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You're so right

haaryobhami:
how were u able to stop,been doing it for 5 years now nd I really want to stop

Honestly speaking, my only method was motivation.

seunmohmoh:
The write up makes a lot of sense, but those who will still masturbate after this post are still out there.

Just like crimes cannot be stopped by preaching, same thing goes for masturbation. Some will take your advice while some won't. It's called freedom of choice.

Naa...the only thing that makes sense in the write up is the dopamine part, which is also released when you have sex with a partner.

The rest is just Ignorance On Rampage.

OP got 29 likes LegendHero 45[color=#990000][/color] likes, this goes to show how much people hate to hear the truth

Nggs121:


I pity for human beings like you who believe in such bullsh¡t

I never knew people like you still existed
No wonder the highly educated look down on people like you. Nothing to offer except stupid concepts and theories about talking donkeys, and walking dead.
And of course masturbation affecting ones success in life

*spits on your destiny*

Watin this one dey talk now?

I'm not understanding this para...

Sufisunni:
Honestly speaking, my only method was motivation.

congrats on winning the battle,u got kids now right ?

Omoluabi9:
Naa...the only thing that makes sense is the dopamine part, which is also released when you have sex with a partner.

The rest is just ignorance on rampage.

Guys who masturbates are less likely to rape. How true is this statement?

imitateMe:
You don see them do am?

ask patoranking

NnaaMenn:



Sorry bro

Tanks man.

I don't know how this made front page .

Ovasize:
OP got 29 likes LegendHero 45 likes, this goes to show how much people hate to hear the truth

And you my friend, you didn't even get any likes at all suggesting that you are making no sense at all...

healthserve:



She was checking for porn. What a silly girl she was. Days later she was bathing naked around an open space around me knowing she was safe

Lol. Safe ko, Safe ni. Oga ur sense should tell you that you are under sage from her.

Better run like Joseph before you fall your hand.

and, that's nice clearing up ur tracks. that's was wise.

MrMacinterchi1:



Lol. Safe ko, Safe ni. Oga ur sense should tell you that you are understanding sage from her.

Better run like Joseph before you fall your hand.

and, that's nice clearing up ur tracks. that's was wise.

So you think when I saw the unclothedness I didn't run abi. Smh. I flew

So what exactly is the difference between sex and masturbation? Cos I still don't get ur point... what if I'm addicted to sex? I'll still hv same repercussion?

seunmohmoh:
Guys who masturbates are less likely to rape. How true is this statement?

First off, a rapist IS NOT in a right state of mind before he commits the act.

No matter the desire, a mentally balanced man (or woman) will not resort to the extremely selfish and dastardly act of rape.

So there's no link whatsoever between guys who masturbate or not and rape. (Rape is more of a depraved state of mind before the act.)

However, guys who masturbate are less likely to engage in illicit sex.

Does my comment do justice to your question?

Omoluabi9:
First off, a rapist IS NOT in a right state of mind before he commits the act.

No matter the desire, a mentally balanced man (or woman) will not resort to the extremely selfish and dastardly act of rape.

So there's no link whatsoever between guys who masturbate or not and rape. (Rape is more of a depraved state of mind before the act.)

However, guys who masturbate are less likely to engage in illicit sex.

Does my comment do justice to your question?

Yes it does. I just read stuffs like that online that's why I asked.

godwinstringed1:

I am Godwin Oluponmile

boss let be straight with you.. I have being trying to stop this as well.. its keep coming please I need help

seunmohmoh:
The write up makes a lot of sense, but those who will still masturbate after this post are still out there.

Just like crimes cannot be stopped by preaching, same thing goes for masturbation. Some will take your advice while some won't. It's called freedom of choice.

Omo osun

Masturbation is the devil's chain on your soul. Hate the truth for I all I care, with masturbation, you are heading to hell fire. You can laugh and scorn at the truth.
That so many people are into a sin will not make GOD change His mind about the sin and call it good.

If you are into masturbation, go and see a Christian counsellor to help you break free from it. It is a sinful habit that works against your own body and soul.

Getting married does not necessarily get rid of it. I am speaking from encounters with suffering married people who had thought in this line before they got married.
Get help now!

Abeg wanking is better than paying ashawo that will still give you STDs.

You can't help these stupid, sanctimonious Nigerians.

You should focus on more pressing issues relating to the development of your country and stop imposing your worthless, prudish opinion on others.

Pretentious, time wasting nincompoops!

Is it your masturbation?

mastermaestro:
Masturbation is the devil's chain on your soul. Hate the truth for I all I care, with masturbation, you are heading to hell fire. You can laugh and scorn at the truth.
That so many people are into a sin will not make GOD change His mind about the sin and call it good.

If you are into masturbation, go and see a Christian counsellor to help you break free from it. It is a sinful habit that works against your own body and soul.

Getting married does not necessarily get rid of it. I am speaking from encounters with suffering married people who had thought in this line before they got married.
Get help now!

Why not a Hindu counselor?

Na dem.

Dem don begin dey crawl out.

seunmohmoh:
Yes it does. I just read stuffs like that online that's why I asked.

Good.

It's good you asked, now you have clarity.

