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Re: After Marriage, How Long Should People Wait To Have Kids by midnighter(f): 8:22pm On Oct 10, 2019
nairalandposter:


Ok.

However, perhaps you meant to review a movie but decided to drop mini reviews in other sections instead. Quite understandable, it was a good film.

Your conduct during this interaction has been nonsensical to say the least. No need to quote me again, illogical creature kiss

Next time be sure to take your drugs before engaging someone in a nonsensical conversation eeyeh?

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Re: After Marriage, How Long Should People Wait To Have Kids by nlPoster: 8:32pm On Oct 10, 2019
midnighter:


My conduct during this interaction has been nonsensical to say the least. No need to quote me again, I'm an illogical creature kiss


Some folks confuse ability to type in English with having sense. There are many of you like that on nairaland.

So, you can go to movie section to discuss the movie that attracts you?
Re: After Marriage, How Long Should People Wait To Have Kids by midnighter(f): 8:33pm On Oct 10, 2019
nairalandposter:



Some folks confuse ability to type in English with having sense. There are many of you like that on nairaland.

So, you can go to movie section to discuss the movie that attracts you?

You yourself should go to the health section and let the able professionals there help you out, I don't think you're really okay.

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Re: After Marriage, How Long Should People Wait To Have Kids by stormborn28(m): 8:51pm On Oct 10, 2019
sisisioge:
grin grin grin grin

You're right...the older, the more pressing. I will be doing mine 2 minutes after getting married if God humors me fa. Twins...one boy one girl...EOD. They should be bright, happy and beautiful o.

hmmmmmm....sisisioge
Re: After Marriage, How Long Should People Wait To Have Kids by stormborn28(m): 8:53pm On Oct 10, 2019
mzhorlah:
It depends on the individuals involved. As for me, I will enjoy my husband well before inviting any third party(babies)
chai...you go sabi nack oooooo
Re: After Marriage, How Long Should People Wait To Have Kids by gracechellar(f): 9:17pm On Oct 10, 2019
Tela101:
First comes love, then comes marriage, then comes baby in the baby carriage.

When a couple gets married, they are almost always faced with the inevitable pester from friends and family:

So when are you having kids? The older you are, the more pressing the question seems to be. Ticktock, ticktock.

So, what do you guys think?

For those that followed due process...


After getting your Australian and Canadian PR then you can start

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Re: After Marriage, How Long Should People Wait To Have Kids by Ibfpleasant(m): 9:47pm On Oct 10, 2019
What if the problem comes from man ?
donstan18:
I don't know for women, but I strongly believe that children are one of the major reasons why most men settle down.

Reason the day a man becomes a father is more memorable than his wedding day.

So I think it's proper not to wait for anything before making babies, especially these days where 70% of slay queens are womb-less. Start immediately to help you know if you married a fertile woman or not.


In fact, any lady that fails to take in at most, 2 months after wedding should be questioned or sent packing.

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Re: After Marriage, How Long Should People Wait To Have Kids by aspirebig: 10:02pm On Oct 10, 2019
Is relative....depending on the couple's.

Most people hit the ground running immediately. No time.

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Re: After Marriage, How Long Should People Wait To Have Kids by SURElee(f): 10:17pm On Oct 10, 2019
At what age do people graduate from Nigerian universities after writing jamb and waec several times and having admission issues. Then NYSC. How old is the average graduate after NYSC and what is the average age people marry in Nigeria?

Will you tell a 27yr old married lady to wait 5yrs before having her first kid? When no be America we dey where they marry at 18yrs and wait 5years to have their babies while they plan and get to know themselves better as a couple.

Naija marry, born all your babies and all of una dey know unaselves from there. Hahahahahaha

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Re: After Marriage, How Long Should People Wait To Have Kids by ahahnow: 10:27pm On Oct 10, 2019
Tela101:
First comes love, then comes marriage, then comes baby in the baby carriage.

When a couple gets married, they are almost always faced with the inevitable pester from friends and family:

So when are you having kids? The older you are, the more pressing the question seems to be. Ticktock, ticktock.

So, what do you guys think?

