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Re: A Message To The Man Who Breaks A Woman’s Heart by flowx(m): 7:23am On Sep 23, 2019
uthlaw:
that very good idea but remember that as you wish for rich guy that how 100th of ladies out there want rich guy....so imagine just one rich guy fucking more than 30 of ladies and he change them every two months....my sister old age is around the corner!

I'm good for the task.
I'll break her heart.
Cc
Onyi22
Re: A Message To The Man Who Breaks A Woman’s Heart by flowx(m): 7:24am On Sep 23, 2019
susiivy:


Jeez! Do you have sister's or any female in your family.

Ko kan aiye!
Re: A Message To The Man Who Breaks A Woman’s Heart by Nobody: 7:27am On Sep 23, 2019
Error. Seems most guys here wanna break lady's hearts oo. Na so Dem done break una hearts?
Re: A Message To The Man Who Breaks A Woman’s Heart by braveheart77: 7:29am On Sep 23, 2019
What about to the woman that breaks a man heart? The fact that men don't complain do not mean women are not the same
Re: A Message To The Man Who Breaks A Woman’s Heart by TOPCRUISE(m): 7:31am On Sep 23, 2019
Did king Solomon have heart breaks from women or do women have heart breaks from King Solomon. Writer should go and park elsewhere angry

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Re: A Message To The Man Who Breaks A Woman’s Heart by flowx(m): 7:36am On Sep 23, 2019
TOPCRUISE:
Did king Solomon have heard breaks from women or do women have heart breaks from King Solomon. Writer should go and park elsewhere.


Oh Lord of JOB����

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Re: A Message To The Man Who Breaks A Woman’s Heart by renewable1(m): 7:40am On Sep 23, 2019
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Re: A Message To The Man Who Breaks A Woman’s Heart by flowx(m): 7:42am On Sep 23, 2019
Most of the women on this forum will disactivate their account today.

because the guys comments on this topic alone is another heartbreaking event.

All hope to get Mr Right on this forum is already over today.

Our guys are not smiling.

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Re: A Message To The Man Who Breaks A Woman’s Heart by franchasng: 7:50am On Sep 23, 2019
kikelomojessy:
Anyone, that is angry over what all those hateful words those guys are using above is just stressing your brain. Let them be.

they do have mothers and sisters. Just what you think you are doing to others is being done to your own blood. And when they narrate it to you, you will call you partner in crime different names. Well it's all good.

Imagine four pages of nonsense talk with exception to 2 or 3 requite comments.

How do you live with yourself (you that keep swimming, dumping etc) and finally one day you will settle down and since you don't love, no emotions entwine and a broken home follows.


All these hateful talk cause sex before marriage is involved, too bad.

When you are having sexual relations with all these ladies and ladies in turn does same, you put your health at risk, your suffer spiritually also. You sleep with different women with different spirit damaging your life and then you blame it on Buhari.
Most of the hard price people pay today is as a result of past relationships. Now you can say nothing they happen but be careful for you don't know the type of woman that you will meet next she could be a destroyer or worse.

Try as much never to hurt a heart that really loves you. Be warned.

Ladies need to understand how this life works. No lady above 18yrs of age can swear she has never broken any guy's heart before. You might think u have not broken a guys heart, but u never knew how and when u did.

The way women's heart is broken is different from the way men's heart is broken, so both guys and ladies break hearts knowingly and unknowingly.


And it has nothing to do with God because you guys are not legally married so whatever a boy and a girl or a guy and a lady who are not legally married are doing is purely carnal and God is not involved so don't ever call God in such matters because what u two are doing already is a sin against the commandments of God.


The only thing I see as bad is when a guy rapes a girl or forces himself on a girl sexually, or raises his hands on a girl or lady or assaults her physically or try to hurt her physically.


But emotional feelings is nothing. If a guy sees a more hotter lady and feels he likes to go down with her, that shouldn't cause any fuss between him and his girlfriend. His girlfriend ought to have known that they are not married, they are just helping each other and the contract can be terminated at any time any of the parties feel tired of the contract because there is no legal binding.


Any girl that feel she is mature enough to start keeping boyfriend should be ready to engage in sex and should also be ready to experience heartbreaks if the guy decides to walk away.

Its a game.

Marriage is the only legally recognized institution that a wife can scream heartbreak or cheating, not in dating or relationship that has no formal binding.

So when u are dating, have it in mind that u are doing trial and error hoping for the best and if it works out u thank your destiny, if it doesn't work out, u move on and keep trying with more wisdom till u find the one that works for u.

