ovieneekperemo:


Fake

mercyviv:
I don't believe you're in love with the lady either ... listen to yourself; " why didnt they tell me this before instead..." It simply means you would have walked even in the face of a simple challenge that may have been resolved with dialogue, or do you imagine marriage to be a bed of roses all through and through?! I doubt if you'll be a better husband sir!!
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efighter:


You dated her for six months and now you want to marry her. The mother is right, you are bad, unserious and with no good plan. It is only white men that marry after few weeks of dating and divorce after few weeks of marriage because they don't even take time to know each other.

However, I have meet few exceptionally cool people that you can marry even the day you meet them and you will still not have problems. These people are one in a billion, so there are just seven of them on earth. Did you meet one of them that you want to marry within a short time? If not, go and take your time to really know whom you want to spend the rest of your life with.

OgboAto:
LOL nobody wants the Ibo people anymore.

Not even Ibo people want to marry Ibo people.

Kassidy4luv:
I have been dating her for about 6 months now, last month on her birthday I proposed to her and she said yes. Ever since then the mum have been angry, she invited me to come over to have discussions with me. She is EDO and I am IGBO, the mum said she doesn't want her daughter to marry IGBO because of what an Igbo lady did to her brother.
I was shocked and dumbfounded, while didn't they tell me all this while instead of wasting my time.

SLAP44:


Same thing happened in our compound, my elder bro brought back this girl to marry in Mbaise Imo state, my auntie was happy, but when she spoke to the girl and she was like, "Auntie doo, I no dey hear Ib,,,,, she couldn't complete the sentence and my auntie took the coke I brought for her and broke on the poor girl's head. See wahala that day

The poor Edo girl ran and my aunt chased her with a cane, flogging her all the way to the bus stop, my elder bro was helpless as it was my auntie who trained him in university.

The poor Edo girl was rejected because one wicked Edo woman who lived in my uncles house in Benin was using witchcraft to suck my auntie business.

Kassidy4luv:
I have been dating her for about 6 months now, last month on her birthday I proposed to her and she said yes. Ever since then the mum have been angry, she invited me to come over to have discussions with me. She is EDO and I am IGBO, the mum said she doesn't want her daughter to marry IGBO because of what an Igbo lady did to her brother.
I was shocked and dumbfounded, while didn't they tell me all this while instead of wasting my time.

Peng12345:


Forget aboit those bla bla you don't have enough money, simple

Kassidy4luv:
I have been dating her for about 6 months now, last month on her birthday I proposed to her and she said yes. Ever since then the mum have been angry, she invited me to come over to have discussions with me. She is EDO and I am IGBO, the mum said she doesn't want her daughter to marry IGBO because of what an Igbo lady did to her brother.
I was shocked and dumbfounded, while didn't they tell me all this while instead of wasting my time.

luminouz:

Talk is cheap
Wait till you're ready to marry naaaaaaa!

Pettyprincess:

What i know is that my parents can't dictates who i get married to.

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SLAP44:


My elder bro also broke up with the Edo girl.

Kassidy4luv:
She said she can't go against her mum decision. I have broken up with her

Kassidy4luv:
She said she can't go against her mum decision. I have broken up with her

Sonnobax15:
Dear op,with all due respect,i think you should see that hinderance as a blessing in disguise...edo women aren't considered as wife materials if you really want to live long...as an urhobo man,that'd be the last thing i'd do,to marry an edo witch!

Pettyprincess:
I still do not believe parent still dictate who their children should get married to in this 21st century,bt anyways her mom told her not to marry someone because of an utterance with an igbo person,like seriously?
At this point i really do not know what to say bt you should hear her decision out first.
I can't imagine my mom telling me me i can't marry my bf because people from his race colonised Nigeria.

OgboAto:
LOL nobody wants the Ibo people anymore.

Not even Ibo people want to marry Ibo people.

