you guys should go and eat suya

BroAchival:
Greetings to this great house,

As I type this message, my heart is heavy.

Up till today, I have never known my genotype till I went to do medical fitness test for my job/employment process.

I've being dating by girlfriend for about two years and seven months now, and I've always seen her as a perfect match to me, not because she's perfect, but because she's very loyal, reserved and calm, respectful, teachable, willing to learn, beautiful and very supportive to say a few.

Kai, the thought of losing her is killing and unexplainable. She had been a BLESSING to me all these while.
We've really worked on ourselves and helped each other to overcome our weaknesses.

With the challenges of my new and better job, will I really have that time to woo women and start the process of working on a woman to blend and suit me?

And this is a girl I'm planning to settle down with by the middle of next year, after I must have gotten used to my new job.

I have always believed that my genotype would be AA, but I was wrong!

Somebody told me that there's nothing God can not do, that he has seen people giving testimonies about change of genotypes. I didn't doubt him, it's just that i'm not the "churchious" type who easily believe all those stories.

Now, my questions are:

1.) Is it possible to have just two children without an SS child?

2.) How do I relate this sad news to her (after she has turned down several serious marriage proposals because of me)?

3.) Please, what do I do?

Please, help me and send this to front page for greater views and advice.

Matured and very serious advice needed.

Thanks.

You are here asking questions as if you don't know the implication,, Oga both of you cannot marry its simple, find someone else

@ Op: Kindly Send me a PM. There's a very good/affordable solution you should give a shot

Congratulations on your job by the way

I have only a word for you, and they say a world to the wise is enough.
JAPA

BroAchival:
Greetings to this great house,

As I type this message, my heart is heavy.

Up till today, I have never known my genotype till I went to do medical fitness test for my job/employment process.

I've being dating by girlfriend for about two years and seven months now, and I've always seen her as a perfect match to me, not because she's perfect, but because she's very loyal, reserved and calm, respectful, teachable, willing to learn, beautiful and very supportive to say a few.

Kai, the thought of losing her is killing and unexplainable. She had been a BLESSING to me all these while.
We've really worked on ourselves and helped each other to overcome our weaknesses.

With the challenges of my new and better job, will I really have that time to woo women and start the process of working on a woman to blend and suit me?

And this is a girl I'm planning to settle down with by the middle of next year, after I must have gotten used to my new job.

I have always believed that my genotype would be AA, but I was wrong!

Somebody told me that there's nothing God can not do, that he has seen people giving testimonies about change of genotypes. I didn't doubt him, it's just that i'm not the "churchious" type who easily believe all those stories.

Now, my questions are:

1.) Is it possible to have just two children without an SS child?

2.) How do I relate this sad news to her (after she has turned down several serious marriage proposals because of me)?

3.) Please, what do I do?

Please, help me and send this to front page for greater views and advice.

Matured and very serious advice needed.

Thanks.

bros, quit the relationship. she is going to convince you to move on with her in the name of nothing is too difficult for God, but don't agree with her. the earlier the better. though she will tag you as a devil but never mind. for you number 1 question; it doesn't always work like that, your first 2 kids could be SS

I beg you with God. Run oooo

It is a tough one!

Let me tell you a little story.

I am a #sicklestar -one of two in my family, a 'churchious' girl but I knew better than to gamble with an issue as grave as this when I started thinking of settling down. I gave up a 'perfect' man on account of this and if you were around me or my sister during any of our 'crises' growing up, you would do the same.

On the other hand, there is nothing, absolutely nothing that God cannot do, you need to seek His face in all of this but be sure He would expect you to make use of the resources He has deposited in and around you.

Last week Friday, a cherished client succumbed to complications that arose from just a few hours of crisis!

It is definitely not an issue to toy with, on the altar of love.

Having noted that, you can go ahead and get married BUT PLEASE DO NOT THINK OF BRINGING BIOLOGICAL children into this world on account of permutations!

It is not impossible to get married and NOT have SS kids BUT it is goign to be one hell of a gamble which you definitely do not want to dabble into. What sickle celled humans go through during crises is better imagined than felt!

So I'd say, Get married AND tow the adoption route OR DO NOT DO IT.

God be with both of you through this 'trying' period BUT, this too shall pass.
PEACE!

BroAchival:
Greetings to this great house,

As I type this message, my heart is heavy.

Up till today, I have never known my genotype till I went to do medical fitness test for my job/employment process.

I've being dating by girlfriend for about two years and seven months now, and I've always seen her as a perfect match to me, not because she's perfect, but because she's very loyal, reserved and calm, respectful, teachable, willing to learn, beautiful and very supportive to say a few.

