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Husband Slept With My Sister And Got Her Pregnant He Doesn't Think It's Cheating / I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece / "My Husband Got Our Neighbor Pregnant, They Are Both Begging Me"-woman Cries Out (2) (3) (4)
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Re: My Niece Said My Husband Got Her Pregnant by Biggers82(m): 8:11am On Sep 27, 2019 |
Yes if it true let him marry two of you nah because you have a randy man as a husband mbok because is a misgivings nah |
Re: My Niece Said My Husband Got Her Pregnant by jclassiq(m): 8:11am On Sep 27, 2019 |
Chiefochiefo: Did you just say she should support her husband even if its true but provided he still denies it? Chai. Chineke nna!!!! Your type makes me sick to the stomach. This is foolish to say the least 4 Likes |
Re: My Niece Said My Husband Got Her Pregnant by Excuzeme: 8:12am On Sep 27, 2019 |
healthserve: Dont mind the useless man (if he actually did so).....playing HOME ADVANTAGE! |
Re: My Niece Said My Husband Got Her Pregnant by jclassiq(m): 8:12am On Sep 27, 2019 |
chronique: Because she is very close to him. He lacks self control. 1 Like |
Re: My Niece Said My Husband Got Her Pregnant by steefi07: 8:12am On Sep 27, 2019 |
The best decision you already know so Go ahead with this. uote author=Omojudy post=82602628]As painful as this will sound, I will ask the girl what she wants to do, clearly giving her the right over her own body. She is my relative not his and I will support her while watching my husband prayerfully without a quarrel. If she does keep the pregnancy, I will request her to give us custody of the child and voila we have another child. Whatever she decides, I will stand by it. Anything other than him and her continuing their affair. Yes, I will also have the baby’s DNA tested when born if we have to accept the liability. Life is not that hard, it’s betraying and hurtful but we will always take the right decisions putting emotions aside.[/quote] 1 Like |
Re: My Niece Said My Husband Got Her Pregnant by Nobody: 8:13am On Sep 27, 2019 |
jclassiq:While not buy her a cutlass to behead her husband with? |
Re: My Niece Said My Husband Got Her Pregnant by nkwuocha1: 8:14am On Sep 27, 2019 |
This issue is too catastrophic!I just took few seconds to analyse a very possible scenario in future. Where a wedding party is taking place and all the players are present. Then a group of women starts gossiping. "Do you know that the last child of eze was conceived by Ada,the wife's niece.See her over there with the child" at this point they all stare at her and the child and back at the couple on another angle. "Nna Ife n'eme.Umu nwoke sef.nwa nwanne nwuye ya k'o ra.Ra gbuo ya,n'afo ime" And then the child will innocently pass and they'd call him/her. "Fine boy,whose child are you?" Of course the guy would point his mother and stylishly ignore his father sitting at the far corner of the event centre. Of course after dismissing him.All manner of vulgar words will be thrown at the abomination they just dismissed. 3 Likes |
Re: My Niece Said My Husband Got Her Pregnant by BarrElChapo(m): 8:14am On Sep 27, 2019 |
The fact is that there's no way your niece would finger your husband as the person who put her in the family way if they didn't have any sexual liaisons.. A 19year old virgin is probably naive & easily manipulated into thinking that she/your husband loves her and so could give into such advances.. Let the families and parties involved have a meeting the truth would come out eventually meanwhile you have to go over to your sister's place and have a face to face conversation with your niece to get more information. 1 Like |
Re: My Niece Said My Husband Got Her Pregnant by HrmTega(f): 8:14am On Sep 27, 2019 |
This is exactly what happens when you bring your problems to Nairaland |
Re: My Niece Said My Husband Got Her Pregnant by Nobody: 8:14am On Sep 27, 2019 |
Madam walk up to your Niece, tell her that you are ready to accept her as second wife; that in few weeks, you will come with your husband to pay her bride price..do so to your husband too; tell him that you are willing to accept your Niece as second wife and that you will escort him to pay her bride price. Relax and see how this move will birth a natural solution to the problem on ground. 3 Likes |
