Duggedised12:
Maybe you can suggest a better word to describe it then of all the things i wrote ,its that one you saw to pick out.And it was in secondary school so its not a course either .

IceColdVeins:
He's gay. Gay men like pursuing yonger guys.
Ask about my story and I'll tell.

deedondavi:



Lol, your contribution was really informative. My apologies miss. I'm in this predicament though ��. it's been tough !! really rough.

Richy4:


It is not a disease nor is it hereditary

mercyviv:
God is your strength, aunty. My advise is get close to God the more, ask Him to help you out and remember to always put your husband in prayers always.
That said, put yourself to work too; dress sexily for him in the house, make his best meals and try edge him out of being a total introvert as you've claimed. You can both enjoy discussions together. In the "other" room, please get practical; try new things, new styles and new acts, think like a gay if need be! Let him have anals, help him shave up, tune him up for the real action, challenge him if need be...then, assess your progress in due course. Best of luck!

Duggedised12:
in the predicament as how? Care to explain?

deedondavi:


Lustful attraction towards my Peers. Still working on myself .

Rilwayne001:

What then is it?

Rilwayne001:


What then is it?

duduade:
The title

You suspect abi you know...

Please bear your cross and if you tired walk out.. Marriages of today is not a DO or DIE affair

Lastly please watch your tenses and abbreviations
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Thank you ma

Kampack:
Too late madam

Way too late. So sorry
Take heart. Be strong

How you can bear this without cheating on him is what I'm wondering

If you cheat and he finds out, his punishment on you baffles me.

Gay guys are mean & don't forgive cheating partners o!

madridguy:
Madam have you confronted your husband over this? I think its necessary you do so and if you do, remind him about Nigeria law on same gender s*x. You must also let him know about jungle justice in Nigeria.

I remember a big bros like that for my area, though he don peme now.

koyyes:


Think like a gay?

Let him have anals?

Are you OK?

funmisticqueen:
Stop there!!! She is not the only one that can help him, stop that emotional blackmail,she is not a superhero, or his mommy

mercyviv:

Very OK! Haven't you heard you use madness to cure madness? If anals is what bring peace to that home, anything wrong in his wife giving it to him! Remember, she's the one who asked for help to keep her home together in the first place!!

mercyviv:

Very OK! Haven't you heard you use madness to cure madness? If anals is what bring peace to that home, anything wrong in his wife giving it to him! Remember, she's the one who asked for help to keep her home together in the first place!!

koyyes:


You are the same person advising she should involve God. And then you are suggesting she engages in anal.

Let me ask you, do you know how the mind of a f@ggot works?

You think the anus of a female will cure him from his mental defects?

Do you know the health implication that comes with anal sex?

Try using a cucumber on your own anus and know how it feels before you start forming relationship/sex expert.

You don't know what you are saying.

MedicH:
Situation is helpless. The thing don cross point of Rubicon. Ladies date whom they love and marry who's ready.

Modified:

Pls if you believe in prayers, now could be the time to do so earnestly. My friend has a brother like this and he's not yet married really and is well to do financially. Now he got a fiancé and the way I access that guy psychologically, only divine can straighten him. Divine

REDBUNNY:
Nigerian women always acting foolish.
Your husband is gay.
You want to keep being married to him while he goes out and sleep with his boyfriends or you want to move out and get a life?
But no, you want stay there and cry, play victim, pray and do everything but get sense.

notoriousbabe:
don't mind that boy

Tehila07:


Pm me, I will give an advice that may work or not work. I really don't like telling people online about spiritual solution but that is the only thing that can work at this juncture.

Crenzywilliams:
From what you have said, I actually think you he's gay and you need no convincing otherwise; buy trust me, ppl can change. Have an "open talk" with him, let him know ur suspicion and comfront him about it. Ask him if he's actually interested in making ur marriage work, if he is he'll make efforts at changing, if he's not, there's nothing u can do about it.
I really feel for u guys, if he's "So gay" and can't change then it's a shame he's in a society that's not giving ppl the right to be who they really are, but then he's dragged u into his "hell-hole" without ur knowledge.
You need to pray about This, I don't know your faith or religion, But I know God works and he's still in the business of making ppl better than who they were.
Furthermore, I pray he changes and your marriage can be enjoyable and a story to be retell and enjoy.

Mariangeles:

The bros chyke you ?

Richy4:


Preference... Just the way you prefer girls.. take away food from mrBiggs... Good career.. etc

Ajaerof:
Plz I need help, Dont even mind my Grammar please I have to summarise this. My husband of 5yrs now behaves so strange in our home since we got Married. I didn't really date him, because it was a distant relationship before we finally says Yes"

He is a nice Man, I mean kind in nature, but I noticed he is not moved at all no matter how hot I am, this has been bordering me since. I have been the one initiating Sex since our marriage. God has been on my side we have two kids now, I have tried all I could, all abortive.

Most of his friends are just small boys, I have even caught him with one particular one, that nearly sent me home.... is all About this Guy then, he even spent months in same room with him, till i saw one hell chat from the small boy, that he should try and shave his Penis. That one really got me Mad, I have to pursue that one. I can say he is no longer in the picture again, but am still not convinced because he like keeping to himself.

I know he is an Introvert to the extreme, but he don't behave like a real Alpha Male, I have to force him in even sharing same Bed with me, am really disturbed now because am really tired of this.

There was a time I had to Involve his family I noticed that his immediate elder bro knew about it, that was when I sent that particular guy away, I have been hoping he will change am not sure of that..

Please help me.

notoriousbabe:
say it here or forget it. You have a hidden agenda, na so una go dey take advantage of people's problem. She should pm you so that from their you go begin flog her as you don hear say she dey hot. We know people like you, the Biodun Fatoyinbos of nairaland. Mtcheeeeeeeeeeew

Richy4:
Based on what you have written here, your husband is not gay. He is bisexual.. if he is gay, U will be a total turnoff when he sees u... No matter how sexxy you dress, nothing will stimulate or move him to have sex with u. As it is, he is playing on both field.. that's why his stuff can raise to accept u when u initiate sex..

Sorry that's who he is, There's nothing you can do about it..
U can either divorce him on grounds of cheating (based on that chat without letting anyone know with whom because u might endanger his life ) or u accept him the way he is.. that's just the cold fact .. It's kinda normal in advanced Countries.. I can just imagine how shocking it was for u