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Re: What Is MGTOW? Meet The ‘Men Going Their Own Way’ by genq(m): 3:26pm On Sep 17, 2019
I'm enjoying seeing these women insult each other for having opposing views cheesy
Girl power!

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Re: What Is MGTOW? Meet The ‘Men Going Their Own Way’ by Nobody: 3:28pm On Sep 17, 2019
baby124:

Wait... they will soon open a thread to discredit the witches in the family section wink. It is here all their frivolous ideas come to die grin cheesy. Those useless small boys with small brains hate us die. grin
So you be feminist? undecided
I no know oo.
Does your husband know cheesy
No be say when you fool this smallie dem finish you run go house go cook pounded yam under heat for 9pm because oga say so o grin
This is Africa sweetie,so long as you women continue to dwell in lack,we go continue to boss una around till una start to be independent grin
How your side though?

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Re: What Is MGTOW? Meet The ‘Men Going Their Own Way’ by baby124: 3:37pm On Sep 17, 2019
Logobenz:
So you be feminist? undecided
I no know oo.
Does your husband know cheesy
No be say when you fool this smallie dem finish you run go house go cook pounded yam under heat for 9pm because oga say so o grin
This is Africa sweetie,so long as you women continue to dwell in lack,we go continue to boss una around till una start to be independent grin
How your side though?
I am. My husband knows... and he is a feminist as well. In fact I don’t know anyone who pushes me more than him to be the best I can be. I cook very well too...

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Re: What Is MGTOW? Meet The ‘Men Going Their Own Way’ by LordKO(m): 3:39pm On Sep 17, 2019
missjo:
Lmaocheesy
This is the thing with some of you and how you give the real equality activists a bad name. I only came here to let some of yous know there are hardline feminists just as there are hardliners in mgtow and all i get are insults from the group of feminist practitioners here.lol, i was warned about this anyway.
Ladies who have never organized or participated in equality marches or given speeches suddenly call me anti-feminist.cheesy

I can not deal with you guys.
Until you learn the difference between social issues and cultural issues and how what you have in Africa is a cultural problem which a social western invention like feminism will never cure,you will not make progress in eliminating gender inequality. This is something some of us actively work on in our little way.
Same goes for the mgtow boys supporting a misplaced ideological position.

You all deserve each other honestly.

More grease to your elbow. There's no difference between proponents and practitioners of mgtow and wannabe feminists (and their apologists) - the real feminists have no problem. They're simply people who've psychological, moral and emotional baggage. Bunch of chauvinistic and hypocritically disingenuous elements - they (all) personify subjugation/have penchant for subjugation.

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Re: What Is MGTOW? Meet The ‘Men Going Their Own Way’ by baby124: 3:39pm On Sep 17, 2019
genq:


Same way you feminist wh0res tried to replace men with dildos and vibrators.
Hahahahahaha. This guy no fit fork... no wonder. Whores indeed.

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Re: What Is MGTOW? Meet The ‘Men Going Their Own Way’ by missjo(f): 3:43pm On Sep 17, 2019
doitforyou:
Miss Sacramento go away with your false equivalency bullsh!t. You compare a WHOLE movement with a fringe movement?!!! You have NEVER been to any equality marches, You have NEVER organized one either. You are an anti-feminist, and you've been exposed. You are the one that brought feminism into a thread that has NOTHING to do with feminism. lol equality activist my foot.

The bolded is why I called you out. MGTOW IS the hardline not the norm. You are comparing feminism to MGTOW there is NO sort of equivalency between the two. Hardliners in MGTOW shoot and kill people.

Lol,i did say you are a very angry girl and it is beclouding your judgments. I do not know the grudge you have against me.
The person i quoted was Baby123 and it was she who mentioned feminism and being a feminist on this thread, not i. Her comment is what even got me here to draw a contrast between hardliners. Not like i owe u this explanation but you seem to get off on spinning false narratives in your desperate chase for clout.

Enjoy your clout here dolly and allow me enjoy my L in peace,please.
Re: What Is MGTOW? Meet The ‘Men Going Their Own Way’ by pocohantas(f): 3:43pm On Sep 17, 2019
baby124:

Wait... they will soon open a thread to discredit the witches in the family section wink. It is here all their frivolous ideas come to die grin cheesy. Those useless small boys with small brains hate us die. grin

Na here e end. They should logout and go beg to put in the tip.

