biGDhAp:
... But he's not her daddy, why the fuucck should he giv a shit abt if she's working or not



..just like you can't get a guy a common table because you're not his mum



I hope it sounds fair to you now

Hey,you can state your facts without directing it at me okay.And I'm not into any amorous relationship.Just observing.

Funmmyastic:




Hey,you can state your facts without directing it at me okay.And I'm not into any amorous relationship.Just observing.

.. I'm only using your words against you

Guy beware monitoring spirit chasing you about

Your village people send her to tarnish your image


If your GM knows you are both dating you will be sacked while she will stay


Then your village people will be happy they got you


So Mr Man used your head

blackjack21:
I will be as simple as possible.

So me and this girl is dating and she needs a job. She's stylishly asking me to help get her a job where I work, the asking is starting to turn into nagging.
I admire and respect that she wants to work and earn, that's one thing I'll always love in any woman. But the idea of working is the Same company as me is just not comfortable with me, because, I don't date colleagues.
It's one rule I cannot scrap in my life.
No office Romance.

The trick here is I've already said 'Yes' because I thought she was joking, now it turns out she's serious, I. Don't like being pushed into a corner.

What to-do?

. And this one still calls himself a man. Nawa oo

J111333:
Oga if you have the ability to help her get a job at your work place, do it without considering she's your girlfriend. What dafuq has girlfriendism got to do with a lady's future here?
All you care about is your silly relationship but what I see is a lady who wants to be useful to herself. Don't be selfish.

For your mind you don talk something get sense ba

Ishilove:

That's why I suggested he be creative. I don't even see how this is an issue.

Yes, I want to be creative about it because, knowing the kind of person I'm dealing with she might just go back into her shell and decide that she doesn't want a job anymore, which I don't want to suffer.

So now I'm just soliciting for creative ways to handle it not display my phallus to show manly aggression.
Thanks for the bashing.
CC; Pocohantas.

pocohantas:


Biko, pussy is strong- german engineering. E no easy to withstand vigorous knacking and bottom plate never fall. OP na prick, can't make up his mind to be soft or hard

Chisos! I am highly discombobulated!

No more preek for u henceforth

Bonatheripper:
You're not man enough if you can't tell her straight up your policies.
What if she starts working in your office and dumps u and start dating your boss?
What if the sole purpose of her dating u was so u could get a job for her?
If you see her everyday you'll easily get tired of her... Likewise her.
You wouldn't like it when the males in your office start making advances or flirting with her.
Your relationship won't even last self if u both start working together

Firstly, this is not about whether I'm being man enough: I don't need to prove anything here.
And secondly, the idea that she's just using me and might dump me later after getting to meet my bosses is so grossly insecure. Last time I checked real men don't have insecurities like that.
You're being childish.

blackjack21:


Firstly, this is not about whether I'm being man enough: I don't need to prove anything here.
And secondly, the idea that she's just using me and might dump me later after getting to meet my bosses is so grossly insecure. Last time I checked real men don't have insecurities like that.
You're being childish.

You're insecure.
If your not... Find her a space

Katier00:
Please help her get a job if you can. If you truly love her you won't want to see her waste around while you could help. You can maintain a good working relationship at work and do your love things outside your work place. Reverse the case I know she will do that for you

We might be able to pull that off though I seriously doubt it.
And I've this rules I can't scratch, I'm just basically looking for a creative way to lie

Thank you

Bonatheripper:

You're insecure.
If your not... Find her a space

You don't mean well for me

Even married couples don't work at the same place.
There are other places for her to find work - you could help w| that.

condemn:


Best post. Op, make you take this post when I quote seriously oh. Do not lift a woman up. They are all ingrates.

Maybe you are right in that they are ingrates; base on the way Pocohantas and Ishilove have been assaulting me despite my efforts to treat their species gentlemanly?

PrimadonnaO:


God bless you. The thinking is shallow in my opinion. Just because you don't want to work in the same company as your girlfriend, you'll leave her stagnated when you're in a position to help?

If getting a job is a piece of cake, very well then, get her in... then get yourself a job in another organisation @OP.

Y'all can be professional at work. You may not even work in the same department. Later on, either of you can move on to another organization. Stop being a clog in the wheel. Help if you can.

I've a clear path planned here. Getting another job would mean starting from square one, can't afford that.

blackjack21:

You don't mean well for me

After u called me childish when I was trying to advice u.
You could have either accepted the advice or let it slide if you don't like it.
U instead resulted in belittling me.... I pray you get what you're looking for sha.
Bye

blackjack21:


We might be able to pull that off though I seriously doubt it.
And I've this rules I can't scratch, I'm just basically looking for a creative way to lie

Thank you

get her a job. You might fall back on it tomorrow. Discipline is the watch word. I don't believe you would kiss her at work or call her Baby in front of your boss. Just help the lady out and keep your romance out of it

Bonatheripper:

After u called me childish when I was trying to advice u.
You could have either accepted the advice or let it slide if you don't like it.
U instead resulted in belittling me.... I pray you get what you're looking for sha.
Bye

You started it and now I'm the one belittling you
You're indeed childish

blackjack21:


You started it and now I'm the one belittling you
You're indeed childish

Lols.
I bet you also wash her undies.
Weakman

blackjack21:


You started it and now I'm the one belittling you
You're indeed childish

.. Oga,assuming you applied this same energy and strength you are using now to talk to this guy here on your girlfriend, you wouldn't be here seeking for advice.You are here fighting him for what he said,but you can't keep your woman in check.

pocohantas:
Why would she even nurse the idea of working in the same organisation with you?

