Okay, let me quickly expose a secret you most likely don't know about Masturbation.

Recently, Femi, my gantry hostelmate, other friends and I were outside my hostel, chilling.

At a moment, he collected my phone to access my Gallery.

To his surprise, I locked it, and even the Gallery app.
"So you also have joined the soapy crew, Godwin?" he teased.

Because they know me. I don't keep sensitive docs on phone. So, I don't lock my phones. Not until July, when I caught a lady scrolling through my sms.

Masturbation was the talk of the moment in Ikire, this fateful day. And I was happy to share my quota on that trauma habit. Let me share you too.

I discovered Masturbation when I clocked 13, and this time, was early 2012. I didn't discover it through porn.

Dear, I grew up amidst Ospoly Iree students. I watched a lot about porn. But God helped me not to recognize its significance.

It was inside bathroom, I realized a strange thing. And I began to research Google with my flat Nokia X2-01. I never knew there was anything named Masturbation. I understood it succinctly. I studied the psychological effect effectively.

I began research in the Bible. I never trusted to ask anyone - but only God and Google. Trust me, the only place where something about Masturbation appeared is the unfortunate case of Onan. In short, God warned me that it's deadly.

Pas. Chris Oyhakilome, a globally renown pastor again at that time answered this question that it's not a sin, since you're not lusty about a lady, who God warned about. I became a bit confused. But God helped me to understand this concept totally and better sooner than later. Carefully read this o please.

See, the reason why you rarely see anyone talk about Masturbation is that most people practice it.

According to medical research, in Wikipedia(2017), over 95% of males and 85% of females globally have masturbated, respectively.

They'll feel guilty and unsafe to talk about Masturbation.

Don't mind all these religious condemnations. Nevertheless, if you've been practicing it, you'd better find a way to totally stop.

You know why?
You can't be productive in life. This is not a curse.

Are you saying a friend is practising and getting away with it? Watch out for him. Unless he stops.

Real sex is totally different from Masturbation

If you'll agree with me about the reality of the spiritual world, know this. Your spiritual pillar shrinks the more every time you masturbate. Quote me anywhere.

Let's forget if it's a sin or not this time around.

Your brain is designed to release some hormones called Dopamine. That hormone will get you addictive. An implication of that can destroy your sexual performance.

For instance, my guys, A male can be vulnerable to less than a 30second ejaculation. From my research, a lady or a guy may suffer by not reaching Orgasm when performing the real thing - later on.

You won't be productive because your brain's receptacles and innovative organ would become weak and lazy.

If you believe in the existence of devil, that's how he's been destroying talented youths.

Do you think people are not talented?

Oh, you think there are only few people who discovered their purpose in life. People are getting answers and idea to their purpose in life, but their habits won't accord them the flavour to succeed.

Buhari is not your problem. We're our problems.

I've researched a lot about Masturbation, interviewed addicts and asked doctors about Masturbation. Doctors might even advise you that it's safe. Yes. It's 100% STD free but your productive strength will be sucked.

Yes. Doctors told me they demand for it due to tests and diagnoses.

Are you into this act and you think you're productive? I can prove that you were designed to be far better productive than that state. You ain't designed to be a Local Champion. Trust me.

You know me, I will never say what I don't know.

Kindly advise anyone you know it for to stop it, if you love that person.

If you struggle with Masturbation, and you want to stop, religiousness will only make it worse.

It can be difficult. You may not stop at once. But you'll finally stop.

Avoid staying alone;

ask God for help;

avoid hugging opposite sex;

find a hobby ;

Learn a musical instrument ;

and don't stare at girls with massive frontside and backside.

Don't mind those that advice that you go get a girlfriend, for real sex - that as a result, you'll hate masturbation.

From my research, that choice can interrupt your life's plan. It's not even the solution.

By God's grace, you'll stop totally. You're not addictive. You're only mis-arranging your priorities.





Kindly share with your family members, and friends.
You may chat me up through my Nairaland's email for questions or help. I'm eager to assist you out.

I am Godwin Oluponmile

I'm proud of myself. A young girl that looks up to me in church once picked my phone up and immediately went straight to check my pictures and videos, and then my browser. It wasn't until months later before I understood what she was doing. I felt proud of myself after I came to the point of realization

healthserve:
I'm proud of myself. A young girl that looks up to me in church once picked my phone up and immediately went straight to check my pictures and videos, and then my browser. It wasn't until months later before I understood what she was doing. I felt proud of myself after I came to the point of realization

Wao!
If I may ask ma, you came to the point to realize what?

godwinstringed1:



Wao!
If I may ask ma, you came to the point to realize what?

She was checking for porn. What a silly girl she was. Days later she was bathing naked around an open space around me knowing she was safe

healthserve:



She was checking for porn. What a silly girl she was. Days later she was bathing naked around an open space around me knowing she was safe

Geeez

godwinstringed1:



Geeez

Haq haq haq

This one has taken his sense for vanishing.

Mtchewww

Pastry Chef needed urgently.

Location: Lekki

Hehehehe

godwinstringed1:


I am Godwin Oluponmile

Your write up made no sense at all.
What exactly are you saying?
You'll smoke weed and will come and be wasting internet ink spewing trash.




