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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: Choosing A Girl. by TissuePaper: 11:08am On Sep 16, 2019 |
Facelessforum:cc ubunja |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: Choosing A Girl. by danielistics(m): 11:16am On Sep 16, 2019 |
ubunja thank you for this. Really appreciated. |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: Choosing A Girl. by COOL10(m): 11:46am On Sep 16, 2019 |
Ubunja. When are you releasing the "Approaching Girls With Minimum Risk Of Rejection" post? Is it still forthcoming? |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: Choosing A Girl. by Brunosamel(m): 1:56pm On Sep 16, 2019 |
You seems to read and practice allot about women, That's great but are you aware you can make money with with these information... Just like the likes of chase amante.... Keep your good work 2 Likes |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: Choosing A Girl. by frank417: 2:30pm On Sep 16, 2019 |
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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: Choosing A Girl. by NACE13: 5:53pm On Sep 16, 2019 |
AussiePlayboy: Brah, I don't wanna sound like I'm dickriding but you are damn good. I feel like we are or rather we were dating the same girl. At a point I thought I was losing it when we sexed, so i started working out more and taking good fruit supplements to boost my stamina but later realised it was because I was becoming soft towards her and she lost that respect for me. The sex wasn't forth coming, it's like she wants me to beg for what she usually wake me up with almost every morning when ever she visits. Always making up excuses why she can't have sex, we'll set up 'appointment' and she'll end up not coming and will just throw a flimsy excuse or just apologise without much care and when she eventually visits, it's usually when she's on red or she's very tired after a long day and would like to have a good rest or she comes with her friend and won't spend the night. I asked what's wrong and tried to be reasonable after pressuring her to open up to me, she just started telling me BS like "Even if there's no sex, can't I just hold myself, must we have sex? If I truly love her, I should respect the fact that she's not just in the mood for sex these days because she's stressed and always under pressure". After that statement, I didn't breakup immediately, but just withdrew totally and that's how what I felt for her 'died' instantly. She still kept on calling telling me how she loves me and all, also sending love/romantic/sex-related text messages but at a point she realised I'd stopped calling and sending her love texts messages, so She queried why I stopped calling or texting her as usual. I was just giving her different type of excuses. What truly baffled me till date is how she cried numerous times, asking me if it is a crime for her to love me( truly, when we started dating, I was strict, unapologetic even if i was at fault and was still in contact with my ex). That she's never felt like this for any guy. Would even update her WhatsApp profile picture with my own photo, told other chykers blatantly that I am her bf( I found out on my own), always talked about what our future, kids will be like, even begged me not to break her heart else she might do the unthinkable. I felt weak, and let my Alpha status down. I completely shut other girls out, even my ex who wanted us to just be FWB. What I am happy about is that even after all her crying, I still kept the remaining 58% of my heart in a vault. So I was just heartbroken for a week or so, then bounced back. but the unfortunate thing was that my FWB-ex also shut me out after she got into a very serious relationship, and I had to respect that. So I had to start p*ssy-hunting all over again At the bold. What do you mean be calm? Like you shouldn't initiate the sex, rather you wait for her? Secondly, if she indeed initiate it. By setting standard for her, will it be to refuse her advance or like flirting with other girls in her presence, picking calls of other girls in her presence. I don't really understand the nonsexual part and also where you said something about trading your nonsexual attention with sex from her. This happened years ago back then in the University. So since then I haven't been in a serious relationship, mostly just hookups. So I need to get the 'right tools' when I finally decide to get back in 3 Likes |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: Choosing A Girl. by baby124: 11:32pm On Sep 16, 2019 |
ubunja:I no talk am? Summary of the whole struggle is pain of rejection from women. Women don show this one taya! He become professor. Ubunja thinks himself a lion when he’s probably a dwarf in real life. Internet e ku orire ![]() 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: Choosing A Girl. by baby124: 11:34pm On Sep 16, 2019 |
Girls, let’s come in and learn with them, so we can update SIM card to deal decisively with them ![]() ![]() |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: Choosing A Girl. by AussiePlayboy(f): 11:42pm On Sep 16, 2019 |