Ten06:
At times I don't blame these parents taking this decision. Some years ago I had a relationship with an igbo girl from Eziama in mbakala in abia state. My pastor then was not happy with the relationship and told me to immediately go and see her people
All attempts for me to see her people was frustrated by this lady until she became pregnant. One day before I returned back from a journey she took her time and packed everything I have in my house and went away with them, by then she was 6 months pregnant
Not to be seen as an irresponsible young man I went to their village, immediately she saw me she pleaded with me not to tell her people that she stole all my properties.
Long story short, I was ask how she managed to acquire all these properties I covered for her
I was immediately told to drop money for anti natal which I did. But I was entertained anyway.
Time for delivery she could not
At the 11th month of the pregnancy she was rushed down to where I'm, more than 200 kilometres away. That night I bought a drink and prayed for her and immediately water start coming out and I rushed her to the hospital, she gave birth that day and the next day I discharged her to the empty house with a foam and few things I newly acquired.
I now left to go and collect money in the bank, my people before I came back they were nowhere to be found, left with some other things in my house.
Moreover, I'm also aware of about 5 other abia girls, one sold her baby the others were not found by their husband up till today.
Now I have gotten other 4 children and I have not seen that abia scoundrel up till today. And you expect not to act when my child want to marry from that area you lie
Guy be wise

Pettyprincess:

What i know is that my parents can't dictates who i get married to.

Offpoint:
Doctors in the house, I don't know what's wrong with me for the past 5 days now.
Anything I take in I have this urge of vomiting, even water.
It all started when I drank garri with Merinda plus groundnuts+fried fish.

I was only trying to Jaye ori mi

safarigirl:
So, the fiancee no know say her mama no like Igbo people when she dey follow you waka?

It is ignorance that is making her mother talk like that, tomorrow, another man will refuse to marry her daughter because his own mother had a bad experience with Edo people.

Old age does not always mean wisdom, it could also mean years of experience in ignorance

majamajic:
hmmmm

wasting your time , for just 6 months ?

Ten06:
At times I don't blame these parents taking this decision. Some years ago I had a relationship with an igbo girl from Eziama in mbakala in abia state. My pastor then was not happy with the relationship and told me to immediately go and see her people
All attempts to see her people was frustrated by this lady until she became pregnant. One day before I returned from a journey she took her time and packed everything I had in my house and went away with them, by then she was 6 months pregnant
Not to be seen as an irresponsible young man I went to their village, immediately she saw me she pleaded with me not to tell her people that she stole all my properties.
Long story short, I was ask how she managed to acquire all these properties, I had to lie cover for her
I was immediately told to drop money for anti natal which I did. But I was entertained anyway.
Time for delivery she could not
At the 11th month of the pregnancy she was rushed down to where I'm, more than 200 kilometres away. That night I bought a drink and prayed for her and immediately water start coming out of her body and I rushed her to the hospital, she gave birth that day and the next day I discharged her to the empty house with a foam and few things I newly acquired.
I now left to go and collect money in the bank, my people before I came back they were nowhere to be found, left with some other things I newly bought.
Moreover, I'm also aware of about 5 other abia girls, one sold her baby the others were not found by their husband up till today.
Now I have gotten other 4 children and I have not seen that abia scoundrel up till today. And you expect me not to act when my child want to marry from that area you lie
Guy be wise

1StopRudeness:


Well done...civilized, mordern day, 21st century woman....you don’t believe parents still have personal opinion in their child’s marriage.....it’s everywhere both places with cultural/tribal differences and free thinking countries....
there will always be a reason why parents refuse choice of spouse from their children..it can never go away, it has nothing to do with civilization...it could be money, class, educational status, pst experience.....Incase u don’t know, the recent xenophobic attack has put south Africans on the list humans some parents will never allow their children marry.

The main question is why are we still barbaric towards our fellow man in this 21st century that makes people discriminate...it isn’t always about tribe or cultural differences. People don’t just wake up and say they don’t want mbaise tribe or the Fulani and so on.... it’s what the humans from these tribe, race, nation have done or even still doing that makes people discriminate....

LUGBE:
You gather mind to go Edo. Edo men are running away, you are running in.

You are seeing the handwriting on the wall but you want to be blind, run away as fast as your leg can carry

safarigirl:
You must have really been around the block with women.

Anyway, don't allow your experiences and bias ruin your children's lives. You could be chasing a good thing from them inadvertently, and when you're gone, they will be forced to suffer the consequences of your own bias.

Character is not dependent on tribe or state of origin solely.