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If You Were In My Shoe, What Would You Do? by Nobody: 11:23pm On Sep 28, 2019 |
Knowing so well that my smartphone was faulty that time, I went to my girlfriend & asked her to allow me use her phone overnight as I needed to complete my Civil Defence job application that very night. I put my request to her when I got to her house and, before her friend, she said there's no problem that she would give me. I had to wait as she started using the phone, checking all her social platforms. Something kept telling me that she was hiding & deleting some intimate chats & files. Well, it was nothing to me as I have always told her to ensure I do not see or hear anything dirty/heartbreaking about her. And I was not used to using her phone, checking her chats or peeping into her privacy. To cut the long story short, after waiting so long, she handed the phone to me & asked if she could remove her sim cards but I told her it's not necessary because I don't like like opening smartphones anyhow. She felt reluctant but I never worried. Then I asked her to go to settings & change the security to password only, since the phone recognizes her fingerprint/scanning only. Did you know what she said? She said she could no longer recollect the security password as it's been a while she used the password last. At that time her friend was fast asleep, then I realized why she held the phone for hours at first, she was expecting her friend to sleep before starting the drama. To be sincere, I felt dejected & worried. I decided not to make a fuss. Besides, I didn't buy the phone for her, she got the phone with her N-Power income. Since that very night, I have stopped calling her not to mention going to see her, hoping she would call to say 'sorry' but she won't. Her friend noticed that things aren't going right between the two of us, so she called me & I explained to her. She said she would blame me only for not giving prior notice before coming that night for the phone as she uses the phone's flashlight every night. If you were in my shoe, what would you do? I need just advice & not criticism, please. Thanks. |
Re: If You Were In My Shoe, What Would You Do? by udoekere: 11:25pm On Sep 28, 2019 |
Is she your wife? Abeg free am as far as you no marry am you don't have control over the things she do.na her phone,go and buy your own.stop yarning trash we all know that you are broke. #Unbanned_Naijatushboy 2 Likes |
Re: If You Were In My Shoe, What Would You Do? by Aonkuuse(m): 11:37pm On Sep 28, 2019 |
Nothing bro, expectations brings disappointments in relationships. If I were the one I wouldn't have asked for the phone in the first place, but now that you ask and she rejected take it that it never happened. Millions of girls out there will do same, making it look as if you are disappointed will make her have an edge over you in terms of ego. Making sacrifices like that in a relationship on the part of the woman is so hard. some people don't make such sacrifices and you need to accept them as they are if really you love them, they will come by willingly if they have reasons to do so. 3 Likes |
Re: If You Were In My Shoe, What Would You Do? by Nobody: 11:53pm On Sep 28, 2019 |
Lolz lollzz story time, asking your gf for her phone is like asking if you are the only love of her life, checking her phone is like trying to confirm it... 1 Like |
Re: If You Were In My Shoe, What Would You Do? by PrimadonnaO(f): 12:03am On Sep 29, 2019 |
What's your problem exactly, 'cause I don't get it. 5 Likes |
Re: If You Were In My Shoe, What Would You Do? by TonyeBarcanista(m): 12:12am On Sep 29, 2019 |
[s] Aonkuuse:[/s] 1 Like |
Re: If You Were In My Shoe, What Would You Do? by Kneephy(m): 12:20am On Sep 29, 2019 |
You won't know the value of what you have till you loose it idiot. I don't know what you guys want sef, you required for her phone and she gave you, now you are picking a fight because she told You she forgot her password. If you were to be a good man, ur babe told you she has forgotten her password and you already believe it's a lie..... Instead of you to appreciate ur babe that gave you her phone without informing her before hand, na password matter you put for head What is a relationship where is there is no TRUST! you believe your babe lied to you by telling you she has forgotten her password..... What proofs do you have to believe she lied about the password, not like she didn't give the phone to you..... Motherfucking ingrate! Continue looking for Mrs PERFECT till guys like us go snatch the babe from you.... 2 Likes |
Re: If You Were In My Shoe, What Would You Do? by dulux07(m): 12:26am On Sep 29, 2019 |
Don't be deceived with all this privacy jargons or just bf/gf excuses, married or unmarried, wedding day doesn't automatically change attitudes. Relationships should be transparent. Ignore her friend's reason, she will most likely cover up for her, but if u r sure she's hiding something, then the good news is rlatnship is not a do or die affair, if u can't cope with such partner, move on. 2 Likes |
Re: If You Were In My Shoe, What Would You Do? by Idonweak: 2:29am On Sep 29, 2019 |
Op, from your explanation in your post,it's evident your girl is hiding some secret from you. She might also be having nude pics she sent to other guys. The question i want to ask you is that do you feel suspicious of her movement ? 1 Like |
Re: If You Were In My Shoe, What Would You Do? by Idonweak: 2:30am On Sep 29, 2019 |
[s] udoekere: [/s] Trash 1 Like |
Re: If You Were In My Shoe, What Would You Do? by Idonweak: 2:31am On Sep 29, 2019 |
[s] Kneephy:[/s] Yet another trash. 3 Likes |
Re: If You Were In My Shoe, What Would You Do? by Nobody: 7:49pm On Sep 29, 2019 |
Aonkuuse:Thanks & God bless 1 Like |
Re: If You Were In My Shoe, What Would You Do? by Nobody: 7:51pm On Sep 29, 2019 |