frank417: From my experience, every man must be focused on his purpose. Women are fun and drama. Period! If you see them as that, you will always know and catch yourself when slacking. You never want to get your foot off the gas. HOWEVER, ubunja let's us men understand that another billionaire will easily steal Regina from her husband, WITHOUT spending anything substantial. Infact, with proper game, he won't spend a dime directly on her. His money only becomes an assurance and security. But his game speaks. 11 Likes |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: Choosing A Girl. by desvi: 9:04am On Sep 17, 2019 |
ubunja: wrong. a confident man will see her, want her, show it and get her. Going up to her, telling her how beautiful she is and how you'd be honored if she accepted you. Its the epitome of weakness. it's confidence, not weakness but your mindset reeks of insecurity That's not how you get and keep a girl. she is the prize and you conquer her but it takes confidence and strength BUILDING ON A ROCK. desire must flow from both sides. that's the ideal and only way. nothing else is more satisfying and fulfilling That's the secret to happiness. That's how you build a relationship on a foundation of rock: You make sure the woman loves you more than you love her. You must be the guy she feels she "can't live without". But She must not be the girl you feel you "cant live without". Be her fantasy don't Iet her be your fantasy. Let her chase the fantasy, but keep your feet firmly in reality. the only way to know that the other person is the one is when you two agree and freely express that you don't want to live without the other. and when that happens, it is beautiful. it's perfection. That female who's "everything you ever dreamed of in a woman", that chick who's the "girl of your dreams", that one must be dealt with only on a lust level. As a short term fantasy. A pump and dump. Dick her, don't Heart her. Ejaculate and evacuate. Don't invest any emotion in her. No matter how beautiful. No matter how delicious. disgusting and sick You can not afford to love the girl that you want. You dare not chase the fantasy. Loving the girl your heart chooses is a luxury you just can't afford. Not if you value your happiness and peace of mind. If your goal is romantic success, your woman must be more invested in the romance than you. She must be the biggest shareholder in the company. She must be the one in love with you, not the other way round. this here is the peak of weakness you are scared of love POWER DYNAMICS. healthy relationships are not power struggles healthy relationships are based on deep love from both sides If a house is burning, the one who bought the most property cries the most. And so they're the one most concerned about preventing fires. In other words, the party most invested, most loving and most committed in the romance is the party that begs the most, compromises the most and sacrifices the most to make sure the romance stays on course. the opposite of love is fear, you operate from fear you minimize the risks but you also deny yourself the pleasure, joy and satisfaction of love The one who invests less of everything holds all the power for the simple reason that they can walk away any time. Never be involved in something you can't walk away from without losing gallons of tears. Women have been loving the right way since forever. When was the last time you saw a girl cry tears over a boy? Between men and women who commits suicide more over breakups? Of course the men. Because they don't know how to love properly. so all this for something you would drop like a piece of smelly trash? save yourself the headache then entirely HOW GIRLS LOVE. if you don't play stupid games like you recommend here and earn her trust, she will be real with you and show you her love and vulnerability and this is how intimacy works you will experience feelings that will make you think you saw heaven but you couldn't be further from this experience with the nonsense you teach here A girl will love you with all her heart and be crazy for you, BUT SHE'LL NEVER SHOW IT. The girl you love never shows you the full height, depth and breadth of her love. She never lets you know the maximum temperature of her passion. that's if she doesn't trust you and no woman will trust a man with your mindset so you have once again denied yourself of the pleasure of mind blowing passion congratulations! You give her your photo, she goes home and goes crazy OVER THAT PHOTO. She sleeps with it next to her heart, kisses it, even shed tears of love over the image of you. She keeps it safe and spends hours on end just looking at it, lost in adoration. and she will share these moments with you if you make her feel save but you can't because you are too insecure But when you come in person to see her she puts the photo away and she wears her "game face". The face you see is not going to be the face your photo saw. Gone is the dreamy look of complete total love. Gone are the tears of love. She looks at you like one who never missed you one second. Like you were not even on her mind. since you are a child you two will play games A girl shows you less of the love she has for you as a strategy: TO PROTECT HERSELF. If she was truthful and did show you how deep her love for you is YOU WILL TAKE ADVANTAGE. You'll use it against her. You'll demand crazy things from her. You'll cheat on her. And because her love for you runs deep, she will find it hard to leave and easy to forgive. that's cause she feels you won't protect her and you can't because you are busy protecting yourself can't read the rest in a nutshell: it's a recipe for bad relationships 2 Likes |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: Choosing A Girl. by frank417: 9:04am On Sep 17, 2019 |