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Re: What Is MGTOW? Meet The ‘Men Going Their Own Way’ by pocohantas(f): 3:46pm On Sep 17, 2019
doitforyou:


Miss Sacramento, isn't this tactics over used and abused on NL? I am too **** to participate so I will claim the other person is "angry" "bitter" "emotional", you are not my therapist don't worry about my anger, you just worry about explaining to the thread how feminism is comparable to MGTOW.

You still equating feminism with MGTOW.

Lol

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Re: What Is MGTOW? Meet The ‘Men Going Their Own Way’ by LilMissFavvy(f): 3:46pm On Sep 17, 2019
So true.......
CHoccolaTE:
What I have realised from talking with mgtow and redpill losers is that they are just angry about not being able to get the kind of woman they desire so they childishly resort to insulting all women on earth and swearing to avoid all of us as if we all ganged up to cause their frustration.

Men are free to go their own fvcking way, they should go, get the fvck out, get lost! Leave women alone ooo, men, please leave them. Maybe then all these violent crimes perpetrated against women will drastically reduce, no rapes, no serial killing like the ones in port Harcourt, no domestic assaults or armed robberies from their criminal minded asses.

I strongly believe women will be far happier without marriage, if they stuck with their families and raised kids with her own family instead of the traditional system of women abandoning her father's name and adopting the name of some loser that will most likely maltreat her and cheat on her without remorse at least her blood family will show her more love and care then the family of strangers she was forced to join and adopt the name of because she married some guy.

And the nerve of those deluded mgtow fools to claim men don't gain anything from marriage.
The fvcking nerve.

You he goats are the ones who own children from marital unions, they bear your names, not wives names, after a poor woman goes through the pain and misery of pregnancy and childbirth and raising the kids the man gets to claim them as belonging to his family and having his place as state of origin.
You he goats are the ones cheating on your wives with impunity and getting away with it because African society overlooks your bullshit, infecting wives with all manner of stds and still expecting respect and submission from her.
Where in Nigeria do women just relax and let men provide everything without working and supporting him? Where? Which part?

Stupid lonely socially inept whiners. You go on the Internet where you spend your entire lives and read about the travails of men in western countries where their laws and ways of life differ greatly from what obtains in Africa but you stupidly decide to adopt their movement in Nigeria because you all are fools that cannot think for yourselves.

Please get lost and go your own way as quickly as possible. Idiots
Re: What Is MGTOW? Meet The ‘Men Going Their Own Way’ by missjo(f): 3:48pm On Sep 17, 2019
LordKO:


More grease to your elbow. There's no difference between proponents and practitioners of mgtow and wannabe feminists - the real feminists have no problem. They're simply people who've psychological, moral and emotional baggage. Bunch of chuavinistic and hypocritically disingenuous elements - they all personify subjugation/have penchant for subjugation.



cool
Re: What Is MGTOW? Meet The ‘Men Going Their Own Way’ by baby124: 4:01pm On Sep 17, 2019
missjo:

Lol,i did say you are a very angry girl and it is beclouding your judgments. I do not know the grudge you have against me.
The person i quoted was Baby123 and it was she who mentioned feminism and being a feminist on this thread, not i. Her comment is what even got me here to draw a contrast between hardliners. Not like i owe u this explanation but you seem to get off on spinning false narratives in your desperate chase for clout.

Enjoy your clout here dolly and allow me enjoy my L in peace,please.
Interesting wink cheesy. What is your alternate or other handle?

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Re: What Is MGTOW? Meet The ‘Men Going Their Own Way’ by doitforyou(f): 4:15pm On Sep 17, 2019
Miss Sacramento take your ignorance away from this thread. What has someone saying she is a "feminist" got to do with MGTOW, a fringe movement? Unless she said she is a radical feminist then you have no business comparing feminism with MGTOW. MGTOW is already the hard-line of a bigger movement. You can have blinders on and equate feminism with MGTOW, in the grand scheme of things, you don't matter. Feminists will continue to fight for your rights while you seek approval from NL misogynists. Anti-feminists like you purposely define the movement by the radicalism in the movement, you people willfully distort the movement in order to tarnish and derail the movement. What you are doing on this thread, miss Sacramento, is distortion.

missjo:

Lol,i did say you are a very angry girl and it is beclouding your judgments. I do not know the grudge you have against me.
The person i quoted was Baby123 and it was she who mentioned feminism and being a feminist on this thread, not i. Her comment is what even got me here to draw a contrast between hardliners. Not like i owe u this explanation but you seem to get off on spinning false narratives in your desperate chase for clout.

