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Re: My Fiancee's Mum Doesn't Want Us To Marry Because Of My Tribe by nlPoster: 2:31pm On Sep 28, 2019
I think the mentions here is the witchcraft.
Re: My Fiancee's Mum Doesn't Want Us To Marry Because Of My Tribe by Offpoint: 2:43pm On Sep 28, 2019
OlawaleBammie:

And must u use 3G? sogunlaye ni??grin
Anyways, offpoint u wil stil teach me dat ur hustle pattern sha
hopefully when I get chance, you have my whatsapp contact?
Re: My Fiancee's Mum Doesn't Want Us To Marry Because Of My Tribe by LORDKing001: 2:46pm On Sep 28, 2019
Pettyprincess:
I still do not believe parent still dictate who their children should get married to in this 21st century,bt anyways her mom told her not to marry someone because of an utterance with an igbo person,like seriously?
At this point i really do not know what to say bt you should hear her decision out first.
I can't imagine my mom telling me me i can't marry my bf because people from his race colonised Nigeria.
Would have loved you keeping silent. U Neva jam
Re: My Fiancee's Mum Doesn't Want Us To Marry Because Of My Tribe by Fash20: 4:04pm On Sep 28, 2019
SLAP44:
grin

Same thing happened in our compound, my elder bro brought back this girl to marry in Mbaise Imo state, my auntie was happy, but when she spoke to the girl and she was like, "Auntie doo, I no dey hear Ib,,,,, she couldn't complete the sentence and my auntie took the coke I brought for her and broke on the poor girl's head. See wahala that day grin

The poor Edo girl ran and my aunt chased her with a cane, flogging her all the way to the bus stop, my elder bro was helpless as it was my auntie who trained him in university.

The poor Edo girl was rejected because one wicked Edo woman who lived in my uncles house in Benin was using witchcraft to suck my auntie business.

And you believed the dump excuse undecided
Re: My Fiancee's Mum Doesn't Want Us To Marry Because Of My Tribe by OlawaleBammie: 4:04pm On Sep 28, 2019
Offpoint:
hopefully when I get chance, you have my whatsapp contact?
Nope, hopefully u can give dat to me!!!
Re: My Fiancee's Mum Doesn't Want Us To Marry Because Of My Tribe by Kassidy4luv(m): 4:05pm On Sep 28, 2019
OlawaleBammie:


did dey knw why u were doin father xmas??
You are not serious
Re: My Fiancee's Mum Doesn't Want Us To Marry Because Of My Tribe by EdwardRandy(m): 4:11pm On Sep 28, 2019
Kassidy4luv:
I have been dating her for about 6 months now, last month on her birthday I proposed to her and she said yes. Ever since then the mum have been angry, she invited me to come over to have discussions with me. She is EDO and I am IGBO, the mum said she doesn't want her daughter to marry IGBO because of what an Igbo lady did to her brother.
I was shocked and dumbfounded, while didn't they tell me all this while instead of wasting my time.
My brother I'm equally passing through same thing, my babe is Edo and I'm Igbo. In my own case na my family wey no gree make I marry her o even as she don born one for me, while her own family already accepted me and took me as their own child.. My parents even went as far as advising me to abandon her and the baby, and guess what I no longer talk to my parents, atleast for the mean time. Never believed they would say a thing like that to me. Tribe is not enough reason why they shouldn't give their consent to a marriage.. What if you were dangote's son? Or my babe be dangote pikin? My parents (don't know about yours) would never have advised me to leave my woman and new born baby.. If you know what you want bro, go for it. As long as the woman u want to marry is a good person who gives u peace of mind. All the best.
Re: My Fiancee's Mum Doesn't Want Us To Marry Because Of My Tribe by Offpoint: 4:16pm On Sep 28, 2019
OlawaleBammie:
Nope, hopefully u can give dat to me!!!
Drop yours...
Re: My Fiancee's Mum Doesn't Want Us To Marry Because Of My Tribe by EdwardRandy(m): 4:19pm On Sep 28, 2019
SLAP44:
grin

Same thing happened in our compound, my elder bro brought back this girl to marry in Mbaise Imo state, my auntie was happy, but when she spoke to the girl and she was like, "Auntie doo, I no dey hear Ib,,,,, she couldn't complete the sentence and my auntie took the coke I brought for her and broke on the poor girl's head. See wahala that day grin

The poor Edo girl ran and my aunt chased her with a cane, flogging her all the way to the bus stop, my elder bro was helpless as it was my auntie who trained him in university.

