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Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Something That's Against My Rules. by Xano(m): 8:44am On Sep 17, 2019 |
blackjack21: It is either you are in a friendzone or a means to get a good job |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Something That's Against My Rules. by Amyyy2020: 8:47am On Sep 17, 2019 |
R u seriously for real here ![]() Did u just say ''DO NOT LIFT A WOMAN UP'' ![]() I guess u see y u r where u still are...its solely bcoz of diz mindset. Keep posing as a barrier, d God of Women will forever be lifting them UP ![]() condemn: |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Something That's Against My Rules. by mapet: 8:48am On Sep 17, 2019 |
blackjack21: Tell her your "Yes" means NO |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Something That's Against My Rules. by Lamanii22(f): 8:49am On Sep 17, 2019 |
blackjack21: You'd tell her there's no vacancy noni... That you will help her check elsewhere... You will push her forward... |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Something That's Against My Rules. by Ishilove: 8:52am On Sep 17, 2019 |
nabegibeg:Na you wan pursue me? |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Something That's Against My Rules. by Amyyy2020: 8:53am On Sep 17, 2019 |
I dont think diz is a big deal OP. Tell her straight up y u cant do it at ur work place, But assure her u are working on it fr different other organisations. den get her CV nd dont fail to pass it to pple u might be opportuned to meet who can get her a job. Ur gf is a hardworking bae, coz there r numerous others who wont care abt a job as long as u give em some monthly quota...dem lazy ones. *DONOT WITHHOLD GOOD FROM SOMEONE IF ITS IN UR HAND TO DO SO* blackjack21: |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Something That's Against My Rules. by oyinda1599(f): 8:55am On Sep 17, 2019 |
Larryfest:A guy with a pretty heart. |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Something That's Against My Rules. by nabegibeg: 9:00am On Sep 17, 2019 |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Something That's Against My Rules. by Katier00(f): 9:03am On Sep 17, 2019 |
loswhite:the guy has not propose sef. If that was the case, after a formal marriage contract either of them can resign and look for something better |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Something That's Against My Rules. by Katier00(f): 9:05am On Sep 17, 2019 |
Datazone:I don't understand think with their head |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Something That's Against My Rules. by Nobody: 9:09am On Sep 17, 2019 |
Pocohantas & Ishilove the two of u are not well ![]() |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Something That's Against My Rules. by Sammyblaq(m): 9:13am On Sep 17, 2019 |
Ishilove:I love this reply. Fvcking! "Be creative". |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Something That's Against My Rules. by Godsplan115: 9:33am On Sep 17, 2019 |
Ishilove:maybe no lying in a relationship is also one of this rules ![]() |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Something That's Against My Rules. by drey076(m): 10:00am On Sep 17, 2019 |
pocohantas: ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Something That's Against My Rules. by phemy36(m): 10:19am On Sep 17, 2019 |
mercyvivv: I'm so sorry to say. You are self-centered and hypocrite if you can't do that in your case |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Something That's Against My Rules. by CioAngels(f): 10:28am On Sep 17, 2019 |
Is the company yours, I guess you will likely say no? Dont think of it at all, if your saying no will breakup the relationship, so be it. Why is insisting it has to be where are working? If you are able to do that for her, know you are on the way of loosing your job. Tell her pointblank she can't work where you are working because it is now not allowed anymore, even in government, it is no longer in practice. Be very wise so that she does not cause you job loss. Her insistence is not clean. Be wise. |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Something That's Against My Rules. by litaninja(m): 10:36am On Sep 17, 2019 |
Are you the CEO? if no, ask for her resume, tell her you'd push it to the bosses. Tell her you are following up, then tell her she was not accepted. You don't own the firm... If she continues, dump her A** blackjack21: |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Something That's Against My Rules. by Ishilove: 10:41am On Sep 17, 2019 |
Godsplan115:Then he should gather liver and bear the consequences. |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Something That's Against My Rules. by Funkybabee(f): 11:03am On Sep 17, 2019 |
You might feel incoveniently, but try to get her a job. You can tell her straight, it's not an offence. I will understand you if it me... I don't even like that parole |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Something That's Against My Rules. by tsims(f): 11:37am On Sep 17, 2019 |
First of, it's unethical. I'll advice u not to start it. U won't control it later. She might even have a plan as to why she specifically asked u to help help get a job where u work. Dont let her be the reason u have to resign. Pls be guided. Leave love aside, don't be blinded. I have seen and read many cases similar to urs. It become dirty and out of control. There are many other ways to get a good job pls. |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Something That's Against My Rules. by Nobody: 11:44am On Sep 17, 2019 |
pocohantas: Jesus Christ!!!!!!!!!! Poco, please don't kill us now.... ![]() ![]() |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Something That's Against My Rules. by Nobody: 11:45am On Sep 17, 2019 |
condemn: Your brain obviously functions on sawdust.. |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Something That's Against My Rules. by bizhop01: 12:06pm On Sep 17, 2019 |
Dating someone that you see everyone day chances of relationship surviving is not up to 5% However i know some people can even date their co-tenant and class mate. |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Something That's Against My Rules. by loswhite(m): 12:25pm On Sep 17, 2019 |
Katier00:why must it be in his company? The guy can help to look for job in another company. If the intent is to marry her then there is no need to get a job and start discussing resignation after 6 months to one year. 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Something That's Against My Rules. by PrimadonnaO(f): 12:42pm On Sep 17, 2019 |
maasoap: Correct. There's something he's not saying. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Something That's Against My Rules. by dyrocha: 4:35pm On Sep 17, 2019 |
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Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Something That's Against My Rules. by dyrocha: 4:39pm On Sep 17, 2019 |
blackjack21: Proper corporate policy doesn't allow couples to work in the same environment. Probably you have blabbed about your salary package and wouldnt want scraps of what you get every time she asks. I will tell you a few things that would happen if and when she gets in; 1. She would act as though you guys are just friends or don't know yourselves and then find someone who ranks higher than you to be with or plan your exit (worst case scenario) 2. The moment she gets in and you guys decide to tie the knot(proper) both of you would be served with documents containing your staff handbook, operational policy (extracts about office affairs called amorous relationship) and then the conclusion would be that either or both of you tender your resignations. 3. Except you are the overall boss, you would lose respect from your colleagues and staff members. Professional and educated suggestion (Don't do it) if she really wants to do something for herself, then fix her up somewhere else using your contacts. My 1 kobo 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Something That's Against My Rules. by Katier00(f): 6:42pm On Sep 17, 2019 |
loswhite:is not that easy to come by a job you know |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Something That's Against My Rules. by smeag0l(m): 9:45pm On Sep 17, 2019 |
I dont know why people are scolding the OP here. He clearly mentioned that he cant date someone in same office which means an automatic end to their relationship. Since he loves her , he would not want to do this. But op, on a more serious note, this kind of favour is too big to do for a lady who is neither your wife nor your sister, aunt or mum. Knowing what I've known for some time now I'll say you shouldn't do it. It is just like pouring water into a basket. It never ends well. I know you have sisters, brothers or relatives that need that opportunity. Give it to them and they'll forever appreciate you |
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