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My Gf Has Cheated On Me by enshi(m): 7:01am On Oct 04, 2019
I am so sorry to border the house with my relationship matters.

Recall I made a thread last night
https://www.nairaland.com/5451621/gf-called-me-stingy-guy#82820223. About my gf whom I have been 75% responsible for called me a stingy guy. For real I was pained and this is because I know how I have tried to be responsible for her. So this made me realize that she must have either met or been with a guy who did above what I have.
Because I couldn't sleep I woke her up by 3am and asked her series of questions and behold the confession came through ..
She confessed being with a guy (corper to be) two weeks ago .. According to her they smooched sucked each other and he fingered her yet there was no sex (you can imagine) I am convinced that she has been cheating but she still insists it was the first and last. I planned engaging her in two weeks from now cos that would have been our one year together..
Before now I have told her that I may forgive her of all things but cheating...

Pls guys and babes who have forgiven a cheat before what was the experience after then .. Do I go ahead to be with her or I should stand my grounds..

Pls help me before i thread a part that I would live to regret ..

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Re: My Gf Has Cheated On Me by Nobody: 7:05am On Oct 04, 2019
Don't thread that part, stitch it down undecided

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Re: My Gf Has Cheated On Me by Nobody: 7:13am On Oct 04, 2019
It's not worth it. Let her go! Trust me, you will find a better girl.

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Re: My Gf Has Cheated On Me by subtlemee(f): 7:20am On Oct 04, 2019
It's surprising how a guy can't take just one cheating mistake but we girls carry this burden on our head effortlessly like nothing forgiving every minute especially married women married to cheaters ....forgive her this once which I know it won't be easy and it will bring trust issues but for how long will you continue running away? Very faithful girls aren't many except you are stingingly rich

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Re: My Gf Has Cheated On Me by tosyne2much(m): 7:22am On Oct 04, 2019
they smooched sucked each other and he fingered her yet there was no sex?

No one wants to tolerate a cheat but you might still want to give her a second chance for a more convincing loyalty and faithfulness

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Re: My Gf Has Cheated On Me by Larryfest(m): 7:28am On Oct 04, 2019
Just leave her and move on, like i have told mine i will overlook anything she does wrongly but when it gets to her cheating she should just resign jejely herself i don't have that power to start policing her around cos i have got too many stuffs on me already and worrying about her cheating ass will be the last thing i want to think of..

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Re: My Gf Has Cheated On Me by Homeboiy: 7:37am On Oct 04, 2019
Sack mourinho bring solksjar

Na so man u fans dey shout that year

But right now it seems mourinho was a better coach that the latter.

Break up with her and the one u will get now might be the worst.

All the girls wey I de fucck now na people gf but I don't know any of their bfs.

Na only fingering sha

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Re: My Gf Has Cheated On Me by Sunnymatey(m): 7:37am On Oct 04, 2019
Marriage is outdated, bitches aren't any more loyal.

Gender equality and feminism are tools used by the devil to destoyed the foundation once layed by God Himself.

You may pause for your own good a happiness. She loves ( rather than like) money.
She isn't good for a wife, what happens when u go broke tomorrow?

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Re: My Gf Has Cheated On Me by seniorgozman(m): 7:46am On Oct 04, 2019
Leave her and get another one. the truth is that you will never trust her again, so the best thing is to let her go.

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Re: My Gf Has Cheated On Me by Acidosis(m): 7:50am On Oct 04, 2019
subtlemee:
It's surprising how a guy can't take just one cheating mistake but we girls carry this burden on her head effortlessly like nothing forgiving every minute especially married women married to cheaters ....forgive her this once which I know it won't be easy and it will bring trust issues but for how long will you continue running away? Very faithful girls aren't many except you are stingingly rich

Coming from a lady.

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Re: My Gf Has Cheated On Me by Sunnymatey(m): 7:52am On Oct 04, 2019
Mine spent a night in a hotel room with a guy on valentine's day and told me they only kiss and did nothing more.
This happened jst after seeing her parents and was preparing for Intro / TM with this year.

Now she's history. Cant deal cus lm not a cheat myself

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Re: My Gf Has Cheated On Me by Sunnymatey(m): 7:53am On Oct 04, 2019
Acidosis:


Coming from a lady.
birds of same feathers. Pls ignor her

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Re: My Gf Has Cheated On Me by Sunnymatey(m): 7:54am On Oct 04, 2019
subtlemee:
It's surprising how a guy can't take just one cheating mistake but we girls carry this burden on her head effortlessly like nothing forgiving every minute especially married women married to cheaters ....forgive her this once which I know it won't be easy and it will bring trust issues but for how long will you continue running away? Very faithful girls aren't many except you are stingingly rich
Sunnymatey:
birds of same feathers
Re: My Gf Has Cheated On Me by enuk80(m): 8:03am On Oct 04, 2019
Your gf was trying to be smart by manipulating you with stinginess. She used that up against you so you won't suspect her cheating attitude. Please let her go. She doesn't worth it. She has no worth

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Re: My Gf Has Cheated On Me by Nobody: 9:13am On Oct 04, 2019
Once a cheat, always a cheat...
Bro, a broken friendship is better than a broken marriage.
She can't be faithful bro, even if you marry her.

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Re: My Gf Has Cheated On Me by Nobody: 9:54am On Oct 04, 2019
enuk80:
Your gf was trying to be smart by manipulating you with stinginess. She used that up against you so you won't suspect her cheating attitude. Please let her go. She doesn't worth it. She has no worth
this guy needs to read ubunja miseducation. Some guys are so weak. A girl manipulating you and you even opened a thread for it. Weaklings.