AussiePlayboy: Same lesson: Get money! Since I was born I've never seen when a broke nigger steals a woman from a rich nigger. Except in movies. Women are deeply attracted to riches and love assurance. Whether u spend money onthem immediately or not they will be ok as far as they KNOW you got that doe to carter for their needs. No be by dynamics my brother just get money. And another thing, it is only low self esteem niggers that don't approach a girl they want. If you look into this ubunja guy's life, u will find out that the girls he mostly date are those he knows clearly he is intellectually and physically BETTER than, which is as a result of low self esteem to go out and actually get the woman he truly admires and want. Guy believe me, I know guys like this too well. E no come out from their side 3 Likes |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: Choosing A Girl. by Nobody: 9:49am On Sep 17, 2019 |
frank417:You don't know anything. Shut up. U have no experience... nonsense. I stand with g Ubunja because I've experienced 1000000% of what he post it's true. Trust what he post. Its truth. At least from my experience 7 Likes |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: Choosing A Girl. by frank417: 11:25am On Sep 17, 2019 |
Bonatheripper: Its a good thing you said from YOUR experience. One more low self esteem weakling detected ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: Choosing A Girl. by Nobody: 11:30am On Sep 17, 2019 |
frank417:Hehehe. See uncle way mumu. I'm sure you don't know the meaning of low self esteem. 6 Likes |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: Choosing A Girl. by frank417: 11:38am On Sep 17, 2019 |
Bonatheripper: Lwkmd ![]() ![]() Bro for the fact you stand with this guy to believe you shouldn't be the one to approach a lady you want and desire, u are just another low self esteem weakling. Come and i will teach you how to toast a girl there and there ![]() 100000000% weakling ![]() ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: Choosing A Girl. by desvi: 11:48am On Sep 17, 2019 |
frank417: preach brother 1 Like |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: Choosing A Girl. by Nobody: 11:49am On Sep 17, 2019 |
frank417:Toast just one female Nairalander here and make her date u. Then I'll trust u.. Ubunja didn't say u should wait for women to approach u and like u.... Of course the rule of God even in the animal kingdom is for men to woo women.. Even male animals chase female animals. He only preaches how not to worship women and be a slave to them, how not to be uncle mumu like you and oblige to all their demands. How not to be a dundi like you and become uncle Sharwama why another guy is pounding her.. How not to be enternaly tied in the friendzone like you why another guy is at the end zone. How not to be a do as I say guy but a guy who gives the commands. U have no argument my guy.. You're just jealous because the only people your own tips can attract are housegirls and villagers 9 Likes |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: Choosing A Girl. by desvi: 11:53am On Sep 17, 2019 |
Bonatheripper: all your friend taught you is to hide your feelings mumulicious |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: Choosing A Girl. by Kingsteve(m): 11:59am On Sep 17, 2019 |
desvi:School him! 2 Likes |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: Choosing A Girl. by baby124: 12:23pm On Sep 17, 2019 |
desvi:Very terrible and impractical advise. Imagine advising people not to follow who they love. Instead destroy the love and destroy their future happiness. This guy is completely crazy and I pity those who take him serious. 2 Likes |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: Choosing A Girl. by Bright12660(m): 12:25pm On Sep 17, 2019 |
Kingsteve:you all have these knowledge but yo didn't post them. When you guys tell us the reason girls loose their virginity to agberos and exCon, and why rich married women are usually caught cheating with broke guys, i will take you guys serious. For now, that attention you guys need from NL women, they will rather give it to Ubunja than to you guys 10 Likes |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: Choosing A Girl. by frank417: 12:26pm On Sep 17, 2019 |
Bonatheripper: Words from a typical broke nigger Anyone that read my comments will easily tell that my aim is to reveal to you that money can sum up all these the op has written. If you don't get the aim then u are intellectually slow. Replies to the bolded: 1. I never said anything about worshiping women and being a slave to them and oblige to all their demands(bro puhlease! I'm the nigger with the money! It goes the other way round. Seems you really really slow ) 2. How not to be a dundi like you and become uncle Sharwama why another guy is pounding her (lol niggerrr im the one with the moneeey. I do the pounding, not u the broke ass nigger! Ur babe cheats on ur broke ass with me the soft nigger) 3. How not to be enternaly tied in the friendzone like you why another guy is at the end zone ( no man, i'm at the KING ZONE because she will bounce ur ass for me) 4. How not to be a do as I say guy but a guy who gives the commands ( won't answer this cos by now u should already have known who gives the command lmao! unless u are slow ofcos) You see bro, u are wrong at all levels. All I was trying to say is a sleek nigger with money doesn't need all this bla bla bla dynamislcs shit. Just get money and you will always come out on top with a woman. No dynamics ![]() ![]() There is a reason why P.square in their song Bank Alert said " the person wey wan chop you run dey beg to stay" |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: Choosing A Girl. by desvi: 12:30pm On Sep 17, 2019 |
