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We need more yet to be married singles to learn a thing or two especially on handling conflicts. This thread will save one or two relationships if it hits front page.


We also need more opinions on this issue at hand. Can you be kind to move this thread to front page please.

That's not for you to decide. The MIL has accepted her apology for not calming down when she was urged to, so I think there's still hope for them. Yes, she should've known better than to get carried away arguing in front of his family, but she wasn't arguing with herself, lol. I think the MIL is aware of her son's shortcomings too and this was likely why she was trying to calm the OP down during the argument as opposed to her son.

baby124:

Marriage won’t happen. If Na you be the mother of the boy nko? Both of them are senseless enough to fight in front of their parents not even outsiders. Lol. In a family house where all the family members can see and judge their fighting style. Not only that they dissolve to roforofo exposure of secrets. The MOTHER even try to stop them, they did not stop till they were exhausted. LMAO. They better just quit while there is still time. Before the small children in the house start mocking her when she visit

theButterfly:
That's not for you to decide. The MIL has accepted her apology for not calming down when she was urged to, so I think there's still hope for them. Yes, she should've known better than to get carried away arguing in front of his family, but she wasn't arguing with herself, lol. I think the MIL is aware of her son's shortcomings too and this was likely why she was trying to calm the OP down during the argument as opposed to her son.

No one is ever impartial when it comes to their child. You have to be an angel to be impartial. What do you expect the mother of the guy to say, that she doesn’t forgive?

If the mother cannot forgive OP, then the apple doesn't fall far from the tree because that must be where her son gets his vindictive and unforgiving nature from. As actions speaks louder than words, all OP needs to do is to watch the mother's actions and body language towards her henceforth to see if her apology has been accepted/if she has been forgiven. Her own son is far from perfect. If she cannot forgive OP, then the OP should find her way b/c this wouldn't be the sort of family she wants to marry into.

baby124:

No one is ever impartial when it comes to their child. You have to be an angel to be impartial. What do you expect the mother of the guy to say, that she doesn’t forgive?

theButterfly:
If the mother cannot forgive OP, then the apple doesn't fall far from the tree because that must be where her son gets his vindictive and unforgiving nature from. As actions speaks louder than words, all OP needs to do is to watch the mother's actions and body language towards her henceforth to see if her apology has been accepted/if she has been forgiven. Her own son is far from perfect. If she cannot forgive OP, then the OP should find her way b/c this wouldn't be the sort of family she wants to marry into.

" Sowing seeds ".


Let's ask the Op to show the husband this thread. Let me come and see what the wife posted transpired between them. Until then, tree softly. We've not been told the complete truth here. I feel

theButterfly:
If the mother cannot forgive OP, then the apple doesn't fall far from the tree because that must be where her son gets his vindictive and unforgiving nature from. As actions speaks louder than words, all OP needs to do is to watch the mother's actions and body language towards her henceforth to see if her apology has been accepted/if she has been forgiven. Her own son is far from perfect. If she cannot forgive OP, then the OP should find her way b/c this wouldn't be the sort of family she wants to marry into.

Ok. Know this now, that an adult says they forgive you does not mean they accept you. Especially Nigerian parents.

baby124:

Ok. Know this now, that an adult says they forgive you does not mean they accept you. Especially Nigerian parents.

Why you just carry this matter for head like gala?


Maybe,because you're vindictive and unforgiving, you think everybody is like you ?


Are you in the heart of the guy's mother to know that she hasn't forgiven the young lady?


Why are you bent on discouraging the young lady to find ways to mend her relationship?


People even forgive cheating partners what more is ordinary quarrel in the presence of prospective inlaws.

We already know that misery loves company but please keep your negative vibes to yourself and allow people to resolve their problems.


We are tired of seeing "Rants of single ladies" on the front page.


#Peace.

Alexgeneration:


Why you just carry this matter for head like gala?


Maybe,because you're vindictive and unforgiving, you think everybody is like you ?


Are you in the heart of the guy's mother to know that she hasn't forgiven the young lady?


Why are you bent on discouraging the young lady to find ways to mend her relationship?


People even forgive cheating partners what more is ordinary quarrel in the presence of prospective inlaws.

We already know that misery loves company but please keep your negative vibes to yourself and allow people to resolve their problems.


We are tired of seeing "Rants of single ladies" on the front page.


#Peace.

You can leave your own opinion. But since you have none how about you shove it? Or use our real handle coward.

baby124:

You can leave your own opinion. But since you have none how about you shove it? Or use our real handle coward.

