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My Fiancee's Mum Doesn't Want Us To Marry Because Of My Tribe by Kassidy4luv(m): 6:22pm On Sep 27, 2019 |
I have been dating her for about 6 months now, last month on her birthday I proposed to her and she said yes. Ever since then the mum have been angry, she invited me to come over to have discussions with me. She is EDO and I am IGBO, the mum said she doesn't want her daughter to marry IGBO because of what an Igbo lady did to her brother. I was shocked and dumbfounded, while didn't they tell me all this while instead of wasting my time. 48 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Fiancee's Mum Doesn't Want Us To Marry Because Of My Tribe by SLAP44: 6:26pm On Sep 27, 2019 |
![]() Same thing happened in our compound, my elder bro brought back this girl to marry in Mbaise Imo state, my auntie was happy, but when she spoke to the girl and she was like, "Auntie doo, I no dey hear Ib,,,,, she couldn't complete the sentence and my auntie took the coke I brought for her and broke on the poor girl's head. See wahala that day ![]() The poor Edo girl ran and my aunt chased her with a cane, flogging her all the way to the bus stop, my elder bro was helpless as it was my auntie who trained him in university. The poor Edo girl was rejected because one wicked Edo woman who lived in my uncles house in Benin was using witchcraft to suck my auntie business. 104 Likes 13 Shares |
Re: My Fiancee's Mum Doesn't Want Us To Marry Because Of My Tribe by Nobody: 6:29pm On Sep 27, 2019 |
I still do not believe parent still dictate who their children should get married to in this 21st century,bt anyways her mom told her not to marry someone because of an utterance with an igbo person,like seriously? At this point i really do not know what to say bt you should hear her decision out first. I can't imagine my mom telling me me i can't marry my bf because people from his race colonised Nigeria. 29 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Fiancee's Mum Doesn't Want Us To Marry Because Of My Tribe by Flexherbal(m): 6:40pm On Sep 27, 2019 |
Use wisdom to handle it. 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee's Mum Doesn't Want Us To Marry Because Of My Tribe by Kassidy4luv(m): 6:41pm On Sep 27, 2019 |
Pettyprincess:She is EDO and I am IGBO. HER mum an igbo lady divorced her brother and took their children away, so because of that her daughter will not marry me and also because my younger sister is living with me. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancee's Mum Doesn't Want Us To Marry Because Of My Tribe by Nobody: 6:46pm On Sep 27, 2019 |
Kassidy4luv:I have modified my comment Ask her what is her decision.i do not think you marrying her mother,your gf should have the final decision. 4 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee's Mum Doesn't Want Us To Marry Because Of My Tribe by Kassidy4luv(m): 6:51pm On Sep 27, 2019 |
Pettyprincess:She said she can't go against her mum decision. I have broken up with her 12 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee's Mum Doesn't Want Us To Marry Because Of My Tribe by Nobody: 6:56pm On Sep 27, 2019 |
Kassidy4luv:Wow!!! Seriously? I think that is the best for both of you since she can't go against her mum. 48 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee's Mum Doesn't Want Us To Marry Because Of My Tribe by SLAP44: 7:15pm On Sep 27, 2019 |
Kassidy4luv: My elder bro also broke up with the Edo girl. 32 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancee's Mum Doesn't Want Us To Marry Because Of My Tribe by Kassidy4luv(m): 8:12pm On Sep 27, 2019 |
Pettyprincess:Yeah the best decision. |
Re: My Fiancee's Mum Doesn't Want Us To Marry Because Of My Tribe by Jombom: 11:55pm On Sep 27, 2019 |
SLAP44: E be like say na by force to marry you Igbo now. Lol |
Re: My Fiancee's Mum Doesn't Want Us To Marry Because Of My Tribe by sammycashly: 7:55am On Sep 28, 2019 |
SLAP44:Guy your aunty mad gan . ![]() SLAP44:Guy your aunty mad gan . 26 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancee's Mum Doesn't Want Us To Marry Because Of My Tribe by MedicH: 8:03am On Sep 28, 2019 |
SLAP44: So ur brother came home with his babe and ur aunt unleashed this wickedness on her ur bro no fit defend the girl? I wonder where girl meet this kind guys at. What if the supposed aunt killed the girl from the aggravated assault and battery? 74 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: My Fiancee's Mum Doesn't Want Us To Marry Because Of My Tribe by SLAP44: 8:10am On Sep 28, 2019 |