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Re: A Message To The Man Who Breaks A Woman’s Heart by Onyi22(f): 7:52am On Sep 23, 2019
flowx:
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Cc
Onyi22
cheesy grin grin abeg watin I do this guy?
Re: A Message To The Man Who Breaks A Woman’s Heart by skukimania(f): 8:03am On Sep 23, 2019
@op, in this scenario, the player is even nicer than some guys ooo. After all, he told you himself that he has a serious girlfriend.
What about the one that will be planning a wedding with you only for you to discover he got married 3days after at the time he was suppose to be on an official trip where his lines can't be reached?
Some men are worst than serial killers!

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Re: A Message To The Man Who Breaks A Woman’s Heart by skukimania(f): 8:07am On Sep 23, 2019
IronFX:
Some of you are just paying the price for the good men who you’ve left heartbroken. Carry your cross if that’s the case angry

Your mistake is that these things mostly happen to the good girls, who don't know how to double-date.
Those ones that cheats hardly get heartbroken. Why? Because you guys are like objects in her hands. Dem plenty!
So, out of many guys, one or more will definitely propose.

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Re: A Message To The Man Who Breaks A Woman’s Heart by favinvest: 8:09am On Sep 23, 2019
who so ever breaks first losses...

if she breaks first, she losses & suffers heartbreak

if he breaks first, he losses & suffers heartbreak..

so love relationship is a mind game.
Re: A Message To The Man Who Breaks A Woman’s Heart by skukimania(f): 8:10am On Sep 23, 2019
slawomir:
Breaking a womans heart is so sweet ehnnn
See ehnn
Guys make una nor mumu allow woman break una heart o


No woman can break my heart as sharp Bini boy because I know women are like swimming pool so i don't love them
I don't give a fuckkkkk if the swimming pool have never been used
I don't give a fuckkk who have been swimming before I started swimming
I don't give a fuckkkkk who will swim after i am done swimming my own
And my guys I don't give a fuckkkkk who is even swimming with me as am swimming
I Just swim my own sharpely and move on.

Your advice is so beautiful until your daughter/ niece falls victim. Mr sharpman.
Re: A Message To The Man Who Breaks A Woman’s Heart by Nobody: 8:12am On Sep 23, 2019
[quote author=kikelomojessy post=82479137]

Most of the hard price people pay today is as a result of past relationships. Now you can say nothing they happen but be careful for you don't know the type of woman that you will meet next she could be a destroyer or worse.

Try as much never to hurt a heart that really loves you. Be warned.



The goodnews is there is no heart that truly loves in a r/ship thesedays, no money no love (fake)
most of these gurls that rant about heartbreak are not crying becos of love ,what pain most gurls is the sex, afterall that is the only thing they invested.
if many r/ship were to be no sex, most ladies we be poppin champagne after breakup ... i'll suggest women use d word pvssybreak not heart.

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Re: A Message To The Man Who Breaks A Woman’s Heart by Nmezor(f): 8:21am On Sep 23, 2019
Hmmm, wat a thread undecided
Re: A Message To The Man Who Breaks A Woman’s Heart by DSHADOWWALKER: 8:22am On Sep 23, 2019
uthlaw:
that very good idea but remember that as you wish for rich guy that how 100th of ladies out there want rich guy....so imagine just one rich guy fucking more than 30 of ladies and he change them every two months....my sister old age is around the corner!


So she should run away from rich guys and start chasing broke ones,this reeks of low self esteem grin
Re: A Message To The Man Who Breaks A Woman’s Heart by DSHADOWWALKER: 8:24am On Sep 23, 2019
[quote author=ericsmith post=82480580][/quote]


They invested the sex?? You mean ladies dont enjoy sex?? Average nigerian mentality
Re: A Message To The Man Who Breaks A Woman’s Heart by Beverlyjean(f): 8:25am On Sep 23, 2019
IAMBlesssed:


Applies to both gender but women are generally more emotional and as a result more mean when it comes to this kind of issue. U can do ur research..

I agree totally
Re: A Message To The Man Who Breaks A Woman’s Heart by Adebowalay(m): 8:27am On Sep 23, 2019
Writercruze:


This post is for the man who breaks a woman’s heart. You knew you needed a one night stand, yet you gave her the impression that you were in love. You even went ahead and bought lovely flowers and greeting cards.