May I add, that's a nice body you have there. *Tips hat*

Keep it that way

Too many helpful tips but i have not seen any suggestion on controlling one's thoughts. All our actions stems from our thoughts and hence it is safe to say that our thoughts makes us do what we do. If anyone is still in this affliction, yes i call it so, please control your thoughts. I understand that it'll not be easy the first time but once you've done it a number of times, you can actually perfect it overtime. There is such a thing as "sexual energies". Classics like "Think and Grow Rich", a book written by Napoleon Hill would give you more details about this. Also read, "As a Man Thinketh" by James Allen. You'll see that when a man lacks the potential to control his thought, all manner of weeds becomes eligible tor grow there. A man must actively control his thoughts by weeding out rubbishes and allowing useful and fruitful seeds to grow there. If you misuse your sexual energy which you can be creatively transmuted into other areas, you are wasting meaningful energy. It is truly a counter-productivity habit. It makes you lack concentration and worst of all, it makes you irresolute. You'll lack that inner personal power when you engage in this habit. I am saying this because i have once been there. Masturbation is never a healthy habit.

Please, CONTROL YOUR THOUGHTS even if it means violently countering lustful thoughts with WORDS when they come into your mind. It is not easy at first, but in at least one month's time, it would be automatic for you. For me, i find it easy to concentrate my attention on a task, i find it easy to resist temptations these days than i could before. It have greatly made me to wield greater control on my actions and choice

PS: For those of you saying you can be productive while engaging in this act, you are simply not being honest! Masturbation sucks up your inner energy reserves, it saps off your personal power. Watch people who masturbate, they often lack willpower and as a result, they sometimes become shy.

Don't let anyone lie to you. YOU CAN STOP THE HABIT. JUST CONTROL YOUR THOUGHTS AND YOUR RATE OF EXPOSURE TO MATERIALS THAT LURE YOU TO THIS ILLICIT ACT.

Meekha:
Too many helpful tips but i have not seen the any suggestion on controlling one's thoughts. All our actions stems from our thoughts and hence it is safe to say that our thoughts makes us do what we do. If anyone is still in this affliction, yes i call it so, please control your thoughts. I understand that it'll not be easy the first time but once you've done it a number of times, you can actually perfect it overtime. There is such a thing as "sexual energies". Classics like "Think and Grow Rich", a book written by Napoleon Hill would give you more details about this. If you misuse your sexual energy which you can be creatively transmuted into other areas, you are wasting meaningful energy. It is truly a counter-productivity habit. It makes you lack concentration and worst of all, you makes you irresolute. You'll lack that inner personal power when you engage in this habit. I am saying this because i have once been there. Masturbation is never a healthy habit.

Please, CONTROL YOUR THOUGHTS even if it means violently countering lustful thoughts with WORDS when they come into your mind. It is not easy at first, but in at least one month's time, it would be automatic for you. For me, i find it easy to concentrate my attention on a task, i find it easy to resist temptations these days than i could before. It have greatly made me to wield greater control on my actions and choice
PS: For those of you saying you can be productive while engaging in this act, you are simply not being honest! Masturbation sucks up your inner energy reserves, it saps off your personal power. Watch people who masturbate, they often lack willpower and as a result, they become shy.

Don't let anyone lie to you. YOU CAN STOP THE HABIT. JUST CONTROL YOUR THOUGHTS AND YOUR RATE OF EXPOSURE TO MATERIALS THAT LURE YOU TO THIS ILLICIT ACT.

One 19 years old boy with little or almost negligible experience is coming here to talk about productive..if you failed your mathematics exam because you masturbated,don't come here to generalise it...You better go and prepare for your Jamb and stop bringing baseless write up

One of the best articles i have come across in nairaland

Freehuman:
When I read for 2 hours, I take 30 minutes Break to masturbate and ease tension. I'm intelligent and productive. My John Thomas is still more than 7 inches huge ,you know I masturbate on my study table so I get to measure it with a ruler.

Masturbation can prolong ejaculation when you eventually have sex. If you're intelligent you will be able to control when you release your semen with your brain when you have normal sex. Also, the pattern you hold your organ during masturbation should not be the position you'd like to insert your organ during sex. If you use one position to masturbate for a year and actually change it believe me you'll stay for over an hour before ejaculating. Ejaculation is mental, it's what I came to understand. A man easily ejaculates in his "comfort zone ".


This is a first hand information from one who has spent seven straight years in the game. Shout out to the Vaseline crew.

all what you've just said are the opposite effect of masturbation

alausa288:


One 19 years old boy with little or almost negligible experience is coming here to talk about productive..if you failed your mathematics exam because you masturbated,don't come here to generalise it...You better go and prepare for your Jamb and stop bringing baseless write up

A nineteen year old boy?? You're kidding me?? Please go through my topics on Nairaland and make simple deductions. I would give you the benefit of conducting your first ever research!.

I understand that my words may have pierced your soul like a double-edge sword but this level of aggression you are displaying would only land you in deeper abyss. You may need someone to talk to without knowing it.

Let me reiterate it. CONTROL YOU THOUGHTS. CONTROL YOU MASTURBATION TENDENCIES. CONTROL YOUR LIFE!

godwinstringed1:

I am Godwin Oluponmile

gibberish

Omoluabi9:
First off, a rapist IS NOT in a right state of mind before he commits the act.

No matter the desire, a mentally balanced man (or woman) will not resort to the extremely selfish and dastardly act of rape.

So there's no link whatsoever between guys who masturbate or not and rape. (Rape is more of a depraved state of mind before the act.)

However, guys who masturbate are less likely to engage in illicit sex.

Does my comment do justice to your question?

Oga you are just beating around the bush period.

nep2ra:


Why not a Hindu counselor?

Na dem.

Dem don begin dey crawl out.

Keep scorning. When your clock stops here, we will know who was dumb all along. Do I look like I want to persuade you to believe in JESUS CHRIST? It is your choice.
Let me make it clear again. Masturbation is a highway to hell fire. Continue to run along, continue. You have been warned!