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Re: After Marriage, How Long Should People Wait To Have Kids by hamid6249: 3:04pm On Oct 10, 2019 |
What sort of foolish question is this |
Re: After Marriage, How Long Should People Wait To Have Kids by Nobody: 3:04pm On Oct 10, 2019 |
couples discretion 1 Like |
Re: After Marriage, How Long Should People Wait To Have Kids by safarigirl(f): 3:04pm On Oct 10, 2019 |
It is better to wait a year, if you have the time. Kids will create a gulf between a couple unconsciously and the enjoyment will be over too quickly. Unless you can barely stand each other, and kids are the only things bringing you together, it is advisable to wait a year and get your bearings first, before inviting a third party 5 Likes |
Re: After Marriage, How Long Should People Wait To Have Kids by Sarmiz24(m): 3:04pm On Oct 10, 2019 |
So children are third party?? Lol I laff for swahili mzhorlah: 5 Likes |
Re: After Marriage, How Long Should People Wait To Have Kids by flowmama: 3:05pm On Oct 10, 2019 |
donstan18: I actually liked your comment until I read your last paragraph. Had to unlike it.. Seems most of you guys are still teenagers that don't know what's up with marriage... If your daughter could not get pregnant after 2 months due to hormonal imbalance, youll tell the husband to send her packing... Nonsense 23 Likes 1 Share |
Re: After Marriage, How Long Should People Wait To Have Kids by nlPoster: 3:05pm On Oct 10, 2019 |
As long as they want. 1 Like |
Re: After Marriage, How Long Should People Wait To Have Kids by Ugosample(m): 3:05pm On Oct 10, 2019 |
Tela101: depends on the couple's long term plans and their financial position; and sometimes age There is no correct answer 3 Likes |
Re: After Marriage, How Long Should People Wait To Have Kids by Sarmiz24(m): 3:05pm On Oct 10, 2019 |
For me God time is always and will always be the best... 1 Like |
Re: After Marriage, How Long Should People Wait To Have Kids by ELgordo(m): 3:06pm On Oct 10, 2019 |
ovoko..... we had to wait for 1 year the God blessed us with a baby boy 1 Like |
Re: After Marriage, How Long Should People Wait To Have Kids by Ugosample(m): 3:06pm On Oct 10, 2019 |
Sarmiz24:babies are actually third party they come, grow; and LEAVE 8 Likes |
Re: After Marriage, How Long Should People Wait To Have Kids by negga4al(m): 3:07pm On Oct 10, 2019 |
hamid6249: Do you have an answer? No. So keep quiet and stop labeling a question foolish. You really do not have to comment. 2 Likes |
Re: After Marriage, How Long Should People Wait To Have Kids by joepepsy(m): 3:07pm On Oct 10, 2019 |
Wait till you both are over 50, nonsense! Tela101: |
Re: After Marriage, How Long Should People Wait To Have Kids by Didi2d(m): 3:07pm On Oct 10, 2019 |
This question is kind of funny, It depends anyway, people even have kids before the marriage sef |
Re: After Marriage, How Long Should People Wait To Have Kids by Jidmic(m): 3:08pm On Oct 10, 2019 |
What are you waiting for? Common start making babies immediately! 1 Like |
Re: After Marriage, How Long Should People Wait To Have Kids by Nobody: 3:09pm On Oct 10, 2019 |
There are no universal rules that must be observed but both couples can decide even before they get married on when to start making babies while some may start same night after their wedding reception is over while others don't even plan for anything, e happen be say e don happen. I and my wife decided even before we got married to wait for 2 years and also decided on the number of kids we will like to bring to the world which is just 1 and we sticked to our plans. 14 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: After Marriage, How Long Should People Wait To Have Kids by Nobody: 3:09pm On Oct 10, 2019 |
I go don even download pikin put her belle before marriage... it’s just matter of counting down to delivery day 3 Likes |
Re: After Marriage, How Long Should People Wait To Have Kids by Ugosample(m): 3:09pm On Oct 10, 2019 |
mzhorlah: while enjoying remember to plan financially for the kids in future 1 Like |
Re: After Marriage, How Long Should People Wait To Have Kids by anochuko01(m): 3:09pm On Oct 10, 2019 |
hezy4real01:bro, "hope" alone isnt a strategy. |
Re: After Marriage, How Long Should People Wait To Have Kids by Mightyhaiz: 3:10pm On Oct 10, 2019 |
flowmama:lol,or even due to the guys low sperm count 3 Likes |
Re: After Marriage, How Long Should People Wait To Have Kids by mrkings84(m): 3:10pm On Oct 10, 2019 |
2 weeks!, Months, years, decades, centuries...all depend on u! 1 Like |
Re: After Marriage, How Long Should People Wait To Have Kids by Nobody: 3:10pm On Oct 10, 2019 |
If care is not taken I go give the girl Belle before I marry am sef As long as say I want marry the babe I must give am Belle (that is when I have proposed oo) If she tell me say she don carry I go go confirm weda na me get am, If na me get am I go go marry the babe sharp sharp.(although I won't get a lady pregnant if I am not ready to marry her and care for her and our baby) 4 Likes |
Re: After Marriage, How Long Should People Wait To Have Kids by Mightyhaiz: 3:10pm On Oct 10, 2019 |
Immediately o . Na children be this life. 1 Like |
Re: After Marriage, How Long Should People Wait To Have Kids by cerpvad(m): 3:10pm On Oct 10, 2019 |
It depends on the age of the couple. Some couples get marry very late 30s and mid 40s . it is advisable for such couples to hit the ground running by having their children rather than wasting time 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: After Marriage, How Long Should People Wait To Have Kids by TONYE001(m): 3:11pm On Oct 10, 2019 |
donstan18: My wedding day is more memorable. 1 Like |
Re: After Marriage, How Long Should People Wait To Have Kids by negga4al(m): 3:11pm On Oct 10, 2019 |
There are several factors to consider, important of them, I think, is age and finance. However, I think this should be a vital discussion during courtship. 1 Like |
Re: After Marriage, How Long Should People Wait To Have Kids by Ugosample(m): 3:11pm On Oct 10, 2019 |
joepepsy: look at this silly comment |
Re: After Marriage, How Long Should People Wait To Have Kids by imstillnovice: 3:11pm On Oct 10, 2019 |
This Op must be working in a hotel or bar.. You must be a Waiter |
Re: After Marriage, How Long Should People Wait To Have Kids by Sterope(f): 3:12pm On Oct 10, 2019 |
As long as they are ready. 1 Like |
Re: After Marriage, How Long Should People Wait To Have Kids by mzhorlah(f): 3:12pm On Oct 10, 2019 |
Ugosample: plan that will be made before saying the vows , I cannot bring them here to suffer mbok 2 Likes |
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