But why would you raise someone’s hope to dash it in the middle of nowhere? It would have been better for her if you had told her you needed a friend with benefits.

I could have sworn that men like you don’t exist, but I was wrong anyway. Are you so heartless that you don’t even consider how she will feel once she realized that you are a scam?

I thought heartbreaks only happen in Nollywood and Zeeworlds. I never imagined someone as heartless as you existed until you broke my heart to pieces. Without a doubt, I was a victim of your sweet words, nice gestures, and fake kindness.

I never knew that behind the kindness and nice gestures was a chronic player and womanizer. You are so wicked!!!

How could you paint a marriage life scenario to me while you know that I was your fling? You coaxed into believing that I’m the chosen one whom you will hold close to your arm and spend the rest of your life with.

But why? Did all these lies worth it? How many other girls are victims of your love scam? You have succeeded in instilling natural hatred for men in my heart.

Your actions made me feel unimportant, and you gave me the impression that I’m a worthless fling. You promised me love, affection, and happiness. But after seeing my unclothedness, you made me cry my eyes out.

I fell for your romantic words thinking I found happiness. But after taking me to bed, you became a different person. That was when you told me that you had a serious relationship. So, you kept your girlfriend as a special reserve while treating me as if I’m worthless.

You may think It’s normal, but it’s heartbreaking. I wish you could see the redness in my heart and how I became a shadow of myself when you left. The way you broke my heart into pieces. Sadly, the next man that comes my way will pay for your sin.

All I ever crave for was true love. But you turn everything into a nightmare. I don’t feel safe with men anymore as they remind me of you. I now find men that are kind towards me very irritating.

Since you have taken advantage of my vulnerability, I may never trust any man again. You want to see me cry and miserable because you derive pleasure seeing women in pain.

I just want to know. Why did you lie about everything? What did you gain from it? I was ready to make all our days together magical. Unfortunately, the only magical day was the day you told me you had a serious girlfriend that you are preparing for marriage.

What baffled me most was the fact that you were smiling when you told me about your relationship with another lady. Perhaps, you were happy that I was crying when you ended things with me.

I want you to know that I will be fine. I won’t allow the fact that you break my heart defines me.

As for you, I hope that one day you will experience real heartbreak. That’s the day you will feel all my pains.

Lastly, I hope another woman will not fall for your deceit and lies again.

Source: https://www.naijalovetips.com/a-message-to-the-man-who-breaks-a-womans-heart/

up there, someone said whoever loves a woman is weak...well I once did, and was left broken and shattered, even contemplated suicide... I don learn now..gat to live for my kids...no love lost..women are beasts

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Re: A Message To The Man Who Breaks A Woman’s Heart by Gassa007: 8:36am On Sep 23, 2019
BORN2RULE20:
MEN ARE SENSIBLE:
MOST LADIES THINK THAT MEN ARE FOOLS; WHEN YOU ARE PARTYING, CLUBBING, AND FLIRTING WITH YOUNG MEN, DO YOU THINK THEY LOVE YOU? IF THEY LOVE YOU, WOULD THEY DUMP YOU AND GET MARRIED TO THE RESPONSIBLE, REASONABLE AND/OR FAITHFUL LADIES; HAVE YOU EVER WONDERED WHY MEN PREFER FAITHFUL AND HOMELY LADIES WHEN IT COMES TO MARRIAGE?

WHEN A MAN IS FLIRTING WITH YOU, HE WANTS SOMETHING FROM YOU, AND ONES HE GETS WHAT HE WANTS FROM YOU, HE DUMPS YOU IMMEDIATELY AND GOES FOR OTHER LADIES/GIRLS. MEN ARE SLY WHEN IT COMES TO TRICKING AND/OR DECEIVING WOMEN.

LADIES, HAVE YOU ASKED THE GUY THAT HAS BEEN CLUBBING, PARTYING, AND FLIRTING WITH YOU THIS QUESTION; WOULD YOU MARRY ME? AND SEE HIS RESPONSE. HIS RESPONSE WOULD ALWAYS BE; BABY OR HONEY OR WHATEVER HE CALLS YOU, WE CAN'T DISCUSS THIS HERE. MAYBE SOME OTHER DAY. THAT IS JUST A WAY TO DISCHARGE YOU, BECAUSE HE IS AFRAID THAT, IF HE MARRIES YOU, ONE DAY YOU WILL SURELY GO OUT CLUBBING WITH ANOTHER MAN.