The poor Edo girl was rejected because one wicked Edo woman who lived in my uncles house in Benin was using witchcraft to suck my auntie business.
If your story is true then your elder bro is a weakling. Why would the auntie judge and maltreat the poor girl just because of what someone else did to her in the past? Would your aunty have reacted in that manner if the girl was a daughter to Igbinedion or Oba of Benin?
Re: My Fiancee's Mum Doesn't Want Us To Marry Because Of My Tribe by nlPoster: 4:25pm On Sep 28, 2019
People make Nigerians appear so animalistic and primitive, I wonder why.
Re: My Fiancee's Mum Doesn't Want Us To Marry Because Of My Tribe by Kassidy4luv(m): 4:36pm On Sep 28, 2019
EdwardRandy:

My brother I'm equally passing through same thing, my babe is Edo and I'm Igbo. In my own case na my family wey no gree make I marry her o even as she don born one for me, while her own family already accepted me and took me as their own child.. My parents even went as far as advising me to abandon her and the baby, and guess what I no longer talk to my parents, atleast for the mean time. Never believed they would say a thing like that to me. Tribe is not enough reason why they shouldn't give their consent to a marriage.. What if you were dangote's son? Or my babe be dangote pikin? My parents (don't know about yours) would never have advised me to leave my woman and new born baby.. If you know what you want bro, go for it. As long as the woman u want to marry is a good person who gives u peace of mind. All the best.
Have already quitted, she ain't going against her mum according to what she said to me.
Thanks for the advice

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Re: My Fiancee's Mum Doesn't Want Us To Marry Because Of My Tribe by Kassidy4luv(m): 4:36pm On Sep 28, 2019
nairalandposter:
People make Nigerians appear so animalistic and primitive, I wonder why.
Tell me more
Re: My Fiancee's Mum Doesn't Want Us To Marry Because Of My Tribe by bluediesel03: 4:38pm On Sep 28, 2019
Offpoint:
Doctors in the house, I don't know what's wrong with me for the past 5 days now.
Anything I take in I have this urge of vomiting, even water.
It all started when I drank garri with Merinda plus groundnuts+fried fish.

I was only trying to Jaye ori mi
That's food poisoning.Go to hospital , you will be given anti biotics.*NB for now if you want to take any liquid,sip it little by little till you are ok.
Re: My Fiancee's Mum Doesn't Want Us To Marry Because Of My Tribe by Offpoint: 4:41pm On Sep 28, 2019
bluediesel03:
That's food poisoning.Go to hospital , you will be given anti biotics.*NB for now if you want to take any liquid,sip it little by little till you are ok.
Thanks, I appreciate.
Re: My Fiancee's Mum Doesn't Want Us To Marry Because Of My Tribe by nlPoster: 4:58pm On Sep 28, 2019
Kassidy4luv:

Tell me more

I'm not a dictionary.
Re: My Fiancee's Mum Doesn't Want Us To Marry Because Of My Tribe by erico2k2(m): 5:19pm On Sep 28, 2019
Kassidy4luv:

Hahaha
If for say I be celebrity now, the woman for no drag my TRIBE
I swear down, dem no wan know where you come from, na so life be.if not tell me wetin concern Osho baba of Edo state with his wife grin grin grin grin
Re: My Fiancee's Mum Doesn't Want Us To Marry Because Of My Tribe by gerizzim: 5:20pm On Sep 28, 2019
spiceadole:


This is why people should not go proposing and getting engaged,splashing photos on social media without the consent of their parents.

No biggie.

Goan marry Igbo geh na.After all Igbo Amaka.
I won't even subscribe to a lady who is not Igbo to marry an Igbo man.
Her mother is right.