Kai, the thought of losing her is killing and unexplainable. She had been a BLESSING to me all these while.
We've really worked on ourselves and helped each other to overcome our weaknesses.

With the challenges of my new and better job, will I really have that time to woo women and start the process of working on a woman to blend and suit me?

And this is a girl I'm planning to settle down with by the middle of next year, after I must have gotten used to my new job.

I have always believed that my genotype would be AA, but I was wrong!

Somebody told me that there's nothing God can not do, that he has seen people giving testimonies about change of genotypes. I didn't doubt him, it's just that i'm not the "churchious" type who easily believe all those stories.

Now, my questions are:

1.) Is it possible to have just two children without an SS child?

2.) How do I relate this sad news to her (after she has turned down several serious marriage proposals because of me)?

3.) Please, what do I do?

Please, help me and send this to front page for greater views and advice.

Matured and very serious advice needed.

Thanks.

etrange:
Sorry, bro.

I think your question should be "how best do I part ways with my girlfriend whose genotype does not match with mine?"

Bad belle. Part which ways?

Op marry am joor. Everything should be fine.

BroAchival:


Ok, So how best do I part with her, then?

Any suggestion from you?

Marry her if you love her.

BroAchival:
Greetings to this great house,

As I type this message, my heart is heavy.

Up till today, I have never known my genotype till I went to do medical fitness test for my job/employment process.

I've being dating by girlfriend for about two years and seven months now, and I've always seen her as a perfect match to me, not because she's perfect, but because she's very loyal, reserved and calm, respectful, teachable, willing to learn, beautiful and very supportive to say a few.

Kai, the thought of losing her is killing and unexplainable. She had been a BLESSING to me all these while.
We've really worked on ourselves and helped each other to overcome our weaknesses.

With the challenges of my new and better job, will I really have that time to woo women and start the process of working on a woman to blend and suit me?

And this is a girl I'm planning to settle down with by the middle of next year, after I must have gotten used to my new job.

I have always believed that my genotype would be AA, but I was wrong!

Somebody told me that there's nothing God can not do, that he has seen people giving testimonies about change of genotypes. I didn't doubt him, it's just that i'm not the "churchious" type who easily believe all those stories.

Now, my questions are:

1.) Is it possible to have just two children without an SS child?

2.) How do I relate this sad news to her (after she has turned down several serious marriage proposals because of me)?

3.) Please, what do I do?

Please, help me and send this to front page for greater views and advice.

Matured and very serious advice needed.

Thanks.

Response is simple and short. Don't get married.

Repeat the test in three other hospitals
There could be errors

Well, if she's so special and you have enough money, there's a way forward.

Get married. On the eventuality of the woman getting pregnant, there's a test which could recognize the blood group and genotype of the the baby at 4 months.

If he isn't SS, congratulations but if he's ss, there's a medical procedure that can change the genotype while in the womb, there's another option to change the genotype at birth, there's another option to terminate the pregnancy and try your luck next time. Lastly, there's an option to keep the baby and keep going from hospital to hospital throughout his short life span

Good evening. Don't come for me o. Just go and learn more on Google

fareedah86:
Guy since you are not the church type, that means you chose her based on feelings and emotions and not GOD...You do not even believe in things like that,forget it...break up with her...Guy all the feelings will vanish when u bring in sickly children into the world.You will eventually get tired and by then you see all this pity party will not cut it. You will regret it I swear..If you were a CHRISTIAN NOW, and GOD is leading you to marry her, he will change it..but you are not the church type sorry....

Lol

@fareedah86, you sound religious but very far from being spiritual.

How does one not being "churchious" makes him/her less a Christian?
How does going to church make you a good or better Christian?

Stop sounding very funny, my dear.

BroAchival:
Greetings to this great house,

As I type this message, my heart is heavy.

Up till today, I have never known my genotype till I went to do medical fitness test for my job/employment process.

I've being dating by girlfriend for about two years and seven months now, and I've always seen her as a perfect match to me, not because she's perfect, but because she's very loyal, reserved and calm, respectful, teachable, willing to learn, beautiful and very supportive to say a few.

Kai, the thought of losing her is killing and unexplainable. She had been a BLESSING to me all these while.
We've really worked on ourselves and helped each other to overcome our weaknesses.

With the challenges of my new and better job, will I really have that time to woo women and start the process of working on a woman to blend and suit me?

And this is a girl I'm planning to settle down with by the middle of next year, after I must have gotten used to my new job.

