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Re: Rants Of A Single Lady Part 3 by Fidelismaria: 3:32pm On Sep 26, 2019
Marriage is over rated

Op do what works for you
Re: Rants Of A Single Lady Part 3 by Tokziby: 3:34pm On Sep 26, 2019
Kingsteve:
Op, at least you for upload profile pic, make people see as you be small.
I'm not saying you will find a relationship via this platform, but you never just know.

I empathise with you though.
I have one Fulani sweet chic in her early 30's.
Cash dey overflow her side, very slim and beautiful.

She spends most of her time abroad...Dubai in particular, but the problem, she's not married yet.

If not for the complications, I swear...I no for mind marry that chic.
It's a sad situation though!

I fit have her contact cos me sef dey search.
Re: Rants Of A Single Lady Part 3 by Kazeemakeem(m): 3:34pm On Sep 26, 2019
MarjieJ98354:
It's no picnic in the USA either. I've been married and divorced twice. No Children. Actually, not having children is even worse than never being married. At least in the USA, you can pretty much ignore you family if it gets to rough!


interested in you if u dont mind but i stay in Nigeria,EmaiL kazeemakeem@yahoo.com or watzap +234770364403
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Re: Rants Of A Single Lady Part 3 by Thegamingorca(m): 3:37pm On Sep 26, 2019
pocohantas:


That is still afternoon newspaper, sis. When it gets to evening I will tell you tongue


The whole evening newspaper ish is more biologically correct if she has been knacked by all shades of dicks with different sizes. However, fresh virgin babes at that age that don't give the vibes of being old grumpy hags can pass off as freshly baked.

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Re: Rants Of A Single Lady Part 3 by Kazeemakeem(m): 3:37pm On Sep 26, 2019
Duggedised12:
i was told that Nigerian men over there don't like dating Nigerian ladies who live there except the ones they bring from back home , how true is this?

what i had is that once a Nigeria man Marries a Nigeria lady and get to USA or any foreign country they misbehave and devoice the man
Re: Rants Of A Single Lady Part 3 by Kazeemakeem(m): 3:39pm On Sep 26, 2019
luvyaself95:
You're very correct.

You correct ,the reason is cus of lack of understanding and not being able to accommodate our self ,blame argument
Re: Rants Of A Single Lady Part 3 by Duggedised12(f): 3:39pm On Sep 26, 2019
Kazeemakeem:


what i had is that once a Nigeria man Marries a Nigeria lady and get to USA or any foreign country they misbehave and devoice the man
i mean marrying a lady who already lives over there.
Re: Rants Of A Single Lady Part 3 by Kazeemakeem(m): 3:40pm On Sep 26, 2019
Duggedised12:
must be 32 years and above , must not be a Muslim, must not be a northerner,must have a source of livelihood that can two people can comfortably live on.

waten muslim do haba

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Re: Rants Of A Single Lady Part 3 by Kolping: 3:43pm On Sep 26, 2019

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Gf8zHSf7wRE

Duggedised12:
See ehn, na single I single ,I nor kill person o. Why do I have to be looked down on because I dont have a ring on my finger , ladies that are younger than me are more respected just because they are married, its even worse if they have kids,chai! I don suffer .


Guess what ,its all my fualt ,so society says . If a woman gets to a certain age and is not married,its all her fault, according to society, she probably doesn't know how to keep a man, she probably doesn't have good home training ,she probably was doing shakara when she was younger and the list goes on but guess what if a guy in his late thirties isnt married, he probably hasn't found the right woman yet . sighs!
Re: Rants Of A Single Lady Part 3 by mkoabiola: 3:46pm On Sep 26, 2019
All these feminists are not perturbed til they reach 40 plus

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Re: Rants Of A Single Lady Part 3 by Kazeemakeem(m): 3:47pm On Sep 26, 2019
Duggedised12:
i mean marrying a lady who already lives over there.

they believe they cant withstand others
Re: Rants Of A Single Lady Part 3 by mkoabiola: 3:48pm On Sep 26, 2019
Anyway ,am interested in any single babe devoid of feminist trait...

08034340073. What a subtle adver
Re: Rants Of A Single Lady Part 3 by pocohantas(f): 3:49pm On Sep 26, 2019
Thegamingorca:



who you Dey call ancestor?

Madam itibolibo this nah the big man ticket you don Dey find all this while.

Atleast arrange a meet then chop his money. grin

Ornicus comes off like that married man wey go knack you finish, come dey gist you about the car he wants to buy for his wife. Right there on the bed o grin

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Re: Rants Of A Single Lady Part 3 by Sesughray: 3:55pm On Sep 26, 2019
And if you look well, you go see say na true
Re: Rants Of A Single Lady Part 3 by Kazeemakeem(m): 3:56pm On Sep 26, 2019
pocohantas:


Ornicus comes off like that married man wey go knack you finish, come dey gist you about the car he wants to buy for his wife. Right there on the bed o grin

u don marry?
Re: Rants Of A Single Lady Part 3 by pocohantas(f): 3:57pm On Sep 26, 2019
Kazeemakeem:


u don marry?

No dear. Midnight newspaper right here.

You have someone for me? Must be rich.

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Re: Rants Of A Single Lady Part 3 by TemmyT002(m): 3:59pm On Sep 26, 2019
You never see anything.
Obviously, it bothers you, that is why you are ranting.
Do as if it doesn't bother you.
Re: Rants Of A Single Lady Part 3 by Nobody: 4:01pm On Sep 26, 2019
pocohantas:


No dear. Midnight newspaper right here.

You have someone for me? Must be rich.

