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Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by litaninja(m): 12:24pm On Sep 27, 2019
Is she an invalid? Can she not take care of herself? Does she have to be a parasite in life? Are you a parasite to your significant? Do you not have aspirations to rise above handouts?

ngwababe:
Does your boyfriend give you money willingly? Does he really take care of you the way you want?
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by Candycrushy(f): 1:14pm On Sep 27, 2019
YorubaNinja:
Go marry a Yoruba guy, abeg... your parents would be very glad you did. cool They're the best! cool

Omo Yoruba nimi ooo... SWAGGERRR !!!
You mean the real demons aka heart breakers...i would rather prefer a generation of the rejected mbaise..
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by jmichael259(m): 1:39pm On Sep 27, 2019
Kcee14:
I am a girl of 26 years from Delta state. I have a guy I have been dating for close to 3years now and he is from mbaise. My guy told me that he is coming for introduction and I told my parents about it and they said over their dead body will they allow me marry from mbaise. Please,is anything wrong with Mbaise? Are there ladies here that are married to mbaise men and living happily. Please, I am really sad now. I need advice and answers



(1)Does the man (and you too) have a visible and sustainable means of livelihood? (2)Can you both understand (and endure) each other? (3)Do you both have two adult witnesses to escort you to the local government or court registry office so that you can both be legally married in front of God and Man until village people release their hold on your parents to prevent your progress in life?

You no fit mess with Mbaise people, Dem no go gree bend over make you match dia head. Dem go return your craze to you in double portion and you no fit dull for business with Mbaise, him go outsmart you or take the deal from you. THEY DON'T HAVE HISTORY OF CRIME, VIOLENCE OR CANNIBALISM LIKE NGWA OR UMUAKA PEOPLE SO I DON'T UNDERSTAND THE FUSS ABOUT THEM.

We from ngor-okpala dey marry Mbaise well well and Dem no dey do nonsense near us. Especially their women dey domesticated and make good wives. Their men too dey always get handwork. Na owerri people hate Dem and give them bad name through rumors and na outsiders dey fear dem
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by nlPoster: 1:44pm On Sep 27, 2019
This seems like a tribal thread, should be in ethnocentric section.

People are just using the opportunity to "expose the yansh" of other people they have a beef with, or something else.

Eg all the Ijebu references are suspicious.
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by khalids: 1:48pm On Sep 27, 2019
Black people will say whites are racist towards them.....but just see what we are saying about each other......


Human beings are truly bleeped up........

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Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by khalids: 1:49pm On Sep 27, 2019
Candycrushy:

You mean the real demons aka heart breakers...i would rather prefer a generation of the rejected mbaise..

How did you come about this conclusion, how many have you dated....
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by Georgekyrian(m): 2:02pm On Sep 27, 2019
I am from Ahiazu Mbaise.. when I handle you as a woman in all aspect, I swear you will not want to marry from any other tribe. I still represent the gallant and humble Mbaise as Onye Obiise
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by chival(f): 3:05pm On Sep 27, 2019
My dad's family had a very unpleasant experience with an Mbaise woman who was married into the family, so to an extent I can understand the fears associated with people from that region. Most Igbo people avoid having dealings with people from Mbaise, especially in the area of marriage.

That said, I understand that an entire clan/people cannot be all bad. Generalizations are dangerous. The girl's parents should give the man in question the benefit of doubt, provided he and his people really love and accept the girl. It's important the guy's family love a and accepts the girl because these kinds of issues are usually hinged on extended family drama.

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Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by seangy4konji: 4:00pm On Sep 27, 2019
Skmoda:

Ondo town I guess.....very stingy people
ijebu women are worse when it comes to stinginess.if you owe them 20 naira and buy things on 20k...they will still remind you all the time of the 20 naira.unnessasary stinginess
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by nlPoster: 4:07pm On Sep 27, 2019
Skmoda:

Ondo town I guess.....very stingy people

Quite sure he meant the state.

Probably too scared to give more detail.
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by lyndaway(f): 4:15pm On Sep 27, 2019
Listen to your parents please am talking out of experience what an elder see sitting you can't see it even if you are on top of an iroko �
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by Candycrushy(f): 4:57pm On Sep 27, 2019
khalids:

How did you come about this conclusion, how many have you dated....
JUst 2 unfortunate fellows...that affliction will never come up again...
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by khiaa(f): 5:59pm On Sep 27, 2019
WorWorBoy2:
Because of this tongue

https://www.nairaland.com/5410485/sex-tourism-booming-big-business/1#821541963

That's British women not American.
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by khalids: 6:11pm On Sep 27, 2019
Candycrushy:

JUst 2 unfortunate fellows...that affliction will never come up again...

I'm sure you know better than that.....its the individuals not the tribe............
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by Reeberry: 7:03pm On Sep 27, 2019
life103:
its obvious your parents have their reasons for not wanting you to mary an mbaise man, but you just can't stereotype a whole state
Not a state.
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by Reeberry: 7:04pm On Sep 27, 2019
seangy4konji:
ijebu women are worse when it comes to stinginess.if you owe them 20 naira and buy things on 20k...they will still remind you all the time of the 20 naira.unnessasary stinginess
grin
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by Skmoda(m): 8:34pm On Sep 27, 2019
nairalandposter:


Quite sure he meant the state.

