Good day great people of nairaland, my situation is quite complicated of which I need help. Almost a year since I've been in a relationship with this lady,she's the typo woman I craved for and wish to get married to.

I learnt about her having stomach pains which she complain about occasionally first I thought it was about this their normal monthly dues which is mensuration. But she said no according to her she's been diagnosed of appendix when she was 16-17yrs now shes 21, also I discovered that each time she comes to visit her body temperature get hot. which I ask why didn't she go for surgery I heard that's the only solution to it. to

my surprise she said there was a revelation about her not to go for surgery.

Pls I need an advice on what to do she doesn't wanna go for the surgery this the Lady I love so much also wish to get married to.

if I tell u yes I won't provide another one for u so find solution to your headache

Surgery please. thanks and God bless

Thanks Bruh

kobarney:
Surgery please. thanks and God bless

Bruh I just dey think ham you know ladies there might be strings attached to it which she doesn't wanna tell me about.

Abfinest007:
if we tell u yes we won't provide for u

Bhami:
Good day great ppl of nairaland, my situation is quite complicated of which I need help. almost a year since I've been in a relationship with this lady,she's the typo woman I craved for and wish to get married to.I learnt about her having stomach pains which she complain about occasionally first I thought it was about this their normal monthly dues which is mensuration. But she said no according to her she's been diagnosed of appendix when she was 16-17yrs now shes 21 also I discovered that each time she comes to visit her body temperature get hot. which I ask why didn't she go for surgery I heard that's the only solution to it. to my surprise she said there was a revelation about her not to go for surgery.
Pls I need an advice on what to do she doesn't wanna go for the surgery this the Lady I love so much also wish to get married to.

avoid such people if you want to live long. Her pastor will accuse your mother of being a witch soon u go sabi. She is playing with her life. If u sleep with her now and the appendix ruptures and she die. Nairaland awaits you. Young man kills girl friend during sex

Lmao I dey try getting her off my mind I had to inform my mom about it which she persuade her to go for test I'm afraid if there's more to it if not how can someone toy with her health just because of some pastors

ednut1:
avoid such people if you want to leave long. Her pastor will accuse your mother of being a witch soon u go sabi. She is playing with her life. If u go nack am now the appendix rapture and she die. Nairaland awaits you. Young man kills girl friend during sex

Bhami:
Lmao I dey try getting her off my mind I had to inform my mom about it which she persuade her to go for test I'm afraid if there's more to it if not how can someone toy with her health just because of some pastors

avoid such people. They are fools. Let her go marry her pastors.

Break up continue

Funny part was we've been having sex frequently lately which she feels wield this days I want her to come around so I can made her go for P T I'm scared already

Bhami:
Good day great ppl of nairaland, my situation is quite complicated of which I need help. almost a year since I've been in a relationship with this lady,she's the typo woman I craved for and wish to get married to.I learnt about her having stomach pains which she complain about occasionally first I thought it was about this their normal monthly dues which is mensuration. But she said no according to her she's been diagnosed of appendix when she was 16-17yrs now shes 21 also I discovered that each time she comes to visit her body temperature get hot. which I ask why didn't she go for surgery I heard that's the only solution to it. to my surprise she said there was a revelation about her not to go for surgery.
Pls I need an advice on what to do she doesn't wanna go for the surgery this the Lady I love so much also wish to get married to.

Funny reason why people want to break up.
I would advice you grow up.

The problem is from her pastor!

Since she believes the pastor than getting the surgery
Talk sense in to her but if no gree
Make devil no use you

Bhami:
Funny part was we've been having sex frequently lately which she feels wield this days I want her to come around so I can made her go for P T I'm scared already

having sex but still carrying pastor and revelation for head. Op let the appendix rupture lasan during sex. Your own don be

Take her to a specialist hospital for surgery
If she refuses, dump her sorry ass
You can't be dealing with such a superstitious believer.
Meanwhile make sure that her family member or parents will sign the consent form,incase something goes wrong.

Did you ask her if she has committed abortions before? This is part of the reason a lady could be suffering from stomach pains perpetually.

Bhami:
Good day great ppl of nairaland, my situation is quite complicated of which I need help. almost a year since I've been in a relationship with this lady,she's the typo woman I craved for and wish to get married to.I learnt about her having stomach pains which she complain about occasionally first I thought it was about this their normal monthly dues which is mensuration. But she said no according to her she's been diagnosed of appendix when she was 16-17yrs now shes 21 also I discovered that each time she comes to visit her body temperature get hot. which I ask why didn't she go for surgery I heard that's the only solution to it. to my surprise she said there was a revelation about her not to go for surgery.
Pls I need an advice on what to do she doesn't wanna go for the surgery this the Lady I love so much also wish to get married to.

Funny part its getting unbearable for her too even in cold weather my gf body temperature gets high also stomach pains. She told me she uses some drugs as pain killer. I can't force her to for surgery she believes in a pastors so much and nah those white garment ones. She's really a WIFEY material but with this I gats find my way also we both of same age.

dave4rella:

Take her to a specialist hospital for surgery
If she refuses, dump her sorry ass
You can't be dealing with such a superstitious believer.
Meanwhile make sure that her family member or parents will sign the consent form,incase something goes wrong.

