pharrell8:
What about the guys, when meeting the ladies parents

Savvywriteprene:
Nice tips. Moderation is key here. But then, families differ too. What might seem repulsive to one family could be accepted in another family.

The man knows his family. He should inform the lady how his family is , she can act accordingly.

pharrell8:
What about the guys, when meeting the ladies parents

anonimi:


See as I serve enter ya hand.
But seriously, do you think that the black man gets a pass?


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Apologies @ Safarigirl. I was even surprised when I saw that, didn't sound like you.

AreaFada2:

So all the shorty yam legs have no place in your parents' house.

Chai!

What if her parents are billionaires? Will they close one eye and NOT see the El-Ruffinic Otukpor yam parts of her?

Savvywriteprene:
Nice tips. Moderation is key here. But then, families differ too. What might seem repulsive to one family could be accepted in another family.

The man knows his family. He should inform the lady how his family is , she can act accordingly.

Savvywriteprene:
Nice tips. Moderation is key here. But then, families differ too. What might seem repulsive to one family could be accepted in another family.

The man knows his family. He should inform the lady how his family is , she can act accordingly.

pharrell8:
What about the guys, when meeting the ladies parents

Savvywriteprene:
Nice tips. Moderation is key here. But then, families differ too. What might seem repulsive to one family could be accepted in another family.

The man knows his family. He should inform the lady how his family is , she can act accordingly.

MadCow1:
Easy...

Step 1.. Be a suck up and kiss his mothers ass deeply.

Step 2. Go to the parents room, pack all their dorty clothes, wash, starch, iron and fold them and stack them by colour and design.

Step 3. No make-up.. You don't want to show your olosho side too early..

Step 4.. No Phonetics (translation in pidgin, no speak fuuné)

Step 5.. If they serve you any food, don't finish all the food. Remain some. You don't want to appear like you are from a hungry background. After tou finish eating, clear and wash your plate and clean the kitchen. Thats a sign of good home training.

Step 6.. Any name his mother calls your Man is what you must call him in her presence. Don't go and call a Man wey she don suffer train, breastfeed for 3 years "Baby".. Thays insulting to his mom.

Step 7. Natural hair.. No Attachment. You want to appear like a church girl. If you must, tie head tie.

Step 8. Wear native.. So you can appear like a traditional girl.



Do this and you will win their heart. If tou do all these and it still doesn't work, just stand up, look both parents in the face and say Your Pikin don already give me 4 months Belle and he must marry me and walk out.

Dont thank me, thank God.

Fountainofyouth:



You quote the whole write up just to type this? you are high

princeogbeide1:
Fool

tenderlaw:

I hope you realise it's very lame to quote this long article just to write this stuupid thing you wrote.

MadCow1:


Easiet..

Just turn up like Igwe Tupac in a 2019 Range Rover.. From the street to her house, start spraying money.

asobo:
What if the lady has been pretentious to the guy, can't meeting his parents for the first time expose something's he doesn't know. Just a question though.

Spatta:


"Act accordingly" a silent way of saying put on your "fakeness" This is exactly what i hate about women. If you have a good character, good manners, You don't have to be fake
Be one thing or else the other, I love someone who is out and out.
Pretense is what a woman does to look good before your Parents when in reality she is a Lion
Most ladies really are lacking in good characters
I hate Pretenders

"Which yet my soul seeketh, but I find not: one man among a thousand have I found; but a woman among all those have I not found".
Ecclesiastes 7:28

Belteshazzar1:


una dey hear am
I can hear some guys saying "Ride on"



una

Belteshazzar1:


una dey hear am
I can hear some guys saying "Ride on"



una

Savvywriteprene:


On the contrary Asobo, majority of ladies put on their best behavior when meeting their future in-laws.
You may never discover anything strange about her during the meeting.

On the other hand, before deciding that you want to spend the rest of your life with a woman; endeavor to do your due diligence to know exactly who you are getting married to, so you start expecting her to slip up when meeting your parents.

Gracias

asobo:

Thanks dear but the point I am trying to drive at is a situation whereby the lady tries to put in that best behaviour but deep within u as the "guy" you know know she is just been deceptive. Deceptive in such a way that you are seeing a total stranger in whom you brought home.

MNDY:


Feminists will find this thread and your post repulsive.

They stupid.ly beleive that the woman should enjoy everything a man enjoys too when God did not make it so. Trying so hard to rebel against God's natural order in the name of Feminism.

I have one who strongly believes that men enslave women and therefore Feminism is the voice for such enslaved women. And the thing is making them exhibit annoying attitudes like the feeling of not needing a man (especially when they are making money), rudeness, demanding equal rights but avoiding equal responsibility.

Lafortunado:


Why is everyone taking safarigirl's words at face value? You guys never heard of the expression "tongue in cheek"?

And I was thinking if it's not the same post we are reading... , wondering if it's me.


Where are they seeing all the 'sage and seriousness' in her comment?

Savvywriteprene:


On the contrary Asobo, majority of ladies put on their best behavior when meeting their future in-laws.
You may never discover anything strange about her during the meeting.

On the other hand, before deciding that you want to spend the rest of your life with a woman; endeavor to do your due diligence to know exactly who you are getting married to, so you start expecting her to slip up when meeting your parents.

Gracias

djon78:



Wise words
The man got to know what he is getting into. Because truly, some parents can really help some dudes avoid calamity by scrutinizing the Lady in question. And trust parents they can sniff out a fake.