Greetings to this great house,

As I type this message, my heart is heavy.

Up till today, I have never known my genotype till I went to do medical fitness test for my job/employment process.

I've being dating by girlfriend for about two years and seven months now, and I've always seen her as a perfect match to me, not because she's perfect, but because she's very loyal, reserved and calm, respectful, teachable, willing to learn, beautiful and very supportive to say a few.

Kai, the thought of losing her is killing and unexplainable. She had been a BLESSING to me all these while.
We've really worked on ourselves and helped each other to overcome our weaknesses.

With the challenges of my new and better job, will I really have that time to woo women and start the process of working on a woman to blend and suit me?

And this is a girl I'm planning to settle down with by the middle of next year, after I must have gotten used to my new job.

I have always believed that my genotype would be AA, but I was wrong!

Somebody told me that there's nothing God can not do, that he has seen people giving testimonies about change of genotypes. I didn't doubt him, it's just that i'm not the "churchious" type who easily believe all those stories.

Now, my questions are:

1.) Is it possible to have just two children without an SS child?

2.) How do I relate this sad news to her (after she has turned down several serious marriage proposals because of me)?

3.) Please, what do I do?

Please, help me and send this to front page for greater views and advice.

Matured and very serious advice needed.

Thanks.

Sorry, bro.

I think your question should be "how best do I part ways with my girlfriend whose genotype does not match with mine?"

etrange:
Sorry, bro.

I think your question should "how best do I part ways with my girlfriend whose blood group does not match with mine?"

Ok, So how best do I part with her, then?

Any suggestion from you?

I know this is very hard for you right now, but bro i beg you to think of your unborn kids! The disadvantages of this genotype issue is far more than the advantage in the long run.

There is no easy way bro, you have too let her know and let her go!

Bringing an healthy child into dis world get e own wahala! Let alone
Giving birth to an SS child, na double wahal be dat o! U don't have to put ur future on luck my brother you will regret it.

Anyway the choice is yours, i wish you the best

Bro you don't have to get worried at all. Follow these instructions carefully:

1. Keep your genotype a secret, don't tell her. If she insists, get the test done, alter the S in your result to A with a black Biro( black ink must be used in cases such as these).

2. Proceed with your wedding plans, get married to her since you love her so much. Women are very gullible she won't suspect a thing she is in love with you already.

3. You don't have to bother about your kids genotype, the lucky ones will turn out fine while the not-so-lucky ones will bear the SS genotype, you can also alter their genotype with a Biro and profess positive affirmations into their lives.

Note: You have to be 'churchious' to get your desired result.

4. With this, everything will be alright, and if things turn out otherwise, be rest assured that you'll be fine since you and your wife won't be the ones to endure the pains and crisis that come with sickle cell anaemia, the children will bear their cross bravely from hospital beds to hospital beds

I believe my advice is matured enough, I even checked my spellings, grammar and punctuations for extra marks.

Thanks and God bless.

U already know what to do since u are typing with a heavy heart.... U must not follow ur heart shall, just gather enough money for drugs and coffins cos u will definitely need them

It is better to part ways now jejely than watch your kids suffer in pain because of selfish love.Most of the time the first two children will be SS and remember there are some issues God expect us to use our brain rather than asking him to change your situation. God can not be tempted.

Sit her down and let her know the implications. I believe she's learned so it won't be hard for her to understand. Though painful but it is better to separate than bury your kids.

All the best.

Ereolamide:
Bro you don't have to get worried at all. Follow these instructions carefully:

1. Keep your genotype a secret, don't tell her. If she insist get the test done, alter the S in your result to A with a black Biro.

2. Proceed with your wedding plans, get married to her since you love her so much.

3. You don't have bother about your kids genotype, the lucky ones will turn out fine while the not-so-lucky ones will bear the SS genotype, you can also alter their genotype with a Biro and profess positive affirmations into their lives.

4. With this everything will be alright, since you and your wife won't be the ones to endure the pains and crisis that come with sickle cell anaemia.

I believe my advice is matured enough, I even checked my spellings, grammar and punctuations for extra marks.

Thanks and God bless.

Alright.

I guess you've given your best.

It's siesta time. Try and observe it.

banjicom:


I know this is very hard for you right now, but bro i beg you to think of your unborn kids! The disadvantages of this genotype issue is far more than the advantage in the long run.

There is no easy way bro, you have too let her know and let her go!

Bringing an healthy child into dis world get e own wahala! Let alone
Giving birth to an SS child, na double wahal be dat o! U don't have to put ur future on luck my brother you will regret it.

Anyway the choice is yours, i wish you the best

Thanks.

jenifer007:
It is better to part ways now jejely than watch your kids suffer in pain because of selfish love.Most of the time the first two children will be SS and remember there are some issues God expect us to use our brain rather than asking him to change your situation. God can not be tempted.