For those that followed due process...



You write like a psychopath
Re: After Marriage, How Long Should People Wait To Have Kids by midnighter(f): 10:29pm On Oct 10, 2019
ahahnow:
You write like a psychopath

Your signature is extremely funny
Re: After Marriage, How Long Should People Wait To Have Kids by Nobody: 10:35pm On Oct 10, 2019
Before marriage sef
Re: After Marriage, How Long Should People Wait To Have Kids by clems88(m): 10:50pm On Oct 10, 2019
What I'm I waiting for angry .
Immidiaely after I Do na to knack belle enter. cool who get time to waste
Re: After Marriage, How Long Should People Wait To Have Kids by VicM6: 10:51pm On Oct 10, 2019
Wait till 50years na.. stupid questions now adays on NL.
Re: After Marriage, How Long Should People Wait To Have Kids by nlPoster: 11:08pm On Oct 10, 2019
midnighter:


I myself should go to the health section and let the able professionals there help me out, I don't think I'm really okay.

Obviously not.
Re: After Marriage, How Long Should People Wait To Have Kids by nlPoster: 11:09pm On Oct 10, 2019
ahahnow:


You write like a psychopath


midnighter:


**got my attention**



smiley

I'm sure you thought that was meant for you . . .knowing what you know. . . about yourself
Re: After Marriage, How Long Should People Wait To Have Kids by Francejaik(m): 12:02am On Oct 11, 2019
After eating how long should people wait to drink water
Re: After Marriage, How Long Should People Wait To Have Kids by nlPoster: 12:10am On Oct 11, 2019
Francejaik:
After eating how long should people wait to drink water

As long as they want.
Re: After Marriage, How Long Should People Wait To Have Kids by Hardebaryor(m): 2:31am On Oct 11, 2019
donstan18:
I don't know for women, but I strongly believe that children are one of the major reasons why most men settle down.

Reason the day a man becomes a father is more memorable than his wedding day.

So I think it's proper not to wait for anything before making babies, especially these days where 70% of slay queens are womb-less. Start immediately to help you know if you married a fertile woman or not.


In fact, any lady that fails to take in at most, 2 months after wedding should be questioned or sent packing.
You are dumb for the last paragraph

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Re: After Marriage, How Long Should People Wait To Have Kids by saucecode(m): 7:05am On Oct 11, 2019
cococandy:
As long as they want. It’s a personal something.
I want my second with you embarassed
Re: After Marriage, How Long Should People Wait To Have Kids by mzhorlah(f): 8:39am On Oct 11, 2019
stormborn28:
chai...you go sabi nack oooooo
Re: After Marriage, How Long Should People Wait To Have Kids by mzhorlah(f): 8:39am On Oct 11, 2019
Lekan1o1:


Pls come and enjoy me
you say
Re: After Marriage, How Long Should People Wait To Have Kids by Lekan1o1: 1:42pm On Oct 11, 2019
mzhorlah:
you say

come and enjoy me pls kiss
Re: After Marriage, How Long Should People Wait To Have Kids by Sarmiz24(m): 3:50pm On Oct 11, 2019
Okay if u say so ma...

mzhorlah:
we are entitled to our individual opinions sir
Re: After Marriage, How Long Should People Wait To Have Kids by Sarmiz24(m): 3:51pm On Oct 11, 2019
Okay seems you right sha...

Ugosample:


babies are actually third party

they come, grow; and LEAVE
Re: After Marriage, How Long Should People Wait To Have Kids by Amanda4life: 8:23pm On Oct 11, 2019
donstan18:
I don't know for women, but I strongly believe that children are one of the major reasons why most men settle down.

Reason the day a man becomes a father is more memorable than his wedding day.

So I think it's proper not to wait for anything before making babies, especially these days where 70% of slay queens are womb-less. Start immediately to help you know if you married a fertile woman or not.


In fact, any lady that fails to take in at most, 2 months after wedding should be questioned or sent packing.


