get tired of each other as they see themselves everyday?

J111333:
Oga if you have the ability to help her get a job at your work place, do it without considering she's your girlfriend. What dafuq has girlfriendism got to do with a lady's future here?
All you care about is your silly relationship but what I see is a lady who wants to be useful to herself. Don't be selfish.

condemn:


Best post. Op, make you take this post when I quote seriously oh. Do not lift a woman up. They are all ingrates.

Larryfest:
Guy get her the job if you can abeg and if along the line she misbehaves to you while on the job just move on with your life,you are just scared she might change towards you later but then don't forget about karma she will surely get if she does..