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Re: Help by 1x2x3: 12:01pm On Oct 13, 2019 |
Hahaha her type is usually like that I do have one as a girlfriend. She's also faithful as much as I can tell but her insecurity na top notch. Initially I was getting mad and arguing constantly till it got to a point I changed my approach. I felt she needed more love, more assurance, more attention so I stopped any side distraction(from chicks) and focused on her then things started getting better. She still nags and call to ask me who are you with even when I have never given her reasons to ask such.......i will just laugh it off and she will be calm. No matter how serious she is with her nagging and insecurity questions just learn to handle it playfully rather than getting serious and messing things up further. The only difference here is that mine isn't abusive, she's very watchful when it comes to words. Let her work on her manners, you the op need to grow up too and stop any hide and seek. Be a man and handle her rather than being a pussssy 1 Like |
Re: Help by Biglittlelois(f): 12:01pm On Oct 13, 2019 |
Oblongata: Guy thinks we are stupid lol. 5 Likes |
Re: Help by Biglittlelois(f): 12:03pm On Oct 13, 2019 |
I'm so glad some guys here are really seeing things from the girl's aspect ![]() 6 Likes |
Re: Help by Nobody: 12:08pm On Oct 13, 2019 |
Biglittlelois:you sef. |
Re: Help by sinceraconcept(m): 12:09pm On Oct 13, 2019 |
Selfkontrol:you're very rude to generalise that Nigerian Girls are very promiscuous. Are your mother and sisters promiscuous too? Stereotype is very bad and also destroys the image of good girls out there. As for your girl,long years of courtship sucks so bad and if you've slept with her before and she's a non-virgin, she is a fornicator and has a tendency of fornicating and cheating on you and being promiscuous too and if so, she isn't different from those girls she's calling hoes. If she's really a good girl like you said, she must be chaste and those types of girls are the only types one can consider to be good girls. The only category of girls you may be gentle with if she's nagging this much are the good girls cos they're special, if she's anything asides this, you should dump her ass for a good beautiful girl. Only good girls are indispensable. If you've had sex with her before and/or she's a non virgin, don't dull yourself, keep fucking her and look for a good girl to marry when it's time. Don't keep a girl for that long next time, you Bleep bad girls and when it's time to get married, you look for a good girl and marry her, courtship isn't anything. Long term courtship today always lead to break up, short time courtship is the best with a good girl. That's how to ball bro |
Re: Help by Biglittlelois(f): 12:12pm On Oct 13, 2019 |
Selfkontrol: It's a long distance relationship so what do you expect? How often do you both see? who put in more effort? Cos all I see here is that you don't give her reason to trust you, work on that and you both will be fine, she didn't mean the break up bla bla bla she said, she's just venting, don't loose her, she is faithful and loyal, you might end up with someone that will pretend to be faithful or worse. 3 Likes |
Re: Help by Biglittlelois(f): 12:14pm On Oct 13, 2019 |
AstroG1: Lol for a lady to use fvck you constantly, means she respect you too much to insult you with vile, degrading words, fvck you isn't even an insult. 3 Likes |
Re: Help by SmellingAnus(m): 12:18pm On Oct 13, 2019 |
cenaman:it's good to have such but Las las you go tire cos you will be choked. So it's better to avoid babes like that ![]() |
Re: Help by Nobody: 12:22pm On Oct 13, 2019 |
martolux:The girl knows she's cheating,op thinks he's smart ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Help by Biglittlelois(f): 12:23pm On Oct 13, 2019 |
stanvesco: Hahaha another weird angle ![]() |
Re: Help by sinceraconcept(m): 12:24pm On Oct 13, 2019 |
martolux:He's even thinking he's smart, he feels the girl might see this thread and the whatsapp convincing on Nairaland and he's trying to say(behind her back) he has never cheated for her to believe he hadn't. 1 Like |
Re: Help by Biglittlelois(f): 12:26pm On Oct 13, 2019 |
modik: Nice. 1 Like |
Re: Help by Resurgent2016: 12:32pm On Oct 13, 2019 |
Selfkontrol: Bro, most ladies are naggers, let me tell you the truth based on experience. Men and women are wired differently, and I see nagging as one of the default setup file of a woman that loves you. It actually shows she cares, but is probably a little immature in passing her messages. If a lady doesn't nag, you are extremely lucky and its possibly because she doesn't give a damn about you. So nagging is probably something you'll need to learn to live and manage. |
Re: Help by Biglittlelois(f): 12:33pm On Oct 13, 2019 |
BlackAfrican: Nice. 2 Likes |
Re: Help by AstroG1: 12:40pm On Oct 13, 2019 |
Biglittlelois: To you it means "Respect",but to me its highly disrespectful and reek immaturity. Imagine someone addressing a situation using "Fvck you" to address it. Different strokes for diff folks. |
Re: Help by Resurgent2016: 12:40pm On Oct 13, 2019 |
