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Closed by Ufedolove: 11:45am On Sep 25, 2019
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Re: Closed by Ufedolove: 11:54am On Sep 25, 2019
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Re: Closed by Dathypebruv(m): 11:56am On Sep 25, 2019
Hmm...
Re: Closed by Nobody: 12:03pm On Sep 25, 2019
Yes, Her parents did not suffer to send her to school to do boyfriend.
Re: Closed by Ufedolove: 12:03pm On Sep 25, 2019
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Re: Closed by Ufedolove: 12:11pm On Sep 25, 2019
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Re: Closed by MedicH: 12:12pm On Sep 25, 2019
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Re: Closed by lakeside30: 12:18pm On Sep 25, 2019
O boy see name, Edidiong, ufedo,,,nawa o

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Re: Closed by Ufedolove: 12:23pm On Sep 25, 2019
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Re: Closed by Ufedolove: 12:24pm On Sep 25, 2019
lakeside30:
O boy see name, Edidiong, ufedo,,,nawa o

Edidiong (Akwa Ibom) means Blessing while Ufedo (Igala, Kogi state) means Love

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Re: Closed by Ufedolove: 12:37pm On Sep 25, 2019
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Re: Closed by Powersurge: 12:41pm On Sep 25, 2019
if your father is not rolling in it, don't waste your time on school relationship as a guy. But you can enjoy it for what it is.


But never you have it in mind that it will lead to something serious. What University unites, final year and NYSC will break. in today's Nigeria, love is 70% money and 30% other things like education, handsomeness etc.

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Re: Closed by Ufedolove: 12:43pm On Sep 25, 2019
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Re: Closed by faithfull18(f): 12:46pm On Sep 25, 2019
Pele.
Re: Closed by Ufedolove: 12:50pm On Sep 25, 2019
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Re: Closed by Ufedolove: 12:57pm On Sep 25, 2019
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Re: Closed by Ufedolove: 1:19pm On Sep 25, 2019
AwkaetitiBabe:
Yes, Herpa rents did not suffer to send her to school to do boyfriend

Oh really?
Re: Closed by Ufedolove: 1:19pm On Sep 25, 2019
Powersurge:
if your father is not rolling in it, don't waste your time on school relationship as a guy. But you can enjoy it for what it is.


But never you have it in mind that it will lead to something serious. What University unites, final year and NYSC will break. in today's Nigeria, love is 70% money and 30% other things like education, handsomeness etc.

Hmmmmm
Re: Closed by Toxay(m): 1:32pm On Sep 25, 2019
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Re: Closed by Toxay(m): 1:34pm On Sep 25, 2019
You are probably not her first choice and she does not want something long-term with you,that's why she is comfortable with the the relationship between you guys as just friends.

She is bidding her time, pending when she gets her "dream man", when that happens,she would ensure you get it that she isn't interested and all those romance and calls will stop and even when you call her, she will make it clear you are a either a disturbance or just a friend.


She is likely very young too and she is still at a stage where she has a specific image of the kind of guy she wants and would not settle for someone else no matter how much the person cares for her even if you are the best she can actually get

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Re: Closed by Omar09(m): 1:43pm On Sep 25, 2019
Ufedolove:
FINAL PART

This left me in a heartache but still, I don't want to draw a conclusion.

What confuses me now is that this girl, just some few days back called me, telling me that she missed me and needed to hear my voice to be calm; this girl is so excited to come over and we even planned how we are going to smooch (before I asked wooed her o). This same girl doesn't want to be my girlfriend and I'm hearing saddening things about this particular girl.

The thing is that I like her so much but I also think I'm becoming more of a disturbance to her. 5 times wooing a lady. On to which level na?

That one aside sef, I don't know how to go about it when she arrives on Friday now. Which kind wahala be this?

Is this girl giving me attitude or she's just not interested? Should I even still think about her?

Guys, tell me your opinions.

NB: This is a real story and I'm not asking or telling for a friend. I'm the character.

Thanks.




This is the same situation I found myself in. In fact I loved this girl eh. She was initially crushing on me oh. If I had known I would have let it be at that crush. I asked her out three times. She refused it each saying I don't know how to ask a girl out. Should I fry beans n serve her? To the point I composed songs just to ask her out. See where my mumu reach? Free that girl even if she says yes later, it won't worth all this your effort. Talking from experience.