Child is a major reason a man wants to settle. Nothing More
Re: After Marriage, How Long Should People Wait To Have Kids by Blackmiserable(m): 8:48pm On Oct 11, 2019
byrron:
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I and my wife decided even before we got married to wait for 2 years and also decided on the number of kids we will like to bring to the world which is just 1 and we sticked to our plans.[/i]

Tell me you're joking, please. Oh, sorry, I think I understand you better, I understand, I understand, your wife is a Chinese woman. cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked

Which Nigerian woman would wait 2 years after marriage to conceive and would agree to only one kid?

Chinese government has had a very strong impact on your wifey oo. If no be say women scarce for there, hmm, abi na, or wetin you talk? Make I kuku just follow your footstep na.
Re: After Marriage, How Long Should People Wait To Have Kids by Blackmiserable(m): 8:58pm On Oct 11, 2019
cococandy:
As long as they want. It’s a personal something.

Human rights advocate. I hail thee.
Re: After Marriage, How Long Should People Wait To Have Kids by Nobody: 9:01pm On Oct 11, 2019
Blackmiserable:


Tell me you're joking, please. Okay, I heard you.

I'm like

Which Nigerian woman would wait 2 years after marriage to conceive and would agree to only one kid?

Okay, I understand, your wife is a Chinese woman. cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked

Chinese government has had a very strong impact on your wifey oo. If no be say women scarce for there, hmm, abi na, or wetin you talk? Make I kuku just follow your footstep na.



Got no time for kid's here and for your info, my family decision was for solely for our family and not for you.

By the time you grow up and start reasoning like an adult then you can go ahead and populate the world with kids with your wife and you can even start before exchanging marital vows which will be solely you guys decisions and not mine.

Got married in 2014 and had my son in 2016 and missioned accomplished, if it bothers you so much then you can take 500mg of Acetaminophen painkiller tabs and I'm sure you will feel much better and then learn to respect people's personal decisions that doesn't affect you in any way.
Re: After Marriage, How Long Should People Wait To Have Kids by Blackmiserable(m): 9:14pm On Oct 11, 2019
byrron:



Got no time for kid's here and for your info, my family decision was for solely for our family and not for you.

By the time you grow up and start reasoning like an adult then you can go ahead and populate the world with kids with your wife and you can even start before exchanging marital vows which will be solely you guys decisions and not mine.

Got married in 2014 and had my son in 2016 and missioned accomplished, if it bothers you so much then you can take 500mg of Acetaminophen painkiller tabs and I'm sure you will feel much better and then learn to respect people's personal decisions that doesn't affect you in any way.

Mr. Byrron, I didn't intend to belittle, spite, or insult you in any way and If I did I'm sorry. If anything, I wan hear more tori sef, although the sense of humor was quite distasteful.

I don't know, maybe you took my words for it because of how toxic his forum seems at times. I mean, you weren't quick to figure out that I didn't mean that you married a Chinese woman or there are Nigerian women who don't mind having one kids. Happy married life bro; my own is on the way.

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Re: After Marriage, How Long Should People Wait To Have Kids by midnighter(f): 9:49pm On Oct 11, 2019
Blackmiserable:

Happy married life bro; my own is on the way.
He may be used to people making jibes at him for having one child...maybe he's sensitive about it and didn't grab that you were joking

Honestly you're right that most people feel under pressure to have at least 3 even if they prefer even 1 so your comment didn't seem bad to me..it looks strange in this country if you only have one child by choice or not
Re: After Marriage, How Long Should People Wait To Have Kids by Nobody: 10:36pm On Oct 11, 2019
Blackmiserable:


Mr. Byrron, I didn't intend to belittle, spite, or insult you in any way and If I did I'm sorry. If anything, I wan hear more tori sef, although the sense of humor was quite distasteful.

I don't know, maybe you took my words for it because of how toxic his forum seems at times. I mean, you weren't quick to figure out that I didn't mean that you married a Chinese woman or there are Nigerian women who don't mind having one kids. Happy married life bro; my own is on the way.

I'm sorry too for misunderstanding you, this forum has been saturated with lots of immature minds with so much hateful thoughts, bile and negativity which wasn't like this some years ago and I thought you where just one of them.

Once again, I'm sorry.

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