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Remember Single Mum With 4 Kids Who got Married To Single Man?sad by eherbal(m): 9:03am On Oct 09, 2019 |
On February 6th this year, LIB shared the story of Dami Ewa Stratton, a single mum of four kids from two failed marriages, who got married to Emmanuel Cole, a single man who has never been married and has never had kids. Dami shared her story online with the hope of encouraging single mums that they still have hope in finding love again. Read here. The marriage has packed up just eight months after it was contracted. Emmanuel took to his IG page to make grave allegations against Dami. In his posts, he accused her of emotionally blackmailing him into marrying her, and also accused her of committing adultery while she is currently pregnant with their child. Read his post below How I got deceived by a mother of four children with three failed marriages Series One! December last year I met her online and she said she have a link For Australia work permit visa, and is 1.5m but I said I dnt have money for now maybe next time, after that we started chatting normally, one day she started talking about all her failed marriages. She said her first husband use to beat her and he doesn’t trust her that’s why she left. She said the father of the third child asked her to go and abort the pregnancy and she refused bcoz she want the baby, latter on after the marriage she open up by her self that, she was actually dating a guy and promised the guy to take him to abroad, latter on she realized that the guy has a wife and a kid, so she just left the guy and sleeping with the guy younger brother that lead to the pregnancy and the family rejected her as the younger brother himself have who he wanted to marry. She said the third husband have done everything she want for her, but bcoz he doesn’t have time for her, bcoz he’s sleeping with another woman that was why she left. By this time we already in emotional talk, the following day she asked me to send my international passport, which I jst did, I thought she jst wanna check my real age, 3 days after she called that she’s planning something for me, I said what’s that, she said she really love me and she want me to travel with her to Australia ?? so that we can start new life, I said I don’t have that money for now, she said I should not worry she has paid 500k for me already, I was like wow ?, I told my friends everybody is just wow. Along the line she was always said she knows that when I got there I will free her and I always said no, one day she talked about marriage that if I’m sure I will not free her I should engage her I ? I responded I don’t have money for marriage or engagement, she said I should not worry she have small money with the little I have. Immediately after the wedding I started noticing different things she have told me is not real. Series Two coming up soon Series Two! She planned to get pregnant when we get to the Australia but unfortunately she got pregnant along the line...And she said will should live it. Along the line I discover the Australia ?? level is fake, I don’t mind I continue the relationship, meanwhile she has messaged her aunty in United Kingdom that I’m not the problem of the marriage that she’s the one bcoz she cannot cope with a marriage. Latter on I left the house when her problem is too much for me, immediately I left the house my business started flowing, money that was hanging kept dropping and immediately I sent money to her, I paid part of hospital bills. One day she went out and came in with a taxify guy, saying d guy need accommodation, that she want the guy to be sleeping in the back room, I said ok no problem, to my greatest suprice this woman is sleeping with the guy with my pregnant, sleeping with the guy in different hotel, calling the guy my boo boo, it was the guy she was using to show case as husband, telling her friends that she will change the baby DNA ??. Meanwhile she was sleeping with her third husband junior brother, that was why he chase her out, she was claiming she walk away. I can’t believe this, wonders shall never end! A woman sleeping with another man with another man pregnancy and still claiming she’s right Yes, I cut this guy in you room nakedly taking his birth in the house you rented for your children at about 2am, and you are there with him nakedly kissing him with pregnancy ?. Please tell the world what this guy is doing In ur room at that time? This is the reason why I work away and I refused to say anything, but I kept hearing different lies against me and my family, I decided to voice out. Why must you lied about everything? After the wedding you said I am broke that I don’t have money and you want to move on. You told me you have seen another man I should let you go. Why would I feel pains, when I know the pains I went through for the few months I spent with you. You kept wasting resources, investing on a wrong direction and you are complaining you are financially down. Sleeping with the taxify guy in different hotels with another man pregnancy, yet you are still claiming you are right bcoz is the house you rented for you and your kids. I thank God for my life. https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2019/10/remember-the-single-mum-with-4-kids-who-married-to-a-single-man-without-kidswell-the-marriage-has-packed-up-and-the-man-has-dragged-the-woman-on-ig.html 1 Like 1 Share
