BigJoe19:
Seun, lalasticlala Nairaland is biting more than it can chew, why bring such a topic that supports defamation of fatoyinbo for a case that has not been sorted in the court of law, if fatoyinbo Sues Nairaland what would you people put up in defence.

Nairaland is suppose to be a public forum and not a home of sentiments, it's just too degrading to see this.

samsard:
You're confused. That is called statutory rape and is a serious offence. You're a boy anyway so your experience of rape shouldn't be compared to a girls. We all know that for a fact

luminouz:

Since he is a boy, then he shouldnt be believed? Seriously?....with this,you shot ursef bro!

samsard:
Bleep off. I don't remember not saying he shouldn't be believed. Most boys experience this but molestation is less traumatic for a boy.
Don't stress me over your inability to comprehend.
He is the one questioning the validity of rape victim's trauma

luminouz:

Lol,so molestation is less traumatic for a boy?
Especially at 7 years of age?


Are you sure you are really a man?
Your statement is not helping your sister's case at all!

Esthered:

Don't mention mr next time to spill..... It happened in my parents house, I was in boarding school. She grew up with us, she was to prepare lunch from my uncle that visited from the AKS. He defiled her dude. When we succeed in doing the needful in future, I'll mention you d****** in the future. I'm sure you're neither a dad nor an uncle but a young lad behind a phone. When you start having REAL responsibilities, you'll understand.

zeuss:
Kai! Something just didn't make sense to me there.
I have no intention of making anyone feel bad here but I think there was no rape in the whole saga. There was rather a silent attraction that gave birth to mutual conjugality.
Why be around a man for that long if you never liked him?
Why keep mute on him raping you while your sister was in the house if you never liked it?
Why didn't you shout and raise alarm when he was leaving, after the purported rape if you never liked it?
Why didn't you share the first and second rape issue immediately to your beloved family if you never liked it?
Why still go to his church if you never liked it?
Why go stay at his house to help his wife and even sought to sleep in their master bedroom if you never liked it?
Why follow him in his car to drop you if you never liked it?
Why didn't you struggle when he took the u-turn to give you the supposed second rape if you never liked it?
Why didn't you tell anyone again or even the police if you never liked it?
After the third day, when he came to find out why you didn't go to church, why didn't you refuse going to the same church when he asked you to if you never liked it?
Why didn't you show any sign of what he did to anyone? Why conceal the whole issue if you never liked it?
Are you totally innocent
Why didn't you tell us if you ever seduced him?
Why didn't you tell us if you fell for his looks?
Why did you do what you did and are still doing what you're doing to him now? Is it fair?
So because someone accused you of sleeping with pastors in the past and is accusing you of being unfaithful in your marriage now you want to pick on the pastor who was in your past just to cover up on the accusation meted on you?
Who knows if you probably seduced him to push him to that extent?
What looks did you give him when he entered your house with your nighty on? Why didn't you rush to change? Why allow him to come in when you were probably Unclad in a transparent gown?
Please,
Pastors are humans. Let's be fair on them and their weaknesses as human as they are.
Don't go seducing a man with your talent and beauty and expect him to act as brother Paul in the Bible when you refused to leave him and his territory.
A man will chase you and get what he wants when he knows you're interested in him.
We're not fools please ����
The woman should just admit that she was wrong as much as she claims that he was wrong

samsard:
You're confused. That is called statutory rape and is a serious offence. You're a boy anyway so your experience of rape shouldn't be compared to a girls. We all know that for a fact

samsard:
Bleep off. I don't remember not saying he shouldn't be believed. Most boys experience this but molestation is less traumatic for a boy.
Don't stress me over your inability to comprehend.
He is the one questioning the validity of rape victim's trauma

PoliticalWitch:


Rape of young men can be very very traumatising by the way....just as bad as it is for girls.

Once read of a young guy who was raped by an older woman when he was a teenager (and the woman even got pregnant for him). Not only was he traumatised, it seriously damaged his relationships with women when he became an adult.

(On the bright side, he did have a reunion with the child that older woman had for him, and it went well...that was some 50 years later)

wonder233:
Less traumatic for a boy? Wow!
Your brain must be paining you with your skewered and warped logic

samsard:
Are you trying the perpetrator?
Focus on the topic and stop with the nauseating whataboutery

BigJoe19:
I am not saying he is guilty or not, who knows his lawyer may just be applying the law to save them of legal expenses.

luminouz:

You trivialised that guy's experience while expecting others to instantly accept your own view. He was 7 years old for Pete's sakes.
That's very sick of you.

I hope you find peace.
Have a good day.

zeuss:
Kai! Something just didn't make sense to me there.
I have no intention of making anyone feel bad here but I think there was no rape in the whole saga. There was rather a silent attraction that gave birth to mutual conjugality.
Why be around a man for that long if you never liked him?
Why keep mute on him raping you while your sister was in the house if you never liked it?

Dreew:



Shatap. The only evidence you need now: your daughter shall be raped and you'll be alive when she tells her story. This isn't a curse, it's for you to understand and find answers to the questions that plague you. It's that simple.

Dreew:



Shatap. The only evidence you need now: your daughter shall be raped and you'll be alive when she tells her story. This isn't a curse, it's for you to understand and find answers to the questions that plague you. It's that simple.