Unlike you, this guy made sense

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The problem with masturbation, is that it is contrary to the purposes of the act of sex.
Sex is intended to be an expression of love between a married man and woman.
They express this love through a complete self-giving to one another in the act.
Love never takes or is selfish. It should always be about the other person, not me.

Masturbation is an exact opposite act – it is all about the selfish feelings one derives from the act. By the very nature of the act, it turns one in on oneself. This is the opposite of love, because it isn’t about another person

While many young people suffer from compulsive self-gratification, it is not impossible to stop.
The temporary relief and feelings quickly lead to emptiness and in many cases shame.
It is like being thirsty and trying to quench your thirst by drinking water from the ocean, which only hurts you and makes you need good clean water.

A few practical tips for those that struggle with this sin:

Try to understand what makes you want to indulge sexually.
Is it boredom, self-hate, stress, etc.
Then try to prepare yourself to battle during theses times.
You must fill up the negative thoughts and lustful images with positive ones.
Sacred Scripture and holy images can help.
Stay away from moments of temptation, the computer,
being alone, watching movies with sex, etc.
Have a battle plan to combat these problems.
You MUST work on your spiritual life.
The closer you draw to Jesus in prayer and the Sacrament the more you will conquer this problem.
Most people need some kind of accountability to stop once they acquire this habit.

As for whether it is healthy or not.
Some studies show that masturbation might help with a healthier prostate for men and have a few other small health benefits. But, these are negligible. There are some reports of problems in sex with their spouses for men who masturbate frequently – esp. premature ejaculation, erectile dysfunction at early ages, etc… So, health-wise, there is no good reason to have a habit of masturbation.
Remember:

In Conclusion,
“You were bought at a price. Therefore honor God with your body” -1 Cor 6:20

The problem with masturbation, is that it is contrary to the purposes of the act of sex.
Sex is intended to be an expression of love between a married man and woman.
They express this love through a complete self-giving to one another in the act.
Love never takes or is selfish. It should always be about the other person, not me.

Masturbation is an exact opposite act – it is all about the selfish feelings one derives from the act. By the very nature of the act, it turns one in on oneself. This is the opposite of love, because it isn’t about another person

While many young people suffer from compulsive self-gratification, it is not impossible to stop.
The temporary relief and feelings quickly lead to emptiness and in many cases shame.
It is like being thirsty and trying to quench your thirst by drinking water from the ocean, which only hurts you and makes you need good clean water.

A few practical tips for those that struggle with this sin:

Try to understand what makes you want to indulge sexually.
Is it boredom, self-hate, stress, etc.
Then try to prepare yourself to battle during theses times.
You must fill up the negative thoughts and lustful images with positive ones.
Sacred Scripture and holy images can help.
Stay away from moments of temptation, the computer,
being alone, watching movies with sex, etc.
Have a battle plan to combat these problems.
You MUST work on your spiritual life.
The closer you draw to Jesus in prayer and the Sacrament the more you will conquer this problem.
Most people need some kind of accountability to stop once they acquire this habit.

As for whether it is healthy or not.
Some studies show that masturbation might help with a healthier prostate for men and have a few other small health benefits. But, these are negligible. There are some reports of problems in sex with their spouses for men who masturbate frequently, especially premature ejaculation, erectile dysfunction at early ages, etc.
So, health-wise, there is no good reason to have a habit of masturbation.
Remember:

In Conclusion,
“You were bought at a price. Therefore honor God with your body” -1 Cor 6:20

The world will be a better and safer place for the female folks if all males chose to masturbate once in a while.

Infact the world will be favourable to all genders because I have never heard of anyone contracting diseases or having unwanted pregnancy from masturbation.


Hypocrites!

G

Another morally-pretentious îdiot talking shît on a cold afternoon!

Just incoherent ramblings from a religiously stupid 19 year old.

You better go and read for your Jamb and GCE!

When I read for 2 hours, I take 30 minutes Break to masturbate and ease tension. I'm intelligent and productive. My John Thomas is still more than 7 inches huge ,you know I masturbate on my study table so I get to measure it with a ruler.

Masturbation can prolong ejaculation when you eventually have sex. If you're intelligent you will be able to control when you release your semen with your brain when you have normal sex. Also, the pattern you hold your organ during masturbation should not be the position you'd like to insert your organ during sex. If you use one position to masturbate for a year and actually change it believe me you'll stay for over an hour before ejaculating. Ejaculation is mental, it's what I came to understand. A man easily ejaculates in his "comfort zone ".


This is a first hand information from one who has spent seven straight years in the game. Shout out to the Vaseline crew.

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The write up makes a lot of sense, but those who will still masturbate after this post are still out there.

Just like crimes cannot be stopped by preaching, same thing goes for masturbation. Some will take your advice while some won't. It's called freedom of choice.

Pls tell which is bad?

Fucking ashawo and masturbating??

Also a very big sin against God

Thats how u guys go about spreading lies and baseless assertions

Which one is bad among


Fucking ashawo or masturbating

Deep, but most of those celebrities masturbate and still productive

Who no dey masturbate.

Btw I buy and sell funds at a sweet rate

Wankers crew won't like this

too much soapy make you lack concentration
for real