Exctly. Parents consent shud come first bfor any Oda step u take.
Re: My Fiancee's Mum Doesn't Want Us To Marry Because Of My Tribe by Kassidy4luv(m): 5:23pm On Sep 28, 2019
nairalandposter:


I'm not a dictionary.
Savage
Re: My Fiancee's Mum Doesn't Want Us To Marry Because Of My Tribe by Kassidy4luv(m): 5:24pm On Sep 28, 2019
erico2k2:

I swear down, dem no wan know where you come from, na so life be.if not tell me wetin concern Osho baba of Edo state with his wife grin grin grin grin
I felt the mum thinks I am not so rich enough to marry her daughter.
She just use tribe cover up.
Re: My Fiancee's Mum Doesn't Want Us To Marry Because Of My Tribe by Kassidy4luv(m): 5:25pm On Sep 28, 2019
gerizzim:


Exctly. Parents consent shud come first bfor any Oda step u take.
I meet with her she accepted, all of a sudden she change am for me, claiming TRIBE etc
Re: My Fiancee's Mum Doesn't Want Us To Marry Because Of My Tribe by erico2k2(m): 5:28pm On Sep 28, 2019
Kassidy4luv:

I felt the mum thinks I am not so rich enough to marry her daughter.
She just use tribe cover up.
Ofcos thats the case, they always use tribe to cover up.or tell you that family is full of witches etc
Re: My Fiancee's Mum Doesn't Want Us To Marry Because Of My Tribe by erico2k2(m): 5:29pm On Sep 28, 2019
gerizzim:


Exctly. Parents consent shud come first bfor any Oda step u take.
How parents wan take see the future?
Re: My Fiancee's Mum Doesn't Want Us To Marry Because Of My Tribe by Kassidy4luv(m): 5:31pm On Sep 28, 2019
erico2k2:

Ofcos thats the case, they always use tribe to cover up.or tell you that family is full of witches etc
Lol, na their way.
We go blow las las
Re: My Fiancee's Mum Doesn't Want Us To Marry Because Of My Tribe by erico2k2(m): 5:35pm On Sep 28, 2019
Kassidy4luv:

Lol, na their way.
We go blow las las
grin grin grin grin grin Abi ohh, hustle hard, my dad always told me to hustle hard so las las nah chics go dey hustle you, d man nor lie! grin grin
Re: My Fiancee's Mum Doesn't Want Us To Marry Because Of My Tribe by Nweike1: 5:36pm On Sep 28, 2019
Kassidy4luv:

She said she can't go against her mum decision.
I have broken up with her
better
Re: My Fiancee's Mum Doesn't Want Us To Marry Because Of My Tribe by OlawaleBammie: 6:38pm On Sep 28, 2019
Kassidy4luv:
You are not serious
Am sorry if it get to d oda side of you, once again am sorry
Re: My Fiancee's Mum Doesn't Want Us To Marry Because Of My Tribe by OlawaleBammie: 6:40pm On Sep 28, 2019
Offpoint:

Drop yours...

pls notify me wen u re tru, dont quote it pls.
Re: My Fiancee's Mum Doesn't Want Us To Marry Because Of My Tribe by Offpoint: 6:46pm On Sep 28, 2019
OlawaleBammie:

.....
pls notify me wen u re tru, dont quote it pls.
grab
Re: My Fiancee's Mum Doesn't Want Us To Marry Because Of My Tribe by OlawaleBammie: 7:38pm On Sep 28, 2019
Offpoint:
grab
waagbayi
Re: My Fiancee's Mum Doesn't Want Us To Marry Because Of My Tribe by lighternote: 10:39pm On Sep 28, 2019
Keep living in delusion. You wish
OgboAto:
LOL nobody wants the Ibo people anymore.

Not even Ibo people want to marry Ibo people. grin
Re: My Fiancee's Mum Doesn't Want Us To Marry Because Of My Tribe by Kassidy4luv(m): 8:22am On Sep 29, 2019
lighternote:
Keep living in delusion. You wish
Don't mind the guy.
Igbos are the pride of NIGERIA.
Re: My Fiancee's Mum Doesn't Want Us To Marry Because Of My Tribe by Kassidy4luv(m): 8:23am On Sep 29, 2019
OlawaleBammie:


Am sorry if it get to d oda side of you, once again am sorry
No you didn't

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