I have always believed that my genotype would be AA, but I was wrong!

Somebody told me that there's nothing God can not do, that he has seen people giving testimonies about change of genotypes. I didn't doubt him, it's just that i'm not the "churchious" type who easily believe all those stories.

Now, my questions are:

1.) Is it possible to have just two children without an SS child?

2.) How do I relate this sad news to her (after she has turned down several serious marriage proposals because of me)?

3.) Please, what do I do?

Please, help me and send this to front page for greater views and advice.

Matured and very serious advice needed.

Thanks.

Jaapaaaa

Genetic Compatibility.
Pls don't mess with this Bro.
Genotypes don't change pls don't be fooled by any church settings.
You're not only doing your self a big favour by explaining to your partner the need to part ways with her, you're saving your future kids from pain and agony of lifetime. Their arrivals are supposed to make you joyous and not the other way round.
Chances of survival is always very slim and the stress the parents & loved ones go through is avoidable especially at this stage.
It's better you cry today with her on this than cry with her on the demise of your future children especially when they're already becoming adults.

BroAchival:
Greetings to this great house,

As I type this message, my heart is heavy.

Up till today, I have never known my genotype till I went to do medical fitness test for my job/employment process.

I've being dating by girlfriend for about two years and seven months now, and I've always seen her as a perfect match to me, not because she's perfect, but because she's very loyal, reserved and calm, respectful, teachable, willing to learn, beautiful and very supportive to say a few.

Kai, the thought of losing her is killing and unexplainable. She had been a BLESSING to me all these while.
We've really worked on ourselves and helped each other to overcome our weaknesses.

With the challenges of my new and better job, will I really have that time to woo women and start the process of working on a woman to blend and suit me?

And this is a girl I'm planning to settle down with by the middle of next year, after I must have gotten used to my new job.

I have always believed that my genotype would be AA, but I was wrong!

Somebody told me that there's nothing God can not do, that he has seen people giving testimonies about change of genotypes. I didn't doubt him, it's just that i'm not the "churchious" type who easily believe all those stories.

Now, my questions are:

1.) Is it possible to have just two children without an SS child?

2.) How do I relate this sad news to her (after she has turned down several serious marriage proposals because of me)?

3.) Please, what do I do?

Please, help me and send this to front page for greater views and advice.

Matured and very serious advice needed.

Thanks.

1. Break up with her or
2. Get a donor sperm to get her pregnant.

na people like u ur children dey swear for. ode, na coconut head u get abi

iRyan:
Visit your doctor and discuss it with him when you are ready to have kids, he will guide you on the options. It might be financially draining especially if you don't have insurance.
My sister and her partner are both AS. They have two kids and both are AA.

You are lying , DNA test abeg

Quelme:
Synlab, Clina Lancet laboratories and El-lab run those test.

So these labs run CVS test

BroAchival:


Ok, So how best do I part with her, then?

Any suggestion from you?

Bruv don't give up if she is d woman of ur
Dreams. My sis and her husband found out they were both AS towards their wedding day. They went ahead. Today, they got two kids (boy and girl) boy is AS and girl is AA and they are now on family planning. Notin God can't do bro, just faith it. God bless.

Just pick race and run!
No sentiment !

BroAchival:


Ok, So how best do I part with her, then?

Any suggestion from you?

Oga, not everything is rocket science or calculus.

Call her, sit her down and tell her that the mission that both of you were going to embark on was one which could put your lives in jeopardy. Infact, tell her it's a suicide mission.

Say it as it is. Don't mince words 'cos it is a serious matter o. I won't tell you details of what my neighbour is going through now, 3 out of his 5 grown up children, I mean graduates and undergraduate, are suffering from sickle cell anemia.

Bro, e nor easy o.

BroAchival:
Greetings to this great house,

As I type this message, my heart is heavy.

Up till today, I have never known my genotype till I went to do medical fitness test for my job/employment process.

I've being dating by girlfriend for about two years and seven months now, and I've always seen her as a perfect match to me, not because she's perfect, but because she's very loyal, reserved and calm, respectful, teachable, willing to learn, beautiful and very supportive to say a few.

Kai, the thought of losing her is killing and unexplainable. She had been a BLESSING to me all these while.
We've really worked on ourselves and helped each other to overcome our weaknesses.

With the challenges of my new and better job, will I really have that time to woo women and start the process of working on a woman to blend and suit me?

And this is a girl I'm planning to settle down with by the middle of next year, after I must have gotten used to my new job.

