He came at the right time when I needed someone to mend my broken heart from a failed relationship. At first, He was loving, caring and understanding. We were so attached to each other and that made me love him to the core. He is my best friend I love him sooooo much but at a point he began to withdraw from being whom I have known him to be. No more calls, if I complain he will say he is busy and doesn't have airtime and I will send him airtime, I am always the one buying him things and saying sorry in every argument,he will keep singing it to my ear that if I can't cope I should try another. I love him and I will always beg. he always blocks me online and unblock after several pleads. This is really weighting me down but don't know what to do anymore. After this recent argument he told me he wouldn't want to see my appology massage on his phone and blocked me online. What do i do now?Please no insults, I need a sincere advice.

Before advice, did you notice any change before the behavioral change and what's responsible for his change in behavior?

I feel and think you need to probe why he has changed towards you and try to find solutions to whatever it is. If you guys can communicate, if you can catch him when he feels comfortable, perhaps he'll open up.

Till then pele

firstladyp4:
He came at the right time when I needed someone to mend my broken heart from a failed relationship. At first, He was loving, caring and understanding. We were so attached to each other and that made me love him to the core. He is my best friend I love him sooooo much but at a point he began to withdraw from being whom I have known him to be. No more calls, if I complain he will say he is busy and doesn't have airtime and I will send him airtime, I am always the one buying him things and saying sorry in every argument,he will keep singing it to my ear that if I can't cope I should try another. I love him and I will always beg. he always blocks me online and unblock after several pleads. This is really weighting me down but don't know what to do anymore. After this recent argument he told me he wouldn't want to see my appology massage on his phone and blocked me online. What do i do now?Please no insults, I need a sincere advice.

Sounds pretty much like you’re dating yourself. I’m just coming out from something similar. Why keep forcing yourself on someone who doesn’t seem to want to you? In my case, she knew I wasn’t the type who kept female friends even before we met, so in the four years we dated, I didn’t make any female friends and even dropped some male friends. So now that she’s left it’s like I’m drowning all alone with no support... What I’m saying is that all this shît is in your head, you probably deserve better. Sometimes it’s hard, very hard but you should do what’s best for you. And if your case is like my mine you’re 60% likely going to go back, but why not save yourself the stress and more lies because most times the breakup is inevitable. Eventually it will happen, if not now, then later

That time is [/b]now[b]!

Stop begging....... It is obvious he is seeing someone else or tired of the relationship!

Put yourself together......... There is light at the end.

You re forcing yourself on him probably age is not on your side anymore. He knows u re trying too much to please him at all cost in other to keep him in the relationship .he is no longer comfortable with you in relationship.he has moved on.you too should let go.

This one no wan get sense.
Haunty, please keep begging oo.

He's got zero love for you sister, quit selling yourself short and move. You'd find another who'd love you for you with no begs trust me...no fears or worries.

Move on and keep a straight head with an open mind.

Your desperation is irritating and nauseating him...allow him be, please.

Maybe he was blind but now he can see. Miseducation resetting niggars since 1804.

Funny counsels here. Not that dude doesn't love, he changed, meaning he onced loved deeply. The change of attitude is caused by someone the Op is ignorant about which she has an assignment of knowing to do.

firstladyp4:
He came at the right time when I needed someone to mend my broken heart from a failed relationship. At first, He was loving, caring and understanding. We were so attached to each other and that made me love him to the core. He is my best friend I love him sooooo much but at a point he began to withdraw from being whom I have known him to be. No more calls, if I complain he will say he is busy and doesn't have airtime and I will send him airtime, I am always the one buying him things and saying sorry in every argument,he will keep singing it to my ear that if I can't cope I should try another. I love him and I will always beg. he always blocks me online and unblock after several pleads. This is really weighting me down but don't know what to do anymore. After this recent argument he told me he wouldn't want to see my appology massage on his phone and blocked me online. What do i do now?Please no insults, I need a sincere advice.

[b]See...those that said u shouldn’t use another person to heal a broken heart knows what they saying.....doing that means one is filling the empty void from the last relationship with another person...that’s giving the Key of one’e wholeness to a person...that’s not a good move....

Similarly, u are hurting from ur other relationship...this guy is just a high for you, like a cocaine fix...but u don’t know that cos u desperately need to feel good.....
The solution is with you.... break up with this guy now....don’t call him don’t text him, delete his number sharpally...the urge will come to call him...don’t try it..don’t pick his call.. remember this move is not to make him jealous or get back at him...it’s for ur healing process..konji will catch him..he might call u when he remembers he can get u cheap cos u have made him feel he as ur mumu button...don’t pick his call, don’t answer his text....please I beg u...
.you need to become 10/10 again by yourself for yourself......get ur standard happiness operating mode back, the mode not dependent on a person’s call, text, pen!s.....u very inner core self happy mode....don’t let anyone hold the key to ur joy before starting another relationship [/b]

You should have just let it be a rebound but you got hooked....Grave error.