Rather than masturbating all over the thread with your vile and senseless advice to the young lady to abandon her relationship because of some issues that can be sorted with tact and wisdom,why don't you shove it down your throat and while at it watch your steps before you slip,fall inside your cvnt and break your neck.


You're just an old scarecrow masquerading as a lady roaming the entire Nairaland looking for who to drag into your abyss of depression and bitterness.


All these bitter and frustrated old hags no go allow young girls to live their lives.

Alexgeneration:


Rather than masturbating all over the thread with your vile and senseless advice to the young lady to abandon her relationship because of some issues that can be sorted with tact and wisdom,why don't you shove it down your throat and while at it watch your steps before you slip,fall inside your cvnt and break your neck.


You're just an old scarecrow masquerading as a lady roaming the entire Nairaland looking for who to drag into your abyss of depression and bitterness.


All these bitter and frustrated old hags no go allow young girls to live their lives.

See this psychopathic coward. LMAO. Your double personality is driving you mad .

baby124:

Marriage won’t happen. If Na you be the mother of the boy nko? Both of them are senseless enough to fight in front of their parents not even outsiders. Lol. In a family house where all the family members can see and judge their fighting style. Not only that they dissolve to roforofo exposure of secrets. The MOTHER even try to stop them, they did not stop till they were exhausted. LMAO. They better just quit while there is still time. Before the small children in the house start mocking her when she visit

The Op does not know that her boyfriend can never marry her again with her behaviour.

So your future mother-in-law talked to you and you still disrespected her, I dont know what your tribe is OP but from what I know about Nigerian parents, I am sure the mother of your boyfriend would have called him and told him that he should stop dating you that they are never going to allow him marry you.

Thats probably why he went out of his way to make you angry so you can be the one to break the relationship, if you dont walk out, dude is gonna continue sleeping with you and the day he finds another lady he is done and he will walk away.

Reminds me of my previous relationship , where after almost deciding to marry this lady I caught her dating another guy, a married man o.

I just formed angry for some weeks and later pretended I had forgiven her, and continued debiting her, the day I finally found another babe I broke up with her o.

Thats the way guys roll, I am just being honest with you.

In future you would learn to control your temper and respect your elders, we are africans and not westerners

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Breaststroke:


Yinmu!!

Brother Calgary and here I was thinking you were a serious born again Christian from your post about belonging to a Bible study group

No judgment from me o! In fact I appreciate your candour because I just learnt a valuable lesson as a woman.

lol thats a long time ago na, I am a changed person now.
Much changed and wiser, I wouldn't even stoop so low as to date that kind of lady now.

There is a way age refines you... Like they say, men are like fine wine, we become better with age...

But yeah, that is the bro code, I know some of my guys would not be happy I broke it ...

calgaryFriend:

The Op does not know that her boyfriend can never marry her again with her behaviour.

So your future mother-in-law talked to you and you still disrespected her, I dont know what your tribe is OP but from what I know about Nigerian parents, I am sure the mother of your boyfriend would have called him and told him that he should stop dating you that they are never going to allow him marry you.

Thats probably why he went out of his way to make you angry so you can be the one to break the relationship, if you dont walk out, dude is gonna continue sleeping with you and the day he finds another lady he is done and he will walk away.

Reminds me of my previous relationship , where after almost deciding to marry this lady I caught her dating another guy, a married man o.

I just formed angry for some weeks and later pretended I had forgiven her, and continued debiting her, the day I finally found another babe I broke up with her o.

Thats the way guys roll, I am just being honest with you.

In future you would learn to control your temper and respect your elders, we are africans and not westerners

People don’t want to hear the brutal truth. They will much prefer to be lied to. So they can waste their time hoping that they are accepted. Why even put yourself in such a situation? Not worth forcing yourself on people, just move on! We all know the probability of being accepted by his family after that fight is near zero.

Alexgeneration:


Rather than masturbating all over the thread with your vile and senseless advice to the young lady to abandon her relationship because of some issues that can be sorted with tact and wisdom,why don't you shove it down your throat and while at it watch your steps before you slip,fall inside your cvnt and break your neck.


You're just an old scarecrow masquerading as a lady roaming the entire Nairaland looking for who to drag into your abyss of depression and bitterness.


All these bitter and frustrated old hags no go allow young girls to live their lives.

