victorian:






Thank God, you've left this country for something better.

But even the ones with jobs, suited up with tie and coat is the same story.

Nothing there.. All they have to offer is to Fork with incredible energy as if their lives and survival depends on it! but to maintain, capital zero.

Anyways may God help the jobless ones and the ones with jobs who are still struggling to make ends meet.. Amen.

Sarang:


I like your honesty. May a Nigerian Man in diaspora locate you

bigpicture001:
..vikky,ur mentality in relationship.it mayb from ur unfortunate experience, which mayb cuz ur chasing suppose wealthy guyz.trudt me with 98% of them,u get shit

chigoziri2403:
hahahah, can you explain your third paragraph

victorian:










I know most young wealthy guys are filled with shit and arrogance. I can never be with any of such men. Unfortunately in my past experience has always been with struggling guys and average guys. Have been very unfortunate in such kind of guys in the past. Ladies will say they dated struggling guys and average guys and we're lucky.. But mine was different. I just don't know where those devilish men Springed out from, but I thank God I was saved, am more confident, matured in my choices and aware of what I want in life.
My dear, my life even though I was born with a silver spoon, was filled with emotional turmoil and sorrows, caused by struggling or average guys. If not for God, I would have either committed suicide or been locked up in a prison for manslaughter or chained in pyschartric hospital. But Mehn, God saved me and I didn't allow the devil to take hold of my mind..
When I say have seen it all.. Trust me I have. Except prostitution, drugs and armed robbery. Have not done those three things before and I won't delve into them no matter what..

But my eyes don see pepper! I know what marriage entails and I know what it means to be single. Nobody can deceive me otherwise.
So the yarns of rich guys? Forget! There are some rich guys that are more or less angels than the poor or hustling guys. And I made the final choice of accepting a rich guy, years back which I don't regret till date.
Am really unlucky with hustling guys, before I get to love madly and spend so much on them, something will happen and their well played script will burst, boom! Right infront of their eyes. And I will be like what!? jeez! What have I gotten myself into?
There and then, it's over.

Then about making it? I started early in life, cos I graduated early at age 22 and delved into buisness afterwards Everything in my life was accomplished early but I was almost destroyed by poor and hustling guys everytime, cos I love simplicity.

And exes, whom I felt was suppose to be real to me, were not real even to themselves. With anger and frustration I placed curse on all of them but later after so many years I had to free them, so I can be at peace too.

Then thirdly don't even say I was flashing my wealth, cos I wasn't.. I simply look flashy, no matter how I try to tone down my looks. I still look flashy. Even I don't wear earrings, or brazen good chains or revealing clothes.. Am still flashy, almost everyone must stare. then it was so annoying to me, cos my looks was attracting gold diggers.
But today I own my looks, I don't care of my flashy looks anymore. Love me or hate me, I no longer care. I simply live my life and be the best I can and associate with humble well to do females and males.
The only thing I take serious is business, and children, every other thing is placed at the back burner. That's me.

bigpicture001:
...va in marage,u still don't luv ur man..?u said all u care abt is biz nd children....sorry u went tru all that..actually there are mny frogs than prince's but that doesn't mean fía are no princes......on behave of guyz generally,if u truly pass tru those emotional pains...I APOLOGISE!

victorian:









Life can be unfair to us in different ways but only makes us stronger.
How to curb this issue of love and all. Just zero your mind off love. Focus on becoming friends with ladies of like minds and goals as yours, then choose the one whom u feel at least u are sexually attracted to and whom u feel is respectful , both of you can laugh over any issues, a sensible lady and well cultured too. Such ladies exist.

Choose your best friend out of these ladies coming around u. Talk about everything, including family life and see her point of view on roles of husband and wife. If it's similar to yours? Then uv won a jackpot. Then romance starts.

Also If she wants to settle down with you after a while of dating and romance ? Ask her , if she says yes? Both of you map out a plan on how to get things started.. Be open to each other about your salaries and maintenance of the family and home.. Talk about it, so no one is deceived into any scam of marriage.

You will be fine, just free your mind fro...................m love. All it brings is heartaches and sorrows.

bigpicture001:
[url][/url]...Jesús christ!!!!!!!!!!.... y didn't i.meet u ontym...my GOD is ur name Samuel..? u are exactly wired to think like me...

bigpicture001:
...va in marage,u still don't luv ur man..?u said all u care abt is biz nd children....sorry u went tru all that..actually there are mny frogs than prince's but that doesn't mean fía are no princes......on behave of guyz generally,if u truly pass tru those emotional pains...I APOLOGISE!

victorian:











Heheheheheheheheh

My name is not Samuel o!

Am just Vicky!

It happens like that.. Smiles

You are nice person too. I can sense it from here.

Can u text your email here, so I can send you a message. My pm can't access mails.

bigpicture001:
...it's lastsam001@gmail.com

victorian:





I can't o

chigoziri2403:
it's not energy, its frustration, no joy in Nigeria

tshaba28:
E-mail Me...tshaba28@gmail.com...Bored,But now Am Ready...

gracechellar:
What's your twitter Handel?

felix000000:
Location first or you are not ready to marry coz Chana and Togo is diaspora too.

felix000000:
Location first or you are not ready to marry coz Chana and Togo is diaspora too.

victorian:








Lol, you still dey ask?

Men at home, that cant feed themselves and their babes. Go to family section and read how a newly wedded man is complaining about feeding his wife and entertaining visitors who came to wish them well on their marriage. Cause of food, he wants to run away from home.

And mind you, he's the one who relocated to the wife's base o, which means she is the one paying their house rent but ordinary to feed his wife, is a serious issue for him.

A lady wanted to fry four eggs, her fiance gave her a hot slap. Just because of 200naira eggs.

A neighbour of mine died of malaria, and typhoid cos her boyfriend hid in one corner saying he's in another state, instead of him to send 2k for her drugs. She's an orphan but work as a cleaner.

With all these scenarios, trust me marrying a Nigerian man is not appealing.

lefulefu:
there's one overseas based nairalander here i want u to meet. Handsome and very romantic....and half british half nigerian. He's based in uk and lives in peckham,London. His name is Mr cork. You will love him. He's lukin for a homebased babe to marry. But u must be lightskinned sha. Ur yellow complexion must be shininh ayanyanya for him to be interested.

LMAO!!!

tshaba28:
E-mail Me...tshaba28@gmail.com...Bored,But now Am Ready...

McMayowa:

You can mail me here theobenson6@gmail.com

Oai007:
is Togo a diaspora. anyways ask lie Muhamed and buhari

gracechellar:

No. Thanka

Viking007:
LMAO!!!

marvelous000:

Mrcork, is that you?

Nope.

Viking007:
Nope.