YOU WILL NOTICE THAT HE WILL START GIVING YOU DISTANACE.WHEN A WOMAN IS BEHAVING STRANGE, THERE ARE CERTAIN QUESTIONS YOU HAVE TO ASK YOURSELF; WHAT LED ME TO THIS ATTITUDE? IS IT IN MY FAMILY LINEAGE? OR IS SOMEONE DECEIVING ME? THEN PRAY TO GOD, I BELIEVE YOU WILL BE DELIVERED. BE WISE!!!
Who's this one... Mchteeew

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Re: A Message To The Man Who Breaks A Woman’s Heart by seunjungle1(m): 8:37am On Sep 23, 2019
What of the woman that just break my own heart?
Re: A Message To The Man Who Breaks A Woman’s Heart by Revolva(m): 8:38am On Sep 23, 2019
franchasng:
I have discovered that women are just too selfish and wicked, they only care about themselves alone angry


Every girl have broken hearts of so many guys knowingly and unknowingly, so stop making a fuss out of nothing.


I repeat every girl above 18yrs have broken hearts of so many guys knowingly and unknowingly, take it or leave it.

That innocent looking, pure in heart young man will see u and develop pure likeness for u and ready to die for you, and he gathers liver and walks up to u and say hi, hello, good.morning, good afternoon, good evening, hi I am talking to u and u just frown your face and bone the guy and humiliate him like a nobody and he shamefully walks away feeling so downcasted and shattered, and cursing himself for even setting his eyes on u, and that singular experience may make him to stop wooing ladies again.

Sister u have broken a guy's heart by that act alone, so prepare for your own heartbreak anytime or any day, it may come in years to come but it must come in order to balance life....it may come from your boyfriend, fiancé, or even husband, take it or leave it.

So when your own heartbreak comes, just know that its a cause and effect of some hearts u yourself broke in the past knowingly or unknowingly too, so move on and stop disturbing the world.


Some ladies will know they don't like a guy for romance or something serious and they will be leading him on as maga collecting money, material gifts, favours and everything from him while they go back home or to their school hostel to mock the guy with their female friends and they laugh about it, and she dresses up well and go meet her supposed loverboy the one that deserves her love and go give him free sex romp and shower him with all manner of love even though the said boyfriend maybe fucking more than 10 other girls but to her, that's the guy that deserves her love, the guy is her type, that other guy she is using to do tinko is a fool, not her type, not handsome enough, not looking swaggy enough.


Sister as u do all these please be prepared for your own heartbreak that must come, when it will come we don't know and can't predict but prepare for it and when it comes don't go about crying and disturbing the peace of the world, just take it as life and move on cheerfully and keep trying till u find one that works for u, simple.


Any lady that goes to juju or swears for a guy that supposedly broke her heart not to succeed in life will definitely not succeed in her own life too, she will also live a miserable life, its simple cause and effect. You cannot hold someone down and be running, it doesn't happen. as u hold someone down, u will be on the floor with the person unless u free the person then u can run too.

That the truth bro you nailed it

After dating a gal of your choice for years and one day she Japa left the guy to marry another man ...The guy started telling stories that touch �������.....

Morale of the story
_________________________________________

Women are the same. No woman is good or bad. Every woman is good and bad. A woman's good or bad character comes out based on the man she meets.

When a woman or lady meets her dream man, she becomes an angel woman and when she is with a guy she does not like, she becomes a Jezebel!

That bad girl u know is an angel to one guy.

That angel lady u are praising is a Jezebel to one or two guys somewhere!

That girl that is always demanding money and things from u is begging one guy somewhere for love and even using everything she has to please the guy.

That angel Lady u think u have is a witch to some guys somewhere!

So guys stop wasting your time crying for any lady, whenever u are ready to find date or get married, just find any girl that u are attracted to who is completely loyal to you and go for and if she misbehaves, drop her and don't cry about it, and if she drops u, smile and fin another one....all women are the same, just find the one that likes u more than u like her and she will become an angel to please you.

The only things that should make you cry as a man are:

1.) Death of your mother cry
2.) Death of a dear and valuable sibling
3.) Death of a child (God forbid we bury one)
4.) Loss of crucial political election
5.) Loss of a major business or money deal
6.) Deadly sickness or disease
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Re: A Message To The Man Who Breaks A Woman’s Heart by Nobody: 8:41am On Sep 23, 2019
Truth is that there's this kind of satisfaction that you feel after breaking the heart of a girl. When you replay the whole scenario in your mind and her expression!
I once took a girl to a nice and coozy place, sat her down and told her that it's over. She stared at space for like 10 minutes. She said, I quote "baby but what happened, you always treated me like a queen" I said yeah I did, but I'm not in it anymore. I wanna be single for now.
Funny thing is that she started calling me after few months, guess I showed her much love before crashing it!
Lord have mercy on me!
I always have interest in a girl at the beginning, but afterwards I will lose every damn interest.

