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Re: My Baby Is Just 4 Months And My Wife Is Pregnant Again, I Want Abortion by showafrica(m): 10:17am On Oct 12, 2019 |
Quality20: You are right... My wife won't take in unless she stops breast feeding. However, some women are reluctant to breast feed babies and rely so much on milk before you know it another baby Don enter. 2 Likes |
Re: My Baby Is Just 4 Months And My Wife Is Pregnant Again, I Want Abortion by FloraEC(f): 10:18am On Oct 12, 2019 |
kevoh:Believe this at your own prey. Breastfeeding can only prevent pregnancy in the first 6wks after childbirth due to release of the hormone oxytocin, which in turn causes contractions when baby is suckling. As far as period has returned, any rough play it'll result to another foetus. 2 Likes |
Re: My Baby Is Just 4 Months And My Wife Is Pregnant Again, I Want Abortion by engrfaruq(m): 10:18am On Oct 12, 2019 |
queenfav: Yeah, I heard that too, but it has yet to fail for me... I make sure I pull out in time... Some times we end it with a hand job... |
Re: My Baby Is Just 4 Months And My Wife Is Pregnant Again, I Want Abortion by engrfaruq(m): 10:19am On Oct 12, 2019 |
IamCharles123: Yeah, I know |
Re: My Baby Is Just 4 Months And My Wife Is Pregnant Again, I Want Abortion by kevoh(m): 10:20am On Oct 12, 2019 |
AntiBrutus:Says who? You? I will take stats from reputable source and my personal experience more serious than your assertions. LAM is quite effective for the first 5 to 6 months and there are certain rules that be followed as quoted below 1. Your baby is less than six months oldIf I take a sample of 50 Nigerians from the so called many that claimed to have done this and have failed, you will see that none of them kept to the rules. Is it not the same Nigerian Nursing women I see on Nairaland giving suggestions to others to give 1 to 3 weeks old babies unripe paw paw water to treat jaundice. Abeg talk another thing Jare! 3 Likes |
Re: My Baby Is Just 4 Months And My Wife Is Pregnant Again, I Want Abortion by Norland4life(f): 10:21am On Oct 12, 2019 |
I don't understand why many are blaming the man for having sex with his wife. Anyways,Oga your case is not even that bad,your first baby will be 1 year and I month old at least before the birth of the second baby. I hope you're not verbally abusing the poor woman that she doesn't understand herself,you too can take preventive measures if you know you want child spacing. My children are well spaced,each one is 3 to 4 years older than the next one courtesy of my husband,if not for him it would have been every year thing. Some prefer it every year like that to have the number they want and then rest. 1 Like |
Re: My Baby Is Just 4 Months And My Wife Is Pregnant Again, I Want Abortion by Ukattaibe: 10:22am On Oct 12, 2019 |
Praise the Lord. You are really blessed. Was in a similar situation years back and also contemplated abortion. But today, that baby is now nine and so unique. I am happy the consultant made me change my mind. Please leave the baby and do your family planning going forward. 1 Like |
Re: My Baby Is Just 4 Months And My Wife Is Pregnant Again, I Want Abortion by VicM6: 10:22am On Oct 12, 2019 |
See this one.... abortion.. since you aren't the one going thru the pain that's y abortion sweet u for mouth like that. when u dey knack d woman u no remember d outcome bah. Please don't let her go for an abortion o, i have a friend who undergo such process and still live to regret abt it almost every day... let her give birth to the child. God will provide a way for u guys.. No go kill innocent baby o..... tor. 1 Like |
Re: My Baby Is Just 4 Months And My Wife Is Pregnant Again, I Want Abortion by NigeriaB(m): 10:22am On Oct 12, 2019 |
Ur wife no dey do exclusive breastfeeding for d baby? |
Re: My Baby Is Just 4 Months And My Wife Is Pregnant Again, I Want Abortion by xier: 10:24am On Oct 12, 2019 |
I wish I could speak directly with you as to advise you against what you are contemplating. An act today has a result tomorrow... 1 Like |
Re: My Baby Is Just 4 Months And My Wife Is Pregnant Again, I Want Abortion by femi4: 10:25am On Oct 12, 2019 |