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Re: Closed by Ufedolove: 1:49pm On Sep 25, 2019
Omar09:





This is the same situation I found myself in. In fact I loved this girl eh. She was initially crushing on me oh. If I had known I would have let it be at that crush. I asked her out three times. She refused it each saying I don't know how to ask a girl out. Should I fry beans n serve her? To the point I composed songs just to ask her out. See where my mumu reach? Free that girl even if she says yes later, it won't worth all this your effort. Talking from experience.


Thanks


I really want to. I already feel humiliated. My heart, please heed to my words!

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Re: Closed by Omar09(m): 1:50pm On Sep 25, 2019
Allow her to come over to your house, enjoy the smoosh even make an attempt to fvck her. Sweet tongue her make sure you bleep the hell out of her but don't rape. Then in the morning have a brief meeting with her. Tell her you can't continue the way you two are going. It's either you two are dating or you are not even friends at all. I have asked you out several times n you said no. I don't wanna continue like this. Then let her leave. Watch her reaction. Thank me later.

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Re: Closed by Ufedolove: 1:51pm On Sep 25, 2019
Toxay:
You are probably not her first choice and she does not want something long-term with you,that's why she is comfortable with the the relationship between you guys as just friends.

She is bidding her time, pending when she gets her "dream man", when that happens,she would ensure you get it that she isn't interested and all those romance and calls will stop and even when you call her, she will make it clear you are a either a disturbance or just a friend.


She is likely very young too and she is still at a stage where she has a specific image of the kind of guy she wants and would not settle for someone else no matter how much the person cares for her even if you are the best she can actually get

Wow! Someone said this too.

But about age, she's a year older than me. I'm 21
Re: Closed by IceColdVeins(m): 1:51pm On Sep 25, 2019
You composed what?
Omar09:





This is the same situation I found myself in. In fact I loved this girl eh. She was initially crushing on me oh. If I had known I would have let it be at that crush. I asked her out three times. She refused it each saying I don't know how to ask a girl out. Should I fry beans n serve her? To the point I composed songs just to ask her out. See where my mumu reach? Free that girl even if she says yes later, it won't worth all this your effort. Talking from experience.

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Re: Closed by Omar09(m): 1:52pm On Sep 25, 2019
Ufedolove:



Thanks


I really want to. I already feel humiliated. My heart, please heed to my words!


Look man if you get pass this one which you will eventually, the rest will be a walk over case.
Re: Closed by Omar09(m): 1:52pm On Sep 25, 2019
IceColdVeins:
You composed what?

Song. Na so I mumu
Re: Closed by Ufedolove: 1:52pm On Sep 25, 2019
Omar09:
Allow her to come over to your house, enjoy the smoosh even make an attempt to fvck her. Sweet tongue her make sure you bleep the hell out of her but don't rape. Then in the morning have a brief meeting with her. Tell her you can't continue the way you two are going. It's either you two are dating or you are not even friends at all. I have asked you out several times n you said no. I don't wanna continue like this. Then let her leave. Watch her reaction. Thank me later.

Omo, this one get as e be o grin grin grin
Re: Closed by Ufedolove: 1:53pm On Sep 25, 2019
Omar09:


Look man if you get pass this one which you will eventually, the rest will be a walk over case.

Thanks man
Re: Closed by Ufedolove: 1:53pm On Sep 25, 2019
Omar09:


Song. Na so I mumu
grin grin grin
Re: Closed by Omar09(m): 1:54pm On Sep 25, 2019
Ufedolove:


Wow! Someone said this too.

But about age, she's a year older than me. I'm 21

Just like looking in the mirror. The same exact situation. I'm in my final year in the university. Tho I have called her bullshit n she's respected herself.
Re: Closed by JoeMaddog: 1:56pm On Sep 25, 2019
What the hell is wrong with you guy? After all the rants of ubunja and co on this site, you're still bahaving like a puci. She's in her hoe phase and you tryna take her off the market... You're doing something right and thats the only reason she's coming back to you. She'll soon get fed up with you if you don't do quickly and give her the D. Once she's invested in you, you're the champion. Harden up nigga

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