Enjoy your clout here dolly and allow me enjoy my L in peace,please.

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Re: What Is MGTOW? Meet The ‘Men Going Their Own Way’ by genq(m): 4:22pm On Sep 17, 2019
baby124:

I am. My husband knows... and he is a feminist as well. In fact I don’t know anyone who pushes me more than him to be the best I can be. I cook very well too...


Lmaooooooo! Indeed.

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Re: What Is MGTOW? Meet The ‘Men Going Their Own Way’ by cococandy(f): 4:24pm On Sep 17, 2019
Feminists asked to be treated with the same respect and social consideration accorded to men.

The fact that it upsets some people so much that they want to leave society rather the respect women should tell you how important feminism is needed.

If you for a second think given women equal consideration as men is the same as men not wanting female human interaction because they are not getting their way, then I have nothing to debate with you about.

Deliberate gas lighting is old tactics now.
If you chose to be ignorant about feminism, it’s your loss. Not mine.

Gone are the days when I spend hours debating with someone who has purposefully chosen to decide what they learn or not. Wasted efforts
Acidosis:


Like Feminists?

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Re: What Is MGTOW? Meet The ‘Men Going Their Own Way’ by cococandy(f): 4:34pm On Sep 17, 2019
Phew. Couldn’t have said it better.

Commending you for the patience to still educate in these days when knowledge is available to anyone who is even slightly interested.

Being willfully or maliciously biased isn’t an excuse and just makes me want to throwaway both the poster and their comments. No time or patience for obvious gaslighting.

doitforyou:
FALSE EQUIVALENCE.

I am going to assume you meant to say MGTOW is a response to the feminist movement. What you are NOT going to do is compare a movement that seeks to fight for women to gain access to opportunities and rights that men already have so we can have a gender equal society, to an alt-right movement that seeks for men to separate themselves from a society that they deem harmful/non beneficiary to men. You compare feminist women that came before you that fought for all the rights that you now enjoy to incels. Do not conflate misandry with feminism, even the radical of feminists (feminists that believe that society should do away with patriarchy, they challenge existing social norms, objectification of women etc) cannot be compared with the mildest of a MGTOW. Do you know what MGTOW hardliners do? They shoot people. Please can you post for the class what these extreme feminist ideologies are?

lol talking about "I spent most of my life in Western countries" Feminism started in Nigeria before your grandparents were born and they made voting rights possible for women, and made it possible for women to run for office. There are some men that still believe women think and behave like children so they shouldn't vote. You can be anti-feminist if you want, no one cares, brave women will continue to fight for opportunities that you will undoubtedly enjoy. I just couldn't ignore your false balance. You have the nerve to compare feminism with a movement that came out of online white supremacy groups. A bunch of social rejects that live on the fringes of society. I don't blame you, it's times like this I wish time travel was possible, so I can throw you back to the 20th century.


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Re: What Is MGTOW? Meet The ‘Men Going Their Own Way’ by cococandy(f): 4:35pm On Sep 17, 2019
missjo:

I can't engage you,too much anger projecting
. You only need to learn the meaning of false equivalence.
How you also assume i am anti-feminist is quite funny considering that i have participated in equality matches in Sacramento and you are in your cubicle typing internet speeches when you have never held a placard in your life. Do not teach me about women rights, i have enjoyed those rights mor than you have and probably ever will . Bye Felicia

Gas light

So you did enjoy women’s rights but have shyt to say about those who made it possible for you to do so.
Why not go back to being seen and not heard, barefoot and pregnant with no voice or voting power.

Make the mgtow happy again. Let’s bring them back to society since seeing women be human like men is driving them back into the caves. Relinquish those women’s rights you enjoy and go back to the status quo they want. Then you can talk about feminism and we will take you seriously.

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Re: What Is MGTOW? Meet The ‘Men Going Their Own Way’ by genq(m): 4:39pm On Sep 17, 2019
missjo, so sorry you had to learn the hard way how vicious and hateful these so called feminists are. They will dehumanise their fellow woman just because she refuses to join the bandwagon.

Even the ones claiming married (e.g. baby124) - don't be surprised if their real life is nothing to write home about. Anyone can claim anything online. See how she's pathetically jubilating all over this thread because of support from fellow cohorts.