What words mate

He's jealous of your relationship with your sister. You should sit him down and ask him why he feels your sister is your God. Don't be with a man that tries to separate you from your family meanwhile he wants you to honor his own, don't waste your prime Both of you should iron things out then decide what do do next

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Let the OP find out for herself and stop drawing unecessary conclusions for her. Before you were saying the mother won't forgive her, now you're saying she won't accept her. I'm sure you will come up with another impossibility soon. The issue is not that serious to warrant unforgiveness or unacceptance [or whatever other impossibility you will soon come up with]. Ease up with your negativity.

baby124:

Ok. Know this now, that an adult says they forgive you does not mean they accept you. Especially Nigerian parents.

theButterfly:
Let the OP find out for herself and stop drawing unecessary conclusions for her. Before you were saying the mother won't forgive her, now you're saying she won't accept her. I'm sure you will come up with another impossibility soon. The issue is not that serious to warrant unforgiveness or unacceptance [or whatever other impossibility you will soon come up with]. Ease up with your negativity.

Look, how about you just maintain your lane and give your advice? Don’t quote me again.

baby124:

Look, how about you just maintain your lane and give your advice? Don’t quote me again.

Toxic personality/person spotted. Op be mindful of the counsel you absorb

healthserve:




Toxic personality/person spotted. Op be mindful of the counsel you absorb

You barely know what you are talking about. Mostly confused and bitter. Then you ramble off point looking for someone to entertain your multiple personalities.

baby124:

You barely know what you are talking about. Mostly confused and bitter. Then you ramble off point looking for someone to entertain your multiple personalities.

What's glaring is glaring. That's for entertaining me.Good day

Have a look at this thread for suggestions on how to deal with your anger: https://www.nairaland.com/5435138/what-best-way-deal-anger

You're welcome and happy reading, madam.

baby124:

Look, how about you just maintain your lane and give your advice? Don’t quote me again.

theButterfly:
Have a look at this thread for suggestions on how to deal with your anger: https://www.nairaland.com/5435138/what-best-way-deal-anger

You're welcome and happy reading, madam.

You are obviously mentally derailed and unstable. Read through your comments! You don’t even have one place to stay true to with your opinion. You are all over the place like someone that is sick upstairs.

I have told you not to quote me again. Something is wrong with you. Seek help. All these mad people online though. You first quote me saying rubbish wey I no mention you about what you agreed to. Then you go left saying nonsense. Abeg, Dey your lane. No body send you.
Take your own advice. You are not ok at all .

Alexgeneration:


Why you just carry this matter for head like gala?


Maybe,because you're vindictive and unforgiving, you think everybody is like you ?


Are you in the heart of the guy's mother to know that she hasn't forgiven the young lady?


Why are you bent on discouraging the young lady to find ways to mend her relationship?


People even forgive cheating partners what more is ordinary quarrel in the presence of prospective inlaws.

We already know that misery loves company but please keep your negative vibes to yourself and allow people to resolve their problems.


We are tired of seeing "Rants of single ladies" on the front page.


#Peace.

Alexgeneration:


Rather than masturbating all over the thread with your vile and senseless advice to the young lady to abandon her relationship because of some issues that can be sorted with tact and wisdom,why don't you shove it down your throat and while at it watch your steps before you slip,fall inside your cvnt and break your neck.


You're just an old scarecrow masquerading as a lady roaming the entire Nairaland looking for who to drag into your abyss of depression and bitterness.


All these bitter and frustrated old hags no go allow young girls to live their lives.

GlisteningLace:

DAT duude has no chill at all ( Alexgeneration )

healthserve:



DAT duude has no chill at all ( Alexgeneration )

Been following the posts silently. @Alexgeneration is right - Baby124 is bitter, mentally unstable, deranged, envious of the young girl ( Chocolateme ).

GlisteningLace:
Been following the posts silently. @Alexgeneration is right - Baby124 is bitter, mentally unstable, deranged, envious of the young girl ( Chocolateme ).

. Sure. Like your other multiple personalities . Coming from someone looking for serious relationships online . Delusional bat

GlisteningLace:
Been following the posts silently. @Alexgeneration is right - Baby124 is bitter, mentally unstable, deranged, envious of the young girl ( Chocolateme ).

Seriously unstable mentally. And to think people would absorb counsel from " unchecked " sources is what beats my imagination. I only hope her sadistic comments haven't formed/doesn't form seeds in the heart of the Op

healthserve:



Seriously unstable mentally. And to think people would absorb counsel from " unchecked " sources is what beats my imagination. I only hope her sadistic comments haven't formed/doesn't form seeds in the heart of the Op

Lmaooo. Which other personality should I expect?

baby124:

. Sure. Like your other multiple personalities . Coming from someone looking for serious relationships online . Delusional bat

What's wrong with seeking for relationships online? Are humans any different online/offline ?