Biko send her the link to Nairaland-Job & Vacancies, Ngcareers, jobberman, LinkedIn...etc

Lol, this is a sure way to be dumped by your girlfriend for sure. There is no way out of this really & you won't understand until you are in it. He has to start re-writing her CV, sending her CV to his friends & all. This happened to my guy back then, till today she left for that reason & became an stark enemy of his.

Anyway for the OP, I sense an Imminent break up very soon. It's either he gives her a Job or she leaves.

blackjack21:
I will be as simple as possible.

So me and this girl is dating and she needs a job. She's stylishly asking me to help get her a job where I work, the asking is starting to turn into nagging.
I admire and respect that she wants to work and earn, that's one thing I'll always love in any woman. But the idea of working is the Same company as me is just not comfortable with me, because, I don't date colleagues.
It's one rule I cannot scrap in my life.
No office Romance.

The trick here is I've already said 'Yes' because I thought she was joking, now it turns out she's serious, I. Don't like being pushed into a corner.

What to-do?

very foolish! Helping a black woman is the worse mistake you will ever made in your life.


Those biiitches ain't worth it

In the words of ishilove.. " Op is a pussy"...

The girl is just being manipulative : Unfortunately op is falling for it... This type of girl go even see a better guy for the place of work and dump op...

truthsayer009:


Lol, this is a sure way to be dumped by your girlfriend for sure. There is no way out of this really & you won't understand until you are in it. He has to start re-writing her CV, sending her CV to his friends & all. This happened to my guy back then, till today she left for that reason & became an stark enemy of his.

Anyway for the OP, I sense an Imminent break up very soon. It's either he gives her a Job or she leaves.

Then she should leave. I wonder why anyone would even want to place their future in someone's hands. I am sorry to say, I can't do that. I don't need someone to start telling me "after all I did for you".

She should visit job sites, because this move of hers, hardly ever ends well.

pocohantas:


Biko, pussy is strong- german engineering. E no easy to withstand vigorous knacking and bottom plate never fall. OP na prick, can't make up his mind to be soft or hard

LMAO

pocohantas:


This isn't a problem. Maybe OP dey fear the girl, because I no just understand.

Adam was deceived by Woman
Sampson was deceived by woman
Solomon was deceived by woman


Its look like you do not understand how you people nag nag nag and for peace to reign man will give in to your demand.


The man I question do not want to loss her but the ......


Young man its either yes you help her get the job in your coy and start procesing your transfer or
Big No and endure her naging.
Note the endurance might turn to long suffering.

joinnow:


Adam was deceived by Woman
Sampson was deceived by woman
Solomon was deceived by woman


Its look like you do not understand how you people nag nag nag and for peace to reign man will give in to your demand.


The man I question do not want to loss her but the ......


Young man its either yes you help her get the job in your coy and start procesing your transfer or
Big No and endure her naging.
Note the endurance might turn to long suffering.

It is okay dear. It has never been in man to take responsibility for his actions. As we can see from your examples, the problem is always the woman- not the fishbrained man.

pocohantas:


It is okay dear. It has never been in man to take responsibility for his actions. As we can see from your examples, the problem is always the woman- not the fishbrained man.

Like ur dad huh?

DrHoganObi:


Like ur dad huh?

I guess the women he described are like his mum. Engage your brain more dear, it needs company.

pocohantas:


I guess the women he described are like his mum. Engage your brain more dear, it needs company.

Pocahontas

blackjack21:


Yes, I want to be creative about it because, knowing the kind of person I'm dealing with she might just go back into her shell and decide that she doesn't want a job anymore, which I don't want to suffer.

So now I'm just soliciting for creative ways to handle it not display my phallus to show manly aggression.
Thanks for the bashing.
CC; Pocohantas.

So if she decides she doesn't want a job anymore, who will pay her bills? You?? If you are the one then you are a part of Nigeria's problems.

condemn:


Best post. Op, make you take this post when I quote seriously oh. Do not lift a woman up. They are all ingrates.

Send my warm regards to your mother and female relatives.

All of you saying help her get the job are you people mad or you just can't read?? The Op clearly said he doesnt want her to work in the same comany with him which is very understandable. She clearly has a motive so poster don't ever try it you can get her a job in another company not the place you work if she doesn't like it then dump her and move on I hate girls like that always thinking they can get what they want cos they are dating you .