Now,you too stop calling or texting or begging,you've done enough. No matter how tempting it feels,if you have nothing to keep you occupied, download books and start reading.

You gat this

firstladyp4:
He came at the right time when I needed someone to mend my broken heart from a failed relationship. At first, He was loving, caring and understanding. We were so attached to each other and that made me love him to the core. He is my best friend I love him sooooo much but at a point he began to withdraw from being whom I have known him to be. No more calls, if I complain he will say he is busy and doesn't have airtime and I will send him airtime, I am always the one buying him things and saying sorry in every argument,he will keep singing it to my ear that if I can't cope I should try another. I love him and I will always beg. he always blocks me online and unblock after several pleads. This is really weighting me down but don't know what to do anymore. After this recent argument he told me he wouldn't want to see my appology massage on his phone and blocked me online. What do i do now?Please no insults, I need a sincere advice.

You're obviously the type who takes things seriously. Your actions are those of a woman who loves to a fault. It's not a bad thing, that's just who you are.
There are two parts of you that controls emotions and subsequently actions; the head and the heart. Your heart will always mislead you 'cause it always wants what it wants without giving room for objectivity, while your head will always point out wrongs and rights in your actions and decision. There's always a constant battle between this two(the head, and the heart) whenever you feel badly treated. In your case, the heart has always won that's why you constantly call even when he gives you shit and believe he's too busy to return calls. There's nothing like being too busy to talk to whom you love. While he's too busy to call you, he's not too busy to call another person(male/female). What i'll say is; don't stress it. If you want to beg again and you can't resist the urge, go ahead. You'll certainly walk away when you're truely tired of it. Don't blame yourself it didn't work when you take that decision, you've done your very best.

Dare someone who is dating you!!

You are behaving like a weak desperate woman .

No time for Yeye boyfriend, try somebody else!

firstladyp4:
He came at the right time when I needed someone to mend my broken heart from a failed relationship. At first, He was loving, caring and understanding. We were so attached to each other and that made me love him to the core. He is my best friend I love him sooooo much but at a point he began to withdraw from being whom I have known him to be. No more calls, if I complain he will say he is busy and doesn't have airtime and I will send him airtime, I am always the one buying him things and saying sorry in every argument,he will keep singing it to my ear that if I can't cope I should try another. I love him and I will always beg. he always blocks me online and unblock after several pleads. This is really weighting me down but don't know what to do anymore. After this recent argument he told me he wouldn't want to see my appology massage on his phone and blocked me online. What do i do now?Please no insults, I need a sincere advice.

firstladyp4:
He came at the right time when I needed someone to mend my broken heart from a failed relationship. At first, He was loving, caring and understanding. We were so attached to each other and that made me love him to the core. He is my best friend I love him sooooo much but at a point he began to withdraw from being whom I have known him to be. No more calls, if I complain he will say he is busy and doesn't have airtime and I will send him airtime, I am always the one buying him things and saying sorry in every argument,he will keep singing it to my ear that if I can't cope I should try another. I love him and I will always beg. he always blocks me online and unblock after several pleads. This is really weighting me down but don't know what to do anymore. After this recent argument he told me he wouldn't want to see my appology massage on his phone and blocked me online. What do i do now?Please no insults, I need a sincere advice.

Stop calling him beside Ure butiful, If í dont mind Am seching too live around lagos anyway yoruba

This one is going to front page

firstladyp4:
He came at the right time when I needed someone to mend my broken heart from a failed relationship. At first, He was loving, caring and understanding. We were so attached to each other and that made me love him to the core. He is my best friend I love him sooooo much but at a point he began to withdraw from being whom I have known him to be. No more calls, if I complain he will say he is busy and doesn't have airtime and I will send him airtime, I am always the one buying him things and saying sorry in every argument,he will keep singing it to my ear that if I can't cope I should try another. I love him and I will always beg. he always blocks me online and unblock after several pleads. This is really weighting me down but don't know what to do anymore. After this recent argument he told me he wouldn't want to see my appology massage on his phone and blocked me online. What do i do now?Please no insults, I need a sincere advice.

No, stop. You are forcing yourself on him and he is begun in to sound like a very clever predator.

