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Why Men Cheat Part 2 - MISEDUCATION by Nobody: 9:35am On Sep 30, 2019 |
Men believe it is in the African culture to cheat, even a cultural norm in the world for men to cheat. They have referenced this fact, time and time again, like a broken old record. Men also want to remain boys all their lives, they want to keep acting on only impulses. Instead of weighing the reward and consequences of their actions before acting. As such most men ( deep down even though males ego won't allow most to admit it) are ADDICTS to their desires. They start off cheating, enjoying it for a while, later on want to quit but cannot. They are already ADDICTS to sex, this is because they failed to develop the frontal lobe of their brains, which is responsible for weighing the benefit versus consequence of every action especially in adulthood. But over stimulated and depend on the VTA portions of their brains that acts base on impulses and releases dopamine that allows them feel momentary high from cheating....classic cerebral addiction pathway ( even for drugs, alcohol and other substance abuse) So let's address these two factors Culture is the beliefs, values, behaviour and material objects that constitute a people's way of life. Notice culture is a PEOPLE'S way of life and not MEN'S way of life. It takes MEN and WOMEN to form the fabric of society and culture in itself. So any negative culture that may have existed in the past against women because women allowed it, is slowly becoming null and void because the modern woman wants new healthy culture that will favour and benefit her. Men should stop referencing past old cultures, time and season have changed, the modern woman is also forever changed too. In developed countries, men voluntary check into sex rehab centers to treat their addiction to sex or are mandated too (for certain relationships to continue by court or any other authority), other lesser but effective options are to go for therapy sessions with sex therapist, or join sex addiction support groups etc. All these provisions are to help men stop cheating, cause sex addiction is a disease and a legitimate mental disorder, categorised with other mental illness like depression, anxiety etc. Sex addiction is also called sexual dependency, hypersexuality, hypersexual disorder, compulsive sexual behavior, satyriasis and sexual compulsivity . Psychologist and psychiatrist globally are working to bring out drugs to understimulate the VTA and help the frontal lobe gain control once again. Research psychologist and assistant professor of psychiatry at the Semel Institute of Neuroscience and Human Behavior at UCLA, Rory Reid, says "The criteria for hypersexual disorder that have been proposed, and now tested, will allow researchers and clinicians to study, treat and develop prevention strategies for individuals at risk for developing hypersexual behavior." So men do not pride yourself on cheating, it's actually a mental illness and an addiction. Learn to control and master your emotions instead. Stay tuned, more Coming Cc Seun Funmmyastic Fountainofyouth Blackivy29 Guest007 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Men Cheat Part 2 - MISEDUCATION by Nobody: 9:46am On Sep 30, 2019 |
Men with neurological disorder like sexual addiction should be helped. I encourage treatment. We need a rehab facility here in nigeria. It would help curb this persistent issue of rape. Sandra prepare for opposition. Positive threads attract negative minds. |
Re: Why Men Cheat Part 2 - MISEDUCATION by Funmmyastic: 9:47am On Sep 30, 2019 |
Blackivy29: Lol.Some of them will not agree to this.Hehehe. |
Re: Why Men Cheat Part 2 - MISEDUCATION by Funmmyastic: 9:49am On Sep 30, 2019 |
Nice one,keep it coming. |
Re: Why Men Cheat Part 2 - MISEDUCATION by Nobody: 9:52am On Sep 30, 2019 |
Blackivy29:I was born by my mother and I came ready dear . Credit to my father, he did an awesome job too to build my self confidence. So let them come 1 Like |
Re: Why Men Cheat Part 2 - MISEDUCATION by Nobody: 9:53am On Sep 30, 2019 |
Funmmyastic: The sensible ones will, who cares about the rest |
Re: Why Men Cheat Part 2 - MISEDUCATION by Nobody: 9:53am On Sep 30, 2019 |
Funmmyastic:Thank you dear |
Re: Why Men Cheat Part 2 - MISEDUCATION by Nobody: 11:27am On Sep 30, 2019 |
Sandra8: You're giving lil boys nightmares, continue |
Re: Why Men Cheat Part 2 - MISEDUCATION by Nobody: 11:31am On Sep 30, 2019 |
Guest007: Thank you dear , I have no intention of stopping 1 Like |