Catchfirez:



May your family member be accused of rape.

luminouz:

Jesus!!! On a Sunday you're cursing someone you don't even know just because he raised a point divergent to yours?
If someone says this to you sis,how would you feel?

Sultan5:


Ha! I know we want to throw jabs but rape is not something I will wish on anyone not to talk of his innocent daughter. It a truly traumatic experience that will follow you till you die. Lets be guided please. His ignorance isn't really 100% his fault. I would probably have felt this way years ago until a rape victim opened up to me about her struggles. That propelled me to dive into deeper research.

Dreew:


When you are jeering over someone else's pain, you inadvertently creating bad karma for yourself. That is what he's done. Better implore him to edit the nonsense he typed up there and apologize or he'd get more.

Laminaped:

My friend shut up. Who told you the curse would work on him? You expect him to believe stories instead of facts and evidence

Dreew:


I don't care what you believe. Now get lost.

dalongjnr:
As far as I'm concern, the guy is not a rapist,until he's convicted by a court of competent court of jurisdiction.
He wasn't caught in the act and nobody in this forum can actually say for sure if the accusations are true.
Any decision here(of he raped her or not) is based personal conviction and assumption.
From what the writer wrote, he have already convicted the pastor and so sure that he committed the offense.
Now,what if the court found otherwise?
What if the act don't even took place?
In fact, I can also accuse the writer of rape but it's left for me to proof it before a court of competent jurisdiction.
Anybody can be accused of anything but it's when proved that it becomes true. For now, the case is in the court and from the look of things, the lady doesn't have a strong case.
The accusations filters out around July or so,but she and her lawyer waited for a mouth or so before instituting a case,and demanding #10m in September, 2019.
Who does that! I think if she have a case, she could have sit with her counsel discuss and enter a case and the pastor sermon by the court bailiff before the press get to know about it.
For me,they are doing it for the cloud but remember, this case can make or mar her if she prove or failed to prove that he raped her.
If she failed to prove it,a case of defamation will be instituted against her and she will loss a lot of trust and finances.
The tossed coin can go either ways but can't say for sure if such took place or not.
PLS,DON'T CONVICT SOMEONE THAT IS YET TO BE CONVICTED BY A COMPETENT COURT OF JURISDICTION.
All that is happening is hear say until proven otherwise.
I'm not a rapist and I'm not sympathetic to one,but I'm sensible to know what's right or not.
In fact, I'm against gender based violence, rape inclusive.

Dreew:


When you are jeering over someone else's pain, you inadvertently create bad karma for yourself. That is what he's done. Better implore him to edit the nonsense he typed up there and apologize or he'd get more.

wman:
I'm anti-rape and I support Busola Dakolo. But I don't like the way this thing has turned to a social media circus. Everyone is just jumping on it to trend.

The protests at the man's church were totally unnecessary. I don't see what those protests will achieve. I don't even get why protesters were shaming members who just wanted to attend church and calling them rapists. That is uncalled for.

A lot of Nigerian youths didn't vote in the last elections. We were less than 150 that turned out for the ENDSARS protest despite all the social media outcry and protest arrangement.

How come so many of them came out to protest against this man. Even printing out banners and more. Shouldn't we be more angry at the situation of the country than a rape allegation?

Thankfully the social media outcry will encourage more women to speak out. But the protests won't achieve a thing. What's the point of protesting in COZA Lagos or COZA Abuja? Will it make the man step down? Or make the church empty?
To what end? To what end?

A lot of people just jumped into this stuff because their favourite celebrities and social media influencers are involved. Not because they care so much about rape or Busola Dakolo.

I feel Busola's pain as I watched that video. But I tell you, in one month's time, this whole thing will die down and it's all back to square one as BBNAIJA and co will take over.

I just wished we were as concerned about political issues and murder in Nigeria like this. Instead of an alleged rape case that has little to do with us. That's how we spent days wasting time overflogging a trivial issue like Soyinka's seat.

Laminaped:

Go Bleep yourself olosho. Stupid LovePeddler

Sultan5:


When did I jeer you ma? When was I rude to you in my post. I just felt has a lady you will understand the gravity of what you said. How you are wishing another member of your gender this wickedness. But its obvious you don't care. So just do you really. Happy Sunday.

franchasng:
My brother is it today you realized that majority of Nigerians don't have sense

Instead of Nigerians to focus on protesting and addressing the political woes in Nigeria which gave birth to every other nonsense happening in Nigeria today, they are busy wasting their time on nonsense rape accusation.


If Nigeria is working politically and leadership wise, there will be working Police and working judicial systems to address any rape issue and get the victims prosecuted without delay which will put fear in the hearts of future rapists not to try, knowing if they do, the law will catch up with them.


So safarigirl you and your likes should focus your efforts on addressing the Nigerian political mess first in order to get Nigeria working first, once that is addressed, rape and even sex for grade by lecturers and sex for jobs and sex for promotion will all die natural deaths or reduce to barest minimum.


All these noise about Busola Dakolo rape accusation is a waste of time honestly, Nigeria is going through a political mess right now and you guys are wasting time chasing clout in the name of whatever nonsense