2special:
Oga, you better mind your own business....Leave them alone abeg

thorpido:
There's more to it than the clothes.Something is eating her up.
The husband intelligently seek it out

Willy7:
Happy Sunday Nairalanders.
I'm posting this on behalf of a neighbour and he is reading and seeing your advices and contributions as a guest.
He recently got married about 3 months ago. According to him, his wife is not the pretentious type,sometimes stubborn but also hardworking. Something happened today that has got him thinking. They usually do laundries together, and he does the washing while she rinses and spreads. They brought out their dirty cloths and cottons for laundry this morning and after she soaked the cottons, she asked him to soak the cloths which he obliged. He hasn't finished soaking it when he noticed that she is struggling with the cottons, and he asked her to leave the cottons for him and come over to finish the soaking of the cloths he was doing, she told him playfully but point-blank that she won't touch the cloths. He thought it was a joke, he took over the cottons and after soaking it, he found out that she has been dodging the cloths. She refused touching it. He got upset and left the laundry, she took over the cotton. When he later came out, he took the cotton from her and helped her rinse them to spread. As he was doing this, she entered the house and start bathing. When he enquired, she said she has finished washing, and if he can't wash the cloths, he should park them inside. My neighbour was stunned. He got angry and went into the house leaving the cloths outside. For sometime now, he has been thinking what action to take and how to address such issue. He wants to know if this is just stubbornness or is there something he is Ignorant of.

LilMissFavvy:
If she is allergic to washing, then the man should be taking the clothes to a dry cleaner. If he wants to cause problems in his marriage simply because of washing, then that's his business. Some men provide washing machines for their wives, no big deal.

Vikkoh:
He musn't do it! I REPEAT! HE MUSN'T DO IT!!

He should leaue them outside or take the clothes inside.

I advise so because if he should do the laundry, then his Wife will win the 'case'. He should stand his ground and not wash them..

Women THE WOMEN IN MY FAMILY are meant to be ruled and not to rule.

theButterfly:
Fixed that for you.

Theyoungmatron:
Poverty. Washing machine should've solve this problem.

He should select his cloth, wash them and soak the wife's cloth as she requested. They should stop washing each others cloths sef . Kids never come and dem dey throw yeye tantrum.

Dey even carry am come nairaland, kai mana

lilmax:
They usually do laundries together, and he does the washing while she rinses and spreads.


his fvck up

helping her do chores

that's why its good your woman does all the chores, because it will become familiarity las las

forget the a husband should help his wife crap


deed is done, he should continue or stop helping her

Willy7:
They have a washing machine. They decided to wash manually.

Theyoungmatron:
So what is the problem here
He should use it.
What will he do if his business partner or colleague in the office do something similar?
Men are whining more than women nowadays

Willy7:
Ya, he is seriously considering not helping her out on chores anymore. In fact he is furious.

Theyoungmatron:
He is not helping her in any chores. He is rather helping himself.

You stated earlier that the wife is hardworking which when translated to street lingo means that the wife is financially capable.
Except you are financially capable of footing house bills comfortably without inputs from the wife, be rest assured that not helping at home will either force the wife to withdraw her finances or opt to be a full-time housewife to take care of the growing responsibility.
You can't eat your cake and have it.

Willy7:
They have a washing machine. They decided to wash manually. They actually moved to a new apartment last night, and because the whole house was so congested, they decided to go spend the night and today at the guy's family house before returning to arrange their house. They took their dirty cloths and cotton along to wash. In fact as I'm writing this, he said the wife has laid down to sleep, while his Mom saw the littered cloths outside and is washing them. He is so furious, didn't say anything to his Mom, but went into the room and told his wife he will deal with her because of this. I just told him to calm down for now.

Theyoungmatron:
He will deal with her? In what way?? It may interest us to assume that this may not be the main cause of their problem. They should sort their problem out.
They packed in last night..... with all the rigors of the packing. Isn't it obvious that the wife may be too tired to continue or needed a rest??
She couldn't continue and told him so, even advise him to pack the rest inside and he is still fuming. What exactly is wrong with him?
Will it kill him to finish the washing or he is fuming that his mother is washing his clothes instead of his wife? Where the Bleep is the problem here?


Is the wife pregnant, if i may ask?

thorpido:
There's more to it than the clothes.Something is eating her up.
The husband intelligently seek it out

Vikkoh:


You're a Feminist?

LilMissFavvy:
If she is allergic to washing, then the man should be taking the clothes to a dry cleaner. If he wants to cause problems in his marriage simply because of washing, then that's his business. Some men provide washing machines for their wives, no big deal.

LilMissFavvy:
If she is allergic to washing, then the man should be taking the clothes to a dry cleaner. If he wants to cause problems in his marriage simply because of washing, then that's his business. Some men provide washing machines for their wives, no big deal.

Theyoungmatron:
So what is the problem here
He should use it.
What will he do if his business partner or colleague in the office do something similar?
Men are whining more than women nowadays

Theyoungmatron:
He is not helping her in any chores. He is rather helping himself.

You stated earlier that the wife is hardworking which when translated to street lingo means that the wife is financially capable.
Except you are financially capable of footing house bills comfortably without inputs from the wife, be rest assured that not helping at home will either force the wife to withdraw her finances or opt to be a full-time housewife to take care of the growing responsibility.
You can't eat your cake and have it.

ahnie:

Dockie... pleasant Sunday sir!