Sit her down and let her know the implications. I believe she's learned so it won't be hard for her to understand. Though painful but it is better to separate than bury your kids.

All the best.

Phew!

Very painful, my dear.

Thanks anyway.

BroAchival:


Alright.

I guess you've giving your best.

It's siesta time. Try and observe it.

No Mister, it's you who is in dire need of a siesta, you're the one who's planning to wreak havoc into the lives of your fiancée and her innocent children if you can't use the gooey mass deposited within your cranium to make the right decision.

Actually, what you need is a really long sleep because you'll definitely be getting very little if go on with your suicide plans.

Nonsense and Infantile Emotions.

P.S Kindly send your fiancée details to my P.M, I'll sincerely appreciate and reward your gesture.

At this point you should be concerned about the kids you will have. Don't cause your unborn kids undue pain

To be frank, all I can advice you is to move on. Its not worth it at all.

okirewaju:
To be frank, all I can advice you is to move on. Its not worth it at all.

Sure, I have no option, my brother.

But that girl is 101% a wife material.

Lucky the man who will appreciate and wife her.

Thanks anyway.

BroAchival:
Greetings to this great house,

As I type this message, my heart is heavy.

Up till today, I have never known my genotype till I went to do medical fitness test for my job/employment process.

I've being dating by girlfriend for about two years and seven months now, and I've always seen her as a perfect match to me, not because she's perfect, but because she's very loyal, reserved and calm, respectful, teachable, willing to learn, beautiful and very supportive to say a few.

Kai, the thought of losing her is killing and unexplainable. She had been a BLESSING to me all these while.
We've really worked on ourselves and helped each other to overcome our weaknesses.

With the challenges of my new and better job, will I really have that time to woo women and start the process of working on a woman to blend and suit me?

And this is a girl I'm planning to settle down with by the middle of next year, after I must have gotten used to my new job.

I have always believed that my genotype would be AA, but I was wrong!

Somebody told me that there's nothing God can not do, that he has seen people giving testimonies about change of genotypes. I didn't doubt him, it's just that i'm not the "churchious" type who easily believe all those stories.

Now, my questions are:

1.) Is it possible to have just two children without an SS child?

2.) How do I relate this sad news to her (after she has turned down several serious marriage proposals because of me)?

3.) Please, what do I do?

Please Lalasticlala, help me and send this to front page for greater views and advice.

Matured and very serious advice needed.

Thanks.

@Ereolamide Sometimes i wonder how some of you sleep at all after giving out stupid advice. like seriously you took out your precious time to put this up.

@op, please look for another partner, though is painful but surely with time you will move on.I believe your progeny should be your priority going into marriage.

jieta:
@Ereolamide Sometimes i wonder how some of you sleep at all after giving out stupid advice. like seriously you took out your precious time to put this up.

@op, please look for another partner, though is painful but surely with time you will move on.I believe your progeny should be your priority going into marriage.

Get a spoonful of water and drink.

The Sarcasm in my post isn't for fools.

jieta:
@Ereolamide Sometimes i wonder how some of you sleep at all after giving out stupid advice. like seriously you took out your precious time to put this up.

@op, please look for another partner, though is painful but surely with time you will move on.I believe your progeny should be your priority going into marriage.

@jieta, I kept the guy you quoted quiet because I don't want to dignify madness. I initially replied his first comment thinking he was joking, I never knew he was ex-raying madness.

To the issue at hand,

My brother, though its painful. After investing much time and energy, I honestly won't have much problem moving on. But my girl? Hmm! I hope she understands quickly.

Thanks though.

Mods, please help me and do justice to this thread.

Thanks.

Visit your doctor and discuss it with him when you are ready to have kids, he will guide you on the options. It might be financially draining especially if you don't have insurance.
My sister and her partner are both AS. They have two kids and both are AA.

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Do anything!

Kiss me

2 words


BREAK UP

Marry jare,, God will do the magic

Am short of words... But my mom will always advise me never to endanger the life(ves) of my children in the name of love...... Yes... Science have other positive ways of reducing the chances of one having Children with Sickle cell anemia but bro... I no go like waste money on that kinda matter and the child involved will not even be happy with you as the father or mother

What should you do?

See question......na wa

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If you proceed to marry that lady and bring forth an SS child to this world, may it not be well with you. That's how they will be using stupid lovey lovey to make silly mistakes up and down and punishing innocent children with it.
So you still need advice on this one...

Please I'll advice you not to get married..
Cos you're going to inflict more harm on you and the child unborn

What do you do?

When will people start using their sense?

Someone above said two words. Mine is one word:
Run!