I am a married man
Few years ago, I sinned. I entered a relationship with a lady even though I was married
We met once in my house when my wife wasn't around and we romanced (kiss, touches , fingering)
No penetration, though I admit was equally adultery
Afterwards, she began avoiding me, avoiding my calls etc, and thankfully I also repented of the sin of adultery
Lately, this lady has been calling, and messaging. Reminding me of what happened, and says I should accept what we did was wrong. Anytime she messages, it is about that one night romance

Please how do I approach this?
Does she wanna blackmail me?
Please help me

Fingering

You’ve repented, it’s time to make restitution.

Fingering hiaa
Go back and fingering more she needs more fingering

EFULEFU1:

I am a married man
Few years ago, I sinned. I entered a relationship with a lady even though I was married
We met once in my house when my wife wasn't around and we romanced (kiss, touches , fingering)
No penetration, though I admit was equally adultery
Afterwards, she began avoiding me, avoiding my calls etc, and thankfully I also repented of the sin of adultery
Lately, this lady has been calling, and messaging. Reminding me of what happened, and says I should accept what we did was wrong. Anytime she messages, it is about that one night romance

Please how do I approach this?
Does she wanna blackmail me?
Please help me

It is advicable you take this topic to family section,

There are more matures people there.

Thank me later

brodalikeme:
You’ve repented, it’s time to make restitution.

How please

Simply tell her you accept what you did was wrong. What next

AwkaetitiBabe:
Simply tell her you accept what you did was wrong. What next

Babe

this is not worthy of commenting on! read your post and use your number 6(iv)

U've repented of your sins,
Gently tell her it's over that what you did was wrong
If she insists.
Please apologize to ur wife in a way when her heart is merry seek her forgiveness sincerely so she will not hear it from outside n u ll hv bigger problems
Just my take

She probably wants to blackmail you.

Send her a text saying: "I have acknowledged and repented of that wrongdoing. Part of my vow to move forward was to not contact you again. Please do not contact me again".

EFULEFU1:

I am a married man
Few years ago, I sinned. I entered a relationship with a lady even though I was married
We met once in my house when my wife wasn't around and we romanced (kiss, touches , fingering)
No penetration, though I admit was equally adultery
Afterwards, she began avoiding me, avoiding my calls etc, and thankfully I also repented of the sin of adultery
Lately, this lady has been calling, and messaging. Reminding me of what happened, and says I should accept what we did was wrong. Anytime she messages, it is about that one night romance

Please how do I approach this?
Does she wanna blackmail me?
Please help me

Tell her dat u r nt interested in d relationship n dat u r married

EFULEFU1:

I am a married man
Few years ago, I sinned. I entered a relationship with a lady even though I was married
We met once in my house when my wife wasn't around and we romanced (kiss, touches , fingering)
No penetration, though I admit was equally adultery
Afterwards, she began avoiding me, avoiding my calls etc, and thankfully I also repented of the sin of adultery
Lately, this lady has been calling, and messaging. Reminding me of what happened, and says I should accept what we did was wrong. Anytime she messages, it is about that one night romance

Please how do I approach this?
Does she wanna blackmail me?
Please help me

GennyCheta:
U've repented of your sins,
Gently tell her it's over that what you did was wrong
If she insists.
Please apologize to ur wife in a way when her heart is merry seek her forgiveness sincerely so she will not hear it from outside n u ll hv bigger problems
Just my take

Please, my wife will cry forever if she hears this, I know her very well

Tell your wife you want a divorce. She'll wonder why? Then open up to her about cheating on her, then tell her divorcing her is the only way you can be at peace with yourself. I swear na she go beg you sef.

Once you are able to do this, call that bitch and tell her to do her worse.

This is the reverse psychology approach.

Don't quote me

EFULEFU1:

I am a married man
Few years ago, I sinned. I entered a relationship with a lady even though I was married
We met once in my house when my wife wasn't around and we romanced (kiss, touches , fingering)
No penetration, though I admit was equally adultery
Afterwards, she began avoiding me, avoiding my calls etc, and thankfully I also repented of the sin of adultery
Lately, this lady has been calling, and messaging. Reminding me of what happened, and says I should accept what we did was wrong. Anytime she messages, it is about that one night romance

Please how do I approach this?
Does she wanna blackmail me?
Please help me

Stop picking her calls or replying her messages

Let her do her worst

EFULEFU1:

I am a married man
Few years ago, I sinned. I entered a relationship with a lady even though I was married
We met once in my house when my wife wasn't around and we romanced (kiss, touches , fingering)
No penetration, though I admit was equally adultery
Afterwards, she began avoiding me, avoiding my calls etc, and thankfully I also repented of the sin of adultery
Lately, this lady has been calling, and messaging. Reminding me of what happened, and says I should accept what we did was wrong. Anytime she messages, it is about that one night romance

Please how do I approach this?
Does she wanna blackmail me?
Please help me

At the bolded, Op please remember the rape story of the COZA pastor.
If you are to accept what u did was wrong to her, make sure u don't say it over the phone call or thru a text message.
That lady might accuse u of rape and use that to extort you.
Or she might have that as an evidence and might threaten to show it to ur wife.

My advice is:
Approach her physically and ensure she is not recording ur conversation with her.
Ask her what's is her plans.
Try to know her reasons of persuading you to accept that.

That lady is a Delilah and she is about to destroy you.
So be wise!!!

Bros what you did with her was wrong in all material aspect. Since you have repented and not willing to continue sinning, avoid her completely even her calls and visits so as not to fall into any further temptation.

Your username says it all

AwkaetitiBabe:
Simply tell her you accept what you did was wrong. What next

If the guy use your advice, I can guarantee you that most of you will support the lady when she comes to the public to accuse him of rape with the evidence of his admission.

The lady is trying to trap him with his words.
I won't say much.

Thanks all for the advice
I have resolved not to pick her call or reply her text ever again

I am truly repentant
Please, other husbands, learn from my disgraceful experience and stick to only your wives

God bless you

kingkakaone:

If the guy use your advice, I can guarantee you that most of you will support the lady when she comes to the public to accuse him of rape with the evidence of his admission.

The lady is trying to trap him with his words.
I won't say much.

He should block her number then.

EFULEFU1:



Please, my wife will cry forever if she hears this, I know her very well

Do prefer she hears it from outside

24kmagic:
Tell your wife you want a divorce. She'll wonder why? Then open up to her about cheating on her, then tell her divorcing her is the only way you can be at peace with yourself. I swear na she go beg you sef.

Once you are able to do this, call that bitch and tell her to do her worse.

This is the reverse psychology approach.

Don't quote me

They way we women thinks defers
This can cause serious problem in their marriage,
She will think he wants her out of the way to marry another
We think weird atimes

AwkaetitiBabe:
He should block her number then.

The best way.
She should release her accusations without him helping her nail him.