dave4rella:


Wow. Because I'm planning to do the same, entry-level, federal para military, trying to see the possibility in a year or two, but I need a small car also

faithsystem:
marrying a man of that class is not a problem because, it's biblical for woman to be a support to the husband, so i'll be supportive to him. but there are some questions that would need to be answered by the man, 1. is the man ready for marriage, 2. iis he extravagant, 3, does he have a drinking,, smoking, womanizing, too fassionate and more habits that would likely drain the small income, 4. does he have more financial responsibility to either family or friends, 5. does he have intention of expanding his income? if answer to this questions are positive then, YES i can marry such fellow.

AntiBrutus:


What is intelligence? The ones una dey always date and marry intelligent?

Jordan777:


I asked the wife works in a hotel too and her pay is 20k.. So they both earn less than 50k monthly but somehow they still survive.

hoyze24:
Npower dey earn 30k now and they are okay in a way. It actually depends on where you are based. Someone who earns 30k in Taraba wouldn't complain a lot because accommodation is cheap, foods are too but in Lagos, you go hear when!

Jordan777:
My boy that I pay 25k is married but no issue yet, he's really a young guy, like 26. I'm 29 but not married. I wonder where they see those kind of ladies

BRATISLAVA:


Because she's not bringing anything to the table. They're looking for ready made women. Because these men ain't loyal. All they want is money, they aren't even submissive to women. Next thing is Shiloh when theyve wasted their youth. They should get clay and mould one. Confused men.

Kpandex:
I am married with that 30k and we are doing well.
But really it is not easy.
Picture attached is my daughter who was about going to School.

Grupo:

Oya, come and marry me!

HRHQueenPhil:
but its only wen u are used 2 the sharwama, coldstone,beerparlour and DSTV& septranet life that u spend. for this family, i am over sure they have not tasted any of this assorted this yr. the majot thing they will spend moni on is nepa,transport(if its lagos), and food

NAETTE:
they are here on NL

eagleeye2:

Diapers(pampers) 30k a month? Where did you get that from? Na only shît baby come this world come shît?

HRHQueenPhil:
the wife and the husband are both doing side business

AntiBrutus:
Every day, this same question in different ways.

This life na jeje. Guys, look for the woman that can marry you and marry her na.

anonymous1759:



You done see person wey you wan marry? Bros calm down

NoHoper:
I earn 250K and I hardly manage to save 50K at the end of the month. I'm "compelled" to pay a number of people salaries because they have similar genetic materials as me

A girl is better off marrying dude that earns 30K over me.

AntiBrutus:


These days, guys sef no wan marry that kind babe, they want the one that is financially stable, submissive and domesticated. But they will be telling women "if your dream man is earning 10k".


Which kind bad dream be that?
Na to wake up o

RiyadhGoddess:
What about converting the 30k to 3 million if he's serious...
If he's an Igbo guy without even a Job, I will marry him. Give an Igbo poor man an opportunity and watch him become a multi billionaire in years to come but for my brothers, you will be hearing se won ma ra? Se o ma work? Kini awon eyan ma so, Iwo lo se na... I really do not understand what their problem is till date.


Read my signature...

kestolove95:
He who finds a wife has found a good tin

Magdagascariens:
Read this from me...

A friend got married while in a bank, earning sweet salary. Few years later, he was sacked and had to pick up a 30 - 40k job to support his family. Their standard of living went down! Of course house tent was no longer an issue, they already built one, but chicken stew turned to fish stew, golden mourn to garri, kids switched to Government schools, etc. They are still married till today, expecting better days...

Anytime young and unmarried asked me this op's question, my response usually is, "will you leave your marriage if things went South in future?"

Ladies, if your dream man earn as low as 25k, stay with him. Also have yourself empowered to support the family you are planning. Do all these if you are sure he's not lazy, and he has a promising future.

Magdagascariens:


Babe, some family earn 30k in a month... husband plus wife income...nothing more. It's a fact dear...

Their standard of living will be another topic. Kid uses 2 diapers per day, they did exclusive breast feeding, baby started taking light food from 6 months, and some other cost cutting measures.

The wife has resigned to learn a handwork.

Stay there and be speaking English.

If you are not READY to MANAGE your MARRIAGE, #1 million/ month won't be enough for a family of 4

BRATISLAVA:

"Marry us as we are, but we will give you impossible checklists which you must fulfill before we will marry you, because you are to be a help mate, submissive, financially responsible, clean our shit up and still get excited by a wink from us at night" is their mantra.

Evil dreams.

ufotty2001:

am 34years old ... am earning N100K but where am working the job is not secured i can be sacked anytime.. am afraid of getting a wife

ufotty2001:

am 34years old ... am earning N100K but where am working the job is not secured i can be sacked anytime.. am afraid of getting a wife

bukit05:
Bear it in mind that no condition is permanent. I got married in 2017, and hubby was earning 30k, he has another side hustle which was 23k, but it wasn't regular. But we were happy with the little we had and hope for better days ahead. To the glory of God he got another job few months after the birth of our baby, and we are doing well by God's grace.
Hadn't been I judged him by his income then I would have lost a good man. Caring, loving, responsible every good thing you can think of.