MedicH: Hypocrisy. You should have reacted to the first tribal bashing before r reacting to the second wickedness. 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancee's Mum Doesn't Want Us To Marry Because Of My Tribe by Offpoint: 8:32am On Sep 28, 2019 |
Doctors in the house, I don't know what's wrong with me for the past 5 days now. Anything I take in I have this urge of vomiting, even water. It all started when I drank garri with Merinda plus groundnuts+fried fish. I was only trying to Jaye ori mi 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancee's Mum Doesn't Want Us To Marry Because Of My Tribe by yeyeboi(m): 8:33am On Sep 28, 2019 |
Na so |
Re: My Fiancee's Mum Doesn't Want Us To Marry Because Of My Tribe by Nobody: 8:33am On Sep 28, 2019 |
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Re: My Fiancee's Mum Doesn't Want Us To Marry Because Of My Tribe by MANNABBQGRILLS: 8:33am On Sep 28, 2019 |
She is EDO and I am IGBO, the mum said she doesn't want her daughter to marry IGBO because of what an Igbo lady did to her brother SAY NO TO TRIBALISM! 10 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: My Fiancee's Mum Doesn't Want Us To Marry Because Of My Tribe by nabegibeg: 8:33am On Sep 28, 2019 |
Kassidy4luv: |
Re: My Fiancee's Mum Doesn't Want Us To Marry Because Of My Tribe by majamajic(m): 8:33am On Sep 28, 2019 |
hmmmm wasting your time , for just 6 months ? 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee's Mum Doesn't Want Us To Marry Because Of My Tribe by ovieneekperemo: 8:34am On Sep 28, 2019 |
SLAP44: Fake 57 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee's Mum Doesn't Want Us To Marry Because Of My Tribe by OgboAto: 8:34am On Sep 28, 2019 |
LOL nobody wants the Ibo people anymore. Not even Ibo people want to marry Ibo people. ![]() 19 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancee's Mum Doesn't Want Us To Marry Because Of My Tribe by efighter: 8:34am On Sep 28, 2019 |
Kassidy4luv: You dated her for six months and now you want to marry her. The mother is right, you are bad, unserious and with no good plan. It is only white men that marry after few weeks of dating and divorce after few weeks of marriage because they don't even take time to know each other. However, I have meet few exceptionally cool people that you can marry even the day you meet them and you will still not have problems. These people are one in a billion, so there are just seven of them on earth. Did you meet one of them that you want to marry within a short time? If not, go and take your time to really know whom you want to spend the rest of your life with. 7 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee's Mum Doesn't Want Us To Marry Because Of My Tribe by YourNextLevel(m): 8:34am On Sep 28, 2019 |
She should be the one to beg you. Maybe she has seen that she cannot easily penetrate you through w*t*hcr*ft OR She's doing you a favour because the gurl is not your real wife- you never know .... 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee's Mum Doesn't Want Us To Marry Because Of My Tribe by nabegibeg: 8:34am On Sep 28, 2019 |
SLAP44: Nothing Messi no go see for anfield 14 Likes
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Re: My Fiancee's Mum Doesn't Want Us To Marry Because Of My Tribe by Idsoft: 8:34am On Sep 28, 2019 |
My guy forget that babe, my father tell me say if the mother of my babe no like me make I forget about the marriage because the mama no go de satisfied with anything wey i go do but if na the papa make I no worry say man no get wahala 24 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancee's Mum Doesn't Want Us To Marry Because Of My Tribe by JONNYSPUTE(m): 8:35am On Sep 28, 2019 |
I don't see any problem there. If she doesn't want you to marry her daughter, let her be and look for another person to marry,simpe.Most of you guys always see problems where there's non.Don't start telling me its love because there's always a time in every marriage that both will start asking themselves if they truly love each other before getting married.(Only the married peeps will understand this)And by that time,it takes only grace,tolerance and understanding to scale thru.Forget what you ve spent and move on.Na fly weeh no dey hear word dey follow dead body enter grave. 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee's Mum Doesn't Want Us To Marry Because Of My Tribe by slawomir: 8:35am On Sep 28, 2019 |
Pussyyy niggarrrs every where So my niggarzz una nor know say every tribe get bad and good people 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancee's Mum Doesn't Want Us To Marry Because Of My Tribe by bestman09(m): 8:35am On Sep 28, 2019 |
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