How can she be breastfeeding and got pregnant |
Re: My Baby Is Just 4 Months And My Wife Is Pregnant Again, I Want Abortion by madridguy(m): 10:27am On Oct 12, 2019 |
You want to adopt q baby Lamanii22: |
Re: My Baby Is Just 4 Months And My Wife Is Pregnant Again, I Want Abortion by vicben27(m): 10:27am On Oct 12, 2019 |
you have to be careful not harming the 4months old if the Bebie keeps sucking ur pregnant wife's breast, he or she may fall Seriously sick. if you want to keep the pregnancy you and ur wife will have to switch to an alternative type of Bebie milk. seek for medical advice from a medical practitioner. it may be a Blessing in disguise keep the pregnancy 1 Like |
Re: My Baby Is Just 4 Months And My Wife Is Pregnant Again, I Want Abortion by DaddyMorenike: 10:28am On Oct 12, 2019 |
AntiBrutus:probably innoson motor. |
Re: My Baby Is Just 4 Months And My Wife Is Pregnant Again, I Want Abortion by leetech93: 10:28am On Oct 12, 2019 |
[quote author=coolfredo post=83065853]No need for abortion just kill de 4 month old baby n wait till next 9months for another baby... as simple as that Make them roast am abi,idiot |
Re: My Baby Is Just 4 Months And My Wife Is Pregnant Again, I Want Abortion by F8b12(f): 10:29am On Oct 12, 2019 |
Good morning sir, well this would be my first time replying to a post on NL, Cox this issue is familiar... Please in the Name Of God Don't Abort that Child, Allow him/her to be born and go for a reliable contarceptive method... I gave birth in January this Year and this month October I was very scarred I have gotten pregnant as my period did not come as when it should... Within 2days I became depressed, I lost weight, I lost my sleep, I became angry and bittered, I couldn't even breastfeed my son, I Cry at anything and everything, I hated my husband for putting me in this situation after undergoing 48hrs labor, 9 mnts of pregnancy... You didn't even give me a break of 1yr to rest before another baby... Hmm sir I tot of abortion, I swear I made up my mind, just within 2days I already saw a place I could do it...Then all of a sudden I just became happpppppy I just wanted to see the face of the Damsel am carrying, I told my husband it should be a Pretty Girl, he said no ooo another boy then you will know am a shooter...My Joy was restored, my life was full of suprieses my husband was happy, I told him I could feel the signs of pregnancy, I didn't even know when I started telling everyone around me that am expecting another baby when I haven't even gone for text... On the Fourth Day Pooooooooom Period Started...I felt so Bad...But all the same I told hubby am calculating my next ovulation I need my baby back... so please sir let your baby live, just accept in your heart and be happy, you see that the money you need will just come.......my regards to your family. 2 Likes |
Re: My Baby Is Just 4 Months And My Wife Is Pregnant Again, I Want Abortion by Nobody: 10:29am On Oct 12, 2019 |
Ebonygirl1:I'm just saying she has the power to allow conception or not and I'm sure they planned not having babies so soon. She should have taken some sort of measures. Of course I'm not absolving the op. This ur HIV analogy no follow at all. 1 Like |
Re: My Baby Is Just 4 Months And My Wife Is Pregnant Again, I Want Abortion by oyinda1599(f): 10:30am On Oct 12, 2019 |
JubrinElSudan:She can't breastfeed while pregnant with another child, it might affect the health of the four months old baby. |
Re: My Baby Is Just 4 Months And My Wife Is Pregnant Again, I Want Abortion by kevoh(m): 10:31am On Oct 12, 2019 |
FloraEC:I am talking out of experience. One of the rules of following with LAM is if your period has not returned which you have mentioned. Trust me people don't follow it bumper to bumper that's why they always fail. It's quite hard to feed a baby on cue which is one of the rules of LAM to be effective. I know many women are quick to substitute breastmilk for other alternatives right from month one, due to the stress of feeding the baby almost every hour at night. If you miss breastfeeding your child for just one day, and you say you want to do LAM then you are deceiving yourself. On a lighter note, I have seen a woman feeding her baby Peak milk right from month one (not even Peak 1-2-3) due to ignorance. Child is about 4 years now and obese. ![]() |