Miserable, lonely low-life of a girl.

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Re: What Is MGTOW? Meet The ‘Men Going Their Own Way’ by baby124: 4:40pm On Sep 17, 2019
genq:
missjo, so sorry you had to learn the hard way how vicious and hateful these so called feminists are. They will dehumanise their fellow woman just because she refuses to join the bandwagon.

Even the ones claiming married (e.g. baby124) - don't be surprised if their real life is nothing to write home about. Anyone can claim anything online. See how she's pathetically jubilating all over this thread because of support from fellow cohorts. Miserable, lonely low-life of a girl.

You sha said your mind and I appreciate your tactful way of speaking.

See Genq below in the black dress:

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Re: What Is MGTOW? Meet The ‘Men Going Their Own Way’ by genq(m): 4:50pm On Sep 17, 2019
baby124:


See Genq below in the black dress:

cheesy
My point exactly. This chick is a fvcking kid.

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Re: What Is MGTOW? Meet The ‘Men Going Their Own Way’ by baby124: 4:51pm On Sep 17, 2019
genq:


cheesy
My point exactly. This chick is a fvcking kid.

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Re: What Is MGTOW? Meet The ‘Men Going Their Own Way’ by doitforu: 4:59pm On Sep 17, 2019
lol it seems you know NL so well, this comment has been removed by butt hurt people on this thread and I’ve been banned for days lol. Now what will I do with my life?
pocohantas:


Lol

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Re: What Is MGTOW? Meet The ‘Men Going Their Own Way’ by pocohantas(f): 5:02pm On Sep 17, 2019
doitforu:
lol it seems you know NL so well, this comment has been removed by butt hurt people on this thread and I’ve been banned for days lol. Now what will I do with my life?

I know na. The minute I saw that "dumb" in your comment, I knew you had it coming.

Hahahaha. Funny question cheesy

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Re: What Is MGTOW? Meet The ‘Men Going Their Own Way’ by doitforu: 5:08pm On Sep 17, 2019
That’s why I stayed away from the weekend madness. These people are not interested in a dialogue, they know what feminism is and they don't believe women should have equal access to opportunities that men have been enjoying since the inception of mankind. However, they can't say this in public so they 1. They invent and distort ideologies that are not about feminism to the movement 2. They define the whole movement by the ideologies of a radical few.

If you call them out and hold their feet to the fire and force them to acknowledge and discuss the real movement, they attack, gaslight and they try to dismiss your argument by discrediting you as ”angry” ”emotional” ”bitter”

cococandy:
Phew. Couldn’t have said it better.

Commending you for the patience to still educate in these days when knowledge is available to anyone who is even slightly interested.

Being willfully or maliciously biased isn’t an excuse and just makes me want to throwaway both the poster and their comments. No time or patience for obvious gaslighting.

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Re: What Is MGTOW? Meet The ‘Men Going Their Own Way’ by desvi: 5:08pm On Sep 17, 2019
doitforu:
lol it seems you know NL so well, this comment has been removed by butt hurt people on this thread and I’ve been banned for days lol. Now what will I do with my life?

chai ...
you caused too much pain
didn't know education hurts wink

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Re: What Is MGTOW? Meet The ‘Men Going Their Own Way’ by missjo(f): 5:12pm On Sep 17, 2019
baby124:

Interesting wink cheesy. What is your alternate or other handle?
I have none,I deliberately used 123 to avoid giving you an unnecessary mention.
Re: What Is MGTOW? Meet The ‘Men Going Their Own Way’ by Acidosis(m): 5:16pm On Sep 17, 2019
cococandy:
Feminists asked to be treated with the same respect and social consideration accorded to men.


Don't even bother defining feminism because those behind the movement are yet to come up with one holistic meaning. And an attempt to define feminism in the manner you've done is like saying Boko Haram is simply an anti-western education sect.

To the best of my knowledge (based on common knowledge in this part of the world), it takes a group of man-hating, bitter and frustrated people to call themselves feminists.

And you must realize that every cause has an effect. If MGTOW is the effect of toxic feminism, then embrace it!

Hatred for men beget hatred for women. Movement taken too far but what do you expect from a group of terribly emasculated grown a$$ men?

I believe women can achieve a lot and attain far greater heights without necessarily comparing themselves with men. A lot of women are doing great things whether in marriage or not. When you think a group of people are responsible for your woes, it's only a matter of time before hatred sets in.