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Re: Remember Single Mum With 4 Kids Who got Married To Single Man?sad by paiz: 9:08am On Oct 09, 2019 |
okay seconded |
Re: Remember Single Mum With 4 Kids Who got Married To Single Man?sad by eherbal(m): 9:11am On Oct 09, 2019 |
paiz:me think the man's cap jinxed the relationship. It lasted eight months ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: Remember Single Mum With 4 Kids Who got Married To Single Man?sad by majamajic(m): 9:13am On Oct 09, 2019 |
the woman has energy she is beautiful too 3 Likes |
Re: Remember Single Mum With 4 Kids Who got Married To Single Man?sad by thorpido(m): 9:18am On Oct 09, 2019 |
You na mumu man.You no see your agemate marry because you were getting free p***y. 3 Likes |
Re: Remember Single Mum With 4 Kids Who got Married To Single Man?sad by Olalan(m): 9:18am On Oct 09, 2019 |
As much as everyone deserves to be loved, single mothers come with loads of baggages.......talking from experience 5 Likes |
Re: Remember Single Mum With 4 Kids Who got Married To Single Man?sad by fykes(m): 9:21am On Oct 09, 2019 |
Three children from different men... Everybody's hoe.. U went to carry it alone?? U can take d girl off the street, u can never take d street off the girl. No feelings bro.. U wifed a LovePeddler. A fatal mistake every time 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Remember Single Mum With 4 Kids Who got Married To Single Man?sad by donbachi(m): 9:32am On Oct 09, 2019 |
Unruly woman |
Re: Remember Single Mum With 4 Kids Who got Married To Single Man?sad by otipoju(m): 10:30am On Oct 09, 2019 |
The woman is in love with the feeling of falling in love. I guess she was seriously deprived of love and affection as a child. 5 Likes |
Re: Remember Single Mum With 4 Kids Who got Married To Single Man?sad by cococandy(f): 11:36am On Oct 09, 2019 |
“We are all polygamous in nature” I don’t know why she wasn’t honest about that to him instead of telling plenty stories. 4 Likes |
Re: Remember Single Mum With 4 Kids Who got Married To Single Man?sad by davidflipcy5856(m): 12:01pm On Oct 09, 2019 |
I knew something was not right when the first story came out. |
Re: Remember Single Mum With 4 Kids Who got Married To Single Man?sad by Codeblues(m): 12:06pm On Oct 09, 2019 |
Hmmmm |
Re: Remember Single Mum With 4 Kids Who got Married To Single Man?sad by Tallesty1(m): 12:06pm On Oct 09, 2019 |
Marrying that single mother who got pregnant when she was very young and the the guy denied her is okay. Marrying that single mother who divorced an abusive, irresponsible etc husband is okay. Marrying a single mom whose husband is late is okay. But marrying a woman from 1, 2, 3 failed marriages? Are you mad? Sometimes I do wonder what guys are high on when they do stupid things to prove a useless point. Mad man. 13 Likes |
Re: Remember Single Mum With 4 Kids Who got Married To Single Man?sad by Nobody: 12:07pm On Oct 09, 2019 |
Three marriages ? And none lasted, she is the problem. Commiting adultery even when pregnant, she is a hoe and doesn't deserve to get married to any man. 1 Like |
Re: Remember Single Mum With 4 Kids Who got Married To Single Man?sad by ezugegere(m): 1:00pm On Oct 09, 2019 |
The guy na silver digger 3 Likes |
Re: Remember Single Mum With 4 Kids Who got Married To Single Man?sad by sisisioge: 4:33pm On Oct 09, 2019 |
Wowzerful! That babe is an overachiever menh! 4 marriages under her belt already...na job! Hian! Meanwhile, even if this cheap husband is lying, the odds are really against her! Shior! 2 Likes |
Re: Remember Single Mum With 4 Kids Who got Married To Single Man?sad by sisisioge: 4:35pm On Oct 09, 2019 |
Tallesty1: She might have been especially unlucky .... But this fourth marriage just confirmed that she's the culprit. 2 Likes |
Re: Remember Single Mum With 4 Kids Who got Married To Single Man?sad by Tallesty1(m): 6:02pm On Oct 09, 2019 |
sisisioge:But why marry someone who is especially unlucky? |
Re: Remember Single Mum With 4 Kids Who got Married To Single Man?sad by sisisioge: 6:42pm On Oct 09, 2019 |
Tallesty1: Hmmmm....you know how we go all out to be especially kind to other that have been dealt more blows that we believe they deserve? We become protective of them and irrational to even the loudest voice of reasoning once they are able to truly appeal to our compassion. Hmmm...I almost married a divorced guy with a heart problem some years back. He was dealt an unfair blow and alone. He was always in and out of the hospital. He believed he won't live long despite being quite young and doesn't want to live his last days alone. Yours truly here broke all rules regarding him. I was ready to go all out for him despite knowing the consequences. Infact, I withdrew from some major projects important to my success in life just so I could be there for him. Anyways, he got better and sensibility came through. It wasnt that I loved him like I would love a man I want to share the rest of my life with, I loved him because he needed me so much and the human in me was ready to live for him. As soon as the motivation was off, the feelings became more logical..so you see, we humans protect our own once our sense of compassion is awoken. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Remember Single Mum With 4 Kids Who got Married To Single Man?sad by Tallesty1(m): 7:38am On Oct 10, 2019 |