Re: My Baby Is Just 4 Months And My Wife Is Pregnant Again, I Want Abortion by vicben27(m): 10:31am On Oct 12, 2019 |
holyidol:Condom ke, why will a man use Condom when meeting his Wife, he should avoid sex when shez ovulating simple, if he can't practice the withdrawal method effectively |
Re: My Baby Is Just 4 Months And My Wife Is Pregnant Again, I Want Abortion by oyinda1599(f): 10:31am On Oct 12, 2019 |
donstan18:To me, you always sound like a pained nigga. You have nothing good to say about women including your mum. 2 Likes |
Re: My Baby Is Just 4 Months And My Wife Is Pregnant Again, I Want Abortion by Nobody: 10:32am On Oct 12, 2019 |
femi4:All this people saying keep it, do they even know the financial capacity of the new family? Lets drop morality and sentiments aside and reason rationally... You caring for a baby and wanna be saddled with the ish of morning sickness and wahala that comes with pregnancy... Op you guys should safely abort biko. |
Re: My Baby Is Just 4 Months And My Wife Is Pregnant Again, I Want Abortion by Fallenhunter: 10:33am On Oct 12, 2019 |
OP a lot of people are blaming you for not wearing a condomn and not planning properly and they are right. However, I will also give you advice. If the pregnancy is early stage (less than 3 months) then the baby has no consciousness. If it's less than 1 month then the baby is just cells, no shape even. So if you can't take care of the baby then you can abort it. Better that then the baby growing up in poverty or becoming and almajiri 1 Like |
Re: My Baby Is Just 4 Months And My Wife Is Pregnant Again, I Want Abortion by mzeefitz(m): 10:33am On Oct 12, 2019 |
Charleys:Wait till you're married. Shebi you know how to plan abi 3 Likes |
Re: My Baby Is Just 4 Months And My Wife Is Pregnant Again, I Want Abortion by Ebonygirl1(f): 10:34am On Oct 12, 2019 |
AwkaetitiBabe:Oh please. You absolved him when you stated that it was her SOLE RESPONSIBILITY to ensure she didn't get pregnant. They ought to have agreed on a good birth control method. How many times can a woman consume Andrew liver salt and all that nonsense? ![]() 1 Like |
Re: My Baby Is Just 4 Months And My Wife Is Pregnant Again, I Want Abortion by babajay109(m): 10:34am On Oct 12, 2019 |
oyinda1599:Correct, the breastmilk will stop. one have to give way. |
Re: My Baby Is Just 4 Months And My Wife Is Pregnant Again, I Want Abortion by Rajman45(m): 10:35am On Oct 12, 2019 |
kevoh:Most sources acknowledged Ur arguments, but i have interact with so many women that undergo exclusive breastfeeding and still got pregnant. Even science will always tell u that is not 100% certain. |
Re: My Baby Is Just 4 Months And My Wife Is Pregnant Again, I Want Abortion by Nobody: 10:35am On Oct 12, 2019 |
[s] kevoh:[/s] No woman should take this advice seriously from a human with a third leg. |
Re: My Baby Is Just 4 Months And My Wife Is Pregnant Again, I Want Abortion by juman(m): 10:35am On Oct 12, 2019 |
Many couples abort like that. Its untold story. If that is your choice why not. But if you have the money to take care of the unborn baby let unborn baby come. |
Re: My Baby Is Just 4 Months And My Wife Is Pregnant Again, I Want Abortion by JubrinElSudan: 10:36am On Oct 12, 2019 |
oyinda1599:Some babies weren't breastfed at all and they turned up fine, he has tasted breast milk for 4 months, it's unfortunate for the baby but then for his health, he has to "man up" and start taking milk ![]() |
Re: My Baby Is Just 4 Months And My Wife Is Pregnant Again, I Want Abortion by oyinda1599(f): 10:37am On Oct 12, 2019 |
babajay109:Well, there is NAN milk to feed the baby but seriously the situation can just alter the proper growth of the baby. |
Re: My Baby Is Just 4 Months And My Wife Is Pregnant Again, I Want Abortion by Nobody: 10:39am On Oct 12, 2019 |
F8b12:Aawwwww. Great read though a simple pregnancy strip test would have saved you dem stress. 1 Like |
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