Re: My Niece Said My Husband Got Her Pregnant by fennels007(m): 8:15am On Sep 27, 2019 |
YOUR wisdom rings to high heavens calgaryFriend: |
Re: My Niece Said My Husband Got Her Pregnant by Nobody: 8:15am On Sep 27, 2019 |
Omojudy:This may be a very hard part to tow but I must commend your wisdom. 1 Like |
Re: My Niece Said My Husband Got Her Pregnant by fykes(m): 8:15am On Sep 27, 2019 |
Ayotemide:I have no respect for people who trivialize deep things like adultery with common arguments like gender biases. y'all women are too often too personal in thinking about the hurts of a cheating partner whether male or female. Forgetting that aside from the couple, this while thing affects and maybe even more so, the kids, the couples parents and siblings, and in this case extended in laws families. So tell me of what good is ur supposed defence or excuse of d gender of the offender in any case? |
Re: My Niece Said My Husband Got Her Pregnant by midnighter(f): 8:15am On Sep 27, 2019 |
virago: *Modified* Exactly, what does being a virgin have to do with it when somebody is already pregnant. I dont agree with the girls mother, so if youre not a virgin you cant get pregnant? |
Re: My Niece Said My Husband Got Her Pregnant by Muhylonaire(m): 8:15am On Sep 27, 2019 |
Tobinrobin: She said 19years |
Re: My Niece Said My Husband Got Her Pregnant by Excuzeme: 8:16am On Sep 27, 2019 |
Lexusgs430: Arrested for what? For Sleeping with an adult? (19yrs old girl) For Incest? (She is not his blood sister) Rape? (She never said she was forced and never madea report to the Police, of rape) Raping his daughters "in the furure"? (Law does not punish for an offence that is yet to be committed) Arrest for what exactly? Some of you just want to waste the time of the court, without first thinking. The man can even sue you for wrong arrest sef. |
Re: My Niece Said My Husband Got Her Pregnant by midnighter(f): 8:16am On Sep 27, 2019 |
Engrgabi: Lol. 1 Like |
Re: My Niece Said My Husband Got Her Pregnant by nkwuocha1: 8:16am On Sep 27, 2019 |
Sparro: It's not foolish my friend!Call a meeting of every parties involved.A teenager is pregnant and the culprit is within.If it was your daughter what would you do?Those who are meant to be responsible,on whose care you handed her over is telling you strange stories? 1 Like |
Re: My Niece Said My Husband Got Her Pregnant by BarrElChapo(m): 8:16am On Sep 27, 2019 |
You're crazy for this comment and quite immature in your thinking Sparro: 1 Like |
Re: My Niece Said My Husband Got Her Pregnant by midnighter(f): 8:16am On Sep 27, 2019 |
Lexusgs430: Lol, dont continue, please.. So sad... |
Re: My Niece Said My Husband Got Her Pregnant by nnaeyes6: 8:17am On Sep 27, 2019 |
Do u know that YOUNG WOMEN are OGBANJE^2? Wives u people are not trying in this perilous time. Pray for ur husbands o. These set of girls can devour even their fathers without minding the repercussions. And some would say RESPECTABLE MAN! SPIRITUAL MAN! Those are cliche Are wive is to PRAYYYYYYYYYYY and GUARD (Secure) the husband jealously. God gave u that primary role. Genesis said a HELP MEET which means a HELPER THAT WILL MEET HIM. God knows that men aren't complete to stand everything and everywhere within 24hours. U are the HELP MEET what have u done. Let's discuss, u instead pick ur phone to facebook and instagram urself Let's pray, u instead fall asleep. U didn't HELP UR HUSBAND from this endtime young girls possessed with LUCIFERIZE SPIRIT OF SEX. To save ur marriage, ur head and also become a better wife I advise u take these steps 1: Listen to ur husband calmly not naggingly 2: Inquire he tells u the truth and if truly he is responsible, don't panick 3: Both of u should visit ur niece family and discuss and how u can take the child and mums responsibility till delivery (don't abort please. One single leads to another graver sin for cover uup 4: Send the niece to school to give her a purpose in life and take custody of the baby (or u send upkeep if ur sister requests she will take care of her grand child) 5: Pray more and be watchful more especially for ur husband because DEVIL no send u ooooo. Thanks |
Re: My Niece Said My Husband Got Her Pregnant by mercyviv(f): 8:18am On Sep 27, 2019 |
