hello nairalanders. especially married men in the house. please I have this one issue bothering my heart and I need your opinions and contributions. I have this girl I have been going out with since 2017, we have been in a two years relationship and going to three years now, I don't have any other issue with her outside these two thinnggs 1: NO SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE. 2. Since this two years relationship, we have never spent 1hours 30 minutes together. reason being that she always claim to be busy. and when ever she visits she is always in a haste to go back home. I give her what she needs. whats your opinion about no sex before marriage. whats your thought about it.

Except the queue is long, no girl will like to spend 1hr 30mins just to use an ATM.

How well do u know her?? I think that should be your problem

Jordanbelfort07:
That girl is a scammer!!! No go fall mugu
If she no give you pekus my brother dump her!! or alternatively tell her "no spending until marriage" then see how she reacts
tell her you won't spend a kobo on her until you guys get married.

even if i no go spend on you before we marry i can't be in no sex relationship talk less of one that will lead to marriage na scam.

The comments here are pathetic
What's wrong with you guys?

Can a lady not decide what she wants?
Mr. godfrey01 did she force you into the relationship? She has made her decision you either stick with it or leave so that someone who appreciates her would come in

Dear OP....from my experience I feel the first 2 comment already gave you the answer you're seeking....the babe just dey use you....stop exaggerating your place for her life. ...she just dey use you....if you want to know...try every possible to hack her whatsapp or Facebook. ..and you will see that while she's denyig you kpekus...there's someone else where that's chopping it steady....hack her whatsapp without letting her know....I just pity you.

She's not a virgin

You should test her vagina,you will see she's been cheating all along


Break up with her immediately

You've learnt something, and that is do not accept any rule you can't obey

godfrey01:
hello nairalanders. especially married men in the house. please I have this one issue bothering my heart and I need your opinions and contributions. I have this girl I have been going out with since 2017, we have been in a two years relationship and going to three years now, I don't have any other issue with her outside these two thinnggs 1: NO SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE. 2. Since this two years relationship, we have never spent 1hours 30 minutes together. reason being that she always claim to be busy. and when ever she visits she is always in a haste to go back home. I give her what she needs. whats your opinion about no sex before marriage. whats your thought about it.

Contrary to what most guys have said, it isn't a scam. That's what she wants and she spelt it out
to you before you both embarked on the journey. And I want to believe you agreed to it, so why are you questioning it now?

godfrey01:
hello nairalanders. especially married men in the house. please I have this one issue bothering my heart and I need your opinions and contributions. I have this girl I have been going out with since 2017, we have been in a two years relationship and going to three years now, I don't have any other issue with her outside these two thinnggs 1: NO SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE. 2. Since this two years relationship, we have never spent 1hours 30 minutes together. reason being that she always claim to be busy. and when ever she visits she is always in a haste to go back home. I give her what she needs. whats your opinion about no sex before marriage. whats your thought about it.

Do you give her money?

Regiomontanus:
Do you give her money?

I gave her whatever she wants.. And it's like I am on the losing part.

2SWT:
The comments here are pathetic
What's wrong with you guys?

Can a lady not decide what she wants?
Mr. godfrey01 did she force you into the relationship? She has made her decision you either stick with it or leave so that someone who appreciates her would come in

Rule. For someone that is not a virgin. If she is a virgin that's understandable. For a non-virgin haba sis reason am nna. Have been spending and from what I am seeing now, she has nothing to offer in the relationship. Have called it a quit already...

godfrey01:

I gave her whatever she wants.. And it's like I am on the losing part.

You are very foolish. Romantic love is a scam. Wake up and break the relationship. The relationship is not useful and you don't need it. When you are about to settle down immediately, that's when women should be on your mind. Romantic relationship that's not leading to marriage or children anytime soon is a pure waste of time. Call it off. Listen to your bank account.

godfrey01:


Rule. For someone that is not a virgin. If she is a virgin that's understandable. For a non-virgin haba sis reason am nna. Have been spending and from what I am seeing now, she has nothing to offer in the relationship. Have called it a quit already...

When it comes to relationship and men-women stuffs, stop listening to females and taking their advice. Their advice will always come from a place of self-defence of the manipulative ways of women.

Regiomontanus:
You are very foolish. Romantic love is a scam. Wake up and break the relationship. The relationship is not useful and you don't need it. When you are about to settle down immediately, that's when women should be on your mind. Romantic relationship that's not leading to marriage or children anytime soon is a pure waste of time. Call it off. Listen to your bank account.

Bro take it easy on me na.. Your first sentence...

godfrey01:


Rule. For someone that is not a virgin. If she is a virgin that's understandable. For a non-virgin haba sis reason am nna. Have been spending and from what I am seeing now, she has nothing to offer in the relationship. Have called it a quit already...

you didn't know that she wasn't a virgin when you agreed with her conditions?

2SWT:
The comments here are pathetic
What's wrong with you guys?

Can a lady not decide what she wants?
Mr. godfrey01 did she force you into the relationship? She has made her decision you either stick with it or leave so that someone who appreciates her would come in

Guys aint mean buh xperience as taught men a bitter lesson, most of these gurls that chant "no sex bullshit" are scam who av a standby hidden fvckup mate. there is nothing to appreciate in a non virgin @ wedding night. what did d man gain
what i hear from guys who sign up the no sex story ...make me conclude it a no no for my lineage. if u are nt a virgin use d door asap

ValCon888:
Except the queue is long, no girl will like to spend 1hr 30mins just to use an ATM.

Correct guy

try to know her reasons for saying"no sex before marriage"

and try to know y she is always busy, what occupies her time and where she spends most of her time