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My Girlfriend Is Asking For Something That's Against My Rules. by blackjack21(m): 12:22am On Sep 16, 2019 |
I will be as simple as possible. So me and this girl is dating and she needs a job. She's stylishly asking me to help get her a job where I work, the asking is starting to turn into nagging. I admire and respect that she wants to work and earn, that's one thing I'll always love in any woman. But the idea of working is the Same company as me is just not comfortable with me, because, I don't date colleagues. It's one rule I cannot scrap in my life. No office Romance. The trick here is I've already said 'Yes' because I thought she was joking, now it turns out she's serious, I. Don't like being pushed into a corner. What to-do? 47 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Something That's Against My Rules. by Ishilove: 1:34am On Sep 16, 2019 |
blackjack21:Don't start what you can't finish. Tell her there is no vacancy, or the available slots have been given out. You're a grown ass adult. Be creative. 734 Likes 52 Shares |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Something That's Against My Rules. by pocohantas(f): 1:46am On Sep 16, 2019 |
Why would she even nurse the idea of working in the same organisation with you? Biko send her the link to Nairaland-Job & Vacancies, Ngcareers, jobberman, LinkedIn...etc 231 Likes 11 Shares |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Something That's Against My Rules. by Ishilove: 1:49am On Sep 16, 2019 |
pocohantas:That's why I suggested he be creative. I don't even see how this is an issue. 157 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Something That's Against My Rules. by pocohantas(f): 1:53am On Sep 16, 2019 |
Ishilove: This isn't a problem. Maybe OP dey fear the girl, because I no just understand. 38 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Something That's Against My Rules. by Nobody: 1:57am On Sep 16, 2019 |
You're not man enough if you can't tell her straight up your policies. What if she starts working in your office and dumps u and start dating your boss? What if the sole purpose of her dating u was so u could get a job for her? If you see her everyday you'll easily get tired of her... Likewise her. You wouldn't like it when the males in your office start making advances or flirting with her. Your relationship won't even last self if u both start working together 246 Likes 13 Shares |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Something That's Against My Rules. by horlarwereleh(m): 1:58am On Sep 16, 2019 |
![]() Are u familiar with the term; "USE&DUMP" ![]() 21 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Something That's Against My Rules. by pocohantas(f): 2:04am On Sep 16, 2019 |
Ishilove: Biko, pussy is strong- German engineering. E no easy to withstand vigorous knacking, yet bottom plate never fall. OP na prick, can't make up his mind to be soft or hard ![]() 259 Likes 16 Shares |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Something That's Against My Rules. by Nobody: 2:10am On Sep 16, 2019 |
Your No should be NO! 4 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Something That's Against My Rules. by deafeyez: 2:23am On Sep 16, 2019 |
The OP sef tire me o Common no vacancy now u no fit talk. Which one you fit talk sef. 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Something That's Against My Rules. by Nobody: 2:38am On Sep 16, 2019 |
Oga if you have the ability to help her get a job at your work place, do it without considering she's your girlfriend. What dafuq has girlfriendism got to do with a lady's future here? ![]() All you care about is your silly relationship but what I see is a lady who wants to be useful to herself. Don't be selfish. ![]() 83 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Something That's Against My Rules. by sweetonugbu: 2:41am On Sep 16, 2019 |
If I call the op asshole will I be banned?. 22 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Something That's Against My Rules. by BarrElChapo(m): 3:22am On Sep 16, 2019 |
was about typing company policy when I realized you guys aren't married yet lol.. ![]() 13 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Something That's Against My Rules. by khiaa(f): 3:32am On Sep 16, 2019 |
blackjack21:Tell her what you just told us. 45 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Something That's Against My Rules. by Kaycee7(m): 5:23am On Sep 16, 2019 |
pocohantas: 58 Likes 2 Shares
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Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Something That's Against My Rules. by Katier00(f): 5:58am On Sep 16, 2019 |
Please help her get a job if you can. If you truly love her you won't want to see her waste around while you could help. You can maintain a good working relationship at work and do your love things outside your work place. Reverse the case I know she will do that for you 20 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Something That's Against My Rules. by Nobody: 6:15am On Sep 16, 2019 |
Bonatheripper: Best post. Op, make you take this post when I quote seriously oh. Do not lift a woman up. They are all ingrates. 21 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Something That's Against My Rules. by ednut1(m): 6:31am On Sep 16, 2019 |
pocohantas:awusubilahi ![]() 11 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Something That's Against My Rules. by Funmmyastic: 6:35am On Sep 16, 2019 |
condemn: Wow,very good observation,what's the purpose of the relationship if they can't help eachother?Las las relationships are for fools. 5 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Something That's Against My Rules. by Gadafii: 6:40am On Sep 16, 2019 |
Tell her exactly what u told us naa Be mo e brief sef ![]() 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Something That's Against My Rules. by Martinez39(m): 6:57am On Sep 16, 2019 |
Is it hard to tell her "there is no vacancy in my company" ? You are just a weak man. 16 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Something That's Against My Rules. by pharrell8(m): 7:34am On Sep 16, 2019 |
blackjack21:Tell her there's no vacancy 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Something That's Against My Rules. by galadima77(m): 7:37am On Sep 16, 2019 |
pocohantas: You no well fa 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Something That's Against My Rules. by Nobody: 7:40am On Sep 16, 2019 |
Bonatheripper:A lady wanna work and earn, it's a problem. I'm sure she feels he can easily connect her to a job there. So married peeps get tired of each other as they see themselves everyday? 25 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Something That's Against My Rules. by Larryfest(m): 7:43am On Sep 16, 2019 |
Guy get her the job if you can abeg and if along the line she misbehaves to you while on the job just move on with your life,you are just scared she might change towards you later but then don't forget about karma she will surely get if she does.. 12 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Something That's Against My Rules. by Nobody: 8:29am On Sep 16, 2019 |
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Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Something That's Against My Rules. by Nobody: 8:35am On Sep 16, 2019 |
Funmmyastic:... But he's not her daddy, why the fuucck should he giv a shit abt if she's working or not ..just like you can't get a guy a common table because you're not his mum I hope it sounds fair to you now 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Something That's Against My Rules. by Fountainofyouth(f): 8:51am On Sep 16, 2019 |
AwkaetitiBabe: Good question, wicked people dey here sha. 7 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Something That's Against My Rules. by PrimadonnaO(f): 9:10am On Sep 16, 2019 |
J111333: God bless you. The thinking is shallow in my opinion. Just because you don't want to work in the same company as your girlfriend, you'll leave her stagnated when you're in a position to help? If getting a job is a piece of cake, very well then, get her in... then get yourself a job in another organisation @OP. Y'all can be professional at work. You may not even work in the same department. Later on, either of you can move on to another organization. Stop being a clog in the wheel. Help if you can. 9 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Something That's Against My Rules. by PrimadonnaO(f): 9:14am On Sep 16, 2019 |
condemn: Are you such a vile human being? Your post reeks so much of insecurity! So many selfish, thoughtless, inhumane persons. ![]() 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Something That's Against My Rules. by PrimadonnaO(f): 9:15am On Sep 16, 2019 |
Larryfest: Simple! 4 Likes 1 Share |
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