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Re: My Gf Has Cheated On Me by Artzdanielsz(m): 10:00am On Oct 04, 2019
Op if u haven't confronted her ,she won't have confess and probably continue cheating .for me I will forgive her if she had voluntarily confess without been prompted to.

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Re: My Gf Has Cheated On Me by ITbomb(m): 10:10am On Oct 04, 2019
A cheating girlfriend who calls you stingy after being responsible for 75% of her upkeep ?

That's all shades of "stay away"

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Re: My Gf Has Cheated On Me by MiaBeer(m): 10:19am On Oct 04, 2019
Any woman who allows a man to finger her may not be able to stop or control what happens next. cheesy

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Re: My Gf Has Cheated On Me by Baller93(m): 10:20am On Oct 04, 2019
You better run for your life.....

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Re: My Gf Has Cheated On Me by addictiv(m): 10:21am On Oct 04, 2019
She's still young and not ready (mentally and emotionally) to to settle down.. Besides once a cheat is always a cheat. She called you stingy because she needed a reason to cheat and that was the excuse her brain came up with.

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Re: My Gf Has Cheated On Me by Nobody: 10:48am On Oct 04, 2019
Homeboiy:
Sack mourinho bring solksjar

Na so man u fans dey shout that year

But right now it seems mourinho was a better coach that the latter.

Break up with her and the one u will get now might be the worst.

All the girls wey I de fucck now na people gf but I don't know any of their bfs.

Na only fingering sha
grin
Homeboiy:
Sack mourinho bring solksjar

Na so man u fans dey shout that year

But right now it seems mourinho was a better coach that the latter.

Break up with her and the one u will get now might be the worst.

All the girls wey I de fucck now na people gf but I don't know any of their bfs.

Na only fingering sha
.
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See as i burst laugh for office...menh you gat analysis jor.
.
well to what you said, this has been my fears on having any girl cause all i had/have are/were some guys Babes.

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Re: My Gf Has Cheated On Me by Nuclear99(m): 10:53am On Oct 04, 2019
I sorry for some weak guys....

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Re: My Gf Has Cheated On Me by dottozil: 10:54am On Oct 04, 2019
subtlemee:
It's surprising how a guy can't take just one cheating mistake but we girls carry this burden on her head effortlessly like nothing forgiving every minute especially married women married to cheaters ....forgive her this once which I know it won't be easy and it will bring trust issues but for how long will you continue running away? Very faithful girls aren't many except you are stingingly rich

By there words you shall know them

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Re: My Gf Has Cheated On Me by krissconnect(m): 11:19am On Oct 04, 2019
Pls save us your bullsh*t of girls talk upandan.. dont u have a more sensible thing to worry about? My gf this, my gf that.. nonsense and ingredients undecided

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Re: My Gf Has Cheated On Me by OVA200(m): 11:23am On Oct 04, 2019
Orisirisi for nairaland
Re: My Gf Has Cheated On Me by SalafRider(m): 11:26am On Oct 04, 2019
Guy your matter sef na wa ooo
Re: My Gf Has Cheated On Me by IceColdVeins(m): 11:32am On Oct 04, 2019
Never forgive cheats, we never change!!

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Re: My Gf Has Cheated On Me by Alexaonfleek: 12:05pm On Oct 04, 2019
MiaBeer:
Any woman who allows a man to finger her may not be able to stop what happens next. cheesy
I beg to differ......
Re: My Gf Has Cheated On Me by Jimmyson: 12:23pm On Oct 04, 2019
I cheated on my real girlfriend of 2 years relationship and she in turn cheated on me. We both cheated on each other countless times. But we are happy together and getting married soon. The devil you know is better than the angle you're yet to meet. Cheating is nothing when you're not legally married to her or him. She or he is at liberty to have sex with anyone until you get married. Thereafter, if anyone cheats, it is a different thing... What is the assurance or guarantee that the man in question may not hurt the girl in future. Both men and women are not to be trusted until you are legally married. You don't have any right over a girl simply because she accepted to go into relationship with you until you're legally married. Exercising right over a girl you're not legally married to is foolishness. If you love the girl, there is no need to have sex with her until you are legally married. Both of you are already cheating... she still loves you!

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Re: My Gf Has Cheated On Me by MrDoGood(m): 12:30pm On Oct 04, 2019
subtlemee:
It's surprising how a guy can't take just one cheating mistake but we girls carry this burden on her head effortlessly like nothing forgiving every minute especially married women married to cheaters ....forgive her this once which I know it won't be easy and it will bring trust issues but for how long will you continue running away? Very faithful girls aren't many except you are stingingly rich
It's painful when you're not cheating and he/she is cheating.

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Re: My Gf Has Cheated On Me by bobokeshington: 12:43pm On Oct 04, 2019
enshi:
I am so sorry to border the house with my relationship matters.

Recall I made a thread last night
https://www.nairaland.com/5451621/gf-called-me-stingy-guy#82820223. About my gf whom I have been 75% responsible for called me a stingy guy. For real I was pained and this is because I know how I have tried to be responsible for her. So this made me realize that she must have either met or been with a guy who did above what I have.

And you're still calling her your girl friend grin
Because I couldn't sleep I woke her up by 3am and asked her series of questions and behold the confession came through ..
She confessed being with a guy (corper to be) two weeks ago .. According to her they smooched sucked each other and he fingered her yet there was no sex (you can imagine) I am convinced that she has been cheating but she still insists it was the first and last. I planned engaging her in two weeks from now cos that would have been our one year together..
Before now I have told her that I may forgive her of all things but cheating...

Pls guys and babes who have forgiven a cheat before what was the experience after then .. Do I go ahead to be with her or I should stand my grounds..

Pls help me before i thread a part that I would live to regret ..


And you're still calling her your girl friend...

Guy your mumu na raise to power infinity... grin

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