sisisioge:I can relate to this a little. Few months after I moved into this compound, I started seeing a lady that I wasn't seeing before. Learned later that she is my landlord's daughter. I have heard a lot about her before from her mother(I and the parents are close). She's been married for four years with no child and it's her husband's fault. I thought she was just on visit but it turned out she has divorced the man..... Months later, the mom turned against her and started making life uncomfortable for her. She was always crying. So I called her in one day and talked to her about her life, her current situation, mom's attitude and how to cope with all. The reason I called her in was because she was contemplating running away or going back to the husband. I learned more about her that day that made me pity her the more, we became close and I was always there for her. I did my best to make her feel a bit comfortable. Told her how to get along with mom and the rest of the fam, it worked small. Then she started getting uncomfortably close, started wearing close to nothing into my apartment. Sometimes I will awake up from a nap and see her beside me in bed. (usually don't like door.) I have always known that women are easily drawn to love, care and attention and most times give their body in return so I told myself that it is time to do something and do it fast. She's young, beautiful and hot(she was just 22) but touching her is just like taking advantage of her. Now you can imaging the situation I found myself in. Turning her down will hurt her deeply because she would feel it was because she has married before. This will give her the impression that no guy who know her story will want her. Same thing her mom rings into her head always. But I gotta do what I had to. I did it subtly and thank God it worked. We are still very close today, she's now working and in a relationship. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Remember Single Mum With 4 Kids Who got Married To Single Man?sad by GAZZUZZ(m): 7:40am On Oct 10, 2019 |
That was quick.. |
Re: Remember Single Mum With 4 Kids Who got Married To Single Man?sad by GAZZUZZ(m): 7:46am On Oct 10, 2019 |
Tallesty1: This sums it up |
Re: Remember Single Mum With 4 Kids Who got Married To Single Man?sad by 24kmagic: 7:46am On Oct 10, 2019 |
Normal thing for 9ja women na. Even the b!tches that jump from one d!ck to another will still condemn this woman, forgetting that that was how she started (fvcking many d!cks like them) She rehearsed this promiscuity during her relationship days, just like how most of you ladies are currently doing. 9ja women thrive on promiscuity. But that man sef.... Is it that he forgot or didn't care to know that the older they are without a man, the more bitter and unsubmissive they are? This particular lady's case is even worse because she's never been successful in keeping a man, meaning she's naturally a bitter Sisi. An old cargo is a ticking time bomb waiting to explode. |
Re: Remember Single Mum With 4 Kids Who got Married To Single Man?sad by GAZZUZZ(m): 7:54am On Oct 10, 2019 |
Tallesty1: bia, finish this story, what did you do? 1 Like 1 Share
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Re: Remember Single Mum With 4 Kids Who got Married To Single Man?sad by SamuelAnyawu(m): 7:56am On Oct 10, 2019 |
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Re: Remember Single Mum With 4 Kids Who got Married To Single Man?sad by dannybrasky(m): 8:12am On Oct 10, 2019 |
Tallesty1: Bros why u go do me like that? You come leave the juicy part of the story ![]() Abeg I take God beg you,come and explain that thing wey you do,make we too for learn biko ![]() 2 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Remember Single Mum With 4 Kids Who got Married To Single Man?sad by saucecode(m): 8:49am On Oct 10, 2019 |
cococandy:Why won't you be honest with me and tell me how we became enemies? I miss you |
Re: Remember Single Mum With 4 Kids Who got Married To Single Man?sad by Nobody: 9:53am On Oct 10, 2019 |
Tallesty1: Oga, we dey wait you oh. No come give us incomplete Jist for here abeg. Finish what you have started bikonu |
Re: Remember Single Mum With 4 Kids Who got Married To Single Man?sad by A305: 9:59am On Oct 10, 2019 |
Before the discussion continues, I just want to chip this in. P ussy is like an inexhaustible natural resource, it never finishes so no need to go extra mile to get it. Meanwhile, see that Lexus down my signa ture. 1 Like |
Re: Remember Single Mum With 4 Kids Who got Married To Single Man?sad by sisisioge: 10:18am On Oct 10, 2019 |
Tallesty1: Wow...it just goes to show how much we would be kind to our fellows regardless of how many times they've been slapped before. May God help us all. |
Re: Remember Single Mum With 4 Kids Who got Married To Single Man?sad by sisisioge: 10:20am On Oct 10, 2019 |
GAZZUZZ: ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Even you too! He left her alone to find her path...its the right thing to do. |
Re: Remember Single Mum With 4 Kids Who got Married To Single Man?sad by GAZZUZZ(m): 10:42am On Oct 10, 2019 |
sisisioge: are you he? Is he you? Is you he? 1 Like 1 Share
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