If she doesn't perform the surgery,i doubt she'll make it before the end of the year.it will rupture and kill her

If she performs the surgery she still has a chance to live.
What I'll advise u to do is that don't break up with her yet,give her reasons to go for the surgery,talk to her and her family and please tell her to go to another church and look for a very good pastor or priest,I bet my right hand that that pastor she's going to is probably a fake pastor.

She said no according to her, her mom took her to 2 different hospitals to make sure its isn't abortion.also noticed each time she hold on pee for a long time her stomach swell until she ease herself all this got me so confused

cerpvad:
Did you ask her if she has committed abortions before? This is part of the reason a lady could be suffering from stomach pains perpetually.

The problem here is I don't think the father knows about her health condition her parent got separated when she was younger both they both live in osogbo her mom turn to Christian those white garment cos of some spiritual problem.after the break up or so. I believe they keep it away from her dad.the old man would have taken steps if he should knowvhe would have taken steps both her mom and her both believes in those wield stufffs so much

Alexaonfleek:
If she doesn't perform the surgery,i doubt she'll make it before the end of the year.it will rupture and kill her

If she performs the surgery she still has a chance to live.
What I'll advise u to do is that don't break up with her yet,give her reasons to go for the surgery,talk to her and her family and please tell her to go to another church and look for a very good pastor or priest,I bet my right hand that that pastor she's going to is probably a fake pastor.

Bros, forget that she's your girlfriend for now, assume that she's your younger sister, what will you do. It's just ignorance beclouding her judgement.

Do all you can in your power to make her seek medical help. Call the mom and probably the dad and reason with them or any of her family members that you know of.

You might not settle down with her later in life, but you'll be happy you saved a life .

My girlfriends pastor told her to break up with me that God reveled her future husband to him...

After the break up he proposed to her,
Trust my gf she knew it was a scam and didn't accept,
She came back begging I refused her back.

That's what I've been doing since the start of this relationship bruh had to bring her to my level tbh she had a rough past I'll try my best and continue persuading.I can only get to her mom we've met ounce like that coincidently the last time I asked for her mom number she only curb me and talk it off.

guy1234:
Bros, forget that she's your girlfriend for now, assume that she's your younger sister, what will you do. It's just ignorance beclouding her judgement.

Do all you can in your power to make her seek medical help. Call the mom and probably the dad and reason with them or any of her family members that you know of.

You might not settle down with her later in life, but you'll be happy you saved a life .

Those people do more harm than good they think them fit predict destiny.funny enough a lot of people fall for those traps but later regret.

carzola:
My girlfriends pastor told her to break up with me that God reveled her future husband to him...

After the break up he proposed to her,
Trust my gf she knew it was a scam and didn't accept,
She came back begging I refused her back.

Bhami:
That's what I've been doing since the start of this relationship bruh had to bring her to my level tbh she had a rough past I'll try my best and continue persuading.I can only get to her mom we've met ounce like that coincidently the last time I asked for her mom number she only curb me and talk it off.

Just try to do your best, and make her see reason why her life is in danger. Hopefully the appendix won't rupture when she's in your place, then you know you r in shit.

Bhami:
The problem here is I don't think the father knows about her health condition her parent got separated when she was younger both they both live in osogbo her mom turn to Christian those white garment cos of some spiritual problem.after the break up or so. I believe they keep it away from her dad.the old man would have taken steps if he should knowvhe would have taken steps both her mom and her both believes in those wield stufffs so much

isn't she close to her dad

Talk to her about it, life first.
Some fake prophecies put people in bondage n lead them to early death.
If you so much love her see to the root of all this. You guys should meet who ever gave her that prophecy n ask questions elsewhere also, sometimes women's spiritual life is complicated so you hv to be careful if you love her

You have been fvcking her na.. Na wetin just dey ya mind.. Mai friend will you carry that girl and go to the hospital yourself and pay for her surgery!

Bruh she refused due to some prophecy we've been dating for like 10months but we start to have sex just last week I came to realize how complicated her health issue was yesterday

Cutehector:
You have been fvcking her na.. Na wetin just dey ya mind.. Mai friend will you carry that girl and go to the hospital yourself and pay for her surgery!

Bhami:
Good day great ppl of nairaland, my situation is quite complicated of which I need help. almost a year since I've been in a relationship with this lady,she's the typo woman I craved for and wish to get married to.I learnt about her having stomach pains which she complain about occasionally first I thought it was about this their normal monthly dues which is mensuration. But she said no according to her she's been diagnosed of appendix when she was 16-17yrs now shes 21 also I discovered that each time she comes to visit her body temperature get hot. which I ask why didn't she go for surgery I heard that's the only solution to it. to my surprise she said there was a revelation about her not to go for surgery.
Pls I need an advice on what to do she doesn't wanna go for the surgery this the Lady I love so much also wish to get married to.

Many people have died through this prophecy of a thing... Prophecy sometimes isn't true, I'd choose the scriptures over it... She better do surgery, it's just like saying a pregnant woman who'S overly-due for labour shouldn't do CS ... So surgery please...

She hasn't said the whole truth about her health condition.

ednut1:
avoid such people if you want to leave long. Her pastor will accuse your mother of being a witch soon u go sabi. She is playing with her life. If u go nack am now the appendix rapture and she die. Nairaland awaits you. Young man kills girl friend during sex

Loool this is lowkey funny