The correct word is discarded suya paper.once paper don comot evening stand, na straight to aboki to package suya. From there na discarded suya paper

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Re: Rants Of A Single Lady Part 3 by jiksman3: 4:03pm On Sep 26, 2019
I am 30 yrs, looking for God fearing wife 24-29yrs....send me a DM
Re: Rants Of A Single Lady Part 3 by IamaNigerianGuy(m): 4:03pm On Sep 26, 2019
Why, in Nigeria, are many men looking for wives, and many women looking for husbands, and both cannot find each other ?

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Re: Rants Of A Single Lady Part 3 by luvyaself95(m): 4:06pm On Sep 26, 2019
Kazeemakeem:


You correct ,the reason is cus of lack of understanding and not being able to accommodate our self ,blame argument

That just it.
Re: Rants Of A Single Lady Part 3 by zubydave(m): 4:07pm On Sep 26, 2019
ornicus:


The correct word is discarded suya paper.once paper don comot evening stand, na straight to aboki to package suya. From there na discarded suya paper
grin grin
Bros this is hate speech
Re: Rants Of A Single Lady Part 3 by Hedonisco: 4:08pm On Sep 26, 2019
You go tey for shelf. You just dey warm up sef.

All you 'open eye' girls of nowadays with an outrageous self of entitlement that doesn't match your value. Una go suffer.
Re: Rants Of A Single Lady Part 3 by zubydave(m): 4:08pm On Sep 26, 2019
I like this OP o
Re: Rants Of A Single Lady Part 3 by pocohantas(f): 4:13pm On Sep 26, 2019
ornicus:


The correct word is discarded suya paper.once paper don comot evening stand, na straight to aboki to package suya. From there na discarded suya paper

One person wey dey store old newspapers fit come buy me for morning na. It is not yet over until it is over...

Abi na guguru and epa go end am last last?
Lmao! grin

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Re: Rants Of A Single Lady Part 3 by Nobody: 4:14pm On Sep 26, 2019
pocohantas:


One person wey dey store old newspapers fit come buy me for morning na. It is not yet over until it is over...

Abi na guguru and epa go end am last last?
Lmao! grin

OK the final stage na bonfire paper. To light kerosene stove for kitchen

cry

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Re: Rants Of A Single Lady Part 3 by Thegamingorca(m): 4:14pm On Sep 26, 2019
pocohantas:


Ornicus comes off like that married man wey go knack you finish, come dey gist you about the car he wants to buy for his wife. Right there on the bed o grin


grin he go show you picture con dey ask if it fine grin
Re: Rants Of A Single Lady Part 3 by pocohantas(f): 4:15pm On Sep 26, 2019
IamaNigerianGuy:
Why in Nigeria are many men looking for wives, and many women looking for husbands, and both cannot find each other ?

I thought I am the only one pondering this o. Maybe they all need to change their circle and/or lower their expectations.

I believe if you are a responsible person, it is only normal that you will be surrounded by your ilk na or at least, know where or how to find them. Abi?

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Re: Rants Of A Single Lady Part 3 by IamaNigerianGuy(m): 4:16pm On Sep 26, 2019
agabaI23:
A woman's body does not intimidate a man. What intimidates some men is your level of exposure and intelligence.
It is possible you mingle inadvertently in the company of men that will get frightened by your thinking ability (you read a lot of books?) and your exposure. There are others who will be attracted to such and they probably won't find you where you are hiding like one poster said above.

Get young again and look for love where you belong. Some men are afraid of afraid of catapult pant for your information grin

Let's differentiate between the intimidating and the repugnant

I can handle (and welcome) her good looks, nice car, great job and cash she spends on holiday in Europe and Dubai. She earned it, good for her.
I will not put up with her lack of respect, bossy attitude and the back talk of people who wonder what I'm doing with a domineering shrew.

Bottom line is this : a worthy man doesn't give a flying f... about a woman's money. Her character matters more.

I guess the ladies also have points they consider deal breakers in men

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Re: Rants Of A Single Lady Part 3 by ursamajor: 4:18pm On Sep 26, 2019
ImaIma1:
I am tempted to share my cousin's story.

She's over 40 and will be wedding very soon to a man who has never been married before. She has met family members and they love her. She's a wonderful person that went through a lot.

Forget what society, people and Nairaland guys say about being an evening newspaper, old cargo...blah blah... Thankfully, what happens eventually is not in their hands
You are the cousin.

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Re: Rants Of A Single Lady Part 3 by izzou(m): 4:23pm On Sep 26, 2019
pocohantas:


I thought I am the only one pondering this o. Maybe they all need to change their circle and/or lower their expectations.

I believe if you are a responsible person, it is only normal that you will be surrounded by your ilk na or at least, know where or how to find them. Abi?

But the "responsible" ones sef no see husband or wife.
Abi you no notice am?
Re: Rants Of A Single Lady Part 3 by IamaNigerianGuy(m): 4:28pm On Sep 26, 2019
pocohantas:


I thought I am the only one pondering this o. Maybe they all need to change their circle and/or lower their expectations.

I believe if you are a responsible person, it is only normal that you will be surrounded by your ilk na or at least, know where or how to find them. Abi?

I'm single so I can speak to this.

I think the situation is more complex than you give credit. There are few opportunities to meet people nowadays. Especially if you have an occupation. In addition, meeting them is one thing; matching for shared interest, religion, age, socioeconomic class, intelligence and god-knows-what-other factors is another.

One other related point : by the time a Nigerian guy is ready to marry he is in his 30s or 40s and most find that younger women (mid 20s) are inconsistent, childish and time wasters.

We need to embrace singles clubs and bars in Nigeria or some such arrangement.

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