Kneephy:Enjoy the like I gave |
Re: If You Were In My Shoe, What Would You Do? by Cholls(m): 7:52pm On Sep 29, 2019 |
my brother I will not be in your shoe cuz my prophet told me not to wear anyone's shoes 2 Likes |
Re: If You Were In My Shoe, What Would You Do? by Nobody: 7:52pm On Sep 29, 2019 |
dulux07:Thanks & God bless |
Re: If You Were In My Shoe, What Would You Do? by Nobody: 7:56pm On Sep 29, 2019 |
Idonweak:Yes, I do. Actually, there was a time I saw a nude pic (a man's thing) on her phone & she said it was sent by one Indian friend on Facebook which was automatically saved. I overlooked that b/c some Whites are used to littering social medias with their nudes. But I'm a type who gives no regards to fishy things, unless it's a fact. Thanks |
Re: If You Were In My Shoe, What Would You Do? by Nobody: 8:02pm On Sep 29, 2019 |
Kneephy:You & I aren't same breeds,,,,guy Leave the trash for dumping ground |
Re: If You Were In My Shoe, What Would You Do? by Nobody: 8:06pm On Sep 29, 2019 |
PrimadonnaO:Not surprised,,, dear |
Re: If You Were In My Shoe, What Would You Do? by Tajbol4splend(m): 8:07pm On Sep 29, 2019 |
Your girlfriend may not be fully loyal to you but this scenario is not enough to make that conclusion, so I would say you continue the relationship but I would also say don't waste your time if you have not been having good feelings about her before this 1 Like |
Re: If You Were In My Shoe, What Would You Do? by Nobody: 8:08pm On Sep 29, 2019 |
udoekere:I no blame you Pitiful |
Re: If You Were In My Shoe, What Would You Do? by AstroG: 8:08pm On Sep 29, 2019 |
You made a very big mistake by been emotionally attached. Bro,you need to be initiated into the Redpills movement Read some Ubunja threads and receive sense 1 Like |
Re: If You Were In My Shoe, What Would You Do? by Nobody: 8:09pm On Sep 29, 2019 |
Tosinex:Got the point,,,, thanks |
Re: If You Were In My Shoe, What Would You Do? by Nobody: 8:11pm On Sep 29, 2019 |
Cholls:Smile Your prophet could be right though |
Re: If You Were In My Shoe, What Would You Do? by Nobody: 8:15pm On Sep 29, 2019 |
Tajbol4splend:What a pinpoint! Thanks & God bless |
Re: If You Were In My Shoe, What Would You Do? by Nobody: 8:22pm On Sep 29, 2019 |
AstroG:Oh! thanks. Ubunja, the one with too much expertise in r/shp matters It's been a while I came across her posts though. Here I come, Ubunja |
Re: If You Were In My Shoe, What Would You Do? by AstroG: 8:23pm On Sep 29, 2019 |
SirDelight: Your sins has been forgiven,goan sin no more 1 Like |
Re: If You Were In My Shoe, What Would You Do? by Nobody: 8:44pm On Sep 29, 2019 |
I'll wear socks 1 Like |
Re: If You Were In My Shoe, What Would You Do? by Littlemix(f): 8:56pm On Sep 29, 2019 |
First and foremost I don't date guys that still apply for security jobs.. [1quote author=SirDelight post=82663229]Knowing so well that my smartphone was faulty that time, I went to my girlfriend & asked her to allow me use her phone overnight as I needed to complete my Civil Defence job application that very night. I put my request to her when I got to her house and, before her friend, she said there's no problem that she would give me. I had to wait as she started using the phone, checking all her social platforms. Something kept telling me that she was hiding & deleting some intimate chats & files. Well, it was nothing to me as I have always told her to ensure I do not see or hear anything dirty/heartbreaking about her. And I was not used to using her phone, checking her chats or peeping into her privacy. To cut the long story short, after waiting so long, she handed the phone to me & asked if she could remove her sim cards but I told her it's not necessary because I don't like like opening smartphones anyhow. She felt reluctant but I never worried. Then I asked her to go to settings & change the security to password only, since the phone recognizes her fingerprint/scanning only. Did you know what she said? She said she could no longer recollect the security password as it's been a while she used the password last. At that time her friend was fast asleep, then I realized why she held the phone for hours at first, she was expecting her friend to sleep before starting the drama. To be sincere, I felt dejected & worried. I decided not to make a fuss. Besides, I didn't buy the phone for her, she got the phone with her N-Power income. Since that very night, I have stopped calling her not to mention going to see her, hoping she would call to say 'sorry' but she won't. Her friend noticed that things aren't going right between the two of us, so she called me & I explained to her. She said she would blame me only for not giving prior notice before coming that night for the phone as she uses the phone's flashlight every night. If you were in my shoe, what would you do? I need just advice & not criticism, please. Thanks.[/quote] |
Re: If You Were In My Shoe, What Would You Do? by Nobody: 9:11pm On Sep 29, 2019 |
Bonatheripper:Lol,,,,to reduce the pain abi? |
Re: If You Were In My Shoe, What Would You Do? by Nobody: 9:16pm On Sep 29, 2019 |
Littlemix:Neither do those that have already give your type a glimpse |
Re: If You Were In My Shoe, What Would You Do? by Mstick: 9:17pm On Sep 29, 2019 |
Your girlfriend is a hoe, dump her. Or better still you can be sleeping with her without feelings. Oya take this morning and night. Thank God for our master I've seen the light. 2 Likes
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Re: If You Were In My Shoe, What Would You Do? by Jasseyfrd(m): 9:54pm On Sep 29, 2019 |
Why should any one be in ur shoe when we don't know how it inch u, as for me, I will advice to move on. She never like u and she is a crosstitute( just be the best u can be and don't 4get there are so many fish in the ocean. Go for the best, soonest u will get the right one. 1 Like |
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