baby124: one must be very desperate to come up with such nonsense they actually think that these childish games will take them somewhere SMH it goes to show they have never seen a loving relationship/marriage 1 Like |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: Choosing A Girl. by desvi: 12:37pm On Sep 17, 2019 |
frank417: that is if you want her to love your money and not you |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: Choosing A Girl. by baby124: 12:40pm On Sep 17, 2019 |
desvi:The guy has a terrible hatred for women. Even his profile pic shows a man strangling a woman. All his posts are slowly leading to that sort of violence. He’s still peddling softly until he’s sure that he has secured a solid place in the mind of his dumb followers. It’s really a pity that so called MEN can read all this trash and choose to apply it in their own lives. Lose quality relationships and people because an online loser advices them to. They don’t even know what this character looks like in real life. A man that spends this much time on the internet and analyzing women does not have the capacity, confidence and money to approach them. Trust me! I can guarantee you that he does not have the looks either!!! He’s just good a manipulating people’s thoughts to follow him into doom. He was probably mistreated or abandoned by a woman. So he wants to make sure that through men who follow him, all women are mistreated. It’s so sad that MEN who will have families in future actually sit down and listen to these sorts of characters. Not even applying their number 6 to reason this guy critically. I really pity the girls that will marry men who cannot think for themselves. Especially when it comes to relationships! This life, is all about relationships. Don’t play with a good relationship. Anyone that advices you that has a psychological problem/defect and, probably incapable of love and has never received love in his life! We all need love o! Even Ubunja. |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: Choosing A Girl. by desvi: 12:49pm On Sep 17, 2019 |
baby124: you have spoken well my sister it's a pity they do not choose to follow the good examples of men with happy homes and loving families instead they believe that manipulation will lead to a good relationship defies all logic and yes only a man with a whole lot of negative experience can type all this rubbish |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: Choosing A Girl. by baby124: 12:51pm On Sep 17, 2019 |
desvi: What he’s teaching them is emotional abuse. Physical abuse to follow shortly. That is where all this rubbish is leading to. He’s teaching them the best way to lose life partners, happiness and joy in your life so you can be miserable and writing books on the internet like Ubunja. LMAO! Not everyone will be for you. There is no need to play games in relationships. Be steady, be yourself and protect yourself sexually. You will be fine. I cannot tell you how much damage a promiscuous and loveless life will do to you. It is a man’s duty to ensure he marries who he loves and who love him back. It’s very critical for children to grow up in a loving home. Not a home where the parents married based on one guy whose psychological state is in question. All these advices are childish notions that defy logic and adult reasoning. They will never help the men seek who and what is best for then. It’s your life, take charge. Be wary of experts. There is never one way to approach a situation because all humans are so different. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: Choosing A Girl. by desvi: 12:58pm On Sep 17, 2019 |
baby124: all I feel is pity he has never experienced a woman giving herself to him express her feelings freely not hiding her love and devotion for him, her hopes and fears because she knows he is a man who protects and trusts him instead he fantasizes she is doing it behind closed doors while other men see their women's heart and soul and enjoy hours of inhibited passion ![]() ![]() let him play some more until his age mates leave the playground to build solid homes in which the foundation is love and not fear 1 Like |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: Choosing A Girl. by Squirrel01: 5:25pm On Sep 17, 2019 |
baby124: Love doesn't exist. Stop lying to yourself. It's all game, mutual interest. 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: Choosing A Girl. by Kingsteve(m): 6:46pm On Sep 17, 2019 |
Well, it seems I'm not the only one who has seen the OP for what he truly is. He's just a sick mofvcker! To his followers... Wake up and face reality! Smh |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: Choosing A Girl. by deusdumeby(m): 10:47pm On Sep 17, 2019 |
Guy you too good abeg, you on twitter? |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: Choosing A Girl. by Geofavor(m): 11:15pm On Sep 17, 2019 |
Kingsteve:What is reality 3 Likes |
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