Pls nairalanders, i have a problem choosing btw my corper boyfriend who loves and cherish me so much but it not financially fit for marriage and a long time ex colleague whom i have been off and on with because of his inability to profess his love to me and always too stubborn at taking blames for the wrong he did. Now my issue is that this second guy claims he loves me so much that he can't imagine life without happiness (me) and he is talking marriage now and calling me endlessly saying his heart keeps directing him to me. I love the corper guy we just met not too long ago but have known the other for about 5yrs now but his attitude made the likeness i have for him to reduce but now that he is came back a changed person, who do i choose?

some people are just too funny! who should you choose you better use your head because we won't be in the marriage with you. your grammar seffff

UniQuegrACE:
some people are just too funny! who should you choose you better use your head because we won't be in the marriage with you. your grammar seffff

It's a mistake cos i changed the initial word i was to use which corresponds with those minor mistakes. Thanks

esty4real:
Pls nairalanders, i have a problem choosing btw my corper boyfriend who loves and cherish me so much but it not financially fit for marriage and a long time ex colleague whom i have been off and on with because of his inability to profess his love to me and always too stubborn at taking blames for the wrong he did. Now my issue is that this second guy claims he loves me so much that he can't imagine life without happiness (me) and he is talking marriage now and calling me endlessly saying his heart keeps directing him to me. I love the corper guy we just met not too long ago but have known the other for about 5yrs now but his attitude made the likeness i have for him to reduce but now that he is came back a changed person, who do i choose?

This thing you post no dey pain you for eye? Why do you type like your keypad has asthma?

I hope dis is not star girl because if u brk my brother hrt

Where did you serve??

esty4real:
Pls nairalanders, i have a problem choosing btw my corper boyfriend who loves and cherish me so much but it not financially fit for marriage and a long time ex colleague whom i have been off and on with because of his inability to profess his love to me and always too stubborn at taking blames for the wrong he did. Now my issue is that this second guy claims he loves me so much that he can't imagine life without happiness (me) and he is talking marriage now and calling me endlessly saying his heart keeps directing him to me. I love the corper guy we just met not too long ago but have known the other for about 5yrs now but his attitude made the likeness i have for him to reduce but now that he is came back a changed person, who do i choose?

a leopard does not change it's skin.

You purposely left out the fact that your ex is financially okay. Deep down, you want that ex of yours and you are here, not for our opinion on who to choose, but to somehow receive some backing on your decision to pick your ex. Follow your heart, pick your ex, and stop disturbing Nairalanders. You are not serious.

Martinez39:
You purposely left out the fact that your ex is financially okay. Deep down, you want that ex of yours and you are here, not for our opinion on who to choose, but to somehow receive some backing on your decision to pick your ex. Follow your heart, pick your ex, and stop disturbing Nairalanders. You are not serious.

A serving Youth Corp member shouldn't be talking about marriage yet except in few cases.
Mind you, attitudes in humans don't change except childish mischief which can be outgrown so choose wisely.
Good luck.

Baller93:

Abi na? According to her, she loves her current bf but she is still confused on whether to dump him for her ex even though she loves him. She also, without any necessity or prompting, added that her current boyfriend is not financially okay. is it today she is knowing that he is not financially okay? h

Her story is a very laughable one. Who is she deceiving? Op, higher bidder has come, do what you have to do.