Probably too scared to give more detail.
Ondo town people in Ondo state are very stingy....I'm just saying anyways
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by Skmoda(m): 8:35pm On Sep 27, 2019
seangy4konji:
ijebu women are worse when it comes to stinginess.if you owe them 20 naira and buy things on 20k...they will still remind you all the time of the 20 naira.unnessasary stinginess
They are number 1 now
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by QueenVaji: 8:45pm On Sep 27, 2019
Orlando7au:


You're a capital f00l for dragging Akwa-Ibom people into this issue. Please take your hate elsewhere. Anu afia

������....wicked akwa ibomite
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by ojojo1985: 9:34pm On Sep 27, 2019
na wa o
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by midnighter(f): 11:44pm On Sep 27, 2019
centboy123456:



get a life before they use you for blood money useless tin

It wont happen to me, please
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by nams77: 7:49am On Sep 28, 2019
Kcee14:
I am a girl of 26 years from Delta state. I have a guy I have been dating for close to 3years now and he is from mbaise. My guy told me that he is coming for introduction and I told my parents about it and they said over their dead body will they allow me marry from mbaise. Please,is anything wrong with Mbaise? Are there ladies here that are married to mbaise men and living happily. Please, I am really sad now. I need advice and answers
Dear girl, a lot of people have spoken out of foolishness and hearsay.
There are a lot of babies here with foolishness ingrained in the grey matters of their brains that will require pestle to separate.
Take this from me as the final say and authority.
The only thing about the nbaise people is just cunniness and deceptiveness. Period.
In those days among the imo tribes and kindred they are known to be cunning, thats all.
But like you know, that assertion cannot be the general attitude of every mbaise person. There are bound to be several exceptions. Just like they say that the urhobo men are lazy, there are a lot of hardworking urhobo men who have risen to prominent position by dint of hard work.
They used to say igbo men don't marry other tribes but i have seen several igbo men even in my families ( more than 5) who have married from other parts of nigeria.

Its rather unfortunate that your parents have held on to that stupid quote or maxim about a snake and mbaise man( it was really blown out of proportion)

By the way, i am not from mbiase

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Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by Nobody: 1:20pm On Sep 29, 2019
khiaa:


That's British women not American.
And so? British women going to Gambia for sex tour and yet you scream Nigeria.

So how does Gambia relate to Nigeria?
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by khiaa(f): 8:59pm On Sep 29, 2019
WorWorBoy2:
And so? British women going to Gambia for sex tour and yet you scream Nigeria.

So how does Gambia relate to Nigeria?

Where did I say anything about Nigeria?
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by Nobody: 2:49pm On Sep 30, 2019
khiaa:


Where did I say anything about Nigeria?
Now what has Nigerians go to do with white women going to Gambia for sex tour?

Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by SavageResponse(m): 6:12pm On Sep 30, 2019
Kcee14:
I am a girl of 26 years from Delta state. I have a guy I have been dating for close to 3years now and he is from mbaise. My guy told me that he is coming for introduction and I told my parents about it and they said over their dead body will they allow me marry from mbaise. Please,is anything wrong with Mbaise? Are there ladies here that are married to mbaise men and living happily. Please, I am really sad now. I need advice and answers

If you go against your parents' counsel then be ready to accept whatever comes of it

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Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by SavageResponse(m): 6:15pm On Sep 30, 2019
nams77:

Dear girl, a lot of people have spoken out of foolishness and hearsay.
There are a lot of babies here with foolishness ingrained in the grey matters of their brains that will require pestle to separate.
Take this from me as the final say and authority.
The only thing about the nbaise people is just cunniness and deceptiveness. Period.
In those days among the imo tribes and kindred they are known to be cunning, thats all.
But like you know, that assertion cannot be the general attitude of every mbaise person. There are bound to be several exceptions. Just like they say that the urhobo men are lazy, there are a lot of hardworking urhobo men who have risen to prominent position by dint of hard work.
They used to say igbo men don't marry other tribes but i have seen several igbo men even in my families ( more than 5) who have married from other parts of nigeria.

Its rather unfortunate that your parents have held on to that stupid quote or maxim about a snake and mbaise man( it was really blown out of proportion)

By the way, i am not from mbiase

Your post doesn't count cos your opinion is biased in favour of your kindred grin
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by Nobody: 6:31pm On Sep 30, 2019
ngwababe:
Does your boyfriend give you money willingly? Does he really take care of you the way you want?

So money above everything, right?
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by Nobody: 6:48pm On Sep 30, 2019
Michelle55:
They are nice people though, had same misconception about them until I met someone from there who changed and cleared every bit of doubts I had.

Ask your parents their reasons for rejecting your suitor

A well fuckedd woman detected.
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by nams77: 7:00pm On Sep 30, 2019
SavageResponse:


Your post doesn't count cos your opinion is biased in favour of your kindred grin
Its OK. Bye
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by Nobody: 7:03pm On Sep 30, 2019
Who is marrying the guy? You? Or your parents?
Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by khiaa(f): 8:31pm On Sep 30, 2019
WorWorBoy2:
Now what has Nigerians go to do with white women going to Gambia for sex tour?


I meant Nigerian men are just as dirty when it comes to white girls and will do anything to get one including paying her for sex.

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