I'm not in your house madam, but I can assure you your husband is guilty of at least sleeping with the girl, even if not responsible for impregnating her, since its possible the girl may have had sexual dalliances with other guys; though I doubt it. What I'll just advise you do is, carry your cross, do a DNA as soon as the child is born, if the child belongs to your husband, simply adopt him/her. Thats playing maturity. Thats the best I can say. Meanwhile... Are you a teacher? Get FREE access to the best compilation of school lesson notes/plans, curriculum and exams. Visit my signature for details... 1 Like |
Re: My Niece Said My Husband Got Her Pregnant by Nobody: 8:18am On Sep 27, 2019 |
fykes: No, men are the one with bias. You wouldn't have typed that crap if tables turn. 10 Likes |
Re: My Niece Said My Husband Got Her Pregnant by Tobinrobin(m): 8:18am On Sep 27, 2019 |
Muhylonaire: She only modified it after I asked what the age was. The age wasn’t there before 1 Like |
Re: My Niece Said My Husband Got Her Pregnant by Renegadefrank(m): 8:18am On Sep 27, 2019 |
Hash it out with your husband, Ma'am. He needs to know how you feel about this whole thing. There's a bit of truth to every rumour and your niece can't just up and lie against a man she's respected for so long, in my opinion Your husband should come clean to you and you both should try keeping your family intact for the sake of your kids and the years spent together so far. He should also begin making amends to you and the kids for this atrocity against you guys; and I don't mean with physical gifts. It's a sad situation but best wishes to you |
Re: My Niece Said My Husband Got Her Pregnant by midnighter(f): 8:19am On Sep 27, 2019 |
LadyJasper: Lol free me |
Re: My Niece Said My Husband Got Her Pregnant by nkwuocha1: 8:19am On Sep 27, 2019 |
midnighter: You women are your own worst enemy. If you are aware of your daughter's chastity before you handed her over to your sister and in-law,only for her to return back to you pregnant.And to make matter worst,she is accusing your in-law.HOW WOULD YOU FEEL?? |
Re: My Niece Said My Husband Got Her Pregnant by olabrinks(f): 8:19am On Sep 27, 2019 |
You sleep with an outsider and create a child with her, that is still redeemable. But you sleep with my own niece under my roof who is under 21. After confronting you, you are still denying it? Are you sure somebody like this cannot kill you in your sleep for their own selfish desires? Madam if you find out this child is his, you really have to examine your mental strength. Are you capable of putting this under the rug and taking the child in like your own? Will you be able to live in peace looking at your husband and this child knowing that he has possibly destroyed you mentally? Will you have the mental capacity to truly trust and love your husband wholeheartedly after this situation? Or will you be living in constant resentment, hatred and bitterness, which could create a very hostile and damaging environment for your children? This situation is very subjective and personal and you are the only one that can make that judgement for yourself. Whatever you decide to do, I wish you the best and I hope you can attain your sanity and peace throughout this tragic situation, because that comes first. Goodluck. 5 Likes |
Re: My Niece Said My Husband Got Her Pregnant by Hamzaay(m): 8:20am On Sep 27, 2019 |
From what I deduce from this story, the husband is highly responsible for the pregnancy because how can he take a girl under his care to a hospital and after series of test found out she was pregnant and decide to keep it away from his wife. No sane man will accommodate that. Like the girl mentioned, he wanted to carryout his evil act (abortion) quietly so that his wife won't noticed. Perhaps he has planned a date already for the abortion. It's a good thing the young girl ran away for her dear life. Men like this don't care about what happens after the abortion, whether there is complications or not. All they want this to clear their names of the list. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Niece Said My Husband Got Her Pregnant by Muhylonaire(m): 8:21am On Sep 27, 2019 |
Tobinrobin: Ok sir 1 Like |
Re: My Niece Said My Husband Got Her Pregnant by midnighter(f): 8:22am On Sep 27, 2019 |
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