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Re: A Message To The Man Who Breaks A Woman’s Heart by Emaprince: 8:44am On Sep 23, 2019
skukimania:


Your mistake is that these things mostly happen to the good girls, who don't know how to double-date.
Those ones that cheats hardly get heartbroken. Why? Because you guys are like objects in her hands. Dem plenty!
So, out of many guys, one or more will definitely propose.
But I have seen girls that complain over heart break and even clay they love the guy that broke their hearts so much, meanwhile, the said girl has other one or two guys in sexual relationship with her?

Infact recently, I sat with a girl that triple dates. Yet, she complains about one of her bfs cheating.

Personally, I don't trust nor take any woman seriously. Because I dont believe there is a faithful woman. Women are just a product of their environment. It might be their place of residence or office. They are easily influenced by the norm wherever they find themselves. Except a true born again, the rest are NOT trust worthy.

So when I see a woman heart broken, I will say..sorry, pick yourself up and move on. Nothing else. Because I dont know how many men she have shattered their hearts too. Even wives that complain of randy husband...95% of them slept with other womens husband in their youth, many of them cheated on their husband weeks/days before marriage. Some have even cheated in marriage unnoticed...yet they make so much noise when they find out their man is not a saint.

Abeg make una shift

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Re: A Message To The Man Who Breaks A Woman’s Heart by Nobody: 8:53am On Sep 23, 2019
babra19:
I can feel your pain, I just got healed from a broken heart. But I am back on my feet, reason because in my previous relationship I kept 40% of my heart into it and kept the remaining 60% to myself, which helped me during the breakup.
I am back to the market to give love a trial I won't say because a guy broke my heart that is why I will make my next miserable, hell no.
My previous relationship was a mistake that I need to correct in my next relationship.
I know how bittered you are right now, but with time you have to let go.
Do not revenge in order not to chase the right one away.
Good luck.


Please, don't be in a hurry to go into the next relationship. Take time to heal so you don't choose wrongly.
Re: A Message To The Man Who Breaks A Woman’s Heart by Cocao(f): 8:55am On Sep 23, 2019
The toxicity in this thread alone is enough to poison all the fishes in the ocean.

Anyways, I have learnt long ago that men say one thing and do another...so....you can typpe all you can

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Re: A Message To The Man Who Breaks A Woman’s Heart by Insectkiller: 9:00am On Sep 23, 2019
Both men and women no difference..

But my take is that: don't make promise u can't fulfill..

We ladies love deeply but guys seems uncare..
Re: A Message To The Man Who Breaks A Woman’s Heart by Nobody: 9:01am On Sep 23, 2019
chidiebereuzoma:
Truth is that there's this kind of satisfaction that you feel after breaking the heart of a girl. When you replay the whole scenario in your mind and her expression!
I once took a girl to a nice and coozy place, sat her down and told her that it's over. She stared at space for like 10 minutes. She said, I quote "baby but what happened, you always treated me like a queen" I said yeah I did, but I'm not in it anymore. I wanna be single for now.
Funny thing is that she started calling me after few months, guess I showed her much love before crashing it!
Lord have mercy on me!
I always have interest in a girl at the beginning, but afterwards I will lose every damn interest.

You may not know it, but you are mentally ill, and it won't be long before you become a serial killer.

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Re: A Message To The Man Who Breaks A Woman’s Heart by Nobody: 9:01am On Sep 23, 2019
No such thing as mr right ...it’s Mr flexible we need so many rules she must be 25 thick thighs but those don’t guarantee what it takes to sustain a marraige

Lonely people try to make others lonely they hurt you trust God
Re: A Message To The Man Who Breaks A Woman’s Heart by Atolu01: 9:05am On Sep 23, 2019
So many Psycho/ Sociopaths.
Re: A Message To The Man Who Breaks A Woman’s Heart by centboy123456(m): 9:21am On Sep 23, 2019
Topmaike007:
Message to women that break men heart I believe oneday you will also experience same thing......

My girlfriend just broke my heart not quite long..



what happen why did she do it

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