I have always believed that my genotype would be AA, but I was wrong!

Somebody told me that there's nothing God can not do, that he has seen people giving testimonies about change of genotypes. I didn't doubt him, it's just that i'm not the "churchious" type who easily believe all those stories.

Now, my questions are:

1.) Is it possible to have just two children without an SS child?

2.) How do I relate this sad news to her (after she has turned down several serious marriage proposals because of me)?

3.) Please, what do I do?

Please, help me and send this to front page for greater views and advice.

Matured and very serious advice needed.

Thanks.

it's hard to lose someone you truly love, you gotto follow your heart and not their mouth.

My advice to you, is to let her know. At least you both know the consequence that will arise, if both of you can face the consequence because of love then the choice is solely yours, you can afford to face the consequence while she can't, so better sit her down and let her know.

Because if you don't follow your heart now, it may be a mistake that you will forever regret. Let it be a decision that you and her will make and not the advice from nairaland, afterall it's your life.

Good luck.

Op, dont marry her, but if u are very rich and willing to go true the stress, marry her.
Option 1: don't have biological children, you can adopt though.
Option 2: if u decide to have biological kids, when she's four month pregnant, you can check the genotype of the baby, if its ss, you abort it, if he's as, aa leave it. This will cost you though.

omotola90:
...given...

Noted.

Thanks.

Ereolamide:
Bro you don't have to get worried at all. Follow these instructions carefully:

1. Keep your genotype a secret, don't tell her. If she insists, get the test done, alter the S in your result to A with a black Biro( black ink must be used in cases such as these).

2. Proceed with your wedding plans, get married to her since you love her so much. Women are very gullible she won't suspect a thing she is in love with you already.

3. You don't have to bother about your kids genotype, the lucky ones will turn out fine while the not-so-lucky ones will bear the SS genotype, you can also alter their genotype with a Biro and profess positive affirmations into their lives.

Note: You have to be 'churchious' to get your desired result.

4. With this, everything will be alright, and if things turn out otherwise, be rest assured that you'll be fine since you and your wife won't be the ones to endure the pains and crisis that come with sickle cell anaemia, the children will bear their cross bravely from hospital beds to hospital beds

I believe my advice is matured enough, I even checked my spellings, grammar and punctuations for extra marks.

Thanks and God bless.

Kai!!! There are some mad intelligent people in this country.

Adopt.

BroAchival:
Greetings to this great house,

As I type this message, my heart is heavy.

Up till today, I have never known my genotype till I went to do medical fitness test for my job/employment process.

I've being dating by girlfriend for about two years and seven months now, and I've always seen her as a perfect match to me, not because she's perfect, but because she's very loyal, reserved and calm, respectful, teachable, willing to learn, beautiful and very supportive to say a few.

Kai, the thought of losing her is killing and unexplainable. She had been a BLESSING to me all these while.
We've really worked on ourselves and helped each other to overcome our weaknesses.

With the challenges of my new and better job, will I really have that time to woo women and start the process of working on a woman to blend and suit me?

And this is a girl I'm planning to settle down with by the middle of next year, after I must have gotten used to my new job.

I have always believed that my genotype would be AA, but I was wrong!

Somebody told me that there's nothing God can not do, that he has seen people giving testimonies about change of genotypes. I didn't doubt him, it's just that i'm not the "churchious" type who easily believe all those stories.

Now, my questions are:

1.) Is it possible to have just two children without an SS child?

2.) How do I relate this sad news to her (after she has turned down several serious marriage proposals because of me)?

3.) Please, what do I do?

Please, help me and send this to front page for greater views and advice.

Matured and very serious advice needed.

Thanks.

I personally know a doctor who is Genotype AS alongside his wife. He found out after doing a confirmatory test while his wife was pregnant.

In this age, two AS people can marry.

Options--

1.IVF
2. Genetic testing while pregnant ( the doctor did this in his case)
3. Have normal conception and just hope ( a friend, a Doctor, has 2 AS parents, and all the 3 kids are fine). This is a game of chance though.

The first 3 options are your real 'sure banker' medical options!

If I get a women I am madly in-love with, AS/AS cannot stop me o!

This is the 21st century.

Bia nwoke m,don't come and bring innocent children to this world to suffer

What did you want to hear from nairalanders? So as mature as you are you don't know the implications of marrying her? You better quit the relationship for your own betterment. This one, Love no dey em ooo, even if pastor, rev father, bishop, general overseer, pope, come tell you to marry her you better run ooo, dey no want your own good ooo.. You better quit the relationship now.