You are being used

Are u that ugly n desperate...?

Usual pattern. Chases you, gets you hooked, small fun, starts withdrawing, all efforts to get things back to how it used to be will be futile and THE END. Congratulations, you're back to being Single Hun and that's the bitter truth.

Most guys go through the same phase. You can now see how it hurts. My principle is take all you can. And give nothing back. Make your money and consume it alone.

firstladyp4:
He came at the right time when I needed someone to mend my broken heart from a failed relationship. At first, He was loving, caring and understanding. We were so attached to each other and that made me love him to the core. He is my best friend I love him sooooo much but at a point he began to withdraw from being whom I have known him to be. No more calls, if I complain he will say he is busy and doesn't have airtime and I will send him airtime, I am always the one buying him things and saying sorry in every argument,he will keep singing it to my ear that if I can't cope I should try another. I love him and I will always beg. he always blocks me online and unblock after several pleads. This is really weighting me down but don't know what to do anymore. After this recent argument he told me he wouldn't want to see my appology massage on his phone and blocked me online. What do i do now?Please no insults, I need a sincere advice.

STOP THIS!

1StopRudeness:


See...those that said u shouldn’t use another person to heal a broken heart knows what they saying.....doing that meansonr is filling the empty void from the last relationship with another person...that’s giving the Key of one’e wholeness to a person...that’s not a good move....

Similarly, u are hurting from ur other relationship...this guy is just a high for you, like a cocaine fix...but u don’t know that cos u desperately need to feel good.....
The solution is with you.... break up with this guy now....don’t call him don’t text him, delete his number sharpally...the urge will come to call him...don’t try it.. remember this move is not to make him jealous or get back at him...it’s for ur healing process...you need to become 10/10 again by yourself for yourself.......don’t let anyone hold the key to ur joy

Best comment ever!Op read this.

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firstladyp4:
He came at the right time when I needed someone to mend my broken heart from a failed relationship. At first, He was loving, caring and understanding. We were so attached to each other and that made me love him to the core. He is my best friend I love him sooooo much but at a point he began to withdraw from being whom I have known him to be. No more calls, if I complain he will say he is busy and doesn't have airtime and I will send him airtime, I am always the one buying him things and saying sorry in every argument,he will keep singing it to my ear that if I can't cope I should try another. I love him and I will always beg. he always blocks me online and unblock after several pleads. This is really weighting me down but don't know what to do anymore. After this recent argument he told me he wouldn't want to see my appology massage on his phone and blocked me online. What do i do now?Please no insults, I need a sincere advice.

Come let me date you, I promise not to treat you like shit

firstladyp4:
He came at the right time when I needed someone to mend my broken heart from a failed relationship. At first, He was loving, caring and understanding. We were so attached to each other and that made me love him to the core. He is my best friend I love him sooooo much but at a point he began to withdraw from being whom I have known him to be. No more calls, if I complain he will say he is busy and doesn't have airtime and I will send him airtime, I am always the one buying him things and saying sorry in every argument,he will keep singing it to my ear that if I can't cope I should try another. I love him and I will always beg. he always blocks me online and unblock after several pleads. This is really weighting me down but don't know what to do anymore. After this recent argument he told me he wouldn't want to see my appology massage on his phone and blocked me online. What do i do now?Please no insults, I need a sincere advice.

the guys has just been ubunjalise.. Don't worry e still loves u

firstladyp4:
He came at the right time when I needed someone to mend my broken heart from a failed relationship. At first, He was loving, caring and understanding. We were so attached to each other and that made me love him to the core. He is my best friend I love him sooooo much but at a point he began to withdraw from being whom I have known him to be. No more calls, if I complain he will say he is busy and doesn't have airtime and I will send him airtime, I am always the one buying him things and saying sorry in every argument,he will keep singing it to my ear that if I can't cope I should try another. I love him and I will always beg. he always blocks me online and unblock after several pleads. This is really weighting me down but don't know what to do anymore. After this recent argument he told me he wouldn't want to see my appology massage on his phone and blocked me online. What do i do now?Please no insults, I need a sincere advice.

No insult but i feel like insulting you shall like for real.c'mon girl focus on ur life to make it bttr and live that guy. Wit time ur eye go open nvr force urself on anyone cos at the long run, u'll regret every of ur action..good guys plenty for 9ja wen go value u.

J111333:
This one no wan get sense.
Haunty, please keep begging oo.

I dey shame for people like u... Do u have to insult someone... ****smh**** ur type eeeehhhhh

Don't beg him any more OP, forget about him.He wasn't really into you in the first place.

R