@op, you need to up your game with her, she looks like someone that will be a good life companion. Let me give you my little one cent when dealing with a lady like this: 1. Never have the last say in any argument. Ladies often want to have the final say, just say what you think and tell her she should think over it and you guys should discuss the issue later again. In fact, you can psyche her by telling her she has a point but she is getting somethings wrong 2. Distance is likely playing a role in the arguement. You need to start communicating your plans of how you guys can spend time together soon as husband and wife or even going on a date every now and then 3. When she is "hot", call her sweet names and crack some jokes. No lady can resist this. You don't need to join words with her. When she is cool, you can then pass your message across. My point is, you have to work on yourself too, nagging is a natural part of most Nigerian ladies who love their spouse |
Re: Help by emmysolo2001(f): 12:46pm On Oct 13, 2019 |
Skmoda360:you are very correct I really think she has a lot of insecurities it could be because your behavior has changed a bit towards her.women always notice change some ladies overlook it while some want to get to the root of the problem,maybe she has seen you doing something wrong or she has picked strange numbers calling you and heard something.I mean anything can happen 2 Likes |
Re: Help by Nobody: 12:52pm On Oct 13, 2019 |
Biglittlelois:Really? That's new to me 2 Likes |
Re: Help by BigJoe19: 12:57pm On Oct 13, 2019 |
Resurgent2016:So the guy should pratically live his life pleasing her while she does the opposite? Na real wa. |
Re: Help by Resurgent2016: 1:04pm On Oct 13, 2019 |
BigJoe19: Both husband and wife (once boyfriend and girlfriend) live to please one another. With time she will outgrow many childish behaviour. I believe this isn't strange to most married men |
Re: Help by Nobody: 1:10pm On Oct 13, 2019 |
She's still a child that will outgrow all of this.You should do the growing up first while you carry her along |
Re: Help by BigJoe19: 1:12pm On Oct 13, 2019 |
Resurgent2016:Wrong, they both have to make conscious effort, a relationship that has only one person giving his/her is not worth it. What will this guy girlfriend be doing after he Pampers and loves her, more insults from her. 1 Like |
Re: Help by Londonboyrep(m): 1:14pm On Oct 13, 2019 |
A self confessed cheat complaining that his girlfriend thinks he’s cheating. Not sure what advice you are after here young man. Do you want us to say she’s wrong for suspecting you of doing what you are actually doing? Whether she’s caught you red handed or not is irrelevant. Fact of the matter is anyone who’s being cheated on always has that gut feeling. Some act on the gut feeling without evidence and some wait for evidence before acting. No women who loves you will condone cheating so choose one. Would you prefer a woman who won’t notice your indiscretion because she’s busy covering her own tracks too or a woman who just wants you to be faithful? 3 Likes |
Re: Help by Resurgent2016: 1:19pm On Oct 13, 2019 |
BigJoe19: Let me ask you some questions, no insult intended: 1. Are you married? 2. Did you read where op acknowledged himself that she had sacrificed a lot for him? Headship in a home is not the man dragging an argument with his spouse. It will only create a toxic home. A man should know when to to call an argument quits and when to engage his wife again on the issue. Silence or taking a lower road in an argument is not weakness and does not mean you concede to the point raised by the partner. It just mean you'll rather resolve the issue not through argument. 1 Like |
Re: Help by Psalm2423(m): 1:20pm On Oct 13, 2019 |
stanvesco: Guy; male turkey n female turkey? ![]() |
Re: Help by Tallesty1(m): 1:23pm On Oct 13, 2019 |
Oblongata:You spoke my mind. The girl is really in love with the guy and the guy is the one messing up. I don't know if the distrust in the relationship is also his fault entirely but they really need to work on it. Two things the girl. 1.. ASSURANCE: She left at a point and when he showed back, she welcome him with open arms, this is a pointer to the fact that she has been able to find a suitable replacement. Why the guy is messing this up now that they are supposed to be celebrating their broke days is beyond me. 2. FAITHFUL PARTNER: Let's assume it was just an ordinary hanging out with a female friend, why ignore her calls? It raises a serious air of suspicion. Almost 12 in the midnight and she's still calling, tells you how restless she was. Guys just mess up beautiful things and it is pathetic 3 Likes |
Re: Help by michlins(m): 1:23pm On Oct 13, 2019 |
Biglittlelois:it takes a loyal lady to know another. And if the above is true then that makes it two loyal ladies I know. One is already taken and the second one is you. You taken too? |
Re: Help by Tallesty1(m): 1:28pm On Oct 13, 2019 |
Simplep:She was hurting ma'am. Those words were not said in good faith. It's like beating someone because they deserve to be beaten and crying at same time because you feel bad doing it. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Help by Nobody: 1:30pm On Oct 13, 2019 |
Tallesty1:More reason she should dumb him,she's losing it.The boy wants to eat his cake and have it. 2 Likes |
Re: Help by Tallesty1(m): 1:35pm On Oct 13, 2019 |
Simplep:Haba, e never reach like that nah. |
Re: Help by AfroKnight: 1:35pm On Oct 13, 2019 |
How many “bye” did I read in that chat log? ![]() ![]() This girl suspects too much. Ah ahn. Innocent brother like this, you’re suspecting him. For what? If you’re sure she can’t poison you later on in life, stay with her. But this your breakup chat is too funny abeg. |
Re: Help by Biglittlelois(f): 1:38pm On Oct 13, 2019 |
Simplep: Well I don't know for others, but it works for me, if I'm too angry and want to vent, I just say that word continuously to the extent that I laugh at myself, I calms me down, I'd rather use that word than insult people. 2 Likes |
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