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Re: What Is MGTOW? Meet The ‘Men Going Their Own Way’ by missjo(f): 5:17pm On Sep 17, 2019
cococandy:


Gas light

So you did enjoy women’s rights but have shyt to say about those who made it possible for you to do so.
Why not go back to being seen and not heard, barefoot and pregnant with no voice or voting power.

Make the mgtow happy again. Let’s bring them back to society since seeing women be human like men is driving them back into the caves. Relinquish those women’s rights you enjoy and go back to the status quo they want. Then you can talk about feminism and we will take you seriously.
I really do not know what you are even going on about. I clearly stated earlier that i am not for labels. I have said shyt about mgtow here and have had one too many confrontations with the head honcho ubunja on the same issue,so i honestly do not know what you are trying to join me with or what the problem is.

I also did not type blisters about feminism,i merely made a similarity between hardline feminists and mgtow. If you want to gain clout,at least be noble enough to state my comments accurately and do not malign me. Good day

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Re: What Is MGTOW? Meet The ‘Men Going Their Own Way’ by cococandy(f): 5:19pm On Sep 17, 2019
I’ve adopted the title of bitter feminist to make their jobs easier. They don’t have to retype the whole thing over and over again. We all know I’m bitter. Now let’s get to the point which is what’s bolded in your comment.

Anyone who can claim they want equal rights for women and men but are anti-feminist is confused IMO.
I think I actually prefer those who can truthfully state that they are against the feminist movement because they think women are beneath men. That honesty gives us something to debate about because they it’s clear what we disagree on.

For the dishonest run-around-the-bush-without-making-a-point type, I don’t know what to say.
doitforu:
That’s why I stayed away from the weekend madness. These people are not interested in a dialogue, they know what feminism is and they don't believe women should have equal access to opportunities that men have been enjoying since the inception of mankind. However, they can't say this in public so they 1. They invent and distort ideologies that are not about feminism to the movement 2. They define the whole movement by the ideologies of a radical few.

If you call them out and hold their feet to the fire and force them to acknowledge and discuss the real movement, they attack, gaslight and they try to dismiss your argument by discrediting you as ”angry” ”emotional” ”bitter”

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Re: What Is MGTOW? Meet The ‘Men Going Their Own Way’ by cococandy(f): 5:22pm On Sep 17, 2019
If you’re equating the two (a movement that’s against hate on women and the disenfranchisement of women versus the one that wants to pack out of society because women can now be treated as humans like men) and you don’t know what the problem is, then I’d say the problem is you. No?

missjo:

I really do not know what you are even going on about. I clearly stated earlier that i am not for labels. I have said shyt about mgtow here and have had one too many confrontations with the head honcho ubunja on the same issue,so i honestly do not what you are trying to join me with or what the problem is.

I did not type blisters about feminism,i merely made a similarity between hardline feminists and mgtow. If you want to gain clout,at least be noble enough to state my comments accurately and do not malign me. Good day

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Re: What Is MGTOW? Meet The ‘Men Going Their Own Way’ by cococandy(f): 5:32pm On Sep 17, 2019
Acidosis:


Don't even bother defining feminism because those behind the movement are yet to come up with one holistic meaning. And an attempt to define feminism in the manner you've done is like saying Boko Haram is simply an anti-western education sect.
you chose to believe it’s undefined because that gives you the opportunity to define it in a way that suits your agenda. I’ll pass.


To the best of my knowledge (based on common knowledge in this part of the world), it takes a group of man-hating, bitter and frustrated people to call themselves feminists.
Or a group of women who see social injustices that are gender tailored and decide to speak up against it. Common knowledge is not often accurate knowledge. I’d think your know better than that.

And you must realize that every cause has an effect. If MGTOW is the effect of feminism, then embrace it!
fully embraced. They can take a hike and the world will be better for it. Except that in a true misogynistic fashion, MGTOW will seek to hurt and kill others for them not getting their way. Inciting gun violence and murder because waah waah, gone are the says when men could say jump and women would say how high. If they would just leave already without physically hurting anyone . No need to be dramatic about it.

Hatred for men beget hatred for women.
This part is very funny. Like is that upside down or what?
And I know your definition of “hatred for men” means asking for respect for women. Any woman who has the nerve to ask for that is hating on men. Can’t love men in a real NL way without being able to take demeaning social standards as part the package right?

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