Re: Why Men Cheat Part 2 - MISEDUCATION by DrayZee: 11:50am On Sep 30, 2019 |
Wow. Look at how all the women above are already dreaming of attention that no one wants to give them. Eh yah 7 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Why Men Cheat Part 2 - MISEDUCATION by Belafonte(m): 11:54am On Sep 30, 2019 |
Blackivy29: What about the women with this disorder? Are you going to abandon your sisters? |
Re: Why Men Cheat Part 2 - MISEDUCATION by Belafonte(m): 11:55am On Sep 30, 2019 |
These female miseducations are disappointing. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Men Cheat Part 2 - MISEDUCATION by Nobody: 11:55am On Sep 30, 2019 |
DrayZee: How are you love? You have my attention |
Re: Why Men Cheat Part 2 - MISEDUCATION by Nobody: 12:14pm On Sep 30, 2019 |
Belafonte:Every sick will be treated. |
Re: Why Men Cheat Part 2 - MISEDUCATION by Nobody: 12:17pm On Sep 30, 2019 |
Belafonte: It's more prevalent in men than women dear, treat yourself and yours and we shall tend to ours love |
Re: Why Men Cheat Part 2 - MISEDUCATION by Nobody: 12:18pm On Sep 30, 2019 |
Belafonte:To males yes, but not to females dear |
Re: Why Men Cheat Part 2 - MISEDUCATION by Belafonte(m): 12:18pm On Sep 30, 2019 |
Sandra8: Who says we want treatment? . We are satisfied with ourselves, thank you. |
Re: Why Men Cheat Part 2 - MISEDUCATION by Nobody: 12:19pm On Sep 30, 2019 |
Blackivy29:That's my lovely sis |
Re: Why Men Cheat Part 2 - MISEDUCATION by Nobody: 12:21pm On Sep 30, 2019 |
Belafonte: You are in a toxic environment, you need to move to a western country to get the cure you seek dear |
Re: Why Men Cheat Part 2 - MISEDUCATION by Belafonte(m): 12:23pm On Sep 30, 2019 |
Sandra8: Yeah, that’s true. People don’t like sex and seek it doggedly in western countries. Can you arrange visa for me, though? Let me come and plank you in your western country? 1 Like |
Re: Why Men Cheat Part 2 - MISEDUCATION by Belafonte(m): 12:26pm On Sep 30, 2019 |
Sandra8: Not particularly true. Saw your topic on manipulating the male ego, and while the tricks you outlined there haven’t really been worked on me, I see the logic behind it and how it could be effective. The OP of this thread otoh, has been poorly written and lacks basis. |
Re: Why Men Cheat Part 2 - MISEDUCATION by Nobody: 12:26pm On Sep 30, 2019 |
Belafonte: Oh dear, I like domination and to dominate. You possibly can't survive that |
Re: Why Men Cheat Part 2 - MISEDUCATION by dottozil: 12:27pm On Sep 30, 2019 |
Sandra8: Are you single? |
Re: Why Men Cheat Part 2 - MISEDUCATION by Nobody: 12:28pm On Sep 30, 2019 |
Belafonte: Please comment at the appropriate post dear, this post above speaks of no such things dear |
Re: Why Men Cheat Part 2 - MISEDUCATION by Nobody: 12:29pm On Sep 30, 2019 |
dottozil: A lady is always single my dear until taken |
Re: Why Men Cheat Part 2 - MISEDUCATION by dottozil: 12:32pm On Sep 30, 2019 |
Sandra8: Woow, so how about me taking you but I dey look face o, Sandras they fine sha |
Re: Why Men Cheat Part 2 - MISEDUCATION by Nobody: 12:37pm On Sep 30, 2019 |
dottozil: You're still lacking in essential confidence dear An alpha would know, I can play ball with you all day and you still won't know |
Re: Why Men Cheat Part 2 - MISEDUCATION by dottozil: 12:41pm On Sep 30, 2019 |
Sandra8: Lol, alpha ko omega ni, you still haven't answered ma question, when we get to the playing field we will see who plays better, mercy or ronaldo |
Re: Why Men Cheat Part 2 - MISEDUCATION by Nobody: 12:45pm On Sep 30, 2019 |
dottozil:Heads up, I started playing a long time ago but you still need a field to get your GAME on dear |
Re: Why Men Cheat Part 2 - MISEDUCATION by dottozil: 12:52pm On Sep 30, 2019 |
Sandra8: Lol, I can see past your write ups, I know who you truly are, and even if you started playing from ages doesn't bother me, how much you fit spend sef before you tire, girls been talking about milking, milking, milking, how much can you milk before the guy test you anyways let's leave that aside , would like to know you in person tho |
Re: Why Men Cheat Part 2 - MISEDUCATION by Nobody: 12:57pm On Sep 30, 2019 |
dottozil: Well you are getting to know me here as we speak. But you should at least be bothered about what I preach dear and I have got the cake already, the rest I get are toppings,just to spoil me silly |
Re: Why Men Cheat Part 2 - MISEDUCATION by dottozil: 1:10pm On Sep 30, 2019 |
Sandra8: Smiles, goodluck in passing across whatever you which to pass across. Whenever you which to chat outside here DM me |
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