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by ZikZikZik: 8:47am On Oct 05, 2019 |
I onced opened a thread detailing how I’ve been dating someone who basically was very cold and not active in the relationship anymore. https://www.nairaland.com/5405758/brother-reason-matter Well there’s a new twist to everything right now, she actually ended things last month, she made in her words that “I love you, but not as much as I used to, I no longer adore you the way I used to” so we split. Well for the past couple days she’s been calling me everyday checking on me, we’re having these long conversations like when we initially started the relationship 4yrs ago. She asked if it was okay if she kept calling to check on me and I told her, it was okay since I don’t hold grudge against her and understand that people fall out of love..The truth is I don’t see myself dating her again, I’m beginning to just love her as a close friend because we know so much about each other and we used to be each other go-to in difficult times when everything was good. My question right now is “is it safe to keep this kind of communication?” I told her clearly I’m starting life over at this point in my life... And if you ask me, I’m more concerned about having her as a friend than a companion rather than just losing her completely. |
Re: by pharrell8(m): 9:06am On Oct 05, 2019 |
ZikZikZik:U already doing it, keep it up it might seem difficult but at d end u will come out victoriously... Let her do d calling and also letting her know u moved on.. 1 Like |
Re: by ZikZikZik: 9:09am On Oct 05, 2019 |
pharrell8:Thanks bro... I really appreciate |
Re: by Newboss(m): 2:24pm On Oct 05, 2019 |
Friends with benefits or nothing. Don't get cheated |
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